A few random thoughts

So back in December I participated in my first 5k and I only made it 2 miles before I had to stop because I literally thought I was going to die. A good friend of mine told me about the Blue Bell 5k that was to be held in May. What made me sign on for this event? ALL YOU CAN EAT BLUE BELL ICE CREAM AFTER THE RUN!!!!! If you're not from Texas, you just don't understand the full appeal of this...BLUE BELL is the BEST ice cream in the world!!! I think I'll miss that the most when we leave Texas.

Before the race and full of energy!

Anyway, I signed up a month in advance and began training. I struggled with a mile for a while. A few days before the race, I was only able to run 2 miles. I told myself I was NOT going to get any ice cream unless I ran the full 3.1 miles. It was time for the race to start and it was POURING!!! Plus I realized, there were a few hills and I had only been training indoors on a track with air conditioning (how dumb was that training plan?!?!?) I reached my first mile with my best time and when I got to two miles I was feeling pretty good. I was soaked to the bone, my shoes weighed 10 lbs each and it felt like little pebbles were pelting into my legs. I looked up and saw the last BIG hill I had to run. There was a river coming down the hill as I ran but I was DETERMINED!!! I crossed the finish line running as hard as I could! I HAD DONE IT!!! I RAN THE WHOLE 3.1!!! I achieved my goal and thus I could reap the reward. I treated myself to 3 blue bell cookie dough ice cream bars! :)

After the race with my friend Kate and her 3 yr old daughter who ran the Kids One Miler that morning! :) I'm soaked from head to toe and exhausted.

I think I want to start participating in at least one 5k a month. Since the blue bell run, I haven't been running at all and I feel awful. I loved that running almost every day made me feel great. I need to stay in shape and it really helped me to eat better, sleep better and feel amazing.

Thinking of maybe getting a Master's in Student Affairs. I LOVE event planning and I really miss being able to do it. I think that's what I liked most about working with the March of Dimes. I don't really want to get back into education. Something I'm seriously considering now! :)

I hate job searching. I feel like my resume doesn't show what I can ACTUALLY do. I have so much more knowledge than what a few lines on a resume can show. I felt like I wasn't even considered for a ton of jobs when we moved here simply because it's hard to express all of your experience in detail on a resume. Plus I hate interviewing. I've been conducting several interviews for work lately (trying to find my replacement teacher) and I'm dreading my future interviews. The job hunt begins this weekend so please be thinking of me!

Looking forward to the weekend. We are going to a Reckless Kelly concert in Gruene, TX at the oldest dance hall in Texas. Then we're going to spend Saturday in Gruene or San Marcos as a mini vacation. Looking forward to a relaxing weekend. Plus Monday we get to spend the day with friends out at the lake in town! :)

Catch up?

Wow, it has been FOREVER since I've updated. I remember why I stopped writing in a blog 5 years ago....I never kept up with it.

Anyway, instead of catching up all the way from what was the last post, hmmm, Thanksgiving? I'll just tell what's happened in the last week.

Sam graduated with his Master of Arts Degree last Friday! :) I'm so proud of him. He was a bit disappointed in his program but stuck with it so that he could be a proud A&M alumnus. We will be moving back to Indy in about a month so that Sam can start Law School in the fall at IU (downtown). It's going to be a tough few years, but I'll support him 100%.

Sam's family was here for graduation, his mom, grandma and brother Jon. Sam was like a little kid again and only wanted to hang out with his brother (they are only about a year apart). His mom kept joking, Why'd we even come? He only wants to be with Jon. LOL I had a good visit with his mom and grandma on Thursday since it was girls morning/afternoon. I don't think I've ever actually spent that much alone time with them.

As I said earlier, we're moving back to Indy in about 5 weeks so we've already started packing. We've barely made a dent yet we have 7 tubs of stuff packed and lots of our winter clothes (that we barely wore down in here in Texas) vacuum-packed. We're trying to do a little each week so it isn't so overwhelming the week of...I HATE packing. But I'm trying to be a lot more organized this time. We have a lot planned for our last few weeks here. Hopefully I can be better about updating even though we'll be busy.

I should get going now, it's almost time for me to leave for work. It's PIRATE week in my class and I'm totally pumped. I even made signs (burned the edges of the paper) for each of our play centers. So instead of block center, home center, library, or sand table we now have "Treasure Island", "Pirate's Cove", "Black Beard's Ship" and "Parrot Beach". I'm so excited. We're making bandanas, spyglasses, eye patches, parrots, etc. We're even going on a treasure hunt Thursday to find Black Beard's long lost treasure (lots of treasures buried in our outside sandbox). I feel like a kid again because I'm so excited for this week. Let's just hope the kids are well behaved! :) It's my last week with all of my current students (except the few who have already moved) and I want it to be so much fun! I'm going to miss all of them, they've all become so special to me...I even call them "My Kids" .

Have a great week everyone.

Thanksgiving

We had a nice Thanksgiving this year. Wednesday I only had to work until 1pm. Unfortunately, at about 10:30 I started feeling awful. I had a friend from work take me to the clinic and sure enough, I had strep throat (I totally knew it!). I felt HORRIBLE Wednesday night.

Thursday I was feeling better but my throat hurt pretty badly. That left Sam to make dinner mostly by himself. He did a wonderful job. We had a nice dinner and really enjoyed each others company! :) We made some turkey breasts (YUM-O) and some other fixins. Sam found a recipe for cornbread stuffing...it was delicious! (Notice Montoya eye-ing our yummy meal)

I stayed in all day Friday while Sam went to his office to write a final paper! It was nice to relax all day! When he got home, we started putting up the Christmas decorations. I loved it!!!! I'm so ready for Christmas.

Montoya has already knocked off 3 decorations (while we were sleeping) GRRR!

Here's one more fun picture. I was walking down the hallway and Montoya meowed. I looked over to find her on the dryer....I've never seen her do this. She's been there most of the evening!

Have a great week everyone!

Improvement

So Thursday and Friday were two of the best days I've ever had with my new class!!!

I was finally able to let some things go so that I could prevent some battles with my little four year old. At one point on Thursday, he started throwing toys and telling me he hated me. I said "That's okay, but I love you!" He stopped and looked at me really weird. Then he started cleaning up his mess! :) YAY!

Friday, I kept laughing with this same child you brought me to tears everyday. We actually had fun together. Now, don't get me wrong, he still had a few of his moments, but I was finally able to keep it under control and he never got that upset. I stayed happy and positive (a little frustrated, but positive). I hope this continues.

I spent 3 hours yesterday rearranging my classroom. I think this will also help with the improving atmosphere of the class! :)

Today at church, I actually watched the kids everywhere and enjoyed it (instead of wishing they would just be quite). It was fun to watch the kids as they were driving their parents crazy and I could just sit back and chuckle! :)

Looking forward to this next week. I think this year, we are going to have Thanksgiving by ourselves. At first, I was very sad about this, but now I'm really looking forward to a nice relaxing day with my husband! Last year, we had about 12 people over for dinner and while it was fun, I was busy all day. Hope everyone has a great week and an even better Thanksgiving!

My first attempt at blogging

So I've been wanting to start a blog for a long time but never knew when the best time to start was. I guess there is no right time. Tonight after a very special moment which will be explained later, I decided it was time I finally start a blog. One, as a way to let family and friends know what is going on, but also to have a way to get things off my chest...I hold a lot of things in until it just breaks me down.

Since the new semester has started, I've struggled a little with my new students (for those of you who aren't sure, I'm a preschool teacher...yes, that means I teach 16 four-year-olds everyday). Some of you may be thinking, how does she do it? Well, I've actually really loved my job for awhile, especially once I got my own classroom. Even though this semester has been challenging, I've felt like I could deal with it. However, the last few weeks I've started hating work and I've dreaded going in everyday. The sad part is, this started my first day back from a three day NAEYC conference in Dallas. This conference is for early childhood educators (or anyone working with young children) and it really motivated me to be a better teacher. I came home excited to see my students and implement new ideas. Thirty minutes into my first day back, I wanted to give up.

I have a student who gets VERY ANGRY very quickly and without much warning. He'll be happy one moment and then the next he's kicking, screaming, hitting, pinching, you name it, he's probably doing it. Things haven't always been this bad. In fact, the physical things didn't start until last Monday. I thought I could handle it on my own, but obviously I can't. How sad is it, that a four-year-old can start to make you feel bad about yourself. I know it's partially my fault for letting things get to me, but when you have a child yelling at you several times a day (let me re-phrase that, screaming at you) "I hate you, you meanie. I don't like you. I'm not listening to you. I don't care. You're a meanie. I hate you." well it can kinda breaks you down even if you try not to let it. I try so hard to show this child love and I don't understand what is going on with him. I want to help him. I want him to enjoy school. I want him to be happy.

Instead, I find myself getting physically hurt by him daily, getting frustrated to the point that I lose patience with the other children (which is not at all fair to them), and then coming home with no energy and feeling a bit depressed because I can't fix the situation. Did I mention that this child is only 4 and he's as tall as my shoulder and weighs almost as much as I do? Can you see why I might struggle a little? I do get help from the assistant director and a few other staff members. When he gets too physical for me, they come to help and remove him from the room temporarily. This helps only while he is gone. Then he returns and it starts over 30 minutes later. The parents aren't as helpful as I'd like and sometimes I'm not sure whether or not they believe me.

Anyway, for the last week and a half, I've come home almost every night and gone straight to bed. I don't go right to sleep but I lay in bed in my own little world of television. I've been having horrible dreams at night because I can't get this situation out of my head. As many of you know, I do go to church and religion is a big part of my life. Well, for a while now, I've been slacking off big time in reading the scriptures and especially with saying daily prayers.

I am very stubborn sometimes and I guess you could say I was wanting to work out this issue all by myself or at least with the help of other staff members or the parents. Did I ever turn to our Father in Heaven for help? NO! I was too stubborn. Since the first few days of this issue, I've felt prompted to pray but I kept telling myself, "I'm tired, I'll do it tomorrow".

The parents in my room have commented each day that I look exhausted. Today I had 2 parents tell me that their child no longer wants to come to school because they don't like what happens in class. Then 3 other parents have told me their child is becoming defiant and wants to know if it is rubbing off from another child (they've all seen this one child in action at some point or other). It all hit me today like a bag of bricks. My class is being effected too much by this situation and while I can't completely prevent it, am I really doing anything to keep the environment of the classroom positive after these episodes with the child?

I came home and cried for 20 minutes in the bathroom because I know my husband can't stand to see me cry. He hates that I carry so much of my work life with me all the time (these children are a part of me). I decided not to go to our youth group activity tonight (for which I'm a leader) because I knew I finally needed to get down on my knees and ask for help. Well after dinner, Sam went to play a video game in his office and what did I do? I layed on the couch watching television for 2 hours....that's sure isn't going to help a lot. House doesn't offer much advice on child care.

Anyway, my husband finally came out a little while later and asked if I wanted a blessing. This is something that males in our church who hold the priesthood can offer to others. It was a blessing of comfort. Basically, my husband offered a prayer for me, however, it wasn't just his thoughts, it was Heavenly Father also letting me know what I needed to hear. At the end of the blessing, Sam said "Your Heavenly Father wants you to know that he will help you when you follow his commandments, when you pray and ask for help." My husband did not know this was something that I had not been praying about. I have never felt so humbled in my life. God was letting me know that all I have to do ask him and he will help. How could have been so stubborn? Why did I let myself go through this much torture when I've known all along what I needed to do? After the blessing, I let Sam know that I hadn't been very good lately because I hadn't been praying. He reminded me that sometimes, just taking two seconds to close my eyes and say a quick prayer can make all the difference. How grateful I am for my husband and his love for me and his love for our Heavenly Father. He helped me in a way tonight that I could never explain to him.

I just felt like I really needed to get all of this off my chest tonight. I've kept so much of it in. Some of you may not have known that much was wrong. Some of you may have noticed I was a little off recently. If you have noticed, now you might understand why. I'm sorry for the things I've neglected lately (especially to my husband for neglecting house work so much recently).

I think I really needed to go through this experience to get me back on track with how I want my daily life. I used to say my prayers every morning and night and read my scriptures daily. I don't know what happened, but I just stopped one day. Things have been difficult and while I wasn't sure why that was so for awhile, I think I understand better now.

Now that you have read way more than you probably wanted to know, I'll end this. My posts in the future should be a bit better or more interesting, but I really need to say this, to someone, anyone who wanted to read it cause I've felt overwhelmed by it and didn't know who to turn to. Thanks for reading and enjoy your week. Hopefully my days will be looking brighter.