But seriously folks I mentioned Charl because I spent the weekend in PE checking out my cousins etc. I was speaking to my Aunt and we were talking about My Grandparents. She mentioned that the greatest gift her Dad (my grandpa) ever gave her and her siblings was the way he loved their mother. There is a kind of legacy that has come down through the family because of my Grandparents (on both sides). My point is that its the greatest blessing of all time to give that to your family and we actually can.What we do with our lives now can weigh heavily on our families to be. So in other words if we don't sort our lives out as best we can now we are selfishly laying down bad things instead of good things (curses instead of blessings) for our families. We must not be selfish but must think ahead as to how we are going to restore this thing called fatherhood (put motherhood there if you're a lady). I must, however, keep in mind that only grace can get this stuff done. My own effort is nothing without grace. (Charl helped me think these things)


