There is no FREE LUNCH in this world

Hmmmm.....let me think how to start it....

In university,we can't avoid group assignment this part,

However,some people will try to use some tricks to avoid contributions and become free rider in the group,

first time i met such kind of guy....

In the lecture,he don't want to concentrate ...he choose to sleep during lecture...

after woke up from his daydream,he don't know the lecture explained about the assignment...

well,is fine...i explained once again to him since he is so "POWER"....I asked him :"are you understand the format the lecturer want???" He answered:"yes"....

After a few days,i received an e-mail.....waoh!!!!so surprise!!!!the format is just same like what he sent for me last time!!what the differences??

When i met him again,I asked him the reasons why he sent the same things for me again~

He shouted loudly to me and scolded me~and blamed me for no sms or call him to tell him and explain to him ~he use his "pondan" tone and voice told me :"before my group leader also not like that geh...."

your group leader before not dare to give u work to do not means that i not dare to give u work....ok??

wah!!!!if u do not understand something,u should call to ask ur friend or should blame other people??

Nvm,i tried to calm down because i knew that i am talking with the ANIMAL all the time~

I really regret why i should explained so much to the animal since the animal will not understand what the human said.....

I just realized that talk to an animal is really wasting my valuable time......

After that,he go and told everyone that he felt very sad...hahahahaha~sad for what???could anyone tell me??sad for get free marks in the assignment that we done for him???

woah!!really a good director~i give him a big clap~BIG LIAR!!!!

tried to distort the fact!!
If u think u spread to other people can make me scare and not dare to distribute job to you then you are wrong...i just save my energy to talk with an animal....

When we went for discussion,every girls are bring along their laptop ~however,just only one animal that no bring his laptop....came in late and just sat on the chair.......look at here and there.....never asking what should he do for the assignments....I clap for him once again ~

Lastly,i just want to said that there is a GREAT experience to cooperate with such kind of people...no more next time~I SWEAR for it.....

No people can bear for it~if u want to be a free rider,go ahead and find other group...

there is no FREE LUNCH in this world...
And i also hope those who get lied by that super big liar,please don't listen and believe in his liar....i think u all should know what his pattern especially who same group with him before....
Chinese have a word said :"一份耕耘，一份收获”.....
how much u contributed then u will get how much repayment that u deserve...
no more than that nor less than that~

Time to upDATE

好久没有上来我的部落格 update update 了，
因为晴实在太忙了，也太懒了。。。
最近在忙开学的一些小事情，
也忙忙家里的一些事情，
总算是HAPPY ENDING ^^
"you will see the rainbow after rain"........yea,it's true....
谢谢我的爱人和朋友给我的帮忙，安慰，鼓励，
很多的难关终于有惊无险地渡过^^
还是与以往一样，晴不会第一个星期就回去报到，
特别特别感谢我的一群好友的帮忙，
感恩我得回失去的东西^^
但是，请可以不要让我当那么多的assignment's leader 可以吗？？
不要选我！！！其实，晴不是不喜欢或讨厌，
谢谢你们这么看好我，不过，我实在担心自己做得不好嘛 ^^
开学了，看到很多的美女哦，
我看到好多女生朋友越变越美，简直跟第一个学期差好大，
不过，还是看到某些越变越难看，
不懂是不是太厉害假，导致我看了反胃一下下。。
还看到了超难看的发型，让我不禁反思要不要电头发，
我可不想我的头发这样难看啊。。
原来，一个人的发型跟她的脸其实息息相关的咯，
十分赞成某学期有个人跟我说的话，
他说，“其实，她的脸是很大很肿的，只是她用头发来遮掉她的肉包”，
哈哈，说得蛮对的~
我的头发，你要快点长，
我要帮你变变一下下啦^^
晴很期待自己的旅行，
时间，快点过吧。。。
让自己可以吸一下气再迎战^^
宝贝的时间又被BOOK 满了，
月头，月中，月尾。。逃不掉^^
要帮帮他决定要IPAD2 还是要GALAXY TAB。。
我的任务 ^^
学习适应新的生活，
有时虽然有点不习惯，
但是想到自己身边有那么多朋友陪伴自己，
觉得好欣慰~
至少，拿起电话，打开联络簿时是可以随时找到肩膀，依靠 ^^
为自己的新目标加油。。。
为自己的人生再冲刺~
路，还是没有终止，等着我^^
部落各实在是好良伴，
因为，在这里可以道出一切的一切。。。
道出真，理，实。。。

下次再见~宝贝

我的《寻宝》之旅结束啦，

回来还病了一场~

谢谢宝贝提早为我庆祝生日，

虽然已经来不及DIY我的生日蛋糕 （太多地方去^^ ），

不过宝贝已经把它列为下次必做的事情，

谢谢宝贝为我花了这么多$$,

陪我度过一个美好的生日，

虽然是提前了，但是没办法咯，

谁叫你要出差啊。。。

宝贝很贴心地为我准备了“愤怒鸟" 手机套和手机保护套，

因为他知道我不太会照顾 东西，

那晚，要离开的时候，

眼泪不停滑落。。

期待着下次的见面，

两个月，很快会过去，

如果每次都要经历这样的分离，

那么，我想我会习惯它，

因为，分离是为了下一次的见面，

只要这样想，

我就不会难过了。。

长大了，很多事情都得自己去坚持，

往往很多事情只可以让“心”知道，

我相信我可以~~

宝贝，下次再见咯~

我会笑，而不会再哭~~

就只有是你~我宝贝~

8 月31日~先对马来西亚说声：“生日快乐，国庆快乐”，

很开心因为很快可以和我宝贝见面了，

好久没见到我宝贝了，

为我做那么多东西，花那么多钱，

真的辛苦你了，宝贝~

就只有你，值得我去珍惜，

因为不管我美不美，丑不丑，好与坏，

你都不会嫌弃我~

还是那么地一心一意对我好，

过去，实在做了太多太多伤害你的事，

但是，你还是依然对我很好，

而且是越来越好~

现在，你开始做工了，

我的生活也不再有忧虑，

离我们的目标也越来越近，

不管我要求什么，你都会一一为我实现，

觉得自己实在太幸福了~

现在，我相信了一句话，

“女生长得美不美不重要，最重要命要好”，

看过了很多例子，身边有好多朋友都是这样，

长得美的就会跟我说:"我觉得我自己还会找到一个比他更好的”，

而我看到很多幸福的例子都是女生长得不是很好看，

男友却很帅，很有钱的，

要知道命运真的是十分公平的~

Gambateh,baby~

还记得，我宝贝还在读书的时候，

他常常会对我说：“唉，我对我的前途很茫然咯，不知道毕业后能不能找到一份好工作。”
因为他不是first class degree ,没有honor ,也完全没有工作经验，
现在，毕业了，工很快就找到了，
更重要的是找到一份薪水高，福利好的好工作，
公司还给新电脑新手提用，
虽然会常常出国工作，
一个月至少会出差到外国两三次，
但是，没办法咯，工作嘛~
陪伴我的时间也比以前减少了，
才刚做工不到一个月就要到处飞了~
等下飞曼谷，等下飞印尼，等下飞台湾，等下飞巴厘岛，等下飞香港，等下飞越南，中国，。。。。有分行的地方都会过去。。
其实，说真的，我还蛮喜欢他的工作，
可以到处飞，每次去不一样的国家，
而且又不用自己出钱，
爽到~~虽然说是做工，但是晚上可是自由时间啊，
在国际性的公司做工果然是不一样的~~
我也好想以后我的工作是这样的，
就不用每天呆在OFFICE里，
虽然很希望他可以多点陪我，
但是，有谁不想自己的另一半可以有出头天，
我不想我的另一半是靠家里父母的有钱来买东西给我，

靠家里和父母怎样靠都不能靠一辈子，

最重要是他要有智慧，本事，
可以在事业中有好的表现，
那我就满足了~~
宝贝，加油啦！！>.<

不闻。不问

学会不闻，不问一些事情对自己绝对是有利无弊的，

知道了也好，也在心里面默默判断，

不去问，也不去说，不去讲，

等着观看下一集的戏份，

就好象在追连续剧一样，

不想去聆听，不想见到有些人与事，

往往会让我们生活过得更自在，

只要自己每天开开心心就好，

有些话，就抛在脑后当耳边风，

烦恼，有时是自寻，

与其要与人对质，不如我们以笑回应，

知道就好，保持沉默，

所谓，沉默是金，
这样，绝对不是逃避，

不必要与跟我们想法，立场有矛盾的人多话，

以免节外生枝，夜长梦多~

还是那一句，沉默是金~

NO ; DON'T WANT

Sometimes,it is very difficult to spell out "NO" and "Don't want" these two words~

I really wish i could spell and shout out "I DON'T WANT",

I felt very stress stress stress recently~stress with my life~

I felt i had lost control of my life~Many things just come up suddenly~i don't really have enough time to handle and prepare~unfortunately ,who will understand my feeling ? This is what we called life~

I hope everything can pass very soon~then i don't need to suffer and face the stress anymore~

now i want to shout out at here..."I DONT WANT ,I DONT WANT ,I DONT WANT"... somebody hear me??? I think the answer is NO ONE!!

I cant even spell out what i really want ~ if i do so,i will get "smack" back ~after that,i have to force myself accept something that i disagree again ~

one time by one time...

at last....i feel very tired with all of these~~

at last....i no brave to argue anymore~

i know i have to accept~no other choice~

cry,sad,down.....

just throw everything for me~then asked me to settle down all~