Last night, we had our Relief Society birthday party celebration. First, I must say that I'm SO glad that I went. I haven't gone to a ton of the activities they've had, so I finally got off my butt and went to this one. It was such a great meeting, and so many incredible messages were shared. The overall theme was the crossroads we face along the journey of life.
Each of the tables were decorated with different events or times we come to that impact the rest of our lives. Young Women, Sweet 16/dating, Graduation, Missionary Work, Going to the Temple/Marriage, Family Life/Having Children, Home Improvement & Empty Nesters! They were all so cute. (I was asked to set up a table and did the Sweet 16 centerpiece). An older couple in the ward spoke at the beginning of the meeting and it was so inspiring. She mentioned all the small and simple crossroads that we come to; the smaller decisions that we make every single day that shape the people we become. Do we read the scriptures every day? Do we have Family night? How are we treating the people around us? So many little things that can either help or hinder our own situations in life. This really made me contemplate the way that I live and how I can be a better person.
After they spoke, dinner was served and a few people were asked to speak on different crossroads faced in life. I was one of the lucky 3, so I shared a little about mine and Collin's experience and how we came to a crossroads while dating. We made the decision to break up when it would have been so easy to just get married and force everything to work and avoid the promptings we received. I am so grateful for everything that we went through and that everything happened the way that it did. It's still crazy to think of it all, but what an incredible way to grow together and to really appreciate one another now.
Two of the people who shared experiences read "A road not taken" by Robert Frost.
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth.
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
hough as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same.
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
I hope that I always chose the right road, no matter how difficult it may seem, and no matter how many others have taken it.