Yet another date..

....I would not get offended if you said that! Why is it that some women take certain things a man says as an attack on them? The same words that you can say to a man, with no negative reaction at all usually get a totally different reaction from allot of women!! Sayings that come to mind are, "are you going to wear that"?, "when is the last time you had a haircut"?, "is that a whole order"? The point is why does it seem that allot of things that are said to a woman, even though a man as no intention of being so, the woman seems to be offended. Is it a lack of self-esteem, paranoia, or an act to make others feel guilty?