Understood

Lost & Found

Found & Lost

Beneath Forest

Beyond Love

Smthing we couldn't live without

Smthing we couldn't do without

Understanding- you,me,someone else and whoever's around

Comprehends the truth of everything which man may understand

Simple stuff Changing to Smthing We can never Understand

That Marks the End

♥Luv,

Val

Quick Updates..

It has gonna be a long long time before I gotta update again coz work is getting more and more busy..esp i'm one of those kinda who's doing everything myself kinda la.. =S

One thing....I hv to say maan...i LOST 4.6K in Insurance after 7 years for my 2 policies..and NOBODY TOLD ME Anything..err..ya maan,It ain't a lot BUT It is still my hard earned $$$,k??

But........I Thought Insurance is Supposed To be a Saving for everyone?!!! since I bought a saving plans with investment blah blah...

If I never done any Checks,I'd still stupidly contributing my $$$ monthly and Let SMONE ELSE Play with my $$$ for their practice(stocks) and...................... hw abt currency value??!! maybe.......... in twenty years time, based on SG current economy,hw much do u think $100 is gonna worth then??? maybe $10 only???We can buy a set of Mcdonalds+ $2 doreamon and that's it..hahahaha!

Well,I was young when I first started buying insurance coz I thot it gonna be another bank account I'll be holding to BUT Nahs!!!!!!!!!!!!! moreover the coverage is only 10K........*huh! My Life Costs ONLY Worth 10k!!?!!! *

Forget it!TUVM!!!I'd rather buy more happy meals for my family every month than waste it down the drain.

Okie..I admit that It was partly My Fault coz I'm one of those who couldn't be bothered kinda till smthing happens..I realized that coz i received a letter stating that my insurance agent has left and Hell maan!! Gotta a shock lahhh..hahs..

One conclusion,I will never buy any life insurance agin coz It's like paying protection $$$$ every month to ensure myself( and mum) that i'll be getting additional protection..I hv got others with a much lower premium & giving a higher payout (that's when I reached 6 feet under...........)

Well,If they'd told me that I'll be losing this much in the first place,I'm perfectly fine but .................*shakes head*

I rather put the $$$ in my bank coz it will never depreciate unless I spend it..*Roll Eyes*

Other than that,My life is awesome.. Nothing exciting but peaceful and nice @ the moment.

For the Past Year, be it alone or with my love ones...I can be happy spending time w my family and dog...just as simply as that=)

maybe due to the fact, I used to work like mad when I was only seventeen..The Time I hv for myself now is all god-given.I'm happy.

I don't need anything else to be happy coz I'm complete..

Of cos he makes my life even better. ;)

Trust's gonna be built and respect to be earned..everything must be strong to prepare for a storm (nope..no storm for now.)

When my work becomes more crazy,we all gonna take it coz I know hw is it like when my phone calls and work loads become non-stop.There's always a reason in everything I do....and there's a timing for things in life...Understand?♥♥♥♥♥♥♥...
Wish Everyone of U A Happy Life too=)

♥Luv,
Val

Whose Wedding?

Bridemaid Again.................haha!Wad's next??

Love Pledge!! and Gals=) this is Really IMPORTANT,K???So who is the bride & groom??

Ooops!I might hv given away the answer................hee.

Bridesmaids in action..I din get to sleep the nite before,I was too excited to get into my dreams=p

Poor guys...ahahaha!

Yeah maan!I was actually excited with the things we gonna prepare for the brothers in the morning..I KNOW..I'm ;)

*coughs* Alrite!!I look like a lunatic over here..I admit. =S

Muhahaha! here comes their breakfast..Yummy Spicy Hot!!

Their Dessert..AaaaH!Sm of them Actually liked it.......It's a mixture of 10 tablespoon of Pure honey & sugar+Chocolate fudge & Longan..*yikes*

Tada!! Jessie & Albert..

Oh Gosh! She is gorgeous.I love her gown.

Bridemaids...Make a Guess!! hw many of us in total??

*DING* 15 Bridesmaids!!

Juz for U Jessie;)

*Yay* Best wishes for the newlywed couple. I could tell that Albert was over the moon for that day...even Fanny & Wai wai agreed that this is their first time they had nv seen a happier groom before...coz maybe...the rest(grooms) wanna act cool or wad.hur hur!

Wadever It is..we know Jessie is gonna be happy & being well taken care of by Albert.

We are so happy for Jessie,Love U babe=)

♥Luv,
Val

2010 Resolutions.

This is an article fm Straits Times on 3 January 2010.

AN online survey by Microsoft's Windows Live of more than 1,400 people in Southeast Asia showed that people use Instant Messaging (IM) applications for socialising, work and romance.

Seventy five per cent of respondents said IM helped them save on their phone bills.

Other survey findings:

• 94 per cent of respondents use IM to communicate socially.
• 54 per cent also use it at work.
• 86.5 per cent would use IM to ask someone out on a date.
• 33.3 per cent would actually break up with someone over IM.
• 54.1 per cent of respondents use IM to talk to their potential love interests.
• 18.4 per cent use IM to talk to their spouse or partners.
• 6.8 per cent think it is perfectly acceptable to propose via IM.
• 26.1 per cent would film their most intimate moments via webcam and share it via IM.
• 31.8 per cent have typed furiously on their IM just to look busy at work.
• 46.9 per cent of respondents are actually busy when their online status says they are. The rest of the time, they're either trying to look busy, trying to avoid talking to someone or just aren't in the mood for chat.
• 7 per cent of respondents would resign from their jobs or fire someone from their jobs over IM.

No wonder I hv got no buddy dates...........Hahahaha!

For most of my frenzs shld know,I ain't very much into Facebook's IM or MSN kinda unless I had to.....Hahahhaha! It ain't e reason that I blocked u guys out or wad.okie?

I am juz so out of all kinda social networks.....etc..Erm..but i actually feel it's okie & I hv nv felt loneliness in any way all these while. Hmmz.............okieee..Let's put it in this way,I am contented with myself, my life & simply happy with the way it is...

In return, my bb gets worried abt me and insists in bringing me out of e hse=S

.......so..I guess my New Year Resolution is..........To Connect,Connecting & Connections...

Which Means....No more vacation for me One of the reason is the fact that I'm Far behind my target in life.

Work is Talk,The Talk Is Long & Work becomes non stop...*laughs*

For the past year,I hv done a lot of self reflections & soul searching myself & I hv drawn up sm conclusions...

1. Car ain't an investment & should never be treated as one.If I get a chance to choose once again, I'd rather stick with my old car & put more $$$ in the bank ,get a property years back.Well, That's If I'm able to turn bk time........Opportunity doesn't knock twice...wad to do???
2. What done cannot be undone, Reality exists in our own perceptions of life.What U/Me thought may not actually exist at all...Stop Overthinking or Overanalyzing it...erm. I mean affairs of the heart,friendships & humanity blah blah.
3. One of my friend (i know her when she was 17 ...) died recently fm cancer.She is only 28!!!!!Leaving behind her husband & ten year old son..She has always been a strong character & she fought to her last breath..I was in shock for a while when i received the msg fm her phone sent out by her husband. I actually thought it was sent wrongly till my buddy called up. Life is short,Better Live,Eat, Play Well..Spend it worthwhile. We nv know wad gonna happen to us.
4. Never Trust Anyone Easily..I hv always been gullible & was that native to think that everyone is trustworthy but........I was wrong.All I can tell u is I'm gonna live life right & with integrity...I hv seen too much of the ugly sides of humanity.If I gonna be like them, I'll be richer$$$ but be poorer in my moral values...
5. Love is not an essential but a life booster/supplements.. Of course u know i mean mentally,rite? hee.. Without my bf i think my life is gonna be bland (or maybe i hv made his life bland..Haha!) A lot of my buddies hv been asking me abt him..hw we gotten tg..what stage we gotta to..blah blah blah.

Okkkkkkk..He is a guy next door and I'm a gal next door and we got together naturally and.....I am so-called his 'first' real gf (the rest din made it to 2/3 weeks and all drama-mama scenario kinda..Sadz thing=(,k? ) even though we see each other everyday,we hv been leading a Super Healthy (NOT EXERCISE) Couple life.Period. ;)

That's also one of the factors we can't seem to gt sick of one another after mths.Haha!! Of cos,we are different in many million ways but that's also wad that brought us tg...

who knows wad gonna happen next??Wad is there left to worry when one is happy?? =)

♥Luv,
Val

其中一個幸福 好過兩人都不知足

To know more abt the song's creators,u guys can visit the links below.Hope u like it too=)

曲/演唱/插圖:龔芝怡 www.omy.sg/serenekoong

詞: 小寒 @ www.omy.sg/xiaohan

Verse 1
心疼你一臉無能為力
你最不擅長演戲
反讓我更愛你

Verse 2
心領了你的小心翼翼
是怕我會委屈
傻瓜別怪自己

Prechorus
有你深愛過的我
有甚麼事談不妥
乖 聽我說
過你要的生活

Chorus
我們其中一個幸福
好過兩人都不知足

你懂我最愛哭眼淚並不表示我怕孤獨（很無助）

這一刻最大的幸福
是錯下去前說不分離不苦 這不算苦
不要想著彌補我不是個孩子
無須再 受保護

Verse3
別以為我的心像瓷器
心碎並不是委屈
是成長的必須

Verse4
別小看這一路的回憶
它會開成感激
給我存在意義

Bridge
不要感觸
不要反覆 不要反顧
不要愛她吞吞吐吐
女生最恨戀人還想保護
上一段追逐

Ending
我因為愛了你 無須再受保護

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This is the theme song for today's channel U movie “向日葵的約定".

Did anyone watched it? I missed it=(

Nevertheless, this song is meaningful,nice,touching,simple and sweet..*i likee* I believe it can bring up sm past memories of yours too.*Try la* ;)

Most of the time, when one give up a relation ain't becoz of third party/change of heart/bored.......

It is becoz of love, coz when u're really in love, u will wanna the best for ur loved ones.

Leaving @ e rite time, before everything turns into hatred is for the better.

(If leaving can stop all quarrels,It's a rite option for me..Ehhh,i know all my sisters wouldn't wanna agree w me for this.uh huh, maybe I'm a freak who rather choose this every single time than waiting for 'miracles' etc la..or maybe I'm more 'tough' than u all leh=p *coughs* or maybe for the fact that I'm not young anymore,I don't hv that many 2,3,4,5 years to waste as I wanna to be a mum (single mum also nvm) not ltr than 35 mah..and when a mirror is shattered,it has cracks even u if put it back tg. )

Memories is what that keeps us living so what's there to regret,to hate,be guilty abt when everything is already in the past.

Last but not least,If I gonna say the same thing one day to my present relationship,I would. =)

♥Luv,
Val

♥ Merry Merry X'mas♥

Here's a greeting fm Snoopy=)

May all your wishes & dreams come true.

All I Really want for X'mas is Happiness for me.....My Family,Friends & Foes (esp those swindlers coz they may stop preying on others after they gotta happiness & eh.......maybe gt bk their consciences as well???!!!!!........and eventually!! *ding* returns me bk all my $$$..ha!)

Lastly,I wanna thank Santa for giving me smone who is really special,stable,supportive,Super crazy,naggy, tolerable with such great endurance..Hee

To My Naggy-body:Sorry for being naughty @ times (actually,It's Most of the time la *wink*)

♥Luv,
Val

20 Dec 2009 ALL I WANT FOR XMAS IS...............

I don't know abt this picture..I look so......................*laughs* but my mum says this is smthing different..Uhmmm....(scratch head)I really don't know neh..hahahahahahah.

Really gonna thank Ivan though,without him gonna be without my pic in TNP..*laughs*

Jessie Hen's Nite

Jessie is getting married after eleven years of dating...............Wow!!!Time Flies maan.Hey,I hv known Jessie for ten years since our pageant days and she was in She Uemura before starting her joining Singapore airlines.Yay,we are all gonna be her bridemaids on her wedding........................AND Hen's nite is always FUN!!! *laughs*

Our BAD!! We Made her Drink and Drink.............Yet She never gotten Drunk..ZzzzZz.

Ben & Fanny =@

How could Jessie Hen's Nite do without a 'duck'?!! *POOR JESSIE*ahahaha!Alrite,I need to clarify this..We are all good girls so no hanky panky neh......anw,this guy's side view resembles Edison..Hahaha!

Ex SHU Girls....

Yay!! We are Jes's Bridemaids.

Val & Jes=)

Best Friend Forever...When Fanny is tipsy,she juz couldn't resist herself from filling up everyone's glass!! *BEWARE* ;)

Jessie's Wedding is ard the corner!!woo hoo!!

♥Luv,
Val

Some time ago, I watched a year 2006 movie "戀愛初歌" starring 側田 (Justin Lo).He is a song composer in the movie and in real life.At first I thought It's only a love story kinda movie but It's more than that...heh heh.. There's this part where Justin Lo was making up a song melody out from someone else's lyrics..

I went like"AaaaaH!!I thought I was a weirdo to come up with lyrics first and then melody neh coz the norm was to come up with the melody first before lyrics.."although I hv done both but still I'm more to a "lyrics to song" person..Yea Yea. That was during my those crazy song making days la.

Coyate Ugly is another movie that has enlightened me in another way.

The Moral of the story??There may be always be hidden answers in movies when u least expected it.. That's why I like watching movies whenever I hv gotten time.. =)

♥Luv,
Val

How much do U know abt Childhood Cancer??

QUICK FACTS ABOUT CHILDHOOD CANCER

Fact:	“120 new cases of children diagnosed with childhood cancers every year in Singapore”?
Fact:	“Half of the children diagnosed with childhood cancers are 5 years old and below”
Fact:	“Though the causes of childhood cancer remain unknown, cancer is curable”
	“Leukaemia which is the most common form of childhood cancer has a 70-80% rate of recovery” “Cancer is not contagious” Today is Tulip Hearts day.. Tulips signify Hope and Celebration and Heart represent the love and generosity of all who care. The event is to applaud the courage and determination of cancer stricken children.

Tulip
	Each tulip costs $2 and comes in 20 colours
	Each stalk of silk cocoon tulip will have one of the following awareness message: “Remembering Children with Cancer in good and bad times”
	THD pays tribute to the courage of children battling with cancer.
	THD increases the awareness of childhood cancer to the public.
	THD helps to raise funds through the sale of tulip flowers and pins.

Where does the fund go?It goes to Children’s Cancer Foundation general fund and provides free programmes and services to more than 500 children and their families each year. The programmes and services are:

Counselling and Casework
Therapeutic Play
Caregivers’ Support Programme
Sibling’s Support Programme
Financial Assistance
Back-to-School Programme
Palliative and Bereavement Programme
Volunteer Development
Survivorship Programme
Public Education on Childhood Cancer

For Year 2010,U can be a Children's Cancer Foundation ambassador too=)

We would like to thank those who has given their support for today's event=)

Smone did a a Charity Dance performance ..ahahahahahah. (I was juz kidding la..)

Who is Children’s Cancer Foundation (CCF)?
Children’s Cancer Foundation (CCF) is a non-profit organisation that aims to improve the quality of lives of children with cancer and their families through enhancing their emotional, social and medical well-being. Since 1992, CCF has helped more than 1,600 children and their families at its two family support centres at KK Women’s & Children’s Hospital (KKH) and the National University Hospital (NUH).

WHY RAISE FUND FOR CCF
CCF is an independent Voluntary Welfare Organisation (VWO) without government funding. CCF is solely funded by public and corporate donations. It is the Corporate Community, Civic Organisations, Schools and generous individuals that help raise funds for CCF. The donations raised will facilitate the continued provision and improvement of various programmes and services for CCF’s beneficiaries and their families. We sincerely appreciate your understanding towards the plight of children with cancer and their families in Singapore. Your support certainly makes a difference to them as they face difficult times in their battle against childhood cancer. May our joint efforts as part of their community of support, continue to encourage and help in winning the battle against childhood cancer.

http://www.ccf.org.sg/tulipheartday/tulip.html

Despite suffering fm sunburns with my body muscle aching (erm, I hvn't been exercising much lately=S ) after the event,everything is worthwhile coz both of us managed to sell 100 stalks of tulip *yipee* Really happy that there's smthing we are able to contribute to the less fortunate children.

♥Luv,

Val

<我的最爱> is a HK movie......=) Well,I kinda like it..(esp sm quotes)In life,everyone tends to chance upon e same things,happenings and people etc......AND these encounters being made into Movies/Drama...

Whatever It's gonna be happening in future,juz gotta bear in mind...there're no NG,only imperfections........Perfection exists only in the eyes of the contented,happy human beings.AaaaH...Another thing.........If there're any questions,doubts existing......It's gonna be regrets.
Nothing is gonna to remain e same in life coz there's a timing to everything. What matters most is that One's truly......really happy spending moments of our life...Every stage of It,is a cycle in a circle..
One Last Thing.......I won't be writing anymore 'shits'.. .on papers.=@Done w these stories with e same meanings,different expressions.....Uh..mm.I think I 'd gotta to e end of 'this circle'.
The reason I dig into writing is becoz It's e only kinda thing in tis world that can truly stay & belongs to me...being back to myself.Nothing's ever gonna be lost..
Well,since life's a no turning back route...Can always LOOK BACK but NEVER,EVER STOP.

*Nods*Today is juz another beginning.....'Good Morning' =)

♥Luv,

Val

Mummy's Copy!!

A few of my friends commented that I resemble my mum.......

What Do U think???

AaaaH..Trying to imitate Mummy and hv been Biting My Lips ever since I was 5 years old..zzZz!

P.S:Hell Maan! I Am STILL CLUELESS abt PHOTOSHOP neh!! An Idiot like me juz don't have the patience & Time in dealing that..Forget It!! I Give Up.......... >.<

Erm... Choosing between my photography's perfections & Time..............I'd Rather choose the latter. *Nods*

Alrighty!!see ya soon.


♥Luv,
Val