1) "Hey, are you busy?" or ''Are you doing something?'' are two phrases guys start with to stop from stammering on the phone2) guys may be FLIRTING around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about
3) before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there arent awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes
4) guys go CRAZY over a girl's smile
5) guys will do ANYTHING just to get you to notice him
6) guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method
7) a guy who likes you wants to be the ONLY GUY you talk to
8) boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved
9) dont talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend
10) guys get JEALOUS easily
11) guys are more EMOTIONAL than they'd like people to think
12) giving a guy a hanging message like 'you know what? uh...nevermind...' would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. and he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it outg
13) guys are good FLATTERERS when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like
14) guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. so they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. but it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway
15) girls are guys' weaknesses
16) guys are very open about themselves
17) its good to test a guy first before you trust him. but dont let him wait too long
18) your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being ADMIRED by your boyfriend
19) if a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. you dont need to give advice
20) a usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you
21) guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships
22) guys will brag about anything
23) guys use words like HOT or CUTE to describe girls. we rarely use beautiful. if a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot
24) no matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, PERSONALITY is key
25) guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience
26) guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped
27) guys think WAY too much. one small thing a girl does, even if she doesnt notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant
28) guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused
29) any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships
30) try to be as straightforward as possible
31) if the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl
32) if a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside
33) when a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. guys rarely say that
34) when a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, ''please come and listen to me.''
35) guys dont really have final decisions
36) if a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. it doesnt happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up
37) if your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably JEALOUS and likes you
38) when a guy tells you that you are beautiful, dont say you arent. it makes them want to stop telling you because they dont want you to disagree with them
39) when a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something
40) guys like femininity not feebleness
41) guys dont like girls who punch harder than they do
42) a guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes
43) dont be a snob. guys can be intimidated and give up easily
44) everything in moderation. put on makeup, wear perfume. just not too much
45) guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys
46) guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more
47) if you are going to reject a guy, just do it. dont say they are like a brother or just good friends, IT HURTS EVEN MORE. tell them that you arent interested in a relationship and they will respect you
48) guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them
49) a guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day
50) no guy can handle all his problems on his own. he's just too stubborn to admit it
51) not all guys are assholes. just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us
52) we dont like girls who are too skinny
53) we love it when girls talk about their boobs
54) always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy. like wheather its a one time deal or not
55) believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to. it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours.
56) when a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually
57) even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.
58) guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it. it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.
59) guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. even if he doesnt intend to it will happen. know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that. after you let him know a couple times.
60) when a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.
61) guys hate SLUTS even though they have sex with them! (oh yeah. you're not 'popular' if you've slept with more than 6 guys. you're a HOE)
is it true? hmmm. i wonder...
to PSJYQ:
i am really really blessed to have all of you, to be there for me in good times and bad times. i know i havent been a real good friend and person. i know i have quite a big ego. and i know im a very prideful person. i always throw my "princess" temper around and im like forever emo-ing. i can still remember the huifang being hospitalised incident! and eversince then, i have been reminding myself never to let history repeat itself. i ask for all of your forgiveness for all the mistakes ive done. im trying my utmost best to be a better friend and person. i just want all of you to know that all of you, each and everyone of you is really very very very important to me. although there are times when we might get into small arguments over minor things like where to go for dinner and stuffs, at the end of the day, all of us know that we mean alot to each other. thanks for being there when i was at my lowest and letting me feel that its okay to lose someone but to gain a group of friends. i know we still do have internal conflicts and i really hope that in this new third year, all our internal conflicts will be resolved and all of us will be back to normal again. let us all work together towards our 4th, 5th, 6th and many many many years, okay? i hope that even when we have all grown up, we will still be celebrating our anniversay, perhaps with our boyfriends, husbands or children! thanks for always being there for me and thanks for being that special group in my life. PSJYQ, i love you all :)
FIRST ENTRY POST FOR YEAR 2008!
o...kay. i know. its going to be more than a week into the new year. yet. ONLY NOW then im writing my very first post for the new year! omg. i must have been too busy. IN FACT, i really am! before i start complaining about my schoolwork and stuffs, let me talk about how i actually spent my last day of twenty o seven!
actually. wanted to blog about the whole of 31DEC. but realised its alittle too lame to talk about it. BASICALLY. i just went to MARINA BAY to watch fireworks lors. yarhs. my family was four of the thousands there. my dad parked his car at CHINATOWN POINT and we walked there. wise choice! cos. its not crowded there and it isnt far! perhaps. 20mins walk? went there. walked to the bridge, chose a good spot and waited. and at 12 SHARP, the whole event started! what can i say about the whole thing. just.
"GREAT MUSIC. GREAT AMBIENCE. GREAT FIREWORKS"!!!
the aftermath was chaotic! people and cars cant move! the road was supposed to be closed from 8pm till 2am and bcos the whole thing was too chaotic for the police to handle. they had no choice but to open the road just after the fireworks. its was DAMN dangerous la! but the cool-est thing is. after the fireworks, almost everyone was WALKING ON THE ROAD! first time i see so many people walking on the road and even when the cars honked, they DONT GIVE A DAMN and carry on walking.
but. this year's countdown fireworks is really really NICE! although perhaps, its not as nice compared to other country's but i personally feel, its really UP TO STANDARD! im so so so going to go again end of this year! :))
uh oh. was supposed to blog about my first week in school but i ended up typing such a long post on my last day of twenty o seven. dots. maybe i'l blog again tonight!
byebye! :)
if only LOVE was so true and real. "我愛你"
the first time i watched this, i cried so much till my eyes swelled. its true. im not exaggerating. i can still remember, the first time i came across this mv was that very time, one of the hardest period in my entire life. almost everything and anything came tumbling down on me. and this mv somehow just attracted me. at that point of time, i thought, perhaps, my life might be somewhat similar to the mv's.
i was just too silly and naive, perhaps, a little too much.
i dreamt of him last night again. yes. im referring to, ruisheng.
(if you are not really interested in my personal relationship, you can consider clicking on the X at the top right hand corner now)
its another dream whereby everything felt so real, the words we said, our feelings and expressions, everything seemed so real. and once again, i thought, at last, what ive always wished for had come true. but. its another... DREAM.
when i woke up and realise that everything was a dream, tears started flowing down. if you are someone who have known me for a long time, you will definitely find me very foolish and silly. yarhs. i know. even me, myself find myself FOOLISH AND SILLY! it has been 2years, going to 3. and yet, i still cant move on.
perhaps, to the people around me. it seemed as if i have forgotten everything and moved on in life. but, the truth is, I CANT, AND HAVE NOT.
i also dont know why. perhaps, im that kinda of person who 一辈子, 只會喜歡一个人 ba. urms. okay, you can puke for all you want. but, the truth is, I HAVENT MET A GUY WHO CAN TRULY IMPRESS ME AND MAKE ME 心动. but, of course la, i know what kind of girl i am, NEITHER PRETTY NOR HAS CHARACTER.
honestly, im already very grateful to GOD for letting me meet ruisheng. many nice people, in their entire life, they dont even get the chance to enter a relationship. or, there are others, who may have many relationships, but none of them is real, or turned out well. so, if i were to compare myself with others, IM ALREADY A LUCKY GIRL! i know how to count my blessings and thus, i feel very contended already. heee.
i admit, im still waiting. for what, i also dont know. ruisheng already has a girlfriend, but here i am, still holding on those meaningless past. im just so useless! but. there are things in life which are beyond control. perhaps, to me, its this. afterall, 1year10months de memories,不是说忘记就能忘记的. till now, i still cant bear to delete our past smses and stuffs, i also dont know why do i still want to keep them for.
sometimes, i just hope that i will just bump into him on the street. many a time, i will even take a longer bus journey home from jvs area hoping to see him near his granny's house. im so useless! even when the train stops at dover, i will try to look out to see if i might see him. oh my god, what in the world am i doing... but, honestly, i really hope to meet him one day, i really do.
perhaps, both of us may really meet. by then, maybe both of us have already grown up and may just say 'hi' then. like any other friends. as if nothing ever happened between us before. perhaps, perhaps, perhaps, our story will just end that way.
if given a chance, i really wish to know "what was he thinking of that time?"