Baby Sam was born last week at 3 in the afternoon. Instead of waiting 4 days after my due date to deliver like I did with Morgan, I opted for an induction. My main motivation was to prevent Sam from growing as large as his sister, so that hopefully I would have a little easier recovery. Morgan exited with a vengeance. However, our scheduled induction on Wednesday (1-11-12, wouldn't that have been nice) got pushed back because both Erik and Morgan got sick right before. I was upset about that until I went online and spent a lot of money on card making supplies. I was still pregnant, but I felt better. We showed up at the hospital at 8:30 AM, they induced me, and I suffered through probably 2 real contractions in order to feel legitimate. Then I called for the epidural. I kind of hung out for a while until my body got the message, and all of a sudden I was fully dilated and ready to push. 5 contractions later we had a baby. The idea of an induction made me nervous - I mean, forcing your body to give birth when it's not naturally ready doesn't sound wise. But neither does giving birth to a 10 lb sumo wrestler. So I did it, and I'm totally converted. It was quick, pain is optional, I was delivered by my doctor, and I got to PLAN it. I love knowing what's coming.
Even though Sam was born a week before Morgan was, he still weighed 8 lbs 8 oz, almost exactly the same as she did. If this pattern continues, I'm going to be giving birth to toddlers before I'm through. I had a much easier time of it the second go around, probably because Morgan paved the way, and I'm recovering much quicker. Sam is doing well, nursing heartily as I would expect from any Merkley male, and sleeping beautifully through the afternoons. Then the sun goes down and he's ready to party. The only issues we've had with him (other than frequent urination outside a diaper) is that he's a bit jaundiced and one ear failed the hearing test. The jaundice isn't that big a deal - it's very mild, and just makes his skin look like one of those orange oompa loompas. The hearing, though, kind of freaks me out. Erik and the audiologist have reassured me that babies often fail the first time until the ear canal drains, etc, but I can't help worrying a little. I'm a mom - that's what we do about our kids. Hopefully that will resolve itself by his next appt.
We're home, doing well except for the unavoidable sleeping issues, and trying not to think of the days ahead when I will be on my own with two children. I know people have survived this transition for centuries, most without electronic or sugary distractions for the first born, but I'm still not sure how I'm going to do it. Morgan is being pretty nice to Sam, but acting up in lots of other really frustrating ways. I'm kind of missing that sweet one-on-one time I got with Morgan. Her reaction to Sam makes me really glad we didn't push potty training before he was born, or I might be cleaning up retaliatory little treasures all over the house.
Morgan and I exhibiting our babies
Ahh, how I love an epidural
Our little champ, who tried to join the party with the cord around his neck once and the arm exiting with the head.
The proud papa, who has already introduced Sam to his first Sports Center and Sean Connery movie.
To me, this face says, "I just endured a very traumatic experience, and I have a splitting headache, and now you're going to flash lights in my face? Really, guys?"
All right, blessed free time over. I'm off to take a nap with the rest of my family so that we can survive another night.