Tuesday, March 7, 2023

I Miss...

 

Being the fun young dad I was  

When any plan – an outing, a movie, a special treat – made our kids so excited

Being welcomed home from work by kids running to the door to greet me

Pillow fights

“Cover-up,” when I’d cover one of our sick kids in blankets and stuffed animals when we were home sick

Stuffed animals

Bedtime stories

“Book Night,” when I’d read a stack of books and our kids always wanted just one more read to them

Going to the library

Knowing that each night, all of us were home together

Sleep-overs in our kids’ bedrooms

Not having to compete with homework, schedules, outside-the-house plans

Singing “Feed the Birds” to our kids at bedtime

Blogging and in other ways recording our young family’s happenings

Going through so many new stages for each kid, four times in a row

Planning our kids’ Halloween costumes

Trick-or-treating as a family

Surprising my family by coming home for lunch

Playing basketball on Joshua’s hoop

Building Legos with my kids, especially Isaac

German lessons with Amelia

Caroline’s “love-sick” phase

Watching cartoons at my office

Neighborhood walks and bike rides

Building a snowman

Working with Play-Doh

Easily agreeing on a family movie, like “The Secret Garden”

Painting on six canvases on our back deck

Drawing with my kids

Introducing my kids to shows and songs from my childhood

Rafi’s “Snows are Falling on Douglas Mountain”

Bath-time and bubble baths

Being my kids’ hero, and – selfishly – a center of their little world

Seeing mom bask in so many creative projects for our little kids