thoughtshowerings

Today's post is a non-emotive post that sounds like one. Yesterday as I was about to go to bed, a random thought struck me in my head. I suddenly think about how my parents, being young once, had their own set of dreams and goals that they wanted to pursue. I am 21 for quite some time now. I have my own set of directions to go, where I want to move. I have my own dreams, interests to follow and although I do not have a concrete plan for my future, at least I know what I want now, currently. So I try to navigate myself towards these goals that I have set out for myself. I am very sure that my parents similarly had their own goals that they were moving towards to when they were 21. The kind of lifestyle they wanted to lead, what they wanted to do for a living and so on. So, (my own postulation) they were more or less on their individual paths until they met each other and decided to settle down. Suddenly, all their own visions and dreams sort of melted away to give in to th...

Relationships The older I get, the more I realise that relationships play a huge huge role in our lives. Romantically wise, platonic or family wise, we all need a fair share of all three I suppose. Suddenly people left right center behind and sideways break up, patch up, found someone to attach themselves to. Some friendship sours, some drifts, new ones forged and others strengthen. Many others remained in an awkward limbo. Priorities (I seriously can never learn how to spell this word) seems to change with age. At teenage years, the thing you probably cared most in the world was probably whether you had friends that you could relate closely to. A little further down the road, you probably have a group of people who you know will definitely be there for you no matter what happens. Then you probably might be on the look out for potential mates. And so on and so forth. Been hearing some stuffs in the recent weeks. Have to say I was pretty disappointed. But yet at th...