Friday, 1 November 2013

Who's The King Of The World?

In this world today, men and women are of equal status. We can even say women have done some great things that won't lose to what men has done in this world. This is a gender-equality society!if that makes sense. But why do i feel the boys around me feel that the girls are inferior to them? Well i only hang out with teenager boys and not of all age group so i can't say for sure so this post is actually directed to them. It actually all started in my secondary school when i overheard one of my friend saying 'the women should belong to the kitchen and leave the work to men.' Well i will have that person know that i know many great MAN chef that works in the kitchen AKA. food industry and many husbands that enjoy their role in the family as the chef as well. 
In poly, another one of my friend would gather all the boys in class and discuss the various problems and dramas happening in my class and try to solve them, conveniently leaving the girls out and whenever something crop out and i tried to help that one time, he said 'leave it to the guys' Well ladies, to me this two are a fine example of sexist boys.I hope they do grow out of it. Hopefully...

~dreaming of a better day tomorrow~   

Thursday, 31 October 2013

FUTURE DREAMS

"what do you want to be in the future?" to me, this seems to be the most frequently asked question asked by adults, in primary school, i could give some crap about being a teacher, a astronaut, but in reality, i have no idea at all. but its all right then, cause we have time. time to think what we want to be when we grow up. we thought that we could be what we want to be, that the future is full of possiblities. And i continue to think that.until one day when a lecturer in polytecnic asked this question to the whole school. i realise sometime during my daydreaming, im being left behind. i had no dream, no idea of what i want to be. what i could be. watching the others stand up, one by one, talking about their dream, what they are aiming to achieve, compared to them, im so pathetic. hearing my mother telling me to not think about going uni, that she's unable to send me there. i realise my time is getting shorter and shorter. im so scared of my blurry future. in this world, thousands of people want to live but can't. have dreams and hopes so big but unable to fulfill, while here i am, stepping on it all. i should probably give my life to them, let them make the full use of it. pathetic little me.