These 4 people are MY HEART. I thank God EVERY SINGLE DAY that I am the one that gets to be his wife & their mother. I get to see these 4 beautiful faces EVERYDAY! And I love them more than ANYTHING!
photo by: Chris Jenkins Photography
Usually I'm not a fan of Valentines Day. As you know, my husband is not the most romantic person on the earth. I KNOW with all that I am, that he loves me...he tells me everyday and I just *feel* it. Still, I always hoped to be surprised with that mushy love card or nice jewelry box...knowing of course that it wasn't going to happen. Some years I *might* get a "Love, Brian" at the end of the card, instead of "B".
In the last year though, I have stopped worrying about what he isn't doing and loving what he is doing. I would never trade in all that he is for a more romantic valentines day!
We decided not to get gifts for each other this year. We have a few trips planned this summer and we are saving up - and this year I was truly ok with that. I didn't just say I was ok and then get all resentful on the inside - I really was ok.
Well, you know I can't get him NOTHING though! SO...I made him this...
It's stitched to look like notebook paper. I am re-doing our master bedroom in a bit and this is going to go on the wall with our wedding photos. Just what every guy wants hu?! needlepoint! lol - it's more of a "I got this for you for me" gift. I also got some Reece's chocolates for him too - his favorite.
I bought a tri-tip to cook for dinner tonight for our "special meal". On Saturday, he mentioned that he would rather fix it on Sunday than on Monday after work...sounded good to me. Then he told me that I had a reservation at 2:00 on Sunday and I needed to call Amber later...ok.
He, along with Amber's and Michele's husbands, had arranged for the three of us to go to the South Point Spa and spend the afternoon getting pampered! Really?! Reservations were already made and we just had to show up! We had a wonderful afternoon getting massages, and sitting in the hot tub and just relaxing and talking - having a great day with my best girls. When I got home the table was set with candles, dinner was done (tri-tip, homemade mashed potatoes, and salad), the house was picked up, and the dishes from lunch were done.
Besides Brooke being sick - it was the best valentines day ever. It's funny how as soon as I let go of my romantic valentines day - that's exactly what happens.
He really is an amazing guy - I'm lucky he chose me to spend his life with!