This is the first Christmas since Grandma Evenhouse passed away, and I'm finding myself thinking about how much she loved Christmas, and how much she passed that love along to us.
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| Here's a gem from Christmas, 1992. |
When we lived in the Chicago area, we would visit Grandma and Grandpa often. Usually about a month before Christmas, when we would go to their apartment for Sunday coffee time for Pizza Night, Grandma would bring us into her bedroom one by one, and show us what she got for everyone else. She loved giving present so much that she couldn't wait, she had to show someone!
Even after we moved to Pella, we still went back to Chicago almost every Christmas...until we persuaded Grandma and Grandpa to move to Pella themselves!
We could usually persuade Dad to let us open one present each about a week before Christmas (like mother, like son...). Then on Christmas Even we trouped over to Grandma's...sometimes we planned to eat first, but usually the first thing we did after walking in the door was open presents.
Grandma didn't do a lot of cooking or baking, but one thing she made every Christmas was kolaches (or kolachkies, if you want to spell it phonetically). These are bavarian pastries that are little squares of pastry with a filling in the middle (we always had apricot), then the edges folded up and pinched together, baked, and covered with powdered sugar.
Grandma would always hide the tray of kolaches on top of the fridge so that we didn't eat them all right away and ruin our meal. We always managed to find them, though!
Grandma used to buy herself Estee Lauder perfume every year, and then would get the "bonus" giant make-up kit and give it to us for Christmas. It usually had 3-5 eye shadow combinations, some blush, lip stick, eye and lip liners, and more! So I wore Estee Lauder make-up for years...we did not have much money growing up, so it was a blessing to have one nice thing!
Our family tradition was to open presents one at a time, from youngest to oldest. Jim always got the first present, then on up. I am usually Santa. Jim, Carrie, Colleen, Lynn, Mom, Dad, Grandma, Grandpa. We've carried on that tradition, although now there are a lot more little kids!
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| judging by the wrapping paper, I think this is actually a birthday gift. |
My sister Carrie and I got married in the same year. Doug had already been part of the family for a while (right between Lynn and Mom in the present order), and they already had 5 kids! Our husbands really threw off the handing out of presents that year: Tim (Carrie's husband) is younger than my kid brother Jim (she's a cradle robber...or is she a cougar?), and Scott (my husband) is older than Doug (I guess that makes me a gold digger)!
Last year on the day we celebrated Christmas, Grandma was not able to come to our house, so we all walked over to the Comfort House to see her after our meal and after we opened presents. We brought treats even. She loved it!
She still managed to critique my kolaches: "the pastry is a little too thick, and not quite enough filling!"
She still managed to eat 4 or 5.
On Christmas Day, Mom, Dad, Scott and I were on vacation in South Carolina, so Lynn and some of her kids went to visit Grandma.
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| Grandma with Olivia, Garion, and Abby |
Grandma Evenhouse passed away early in January of 2012. We miss her, especially this Christmas.
Grandma, this year I think I nailed the kolaches. Not too thick, not too thin, plenty of filling. I'm having one for you! I love you!