You've lost that loving feeling.
Two of my friends, of whom I am closer to the girl, broke up recently after X years of being together (where X > 4). I did not actually see it coming - though I've always believed that everything is bound to reach its point of saturation after some time, including long-term relationships. In this case, it can seem very easy on the surface to identify who was right and who was wrong, but like all things in life, we cannot look at it from merely one angle. We tend to be quick to show sympathy for the person who has seemingly did "nothing wrong", and point fingers at the one who supposedly "started it". I admit that I used to be one who would pity the "innocent" (not that I don't now) and blame the "guilty", but after going through the breakup process with her, I now realise that as third parties, we should look at things from a more objective point of view instead of jumping to conclusions without considering other factors. It is afterall never easy to say goodbye to a (X > 4)-year relationship just like that.
Just my humble opinion.
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So hj left for Melbourne on Sunday morning, on the 0955 SQ flight (oddly enough, he was on the same flight as Blob). I know you are gonna do just fine over there, brother :>
Blob's family, myself and mom.
Myself, hj and wisp. I look retarded.
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Blob didn't make it to uni eventually, after 9 months of study in Melbourne. Like WTF. His mom came to my place yesterday afternoon and started crying there and then. I guess what she told me made sense. "Work hard for your studies ... don't fail yourself, don't fail the society." I must say Blob really is quite an idiot, considering all that money spent on his education and expenses. Now he is left with nothing but a pathetic O-level cert at age 22.
To add on a tinge of irony, he has a brother in RJC and a sis in RGS (??!).
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I have been invited to a "birthday gathering" (somewhat) at Double-O this Saturday. Nothing to do with Double-O, but isn't it a bit strange to have a birthday treat at a place like that? With the music and dancing and the booze and the people? So how's the bonding going to take place?
I think I shall pass, no matter how VIP the people are ;p Sorry dudes! I guess I can never get comfortable with clubbing...
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I re-coloured my hair yesterday afternoon at ExKlamation :> Once again, I am ignoring the fact that I shouldn't be spending so much money this holiday. I mean, hello!! That alone cost me $113, just for a highlight of ash brown and golden brown. Sorry mom, I promise I won't re-colour too soon ;p Yeah right.
The new me with a new hair length and colour. Rawwrrr.
And, after like 3 years of not seeing each other, I finally met up with Starlite for shopping and dinner yesterday. Was initially afraid that we'd have nothing good to talk about, but everything went very well ;> Thumbs up for the Thai dinner and dessert at Renn Thai... though I must admit, the waiters there seem to have an issue with plain water. Bwahahhahahahaa.
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Something's coming over me.
Time through the rain has set me free,
Sands of time will keep your memory.
X-Japan - Tears.