Today was a relatively normal day for us.
We had one sick kid to take care of, a Spring Program for the other.
Tim worked, and it was my day "off" (whatever that means for a mom).

BUT, if you were to ask us what today REALLY meant,
we'd say that 10 years ago, TODAY,
was the beginning of the future of the TJMathiesens.
Today, 10 years ago...
Ben (one half of our best "couple friends") asked me to tag along
to pick up his fiance, Jen, from the airport...
This was back in the day when you could go
all the way to the gate to meet someone.
Remember when we could go beyond
the less-than-exciting baggage claim to meet someone?Not only did we meet Jen, but I met Jimmy Jam
and his gorgeous wife, Lisa.
THEY knew I was going to get engaged before I did.
Ben & Jen said that we needed to meet Ben's dad for lunch.
We ended up at
*tada!!* the place where Tim and I had
our first date, Chili's...and Ben just happened
to have a card from Tim.
It was this one...

It was a wonderful card with his thoughts on our first date.
It was about our first date, that didn't become our first date
until a few months later when we realized that it had,
in fact,
been our FIRST DATE.
When we were finished eating
(and I was finished asking why his father hadn't come to meet us...)
we left. BUT Ben went the wrong direction on Snelling
and started heading to Northwestern College...
I kept asking WHAT we were doing,
and Ben said that his dad was doing a wedding there...
at noon on a Sunday.
Ummmmm....
In my sheer confusion, I do remember asking Jen,
"What's REALLY going on?" to which she kept saying,
"Nothing!" without ever turning around in the front seat to tell me.
When we parked Ben said we needed to go into the building
where we had chapel (as NWC students) everyday.
There we
*tada!!* ran into Tim's friend from work, Peter.
Who happened to have another card for me?!?!?
Fancy that. I was SO dense. Seriously.
It was this one...

This card talked about how after that first date,
our relationship grew from...
looking for each other at chapel...
to sitting by each other at chapel...
to holding hands at chapel...
to skipping chapel to hang out at "our bench."
We were falling in love at chapel (or not at chapel).
At the end of card it said to go down to the bench
by myself.
This bench was where we made that decision that we were dating.
Our bench.If you are any smarter than I was that day,
you have already figured out that Tim was there.
Ring in hand.
With a question on his mind.
I believe my first response was,
"WHERE DID YOU GET THE MONEY???"
To which he said,
"I'll tell you later. Would you answer me please?"
To which I said,
"YESSSS!!!!"
This is us 10 years later...

On a "normal" day...

celebrating a not-so-normal day,
10 years ago.
Still in love.