Thursday, January 26, 2012

The Adventure of 2011

The Coast Track
Time: 2 days
Length: 27.4km
Climb: 1350m

I'd put this down as one of my biggest adventures. Others were the Pinnacles at Coromandel back in 2008, Cameron Highland Mountain Expedition in 2007climbing Mt. Kinabalu in 2006. So as you can see, it's been awhile since I did such a thing.

So yea... 27km walk. Along the coast, should be flat right? Climb: 1350m. Didn't really know what that meant. Should be no problem. Cousin's boyfriend said it was easy. And hence that's why I decided to drag the monkey into doing it with me over Christmas. And at the same time, to camp there for the night just to make it a little more exciting. Went to this website which have the track notes. Browse through it and was still convinced it's gonna be a piece of cake. 

The night before we left, I calculated the total time to reach the campground is 7 hours. So I figured, leave my place at 9 to walk to Town Hall, catch the 9.28 am train to Cronulla station, reach cronulla at 10.27, catch the 10.30 ferry from Cronulla, reach Bundeena wharf at 11 and we would reach the campsite at 6 so that leaves us time to set up our tent and enjoy the beach. Sounds like a perfect plan. 

So on the day itself, I woke up at 6 whilst Ivan was still in bed. Did all the food prep - fried honey garlic chicken and cooked rice which was going to be our dinner for that night, boiled eggs and made egg sandwiches which was going to be our lunch, packed cucumber, 4 bananas, chocolates, lollies, muesli bar, packets of milk, and 3 litres of water each.


The journey all started the moment we stepped out the house. Left at 9 and because of the rather heavy backpacks, the walk to town hall station was longer than the usual. Halfway through, we were adjusting our backpacks, trying to even out the weight, figuring out what's the best way to carry the rent. Had to even ran a little towards getting to the train station, quickly bought our train tickets, and JUST made it into our train. We literally squeezed through the closing doors. PHEWWWW!! The train ride was almost an hour so we spent an hour just relaxing. Realized we were the only two people in our section and so we decided to do what you normally won't do in a train.....


Also read through the track notes and somehow got even more excited. Can't wait to start the walk. Ivan read through it... for the very first time (despite me showing him the link a few weeks before he came to Sydney). And then in a very surprised tone : "the climb is 1350m? do you know how high is that?" I replied :"ermmm... yea? 1.3 km only ma...." (what a silly answer..duh!!?!!). and he said : "do you know how high was pinnacles? that's 750m....this is like almost double! and we are carrying all this stuff. you sure it's an easy walk?" *starting to doubt myself but still acting tough* "Yeaa... along the coast only ma... phil (cousin's bf) said it's an easy walk... should be ok wan la.. maybe they just exagerrating it only... we are tough man!".. Heh :p

Reached Cronulla train station as scheduled but Ivan had to use the toilet. After that, got a little bit lost finding the ferry wharf. I thought it was just right across or something. So by the time we asked for directions and got to the wharf, the ferry JUST left. And so, it was an hour wait for the next ferry. Whilst we were waiting for the ferry, we decided to eat our last hot meal for the day and the cafe by the wharf.


So we boarded our ferry at 11.30 and arrived Bundeena wharf at 12 instead of 11. Hence ETA to campground is now 7 instead of 6. But not to worry, it's summer. Hehehe....

Got a little bit disorientated at the wharf getting to the entrance of the National Park. Almost made a wrong turn but thankfully I had my phone, which had GPS on it. Phew! Seriously, how to survive without a smartphone these days? We reached the entrance of the Coast Walk at 12.30 which was on schedule as it said 34 mins in the tracknotes.


First point of attraction, Bundeena Lookout - the view of the South Pacific Ocean from the clifftop was simply breath taking. Plus the clear blue skies we had, it was just perfect. Couldn't help but to take many photos. Stopped several times just to enjoy the view. I won't post much pictures up as I have already posted them up on facebook along with taglines so feel free to click HERE and have a look at them :)

we were walking along the cliff n trying to avoid puddles
overlooking the south pacific ocean

took me awhile to realize how dangerous taking this photo is :S
  
 from afar, on the right hand side, that's  West Marley Beach
We spent quite a bit of time pausing, taking photos all along the way from Bundeena Lookout to West Marley Beach. Meant to take 1 hr 18 mins to get to West Marley Beach from Bundeena Lookout. The track was mainly all along the coastline on the rocky area. Surfaces were pretty flat but there was some uneven ones. Occasionally, we had to walk through some scrubs which were rather muddy as it has been raining the past few days. And so, us not having proper hiking shoes, we were wasting time trying to avoid the damp areas and try not to get our shoes muddy (it worked alright in the beginning but towards the end...it was like.. screw this! but somehow throughout the whole trip, we did spend a lot of effort trying to avoid getting our shoes dirty despite them being all muddy already... don't ask why). And since we were starting to be behind schedule, and me being me, I decided to run a little bit when it is slightly flat just to speed things up a little.

And surprise surprise... Bad decision, I rolled my ankle :S So we had to stop awhile to wait for the pain to go away before starting again. And I didn't learn my lesson from the first incident. I started to do some fast walking instead of running and then.... it happened again. I really wonder how annoyed Ivan was at me. Hehehehe.... must be very dulan because he kept asking me to slow down and don't fool around and I just go my way and not listen to him. I rolled my ankle... not once... but 4 times. Found it quite funny but worried at the same time. Didn't know why it didn't cross my mind to bring some tape to strap it up. Was so wishing I did. At one point, I was thinking maybe we should just turn back because it took my awhile before I could stand on my feet again. But me being the stubborn me, we continued on.
where i sprained my ankle :(
Got to West Marley Beach followed by Little Marley Beach. At one point, we had to jump across this miniature "river" to avoid getting our shoes wet. I wanted to just take off my shoes and walk through the water but it wouldn't work because then my feet would be all sandy. So Ivan jumped across with his massive backpack, jumped back and got my backpack and jumped across again (I do not know why we didn't just throw the backpack across.. I think it was because we weren't confident if the backpack would make it across if we threw it, because it was THAT heavy and I got weak arms). And then I jumped across after and just barely made it. What an adventure! All kinds of obstacles man.


Got to Little Marley Beach at 2.40pm when the estimated time to reach Little Marley Beach was actually 2.17pm. So half an hour behind schedule. The time it takes from Little Marley Beach to Wattamolla Dam was 1 hour 8 mins. The initial plan was to have our lunch there as there's a picnic area there but it was already quite late and hence we stopped on a rock after the beach and had our egg sandwich for lunch, lighten the load a little.

Got to the dam at 4.09 p.m. when it was meant to be 3.48pm if calculated from the time we departed Little Marley Beach. At that point, we still had 10km more to go which according to the track notes will take approx 3 hours 40 mins. That means we would only reach the campground at 7.50pm. And that is provided if we can keep up and not keep falling behind schedule. I just don't understand how we could fall behind time when we have stopped taking photos. We weren't really talking to each other as well, just focusing on getting to our next pit stop.

Our legs were so sore by then and Ivan had a blister between his 4th and 5th toe. At this point, Ivan was saying "No more. We are not doing this again". I was rather miserable and tired too and all I want is just get to the campground. I kept telling us "It's gonna be worth it. Suffer now, later, it will be awesome. It would be such an achievement man!" ..... just to keep us going.

We got loss somewhere at Curracurrang Cove. We didn't take any photos of that place as we weren't even sure where we are. We walked up some steep slopes and realized we were walking away from the water. I was quite worried so I asked Ivan if we did miss a turn. The path seem to lead us into the bushes so he became doubtful too. So we turned back and walked all the way down but did not see any other paths. There was this rocky area bit near the waters where there was a family fishing so we asked them. And he said just keep following the path it will lead us there. It's only one path. He also told us to be quick as it's getting late. So.... all the way up we go at fast pace.
See the Eagle?
Reached Eagles Rock Lookout at 5.50pm. The ETA from the time we reached Wattamolla Dam was 5.40pm. So not bad, only 10 mins behind time and we did spend awhile getting lost. But we were still worried as we were walking really fast. Realized all the time estimates in this route is for fast pace walking, not an easy stroll. Perhaps it would have been easy if it weren't for the heavy packs. All the people that we saw (there wasn't many anyway) did not carry any backpacks, just small day packs.

Next destination: Garie Beach. We had more muddy encounters somewhere in the bushes. The walk down to Garie Beach was so hard on the knees as it was down steep descends on rocks and wooden steps. At points, I had to go down on my bum just to step down. And with the backpack, it wasn't easy. Our campground unfortunately wasn't at Garie Beach. So tempted to just set up our tent there as it was already 7pm. Had to walk across the beach to get to the car park. Hate walking on sand. Legs felt so heavy after walking down to the beach. It makes walking along the sand even more harder. There were cold showers on the other end of the beach because there's a surf life saving club. I really wanted a cold shower just to wash off. However, there was a sign saying no camping allowed. Ivan at that point was saying, let's catch a bus back. Haha!! There's a massive carpark too and there were quite a few people at the beach. He was tempted to ask them for a ride. That's how bad he wanted to go home. I think he was more concern with of how I am going to cope the next day because he can very well cope. Whereas me being me, I always tend to over-estimate my abilities and go over the limit and then suffer later on. Our very initial plan (IF we caught the right ferry, IF we didn't get lost, IF we were on time) was to actually shower at Garie Beach, have our dinner, maybe swim in the sea for a bit and then only make our way to the North Era Campground.
Left: Our very tired and sad face wishing we can just set up our tent here. Right: My face after a  refreshing cold wash. All ready to go to our campground.
Left: Ivan's all ready too!! Right: Last view of Garie Beach. Wishing we could just stay here for the night
But seeing that we are behind time by 2 hours of our initial plan, this is not possible. We washed our feet, our face, Ivan finished off his egg sandwich, and then.... off we go to the North Era Campground. We left Garie Beach at 7.20pm. It says 43mins to the campground. On the tracknotes, it says to walk up some grassy hill, passing some community hall, walking on wooden steps and so forth but we did nothing of that!! Haha! 

We were just walking along Garie Beach and then saw some rocks and we thought that's the path. It did say "Path closed" and "Beware of falling rocks". But we didn't know where the other path was. I think we had to actually go through the carpark but really, we couldn't be bothered to turn back. And walking up more grassy hills and then down again to the North Era Beach doesn't sound tempting at all. Enough of going up and going down for me. Sick of that. And from the distance, we saw some people walking along the rocks so we figured, it should be alright. When we walked pass them, they said it should be fine too. Haha!! 


Walking along the rocks were quite a challenge too. The tide started coming in and we had to walk quick. They were massive, uneven, slippery rocks. My balance isn't at its top condition. Small feet with big backpack doesn't go well at all. 

Reached North Era beach and the campground at 7.53pm!!! 1 hour behind the estimated time from the very start!! That's how much slower we are. 


So relieved when we saw the campgrounds. Best thing ever that happened to us for the day. Pitched our tent and then clean up by the stream. There was a toilet but it was a long drop and doesn't have any running water so we didn't use the toilet. Luckily there was a stream that flows into the sea so we brushed our teeth and washed our face there so it's not too sticky when we sleep. For dinner, we had rice and honey soy chicken (so chinese style of camping!) that I cooked that morning and drank soya milk. 

Winner winner chicken dinner!
Legs were so sore with all the walking and climbing we were quite worried how we will manage the next day. Couldn't really sleep well because there were lots of insects outside our tent making so much noises. There were other 5 tents around us too so it was quite safe.

Day 2 - Merry Christmas!!!
(this post is getting too long so I won't be as detailed as Day 1)

Next morning, we got up at 5 but it was quite cold outside and the morning dew made the outside of our tent and shoes wet. So, we just stayed in the tent and ate our breakfast - sandwich and cucumbers (so glad we got the cucumber because we running out of water so the cucumber was so refreshing).
Sunrise! Damn clouds!!
At about 8, the sun came out and our shoes were semi dry. Went to the stream again to wash up, packed and left the campgrounds just after 9.
This is the stream where we washed our face, brushed our teeth.. I even brought soap to wash my arms! Hahaha!
Eventhough it was only another 10km to the finishing line, it was quite tiring because there were lots of uphills and walking through bushes again. Got lost several times so it was more back-tracking. Major backtrack was walking down a muddy stream and walking back up again thinking we got lost. I reckon' someone should put more clear signs along the way.

We were really low on water, taking really tiny sips along the way. Whilst walking through the palm jungle, we had to climb up this really steep hill and hence consumed quite a bit of water. Thighs were burning, throat was dry. Not a good feeling at all.
Up up up! Up we go!!!
As we got closer and closer to the finishing line, we could hear engine noises of cars. Best sound ever at that point! Because it means we are not too far from the main road!! On the tracknotes, it says 2 hours 48 mins to Otford Lookout which is our finishing line.... And we reached the finishing at 12 noon!! Right on time despite getting lost again. We were just soooo happy when we saw other humans! Finally!!!! It's all over!!!! View... was pretty awesome too!!!

Otford Lookout
Our very happy faces!! It says 26km but I reckon we walked way more than 26km judging by the number of times we got lost. 

To think that it's finally all over........ Think again....

When we got to the train station, we found out we just missed the train by 5 minutes and the next train is 3 hours!!! Guess the adventure hasn't ended. Seriously, why so unlucky???

There was no reception so I couldn't even call a taxi. So Ivan suggested to go to the main road and see if we can wave one down. But when we got there which was a housing area, there was nothing. Plus, it was Christmas day. Saw a young kid on a skateboard and we asked him to give us some water. He looked a bit scared when we approached him but he still took our bottles and filled it up with water. When he was filling our bottles, this other lady from a different house came out and asked where are we looking to go. We told her that we just missed our train and wanted to catch a taxi to another train station nearby as there's more trains over there. She said there's hardly any taxis around here and later offered to drop us to the train station at Helensburgh. Her husband sent us there and we were so grateful. He said they always find lost campers around the area and it is very normal. So nice of them. Ivan called them our Santa Claus. Hehehehe....

Central-Town Hall : Homebound!!!!!!
Reached the city around 2 and then had KFC before we headed home. Best meal ever!!!! Taste sooo good!!!

Used the bathrooms in the swimming pool area to wash off our muddy shoes when we got home. hehehehe.... And the prize after walking over 30km..................

Spa time!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!
And so... that's the end of the biggest adventure for 2011. It was really an adventure but definitely not doing it again. Will just go to the start of the walk next time and enjoy the view of the south pacific ocean. I think that's the best views of the trip. Ivan said, next time, it either camping itself or hiking on its own. Haha! Not both together because the bags were so heavy and that's what made the trip so tiring. And if I want to do something like this again.... I am better off finding someone else! Hahahaha!!

I dedicate this post to the monkey, who agreed to do this "walk" with me. I don't think anyone else would have done it with me. I don't think I can find anyone else to do it with me. Thank you for your patience and your care. Thank you for carrying all the heavy things and trying to make my backpack as light as possible. Thank you for making this trip possible. An adventure to be remembered. Definitely going into my books of big adventures to be remembered. And I am so happy to share the experience with you. Got through all kinds of terrains all in one walk. You're the best!!!

I think I summed it pretty well in my facebook description:

"From walking along the cliffs, down and along the sandy beaches, over rocky terrains, through muddy grounds, into and out of jungles, winding through bushes, encountering lizards in different shapes and sizes....getting lost and backtracking several times.... racing against time before the sun sets....we've conquered over 30km on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day and came out alive."



THE END  :)

Monday, January 02, 2012

2.1.12

Let's see if I can manage to finish this post today. It's 2.1.12. A palindrome again. Hehehe.. I doubt I can even come close to finishing this New Year's post. Been looking forward to this so much, have got so much in my mind I wanna say but I have a feeling I'm gonna forget them all! (ok, so now is the 8th of Jan, 2 a.m.... obviously did not finish this post by the 2nd. But putting the date as the second because it's a nice date :p)

Was spending the day reading back my 2011 New Year's post for 2010. Lots of negativity at the start, felt that 2010 was just an OK year. But towards the end of that post, it was all positive. And man! I think I nailed 2011. If you asked me how was my 2011, I would say - It was awesome and I absolutely conquered it!! I stepped into the real world and survived. This year went by really quickly I must say. It's like in a blink of an eye, it was already the end of the year. Throughout this whole year, every single thing I did, it made me look forward to writing this New Year's post. It was that " I can't wait to write this down next year!!! " kinda feeling.

It was absolutely a different year compared to the last few years. Mostly it was because I started having a full time job and no longer a student. Also because there's finally some stability. Two years back, I wrote this: "I've talked to quite a few people and all I've heard is that they want to do something exciting the following year, they're getting bored with what they are doing. But you know, for me, I yearn for a few years in a row where I am at the same place, doing similar things. I do yearn for that. I'm tired of changes. I am thankful to be so lucky to have these opportunities to go places every year, doing different things. I am. Really, I am. But I do still want few years where I am doing the same things."

Sure, there's still a lot of uncertainties in my life but it's uncertainties that can wait. This year, I just felt like I need not worry about my whereabouts for now. Just enjoy living a routine life. Call me boring but for the past few years, I have just been going places and changing lifestyles. It sure is exciting but right now I just enjoy staying in one spot.

Format of this post is no different than the past few years with the swap from studies to work. Because I'm a working woman now yo!!!! Sorry I cannot be anymore creative. I just feel that my 5 categories (Work, sports, social life, family and relationship) summarizes everything perfectly. So here goes....

Ohh wait... before I start talking about work, I need to say one thing about my education...
2011 marks the end of my education and the move towards the working world. Attended my second a final graduation ceremony in my life :) ... hopefully no more, I have enough studying... PhD? very unlikely.. I enjoy the working world too much :)



Work (and getting my PR!)
This was the main thing I had to get for the year 2011. A job. It was my one and only New Year resolution. Simply because I know I would get one eventually. My very old resolution which is a yearly resolution I make and always fail is my finger nails... to not bite them. I almost succeeded this year. Actually it was a record. Did not bite them since Audrey's wedding back in December 2010 till October 2011 during the Rugby World Cup. And after that, I went back to biting them again. Even now. Sighhh... so yea.... Ok, getting back on track....

It's so nice to earn money, it's so nice to look at the bank account every fortnight and seeing the money grow. So nice to look at how much money I have saved. So nice to give my parents some money too though only a small amount. And also, the fact that I need not dream anymore... I need not dream about getting something. If I want, I can just buy it! Ok, I over-exaggerated, but you know what I mean la.. the spending power... it's SOOOO GOOD!!! My spending have definitely gone up compared to last year but my savings have gone up even more :D

I did not get one but TWO jobs. Quit my first job after 10 weeks. Started my first job in a nursing home on the 7th of March. I've got to admit, I was pretty lucky in getting a job that quick. It was good pay but I couldn't for the life of me, continue with this job because it was not what I wanted, there was a lot of neglect in patient's care which I can't avoid and forced to do, it lacked professionalism and wasn't satisfying at all. But some good did come out from it. I learnt how to deal with really old, demented people, I've learnt to be very patient. I've learnt that I AM NOT GOING TO SEND MY PARENTS TO A NURSING HOME NO MATTER WHAT. I had a good workmate, who has been practicing physio for quite a while, an ex professional rugby player, who was very keen in teaching me despite the massive workload we had and hence learnt quite a bit of musculoskeletal stuff which was useful in my current work. And most of all, I have learnt to appreciate my current work. Despite the below average income compared to other private hospitals, I am enjoying it and have no intention to leave.. YET. It all depends on how much I want the money. For now, I am just enjoying the learning experience, I have got really good colleagues and seniors. The tremendous amount of food (mainly chocolates and baklava) the patients bring in... it's a reason to stay on!

Some dates to remember: 
May 13- the day I was offered my second job
May 23- the day I started my second job
Some time in September- Got offered and accepted the permanent in my current job :)
I remembered I fell sick some time in May and my cousin forced me to stay at home. I was so bored so I did some job hunting and found a vacancy in my current job. Made a phone call, sent in my CV, and got an interview not too long after. Again, I consider myself lucky and I am so thankful and grateful for that.

I also do overtime work in my current job. Taking after work hydrotherapy classes simply because I get paid 1.5x for overtime, and get food allowance for every 2 hours of overtime I do :) I also work on some Saturdays, just to get more money. All savings going towards my future CAR! My travel time to work currently is currently slightly just under 1.5 hour. Walk 20-25 minutes to catch my train, 40-45 min train ride, and then another 20-25 minute walk from train station to work. I know I have been saying I'm getting used to it but after driving my cousin's car to work several times, I cut my travel time down to 1 hour or less which makes me want a car even more.

I wanted to get a weekend job at a public hospital nearby seeing that I have already got my PR but I am not willing to give up all my weekend just yet. I have plans on weekends now (scroll down to read about it in my sports section). Perhaps it shall be in my to-do list of 2012. Once I get my schedule sorted :) Perhaps some sacrifice needs to be done. But not yet, not just yet. I want to enjoy.

I do need to get another job so I get paid more over the weekend. Simply because... I want a car soon!! Times like this, I do wish I was back in New Zealand. I realized I really had it easy during an undergraduate. Definitely spoilt during then. Mum and dad paid for the car and I was driving around freely with the car, giving people rides. Now I rely heavily on public transport and my own two feet. I would like to see this as growth in me. That I have grown to be more independent. Declining my parents offer when they said they can give me the money to get a car in Sydney despite the strong temptation to accept it. The plan is to save up for a second hand car and get one in April 2012. That's the plan.

In terms of growth in my career, in black and white, I did nothing. I did not attend any professional development courses. I was just too sucked into work and I didn't plan anything. I didn't do any research, didn't do any presentation whatsoever. It is actually compulsory to do 120 hours of professional development each year to keep our registration. Sure, I did attend in-services in the hospital but that's just it. It's not enough. So for 2012, I plan to attend some courses. Well, I NEED to. And also do some presentation. I really need to set time aside in 2012 to sit down and do some studying. Not too sure what I would like to specialize in though.

Right now, I'm in a rehabilitation setting. Orthopaedics, reconditioning and neurorehab. The neuro/stroke area is the most challenging but I'm learning heaps just from my daily encounters. Making decisions on whether a patient has plateau-ed and decide when enough is enough and they can no longer improve. It is quite hard and sad really to tell them that they can't get any better. I put myself in their shoes and it is quite hard to take it in. Having someone telling you that you won't be walking normal again, telling you that you will forever rely on those two crutches and can't go off it. Telling you it's not possible to walk anymore- this, is the hardest. Need to really have patience in this setting. It can take months to see little/no changes. But, it is rewarding to see the changes happening in front of your eyes, that tiny twitch in the muscle, that's all it takes.

Then there's my overtime job - hydrotherapy. Enjoy taking the classes because it's all about pushing the clients. It's like being in a gym but in a pool setting. Equipments are limited and you come up with crazy ideas. May consider taking some course in this to see how far can hydrotherapy can take me. It's just a thought. We'll see whether anything happen at the end of 2012.

And lastly, obtaining my Australian PR. Another obstacle in 2011. Took quite a bit of my time reading up, searching through the website and obtaining information before I can even apply. I'm rather lucky to get it so quick. But you know, I do cringe when other people ask me how about to apply for it, what documents they need, whether if they qualify, how much points they need and so and so... It's like seriously, go to the website and find it out myself. I don't really remember. It's a whole long process. Some people just have it too easy I think. I mean, I'll give you information that I couldn't find in the website and that isn't clear in there but straight forward information that's in there which requires just time to look up, look it up yourself. And so, this, is one of the things that annoys me the most in 2011 :p Hey! that's good things and bad things right? hehehe....

Now, sports...
If you have been following my blog, you would know that the new sport I got myself into this year in Dragon boat. Got introduced to this sport via Lucas's friend back in June. The club that I am in is known to be the most social club out of the other dragon boat clubs. And so, winning is very rare and so I do not have the expectation of winning any race. I do it mainly to keep active and also just to fill out on Sunday mornings. It's just so nice to have something to look forward to every Sunday morning, and now, also Wednesday evenings. Slowly getting better at it, it's so hard to grasp the right techniques. Different people have different techniques and so I am bombarded with so many different techniques that I have to pick and see what suits me better. This is the reason why I am kinda reluctant to sacrifice my weekends for work. Previously, I did not have anything to do on weekends and hence, doing weekend work sounds like a good idea. But now, not really. Also, the people in the team are all very friendly. Once again, I manage to be the youngest again. Surprising much? hehehe... majority of them having been paddling for many many years. And they are like in their 30s moving on to 40s. There's a few in the 20's like me but I still manage to be the baby. Bwahahahahaha! I'm not complaining :D

Tried surfing for the very first time this year as well and loved it. Want to do it again but it's something I'm still considering investing in. Need to get a wetsuit first. And that, itself, is quite a mission. Trying to get a good one from Ebay. But right now, there isn't any cheap ones. And after watching Soul Surfer, the craving to hit the waves again is even more!! I would so love to call myself a surf chic one day! Bwahahaha... dream on Shermayne, dream on.... but hey, doesn't hurt to have dreams, right?

Another first this year was taking part in Australia's largest ocean swim - 2km Coles Classic.


First time swimming in the ocean. Thought it was gonna be easy but it was actually very tiring. It was so much different compared to swimming in a pool with all the waves. Didn't manage to finish it in a time I wanted to do. Not too sure if I will do it again this year. Besides, I've got something already planned in February for my birthday. And I am really looking forward to it!!!

Next up, running. Only did 1 proper race in 2011 which is the Blackmores Half Marathon in which I sprained my ankle. Didn't get to achieve a PB in which I was hoping to do so in this race but there's always next time :) My aim was to either run a full marathon or complete a 10k with a sub-50 but that didn't happen as well. Disappointed? Not really. In fact, I am pretty proud with myself as I had the discipline to run despite not having any upcoming races. It all started in April after I was given new shoes by Ivan and also found an awesome app on my phone - RunKeeper. Got my average pace to 5 min 19 sec during a 16km run which I am pretty happy with. However, after my injury, I have not been running as well. It is going to take a whole lot of effort to get back up there again, and I am going to do it!!! I want to do it in a race!

Another thing I did this year was a 21km (7 bridges) run on my birthday which I planned and completed myself. Got lost and it ended up as a walk instead but I am pretty stoked that I did it. It is definitely something to remember. I hope to do it again once I get fitter and get my directions right. Also, 2011 was the year I got myself in fun, 5km Mud Run in December. It was more of a walk/jog thing and I had so much fun completing it with my cousin sister.


My aim for 2012? Complete a full marathon. It's more like, complete a full marathon before I turn 25 :p So it's either do one in 2012, or one in 2013 before February. Hehehehe....

Other sports I did in 2011 is rock climbing and a little bit of Yoga. Was considering to take up rock climbing after going a few times because you get really good back muscles but it's just too expensive. Need to get shoes... then it's entry fees all the time to use the rock climbing gym. Whereas with surfing, once you get a surfboard, once you get a wetsuit, then that's it. No extra expenses. So, surfing triumphs rock climbing ;) As with yoga, got those introductory deals again. Always get a good workout/feel good feeling after a class. The body feels so relaxed and satisfied after it. Not too sure if I will pay full price to go for a class if there's no deals but it is quite tempting. Wait laaa till I earn more money. hehehehe... Need to save up for a car first before I spend too much. I've already paid over 200 bucks for dragon boat membership fees. I don't really want to spend much more for activities.

Shall stick to running, it's pretty much free. Only need to invest in runners. Speaking of which, I bought my very first pair of runners with my pay this year!!! Say hello to my Kayano 17!


Took me awhile to get it because Ivan got me new shoes on my birthday so I didn't have the heart to get another new one so soon with my pay. So I got it in October instead. And I love it!! Seriously once you have put on an Asics shoe, you can really feel the difference and you wouldn't really want to try any other shoes. Well, that's the case for me. Am just gonna stick to the Kayano range from now on and buy them on Ebay. Until I get any chronic foot injury, then I might change. Hehehehe...

Social life...
Met new friends in dragon boat but still not as close as the friends I met back in those UMSA days. We do hang out after training, which is going to the local pub to have brunch. And then, that's it. They had a few other social events but I didn't join as I do not know them well enough. I think I am just happy with my quiet lifestyle, I enjoy just staying at home, sitting in front of the TV, watching re-runs of Glee and Greys.

Hang out with swimming friends more this year too. Had poker nights.


Shaleeni came over in August, stayed a night at the Four Seasons for a really cheap price. Because Lucas works there. Sweet deal!! I am still yet to make a trip to Adelaide to visit Shaleeni. Feel bad really as I have been promising her to do so. She's already made it to Sydney twice! I don't see myself going any time soon though. But definitely something I will consider for 2012. Ahhh!! so many things I wanna do in 2012!!!!


As with my physio coursemates, I never really hang out with them much after graduation. Mainly because most of the Canadians have gone back, well, the ones that I am close with. Only Nat's left but also she's been busy with work. Only met up once with her for lunch during her lunch break. Just hope to catch up more with her this year.

Think I'm still closer to the friends I met in NZ. And so, I hang out a few times with Carlo and his friends during his flat parties. Great times I must say... makes me feel a little closer to home.


But, it's still different...

And so, November was a pretty awesome month. Seeing everyone after being away for 1.5 years. I do miss NZ a lot. I think I still call NZ my home. Every single time I arrive Auckland, there's just this warm feeling I get. I guess it's also because Auckland doesn't change much, it's still the same even after 1.5 years. Roads are still the same, still peaceful and calm, everyone's so friendly.


Attended the wedding of a very lovely couple, two close friends of mine.It was on their wedding day where I got to catch up with mostly everyone. A very special day indeed :) Still remembered digging out the information from Shaun during a satay session in Kajang back in December 2010 and had to keep my mouth shut and not say anything to anyone and wait.. wait for the good news. Heeheeheee....


Also went snowboarding with my two crazies - My Other Half and My Love. Ladies night. Too good!! Had such a good time hanging out with them. Also, there's the momo tea sessions the day after I came back with the usual gang. Miss you guys lots!!!


A special mention has to go out to my other half (who's probably the first one reading this). You all know how important she is in my life. But this year, it was even more. It was her who kept me pretty much sane, our emails became a place where we could rant and say anything we wanna say. We are each others ears. And really, thank you. Thank you for listening to all my problems this year. Thank you for your advice, thank you for your input. I am just so thankful to have friends like you. Truly, my other half.

Family
Was glad to go on a family trip at the very start of the year to Thailand. Had an amazing time in Krabi and Bangkok. First time travelling to Thailand and love the place.


This year, we are all split up. Brother's in Singapore, me in Sydney, parents in Auckland. I wonder when will be the day we will all be staying together under the same roof again. Miss those times actually. I guess we are all grown up already. Tend to cherish the time we spend together as a family more because it's so rare now. Mum and dad didn't come to Sydney this year as much as last year. But they did a lot of travelling around the world which was good. In fact, they only made it here once, in March, for my graduation. I do miss them a lot and being back in NZ in November was good to spend time with them again. Having home cooked meals, going for walks in the mornings, hopping into the car and just drive. We almost ended up at Raglan beach during a random drive one day.

Though I didn't have much time with my parents and my brother, I am lucky enough to have my 4th aunty over here twice - CNY and end of October. She always cook up a storm when she's here. As I'm typing this, there's still quite a bit of food in the freezer that she cooked.


Back in August, I also made a 4 day trip to Perth to catch up with my other cousin and her kids and my 3rd aunty. Had a nice relaxing time enjoying Perth as it reminded me of Auckland a little.


And lastly, I am ever so thankful to be staying with my big cousin sister. Always taking such good care of me even though I have already started working. She refuses to let me pay any bills or the rates! It's my 2012 goal this year. To figure a way how to give her the money! This year, she has less crazy working hours and it's good to see her more on weekends and having dinners with her. It also makes me feel happy seeing her all smiley and cheerful. Well, she's always been happy all the time but this year, there's another someone that came into her life and I am so glad for her. He's also the reason why I managed to drag my cousin into doing the Mud Run... hehehehe :) So, thank you 2011, for making my cousin extra happy! Hope it all works out well in the future... :D

Now.. to the ongoing LDR...


It's been a tough year. Started the year having negative thoughts in this relationship. Not seeing someone you love for almost a year. 11.5 months apart - saying goodbye on the 29th of November 2010 and no Hello till the 17th of November 2011. Every time when people ask how long we've been apart, I said almost a year and they get really shocked and always ask how we do it. Really, I do not know how. It's been a roller coaster year, the thought whether this will all work out in the end still lingers around. I'm not denying it, there was some arguments, fights... all because of the uncertainties. There were a few occasions where I just felt like giving it all up, because it's just too taxing emotionally. But then when I think about it, when I recall all the moments we spent together, the memories we shared... I didn't want to throw them all away just because of the uncertainties  ahead. It's all about having faith, believing that it will all work out in the end. And to see how much he has sacrificed, fighting and hanging in there to keep the relationship going, that, just touches me.

Seeing him in November and December this year... spending time with him, even though for a short while, just reminded me all over again why I have fallen in love with this monkey. Despite being apart for almost a year, developing new interests over the year, we still can keep each other entertained when we see each other. We are still up for crazy things and we make each other laugh. Just like the two photos below. Every time I look at them, I crack myself up.


Having him here in December for Christmas and New Year's was the highlight for me. Managed to talk through our plans for next year. Still left with uncertainties but that's what life is all about. I will have to write a separate post about our mini adventure, walking almost 30km on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. It was very tough and challenging, carrying massive backpacks and a tent... but we managed it eventually. Definitely a hike to remember. It's him, and only him, that will do these kind of things with me. One of the many reasons why I love him!!

What I've learnt from this year is that to keep a relationship going, there must be communication. If we're unhappy, just say it. Don't keep it to yourself. Always let the other person know how you feel. Doesn't hurt to talk about the future. Just to get some reassurance. Make plans. Even though there's a possibility it won't work out. And last but not least, have HOPE. Hope that things will get better with time :) One day, we will end up in the same place. One day. Just wait for it. It will come.

As I'm blogging this, he just reminded me something.... that we didn't really argue/fight during his trip to Sydney. There's way more smiles, laughter... lots of hugs and lots of love, welcoming the New Year together. He definitely made me a happy girl.

And so, here's to another year of long distance relationship. One filled with many positives, hope, patience, and love. Monkey, I love you!!!!

From my 2011 New Year post - "But I am looking forward to it. Looking forward to get a job. Looking forward to earn money. Looking forward to see the bank account go DING DING DING, with cash coming in every week. I am looking forward to my first pay. Looking forward to buy myself a new pair of runners with it. Looking forward to go back to NZ for a short holiday and see him when I have a good job and saved up a fair amount."


I have achieved all of the above!!! Got a job = Checked. Earned money and see the bank account go DING DING DING: Checked. Bought new pair of runners: Checked. Go back to NZ for a short holiday to see him: Checked.

Have I nailed 2011? Hell yeah!!!! With a massive hammer!! Whammm!!!!!! Thank you for being a wonderful year.

What's in store of 2012? Quite a bit. It's the year before I turn 25. I have so much things I wanna achieve before I turn 25. Time's running out. And so, here's my to do list. I never really have one but this is it. Wish me luck!!!

The must-do's:
Get a car
Complete a full marathon
Attend courses for professional development
Present at least 1 in-service at work
Pay rent

The Maybe's:
Do a snowboarding trip - either to Melbourne or go back to NZ
Meet the monkey in Gold Coast and do the full marathon together
Get a weekend job
Do a PB in a half marathon or a 10km run
Make a trip to Adelaide to visit Shaleeni
Dive

And now, well done to you, my reader, for making it to the end of my New Year's post.

Happy 2012 to all of you out there!!! 2011 was superb, but let 2012 be even better!!! Don't be afraid to make plans, don't be afraid to dream, don't be afraid to aim high. Sometimes, you gotta live on the edge. Make plans and do, do your best in everything you pursue in. If you fail, smile. Because you did the best you could. 
Love, unconditionally, like there's no tomorrow. 

And if I have one wish for the world, I wish that mother nature be nice to the planet earth this year. No more earthquakes, no more tsunamis, no more floods, no more fires. No more natural disasters. Full Stop. Give Earth a break. And if that's too much to ask, at least please give Christchurch a break. They have suffered so much, please be kind. 

Happy New Year everybody!!!!!!!!!! HAPPY NEW YEARRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!

Much love,