I was Flabbergasted :O

Hello!

Thanks everyone for the warm welcome.

So some of my girlfriends got married recently. I was gisting with one and she said, oh UG by the way, now that I am married whatever you tell me will be shared with my husband *-*. I was like huuuuuh? Yes, if you dont want him to know then dont tell me *confused look*...I was flabbergasted lool *is that even a word people use when talking?*

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 So I cant confide in my friend anymore? I am not saying married women shouldnt tell their husband stuff but hey if I am confiding in you about something that wont ruin your marriage nor related, why should you tell your husband? I dont get that idealogy, please someone elignten me....I dont think being married equates being totally open to your husband about other people's secret struggle. I mean where do one draw the line?

Anyways since then, I stop telling her things..We just gist about general stuff. It saddens me sha. But then again, there is the group of married women that you confide in and they promise to keep it but behind your back they still tell their husband..So what do you do? To that I say, open up only to someone you respect and see their husband as such....

Just had to get that out

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