
Hi Everyone,
I’ve been inspired by my younger sister, Debbie to start a blog about our family life. I love reading hers and even though we are thousands of miles apart, I feel close to her and feel like I know her and her little family better. Today, I decided that I had a good story to tell, maybe not good, but at least entertaining. When David can help me, I will get this onto our official DeBry Family Blog Site.
To get the feel of my morning, you need to realize that David is out of town—on a business or should I say “pleasure” trip. He is in Holland and was super excited to go—he has even taught himself Dutch and is pretty good (at least in my opinion) J. He really misses me though and wishes that I were there, too.
I guess it really started last night. We all miss David, so for FHE we decided to go to cheer ourselves up and go Wal-Mart and look at the toys and dream about what we want for Christmas. It was super fun and the kids were on their “Best Behavior”. I always give them the lecture before we go anywhere in public. This time, the lecture worked, or something did. They only got one “strike”—that was when Michael decided to try and clean Peter’s ears out while they were checking out the Smart Cycle. We went down every toy aisle and had fun. I even let the kids each pick out their own box of cold cereal, anything they wanted! I figured that would cover dinner and the treat for FHE, plus, they’d be more eager to get out of bed in the morning with the prospects of a nice sticky breakfast.
I got the kids to bed at 6:42 PM. Things were looking pretty good. I was reading, relaxing and just “de-fragging” from the days events. Eliza came in by me to do some homework and realized that she left a book at school that she needed, so we decided I would take her to school early and she could do the assignment before school started, I was handling everything well and still remained in control. (The later it gets, the more volatile I become). I was ready for an early bedtime and decided to check the calendar for tomorrow, I didn’t think that I had anything to do. Well, I did. Grace was in charge of bringing a snack for the class and I had signed up to bring a breakfast casserole for the Teacher’s Appreciation Breakfast in the morning. That was OK, I would just stay up a little later, make the casserole and then cook it in the morning. Grace would have to take some stale crackers, a can of pineapple, and some pretzels for snack. She is a character and regularly “chews me out” because I never send a “good treat”. I think she wants something with more sugar, fancy packaging and tongue tattoos! Oh well, she will be OK, because when you bring the snack you also get to be the line leader and that trumps any “bad treats”.
I went to bed still fairly early and got up at 5 am with Katherine. She is a great baby and sleeps really well. Then I woke Eliza up at 6:30 am, so that I could get her to school. I dropped her off at 7:00 (the school is 2 minutes from the house. Katherine was asleep and I took Peter with me—the other kids were here still getting ready). When I got back to get the other kids on the bus, I noticed that Grace’s eyes looked red, or should I say “pink”. I tried to wash them out and I knew that she had pick eye—it was pretty obvious, but I just sent her, because she wanted to be the leader so bad! And I just couldn’t deal with her right then. Parker, Michael, Grace all got on the bus. I got the casserole cooked, fed Katherine, got dressed and was just headed out the door to the school at 8:30 when Grace’s teacher called saying she had pink-eye—that her eyes were “red and caked”. Surprise, Surprise! At least, I could pick her up when I dropped off the casserole.
I was running late, so I put Katherine and Peter in the car and took off. Of course, when we get there, I realize that Peter has no shoes. He’s still in his PJs—John Deere shorts (which he LOVES) and no shirt, so I threw on a much too small fleece jacket and searched for some shoes in the car. Usually, there are several options—this time the options were Eliza’s flip-flops. Grace’s black boots, or some red wooden shoes from Holland. (The kids got out the wooden shoes and have been wearing them around the house, moping for their Dad!) Anyway, the wooden shoes were the only things Peter would put on. Now, I could have just dropped the casserole off at the front door and left them in the car—or handed it to someone going in. I would have done that under normal circumstances, but I had to go and get Grace—that meant checking in, going to the office and seeing many people who know that I have 2 little kids at home—and where were they!? So we preceded the trek to the office.
OK, here is where it gets crazy, Peter refused to walk—even in those cute wooden shoes. How do I carry a hot breakfast casserole with an infant and a temper tantrum 2-year old? Just then, my neighbor says HI—he is bringing his daughter to school and saves the day (Thanks, Joey!) He comes to the rescue by carrying the casserole in. So now I have Peter and Katherine. Now Peter is a sight. He was on bright red wooden shoes—and the sound of them clomping only draws more attention to us. (Yes, he decided now that he can walk). So we go in and of course there are teachers, staff, Moms dropping off food and PTA people everywhere. I am pretty famous at Miller Perry, because I am Parker’s Mom, Michael’s Mom and Grace’s Mom. And I show up on occasion with two sweet little babies that the kids love to touch. I am headed to the office with stares, comments and questions. (By the way, Peter has Fruity Pebbles stuck to his bum. He opened his cereal on the way home last night and evidently some of it ended up in his car seat. I think most of it had fallen off by the time we got to the office, but I’m sure that we left a nice “Hansel and Gretel trail”.) I get to the office and Grace breaks into tears when she sees me. She was so sad. I then felt bad for even sending her in the first place. The secretaries helped me comfort her and we assured her that her teacher would let her be the leader on another day. (At least she didn’t have to suffer the embarrassment of passing out the undesirable snack to the class.) Of course now it was her turn to refuse to walk and I carried her and Katherine out to the car, with little Pieterjte trailing close behind. We are home and safe. I made it all up to Grace by letting her watch a movie. I think I’ll go join her.
I guess now I just need to call the doctor and TELL him that I need a prescription for pink eye. If they say I need to come in, I think I will break down crying and start with, “My husband is out of town, I am home alone with 6 kids and one has pink eye. …..” (It’s going to be bad enough just going to pick up the prescription—there is NO WAY we are going to the doctor!)
PS. I would have attached a picture of Peter in his ensemble and Grace’s pink eyes, but unfortunately, David has the camera in Holland taking pictures of windmills at sunset, so I will attach that picture. Hope that you are all doing well.
Love, Marilyn