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Friday, October 16, 2009
Wedding Lunch =)
My great pal LP, finally wedded on Tues. Wedding lunch buffet was held at Carousel, very casual event. I love it, casual and relax.
LP, 你终于嫁出去了！！ I'm so happy for you, waiting for this day for sooooooooo loooooooooong. See how big your face is, we took leave specially for you hahahaha........
Wishing you blessed with marriage!!
LP, 你终于嫁出去了！！ I'm so happy for you, waiting for this day for sooooooooo loooooooooong. See how big your face is, we took leave specially for you hahahaha........
Wishing you blessed with marriage!!
Precious you
11:39 AM |
Friday, September 25, 2009
Should I...??
At times I'm wondering... should I quit my job. I'm getting sick with some people around here. However, I have to stress that I've fantasy bosses and colleagues in my dept. I'm mentally tired of some people. I just want to get my work done and not involve in any of the issues that don't bother me. I don't want to take sides. Can they just leave me out??
The term "Quit job" is not a stranger to me. I know this will be sooner or later. I've a very supportive hubby who thinks highly of me being a good homemaker. But, I don't have the confidence myself. Sometimes, I'm wondering why is he so supportive of the decision to have a single income. Yes, I know $ is not everything, but being in this kind of society, having a single income is very stress, I don't wish to stress my hubby, at least till our housing loan is cleared. My dear hubby has the thinking that a mother should be at home with the kids, so that the kids will feel the warmth of the home. He has been asking me time to time on my decision. My answer to him is always "Let wait another X years and see how it goes". When I hit the big 30s last year, I told him to give me another 4 years. He agreed to wait till when our kid enters Sch.
Now, the issue of moving has been going round my mind. To move to the west, nearer to workplace will save a lot of our time spent on traveling and money on transport. Even if we need to work late or during weekends, it will be much much easier.
Another reason is, I want to bring my kids home daily. They have grown up. I know how it feels when the parents are not with the kids daily. Because I experienced that when I was young. I was left with Grandma and only got to get home on weekends.
The issue is, there is no nearby Sch around for my kids. When I mentioned "nearby", it refers "not within walking distance". Compared to our current home, there is a sch just next to us. The nearest sch is more than 2km. I wonder if I will have problem register for the kids?
How? What should I do? I'm willing to give up the new estate to move into an old estate with maybe not so clean environment (if you compared to my current environment). But definitely, getting lots of support from my mum.
The term "Quit job" is not a stranger to me. I know this will be sooner or later. I've a very supportive hubby who thinks highly of me being a good homemaker. But, I don't have the confidence myself. Sometimes, I'm wondering why is he so supportive of the decision to have a single income. Yes, I know $ is not everything, but being in this kind of society, having a single income is very stress, I don't wish to stress my hubby, at least till our housing loan is cleared. My dear hubby has the thinking that a mother should be at home with the kids, so that the kids will feel the warmth of the home. He has been asking me time to time on my decision. My answer to him is always "Let wait another X years and see how it goes". When I hit the big 30s last year, I told him to give me another 4 years. He agreed to wait till when our kid enters Sch.
Now, the issue of moving has been going round my mind. To move to the west, nearer to workplace will save a lot of our time spent on traveling and money on transport. Even if we need to work late or during weekends, it will be much much easier.
Another reason is, I want to bring my kids home daily. They have grown up. I know how it feels when the parents are not with the kids daily. Because I experienced that when I was young. I was left with Grandma and only got to get home on weekends.
The issue is, there is no nearby Sch around for my kids. When I mentioned "nearby", it refers "not within walking distance". Compared to our current home, there is a sch just next to us. The nearest sch is more than 2km. I wonder if I will have problem register for the kids?
How? What should I do? I'm willing to give up the new estate to move into an old estate with maybe not so clean environment (if you compared to my current environment). But definitely, getting lots of support from my mum.
Precious you
4:30 PM |
sick-po
I don't understand why some people need to raise the voice...
1) to people who are not in the wrong when others did the wrong thing
2) to people who are not in the wrong when others did not response to email
3) to people when that person is not in good mood or under stress
Creating unnecessary scenes and argues, creating saga.
Those who never bothers to that person's nonsenses, does not imply they scare of that person. It's just simply "can't be bother with you".
I really hate this.
Simply no sense of respect, no sense of politeness.
I have my limits.
Hypocrite!!!
1) to people who are not in the wrong when others did the wrong thing
2) to people who are not in the wrong when others did not response to email
3) to people when that person is not in good mood or under stress
Creating unnecessary scenes and argues, creating saga.
Those who never bothers to that person's nonsenses, does not imply they scare of that person. It's just simply "can't be bother with you".
I really hate this.
Simply no sense of respect, no sense of politeness.
I have my limits.
Hypocrite!!!
Precious you
4:25 PM |
Thursday, April 30, 2009
my love, my heart
For the past 2 months, I've been quarreling on and off with my dear. The frequency was just not right. When I talked this, he interpreted in another meaning. Small quarrels, huge quarrels. For the 1st time, I walked out from the room and spent my night on the sofa. He didn't bother to sweet talk to me as well. We broke the promise not to quarrel in front of the gals...
This went on for months. I knew something wasn't right, but I couldn't say why. There's many queries in my mind, for which I couldn't talk to anyone. I buried in my heart, dragged myself to work and days just repeated itself, keeping everything to my heart with many questions asking myself "why".
Finally, I blew up and ended in huge quarrel. We had a talk days later, but I felt he's hiding things from me. Then small quarrels in between days. Finally, I decided to speak up and asked straight to his face. Although the answers given to me, made me feel weird, made me feel uncomfortable or even unbelievable. I didn't know what I should do to accept or not to. All I know, this man is my dear hb. A man I loved.
Andrea told me to give him more time. I'm trying too. At least now, he's more willing to spend more time with me. It's a good start huh?? I just hope, it will continue and go back to the old days. I really missed the old days when we have more time for each other.
After all the unhappy events, he did some plans to celebrate my birthday advance, just the 2 of us. A Noel delivery for a bouquet of tulips and roses. My favourite flowers. Very contented, he said "I got it right this round huh?" I gave him a smile.
Lunch was at Hey Hey for steamboat. I'm very very much impressed and really loved it. Very nice soup base! Ended with the day with a movies.
My dear, all I want, is to spend time with you. I need a lot of your care and concerns, not forgetting the hugs and kisses you used to give me. I wanna to walk this path with you till we are old...
You wrote 10 I love you in the card. My love is double than yours...
I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you.
This went on for months. I knew something wasn't right, but I couldn't say why. There's many queries in my mind, for which I couldn't talk to anyone. I buried in my heart, dragged myself to work and days just repeated itself, keeping everything to my heart with many questions asking myself "why".
Finally, I blew up and ended in huge quarrel. We had a talk days later, but I felt he's hiding things from me. Then small quarrels in between days. Finally, I decided to speak up and asked straight to his face. Although the answers given to me, made me feel weird, made me feel uncomfortable or even unbelievable. I didn't know what I should do to accept or not to. All I know, this man is my dear hb. A man I loved.
Andrea told me to give him more time. I'm trying too. At least now, he's more willing to spend more time with me. It's a good start huh?? I just hope, it will continue and go back to the old days. I really missed the old days when we have more time for each other.
After all the unhappy events, he did some plans to celebrate my birthday advance, just the 2 of us. A Noel delivery for a bouquet of tulips and roses. My favourite flowers. Very contented, he said "I got it right this round huh?" I gave him a smile.
Lunch was at Hey Hey for steamboat. I'm very very much impressed and really loved it. Very nice soup base! Ended with the day with a movies.
My dear, all I want, is to spend time with you. I need a lot of your care and concerns, not forgetting the hugs and kisses you used to give me. I wanna to walk this path with you till we are old...
You wrote 10 I love you in the card. My love is double than yours...
I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you.
Precious you
2:28 PM |
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
COACH Bags Arrived
2 big boxes arrived today. 2 tote bags and 1 mini skinny.
I got mine, so did Mummy, and my colleague.
3 happy women.
P/S: The most gan cheong was my colleague. She SMSed saying she wanna come over mum's place to collect. But was stopped by her hubby hahaha...
I got mine, so did Mummy, and my colleague.
3 happy women.
P/S: The most gan cheong was my colleague. She SMSed saying she wanna come over mum's place to collect. But was stopped by her hubby hahaha...
Precious you
10:00 PM |
Friday, February 13, 2009
Signature Leah Tote
I first saw this Signature Leah Tote on my sis's desk. Loved it! Spacious and not heavy.
Sis mentioned KM's friend brought back from USA. I went to check out and found it's priced at US298. My heart loved it at the very first sight. But then..., I already got a big coach bag which I already seldom use. Dun ask me why, but I prefer to carry small bag now. Big bag only come in use during weekends when I need to bring the gals' bottles out. Sometimes, they carry their own water bottles, I will carry my small bag.
Sis mentioned KM's friend brought back from USA. I went to check out and found it's priced at US298. My heart loved it at the very first sight. But then..., I already got a big coach bag which I already seldom use. Dun ask me why, but I prefer to carry small bag now. Big bag only come in use during weekends when I need to bring the gals' bottles out. Sometimes, they carry their own water bottles, I will carry my small bag.
After much thinking for almost 2 weeks, and the image of this bag just couldn't erased off from my mind haha.. I decided to get it. I was then thinking who to tompang to buy this bag. PY just came back from USA. And the next 2 colleagues who will be going in Mar, err... not very closed with them, paiseh to ask them to lag a big bag back leh... and just when I decided to order online myself, I saw this spree where USA Coach is having 25% off!! Luck is with me, I decided to tag along with this lady since she had done a few sprees before and got good comments. And now, the bag is on its way...
I went Coach boutique 3 days ago and saw this Leah Tote, but SG doesn't sell the black colour. Gosh, I almost fainted when I saw the retail price in the boutique!!
Precious you
2:08 PM |
Monday, December 22, 2008
My Xmas Present
I got a colleague to buy this for me during his LA trip. This is my 2nd choice, my 1st choice (another design) was out of stock. Actually I got another colleague to buy for me in Nov, but Washington outlet was out of stock for all skinny.
Anyway, another colleague came over to me and asked why I didn't get him to buy for me when he went in Nov. I told him I forgot about it, until he departed SG. He told me he knew of places where he could get at much cheaper price!! I must remembered to tompang him next time.
In fact, I've very nice colleagues to help me buy COACH items from USA many times a year. All my COACH items were brought back by them, except the sling bag and my wallet which were bought at local boutique.
My Xmas Present from my Dear HB this year. Just 3 days in time for Xmas haha!
Anyway, another colleague came over to me and asked why I didn't get him to buy for me when he went in Nov. I told him I forgot about it, until he departed SG. He told me he knew of places where he could get at much cheaper price!! I must remembered to tompang him next time.
In fact, I've very nice colleagues to help me buy COACH items from USA many times a year. All my COACH items were brought back by them, except the sling bag and my wallet which were bought at local boutique.
My Xmas Present from my Dear HB this year. Just 3 days in time for Xmas haha!
Precious you
10:13 PM |
Thursday, November 27, 2008
~dilemma~??
On our way home yesterday, Dear was telling me about his career planning discussion with his big boss. And I was pretty surprised and excited with it. I thought it was a pretty good exposure... oh well, until I heard that the organisation was located overseas in Europe. Yes, an overseas attachment. I paused for a moment, but I gave a thumb up for it after going thr the thoughts in my mind.
I guessed Dear WK was caught in surprise for my thumb up decision. He told me he had actually turned it down the day before due to family commitment plus thinking it was a joke. But the big boss brought up the topic again yesterday and asked him to think again before replying him. He then realised, it was not a joke.
I'm excited, Dear too. It means a good career advancement for him.
The next qns from my Dear was, he asked me to take no pay leave to go with him.
As for the gals, he's thinking it wasn't a wise decision to stop their schooling. He would like them to stay here to continue with their school.
I'm in dilemma position.
Should I go with him? But, I'm not ready to leave the gals behind with Mummy. And I'm not ready to stop working to stop my income now when the economy is so bad. What if, after I return, my job is no longer there "waiting for my return"? And worse, w/o the gals around with me, going there, I'm basically doing nothing there!
If the gals are younger, I won't even have second tots, I will just take no pay leave to have the whole family going together.
But I don't want these to tie my Dear WK from going. It's good for his career. I told him, "Sacrifice a short period, in exchange for our future..."
I guessed Dear WK was caught in surprise for my thumb up decision. He told me he had actually turned it down the day before due to family commitment plus thinking it was a joke. But the big boss brought up the topic again yesterday and asked him to think again before replying him. He then realised, it was not a joke.
I'm excited, Dear too. It means a good career advancement for him.
The next qns from my Dear was, he asked me to take no pay leave to go with him.
As for the gals, he's thinking it wasn't a wise decision to stop their schooling. He would like them to stay here to continue with their school.
I'm in dilemma position.
Should I go with him? But, I'm not ready to leave the gals behind with Mummy. And I'm not ready to stop working to stop my income now when the economy is so bad. What if, after I return, my job is no longer there "waiting for my return"? And worse, w/o the gals around with me, going there, I'm basically doing nothing there!
If the gals are younger, I won't even have second tots, I will just take no pay leave to have the whole family going together.
But I don't want these to tie my Dear WK from going. It's good for his career. I told him, "Sacrifice a short period, in exchange for our future..."
Precious you
9:12 AM |
女孩应该原谅男孩的10个地方
I received this email from someone I don't know. But after reading, I find this article quite meaningful.
女孩应该原谅男孩的10个地方
1 如果你喜欢他就告诉他，即使他拒绝了，也不会丢面子，因为在他心里，会因为你的真情而非常非常感激你。
2 如果他喜欢你，要明确告诉他你对他的感情，喜欢就是喜欢，不喜欢就是不喜欢，千万不要怕伤害他而忧郁不决，不要让他等到最后才受到抛弃，因为男孩子的心一旦碎了就很难很难再好起来。
3 男孩子也有自己的脾气，只是因为爱你而压抑着，不要总是任性，有时他们的决定也很有道理.
4 男孩子莫名的向你发脾气，那时因为爱你，把你当成最亲，最贴心，最有安全感的人，千万不要冲他发脾气反击，静静的等着，等他消气后满怀后悔来抱你。
5 他为你准备的东西，即使再难看，再廉价，也要去珍惜，因为那里面融汇着他整晚的思绪。
6 相信他给你多么多么美好的生活，要给他鼓励，因为鼓励会让他创造奇迹。
7 不要总是打探他去哪，告诉他注意安全，你会等着他就可以。
8 不要总说~我爱你~，他会半真半笑着说你烦，但不要不说，因为有时候，他们比女孩子更需要这句。
9 他为你掉眼泪了，那么他是真的非常爱你，珍惜他的每一滴泪，不要道歉，不要安慰，握着他的手，默默的为他擦去泪滴。
10 要信任他，他爱你，就什么都不会骗你，即使真的有欺骗，也是为让你们的爱情能够永远不离不弃。
女孩应该原谅男孩的10个地方
1 如果你喜欢他就告诉他，即使他拒绝了，也不会丢面子，因为在他心里，会因为你的真情而非常非常感激你。
2 如果他喜欢你，要明确告诉他你对他的感情，喜欢就是喜欢，不喜欢就是不喜欢，千万不要怕伤害他而忧郁不决，不要让他等到最后才受到抛弃，因为男孩子的心一旦碎了就很难很难再好起来。
3 男孩子也有自己的脾气，只是因为爱你而压抑着，不要总是任性，有时他们的决定也很有道理.
4 男孩子莫名的向你发脾气，那时因为爱你，把你当成最亲，最贴心，最有安全感的人，千万不要冲他发脾气反击，静静的等着，等他消气后满怀后悔来抱你。
5 他为你准备的东西，即使再难看，再廉价，也要去珍惜，因为那里面融汇着他整晚的思绪。
6 相信他给你多么多么美好的生活，要给他鼓励，因为鼓励会让他创造奇迹。
7 不要总是打探他去哪，告诉他注意安全，你会等着他就可以。
8 不要总说~我爱你~，他会半真半笑着说你烦，但不要不说，因为有时候，他们比女孩子更需要这句。
9 他为你掉眼泪了，那么他是真的非常爱你，珍惜他的每一滴泪，不要道歉，不要安慰，握着他的手，默默的为他擦去泪滴。
10 要信任他，他爱你，就什么都不会骗你，即使真的有欺骗，也是为让你们的爱情能够永远不离不弃。
Precious you
9:00 AM |