Tolerance

I think driving on the road for too long make my man a very grouchy person. He is always disturb by other road user who...

"Why these people always step break for nothing... you see! you see! for no reason they step break! "
"Aiyoh...need to step so hard on the break meh... these are the hazardous driver that always cause road accident! "
"Aiyoh... road hogger, F off to your left lane lar..."
"Wah! You see that?!! No signal then filter out like that! "
"Wah! You see! didnt check blind spot, almost band on me! You saw that or not?!! "
"Tailgate me so close for what? "
... ... ...

and last evening after he parked the car, suddenly we were blined by a high beam... machiam we were being hijack by the a group of commandor like tat :p

man: " Aiyoh... dont know why some driver still on the high beam in the carpark... "

Haize... (enough of his grouchy, can be so stressful to me)
me: " Dear... not all people is as considerate driver as you... "
man: " These are the oblivious driver! "
me: " Yes, some people are not aware of this detail... Sometime certain thing we are aware, some people may not aware but there are other thing, people aware of but we dont too. So we must learn to tolerate... "

... ... ...

suddenly the man say something nice,
" I must say you have to tolerate me most... "

me: " Haha 无心插柳，柳成花! "
man: " Ha?! What?! 流星花园?!!"

-_-"

Happy Father Day! Though...

This was belated, cos I was angry wif the daddy then...

The art & craft were from the girls and the pink checked shirt was from mommy, yes me, 好心没好报!

Here explain why I have gradually learn to put him my last priority, though I know I shouldnt...

Two weeks ago sunday was Father's day. On that week wednesday, after work, I rushed to shop for the guys' present since everytime he pick me up was @ 7.30pm, so I tot want to optimise this waiting 1+hr to shop and he can picked me up at my shopping place instead.

But even having in mind what to get... shirt or belt for my brother's birthday (his bday nxt day), wallet for my dad and shirt for him & his dad but 1+hr to shop for 4 gifts was still such a challenge! I had made him waited 40mins for me and he had to detour around the building many times as the security dont allowed waiting.

I know, Im sorry, I can understand the stress level he was going thru then, the children in the car needed to answer nature call, the security was bugging and I was still shopping... but I just cannot control feeling hurted, the moment I hopped into his car, his machine gun *tatatatatatata*

I told him :" Im sorry... " and kept quite throughout the journey... and didnt talk to him for a few days unless essential... Not that Im angry with him but really, I had nothing to say to him... I quietly stuffed his gift in a hidden corner... though I still bought a nice durian cake on that sunday to cut but Im afraid this gift have to rest in the corner for awhile more... at least till my heart is heal or someday I "ki siao" (suddenly happy mood) then pass it to him... :)

Chicken conscience?

This morning was another usual rushing morning.
Rush and rush and rush...

Just when I stuffed my lost & found handcream into my bag, I saw this. Yes the hubby had stuffed a bot of chicken essence in my bag.

... ... ... *soul-searching*

Ok! I admit that did make me grin a bit... but still, I closed my bag. Got to rush... hurry up chickenchildren!

Last night, hubby & I almost start another round of war...
What happened was, after dinner at my mum place, I had to rush to the supermart to get some grocery before it closed at 10pm while he brought the girls home. When Im done and home around 10pm, Im glad that he had bathed the girls and were reading book together, albeit his face dono why was blacken. Then as usual he went down to his car to pick up the girls' school bag and other stuff like the girls' medicine.

And I resumed my routine... mixed milk, removed the clean laundry from the machine, stuffed more dirty laundry to wash. When I was hoping bath time I can relax, before I can enjoy the tranquility, Abella slide-opened my bath door so hard and complained : "Mommy... Clarabelle say she dont love me..."

While trying to rinse off the foam and persuading abe not to take clara's words so hard and clara to apologise... too late, they just dont budge and a "girl war" was ignited!-_-

"You naughty! NO! You naughty!" shouted both.

open, closed! open, closed! ... ... ... -_-
one wanted my bath room door to be opened and the other wanted it to be closed!

"I called daddy" and clara pretended was calling daddy and self-talked, "Hello, daddy, Im clarabelle. Abella is naughty! *yakky yakky* ok bye bye!" then yelled : "Daddy is coming back!"

"No! " and abe called daddy too and *yakky yakky* ok bye bye! and yelled : "No! Daddy is coming back!" and both actually started to giggle and instantly they made peace!


However... on the other side, another pressure was gradually building up...

tick tock... tick tock... tick tock...

Wow!!! Was 11pm+ and the daddy was not back from carpark yet. Clara was very tire and K.O. the very next moment.

Buzzed the daddy : "Are u coming up soon? Clara had slept, Abe soon, waiting for their medcine leh..."

"okie okie.. coming up now " and even asked abella to wait for him. To keep herself awake, abe requested me to read book with her till...

" Mommy... closed the book... "
" Why? Are u tire already? You want to sleep? "
" Yes... Z Z Z z z z ..."

tick tock... tick tock... tick tock...



haize... the hse so messy...the cloth are piling up... hv to iron tml working cloth... pack their school bag... sterilised the bottle...

tick tock... tick tock... tick tock...

As the clock clicked, my anger clicked too!

Buzzed the hubby again : " Are you having some urgent matters below... "
"Im in the lift, coming up now!"

So when the door opened...
me: " Are you having some urgent matters below huh?"
man: "Hmm... sort of lah..."
me: " So what is the urgent things that had make u to compromis the girls medicine time and breaking yor promise wif Abe and now that you had to disturn their sleep inorder tgive them medicine? "
man: " I happen to met A and I recall an work issue, need his assistant, so we talk awhile..."

I really cannot view his point of urgent... Agrrh!
me: " But you have his contact right? You can call him tml to talk abt it... furthermore is there any urgent issue to follow up immediately after the discussion? So tml still can discuss right? But instead you girls are waiting for your medicine and now they have slept!"
man :" Then why are you talking so much now? Should be feeding them medicine instead! "

Agrrh! This man never feel apologetic!
me: " Since they had slept, what's the diff to feed them later?!! But I definately want to clarify this with you, you no sense of piority! "

Instead of feeling apology, the man do the ostrich, that is avoiding my question and ignored me and that annoyed me most!

He wanted to walk away but I blocked him... and we struggle for sometime till he finally broke into laugh... " Im sorry but your way of blocking me... very funny... woahahaha... "
@:(

me: " Why you always like that?! No sense of piority... If is really important, you can bring up the medicine first then you can go, talk as long as u like... "
man : " em... dont quite like it..."
me: "you always claimed sorry to have disturb the girls when everytime they waited your medicine till sleep.... but you never make effort to prevent it... I feel that you are not sincere at all... you always say but never do... that is worst than dont say... "

The man keep quite again... Haize forget it... nothing seem can knock into his head...
man : " sorry lah... "
me : " sorry means dont do it again..."
man : " sorry means dont do it again... "

haize... this is the dono how many dont do it again for him already...

人生苦短, why am I stuck with this man, worsen my misery :( ...

Heh Heh Heh ... ...

This long feeler creature, known as shrimp or prawn, used to be just a many leg creeper to the girls. But eversince they turn 3, this being many of us delicacy, turn to be their favourite food too! Heh heh heh...

Joke of the day!
Q: Why prawn is good for you?

A: Because after eating you will be laughing all day!
Heh heh heh ( read 虾 in hokkien) :p

but seriously check out this.

and these pixs too... heheheheh :q