“I have come to believe that by and large the human family all has the same secrets, which are both very telling and very important to tell. They are telling in the sense that they tell what is perhaps the central paradox of our condition - that what we hunger for perhaps more than anything else is to be known in our full humanness, and yet that is often just what we also fear more than anything else.” - Frederick Buechner
| # | Objective! | Category | Completed |
| 1 | New car for Danica | Financial | 6/1/17 |
| 2 | Fully Fund our Emergency Fund (6 months!) | Financial | 10/1/16 |
| 3 | Sell the cello | Financial | 5/1/17 |
| 4 | Start a college fund for Lenora | Financial | 12/1/2015 |
| 5 | Resume 401k contributions | Financial | 7/1/2015 |
| 6 | Make monthly contributions to Lenora's College fund | Financial | |
| 7 | Set up a will / Guardianship | Financial | |
| 8 | Have a yard sale | Financial | 5/1/17 |
| 9 | Get Life Insurance for Danica | Financial | 3/1/2016 |
| 10 | Get hot dogs at Lowes | Food | 6/6/2015 |
| 11 | Make bread | Food | ** |
| 12 | Go a month without eating out | Food | |
| 13 | Make a Gingerbread House | Food | |
| 14 | Get Lambruscos for Danica | Food | 3/31/2015 |
| 15 | Create a Tulsa Burger Matrix | Food | |
| 16 | Eat at Lasalles | Food | 2/1/17 |
| 17 | Make pickles | Food | 7/2/2015 |
| 18 | Buy a blender and make smoothies | Food | 5/1/2015 |
| 19 | Make homemade Italian Cream cake | Food | |
| 20 | make homemade red velvet cake | Food | 10/1/16 |
| 21 | Start Blackberries | Garden | 5/1/17 |
| 22 | Remove ugly bushes out front | Garden | |
| 23 | Plant boxwoods | Garden | |
| 24 | Put Topiary by the Garage | Garden | |
| 25 | Harvest our pears | Garden | |
| 26 | Plant a cactus | Garden | |
| 27 | Make a Terrarium | Garden | |
| 28 | Start a potted herb garden | Garden | 5/1/2015 |
| 29 | Plant a fall garden | Garden | 7/1/16 |
| 30 | Purchase and utilize a rain barrel | Garden | |
| 31 | Do whole 30/Paleo for a month | Health | |
| 32 | Make homemade cleaners | Health | |
| 33 | Run a 5k together | Health | |
| 34 | Get below pre-baby weight | Health | |
| 35 | Drink only water for a week | Health | |
| 36 | Go to the dentist | Health | 1/1/2016 |
| 37 | Get Danica new glasses | Health | 1/1/2016 |
| 38 | Transition to Cloth Diapers | Health | 5/1/2015 |
| 39 | Finish the 13th place sunroom | Home | 11/1/16 |
| 40 | Furnish the front room | Home | 9/1/2015 |
| 41 | Fix the fireplace | Home | 3/1/17 |
| 42 | get a new front door | Home | |
| 43 | Remove fuses/Install breaker box | Home | 9/1/2015 |
| 44 | Create gallery wall in hallway | Home | |
| 45 | Have guest bedroom door reversed | Home | 7/1/2015 |
| 46 | Print and frame wedding photos | Home | |
| 47 | Buy a riddling Rack | Home | |
| 48 | Buy a barrister bookcase | Home | |
| 49 | Install new front porch light | Home | |
| 50 | Buy a new mailbox | Home | |
| 51 | Fix light over the garage | Home | |
| 52 | Purchase a gun safe | Home | 4/1/2016 |
| 53 | Refinish piano | Home | |
| 54 | Rehang Flag pole | Home | 9/1/2015 |
| 55 | Hang curtains in master bedroom | Home | |
| 56 | Put a ceiling fan in the master bedroom | Home | 6/1/16 |
| 57 | Replace the hall light | Home | 6/1/16 |
| 58 | add a light to the den ceiling fan | Home | ** |
| 59 | Replace kitchen light | Home | 1/1/17 |
| 60 | Cover the floor furnace | Home | |
| 61 | Brick or tile the entryway | Home | |
| 62 | Get a steam mop | Home | 5/1/2015 |
| 63 | Get an extra long shower curtain | Home | 6/1/16 |
| 64 | Put film in bathroom window | Home | 4/1/2016 |
| 65 | Put film in den door | Home | 4/1/2016 |
| 66 | Go to the zoo as a family | Kiddo | 3/1/2016 |
| 67 | Throw Lenora a 1st Birthday party | Kiddo | 1/1/2016 |
| 68 | Make baby food | Kiddo | 7/7/2015 |
| 69 | Compile an Easter Basket for Lenora | Kiddo | 4/2/2015 |
| 70 | Take Lenora Trick-or-Treating | Kiddo | 10/1/16 |
| 71 | Finish Lenora's Baby Book | Kiddo | |
| 72 | Consider (start?) preschool/MDO | Kiddo | 6/29/2015 |
| 73 | Kill a Rio | Personal | |
| 74 | Learn to Fly Fish | Personal | |
| 75 | DiA | Personal | 6/30/17 |
| 76 | Remington Country | Personal | 6/1/16 |
| 77 | Do a skating marathon or half marathon (Danica) | Personal | |
| 78 | Get an Address Stamp made | Personal | 12/1/2015 |
| 79 | Create a capsule wardrobe | Personal | |
| 80 | Do the monthly clean-out challenge (465) | Personal | ** |
| 81 | Send out Baby Announcements | Personal | 12/1/2015 |
| 82 | Do a beautiful mess project | Personal | |
| 83 | Have a family portrait made | Personal | |
| 84 | Have Danica's Wedding dress Preserved | Personal | 3/1/17 |
| 85 | Join a church | Personal | 8/9/2015 |
| 86 | Adopt Boomer/Tidbit/Lincoln | Personal | |
| 87 | Find a favorite coffee shop in Tulsa | Personal | |
| 88 | Replace or resole Danica's favorite boots | Personal | 12/1/2016 |
| 89 | Get into Garden and Gun for something | Personal | |
| 90 | Mardi Gras with friends | Travel | |
| 91 | Go to the beach | Travel | 6/1/16 |
| 92 | Go elk Hunting | Travel | |
| 93 | Go on a girls trip | Travel | ** |
| 94 | Visit Robert and Charissa | Travel | |
| 95 | Take Lenora to her first Cubs game | Travel | |
| 96 | Take Lenora to Austin | Travel | 5/14/2015 |
| 97 | Take an anniversary Trip | Travel | |
| 98 | Go camping as a family | Travel | |
| 99 | Go to the Tetons with Marc and Mindy | Travel | |
| 100 | Take Lenora to Nashville | Travel | 11/1/2015 |
| 101 | Whitman Sibling NYC trip | Travel |