Monday, September 14, 2009
10:40 AM
Do u believe that people change??
well.. yes i do.. change in feelings, change in ideas, change in opinions.. i believe it's because i'm getting more and more mature.. which is a good thing..
and i finally know what my goals in my life are..and i'm so glad that i'm working towards them now.. Welcome my future ^^
together forever*
Tuesday, May 01, 2007
12:16 AM
♥..♥♥..♥♥..♥♥..♥♥..♥♥..♥♥..♥♥..♥♥..♥♥..♥♥..♥♥
What a girl said to a guy, and what guy's thinking of..
THIS IS WHAT A GIRL TOLD A GUY:
If you see me walking the road with someone else,
It's not because I like his accompany...
Its because you're not brave enough to walk
beside me.
If you hear me talking about him all the
time
Its not because he pleases me
Its because you're too deaf to hear my heartbeat
If you feel me falling with someone new
Its not because I love him..
But because you're not there to catch me fall
If you feel lost, I too am nowhere
I too don't know where the road is going
Are we gonna cross each other's path
Or just completely turn around?..
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound
Don't let me walk with him,
It's you I want to walk with..
Don't let me talk of him,
it's you I want to talk with..
Don't let me fall for him,
It's you I want to fall in love with..
"HOW DID THE GUY REPLY?"
When you thought I wasn't brave enough to
walk beside you
I was behind you every step of the way
Still filled with awe because of the
beauty that stand before me
When you thought I was too deaf to hear
your heartbeat
I didn't want to assume anything
And I was afraid to lose our friendship
When you thought I wasn't there to catch
you, It was because you never gave me the
chance
You never reached the bottom,
you've already grabbed a branch
If you feel like you are nowhere,
I too am lost
I too don't know where the road is going
Are we just going to turn around,
Or are we gonna cross each other's path?
Will we just let go of what we had
Or go to the place where love is bound?
Don't let me walk alone
I want to walk by your side
Don't let me talk of something else
It's you I want to talk with
Don't let me fall for someone else
It's you I want to fall in love with.
together forever*Someone said... "Wallets are a lot like girls. You really have to take good care of, because if you won't, something might happen"...
I know what he means. I just lost a wallet, and I just lost a girl.
You know, it's the exact same thing.
One day, you just realize it's gone.
You try to look for it everywhere, even going back to the places where you could have lost it.
You think, and you think hard, only to come upon a grim realization: it's really gone.
Of course, you can hold on to some hope.
After all, there have been some very, very lucky (blessed?) people who get it back.
Perhaps you could become one of those people.
You sit home and you hope that someone would call, and that you would get it back.
But then, some time passes, and you realize that it's still gone, and you realize that it's time to let go.
The first few days, you turn to your friends for support.
Some tell you you'll be ok, some tell you that it was your fault
and that you should have been more careful,
and some tell you about their own experiences.
They give you all sorts of advice, none you haven't heard before.
You then go out to find a new wallet, only to realize that you don't really want a new one.
You want the old one that you lost.
No, you don't want all these better-looking wallets, you want yours,
because of how comfortable it is, because of all the cards and pictures and other stuff in it.
You go out and carry on without a wallet, keeping your money in your pocket instead.
You throw away stuff that you would have held on to if you had your old wallet.
And then, finally, you find a new wallet you like and settle in.
You then start filling your new wallet, little by little.
It still doesn't feel as comfortable as the old one, but it's getting there.
Then you start putting in cards and pictures and other important stuff in the wallet.
Soon enough, there's as much stuff in your new wallet as the old one.
And then, after some time, you feel as comfortable with your new wallet.
And then you realize that you've almost forgotten you ever had your old wallet.
Sure, you still remember most of the stuff you lost on that wallet.
But then again, you don't remember the feeling of hurt that you felt when you lost it.
That's because that wallet you lost is no longer your wallet.
You're no longer holding on.
This new wallet you're holding, it has all the important cards and pictures and stuff that you need.
This is your wallet.
And this time, you tell yourself, you're never losing this one.
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together forever*If a girl cries in front of you,
it means that she couldnt take it anymore.
If you take her hand,
she would stay with you for the rest of your life.
If you let her go,
she couldnt go back to being herself anymore.
A girl wont cry easily..
except in front of the person whom she love the
most,
she becomes weak.
A girl wont cry easily..
only when she love you the most,
she put down her ego.
Guys..
if a girl cries because of you,
please hold her hands firmly.
She's the one who would stay with you for the rest
of your life.
Guys..
if a girl cries because of you,
please dont give her up.
Maybe because of your decision, you ruin her life.
When she cry right infront of you,
when she cry because of you..
Look into her eyes,
can you see and feel the pain and hurt she's
feeling?
Think.
Which other girl have cried with pure sincerity,
infront of you,
and because of you?
She cry not because she is weak,
she cry not because she want sympathy or pity,
she cry..
because crying silently is no longer possible.
The pain, hurt and agony have become too big a
burden to be kept inside.
Guys..
Think about it.
If a girl cry her heart out to you and all because of
you,
it's time to look back on what you have done,
Only you will know the answer to it.
Do consider it.
Because one day..
It may be too late for regrets,
it may be too late to say "i'm sorry".
To my friends...
Ponder this message seriously.
Dont do this to a girl,
you may regret for the rest of your life.
Maybe in your life...
she's the only one that love YOU the most.
Remember this lesson.
together forever*Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, And your voice caught within your chest?
It isn't Love, it's Like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
It isn't Love, it's Lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't Love, it's Luck.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't Love, it's Loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.
Do you stay for their confessions of Love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't Love, it's Pity.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't Love, it's being Unconfident.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't Love, it's Infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't Love, it's Friendship.
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't Love, it's a Lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?
It isn't Love, it's Charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's Love.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's Love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's Love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's Love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's Love.
But do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?
Then it's Love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's Love.
together forever*Monday, April 30, 2007
11:32 PM
I found this interesting post in ppl's blog..i know it's in Chinese..but take time reading this..it's really very meaningful^^
你发觉了吗？爱的感觉总是在一开始时甜蜜，
总觉得多了一个人陪，多了一个人帮你分担，你
终于不再孤单了，因为至少有一个人想着你、
恋着你，只要能在一起就是好的。
但是慢慢地，随着认识的加深，你开始发现了
对方的缺点，于是问题一个接一个出现，你开
始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，有人说爱情就像捡
石，总想捡到一个适合自己的，但是你又如何
知道什么时候能够捡到呢？她适合你，那你又
适合她吗？
其实，爱情应该像磨石子儿，或许刚捡到的时
候，你不是那么满意，但是请记住，人是有弹
性的，很多事情是可以改变的，只要你有心，
有勇气，与其到处去捡未知的石头，还不如将
自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨光，你开始磨了
吗？很多人以为，是因为感情淡了，人才会变
得懒惰，其实人是先被惰性征服，感惰才慢慢
变淡的。
在某个聚餐的场合，有人提议多吃点虾对身体
好，这时候有个中年男人忽然说：“十年前，当
我老婆还是我女朋友的时候，她说要吃十只
虾，我就剥二十只给她。现在，如果她要我帮
她剥虾壳，简直就是开玩笑，我连帮她夹菜都
没兴趣了，还剥虾壳呢。”
难怪越来越多的人只想谈一辈子恋爱，却迟迟
不肯走入婚姻。因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。
如果每个人都懒得讲话，懒得倾听，懒得制造
惊喜，懒得温柔体贴，那么夫妻之间，又怎么
会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？所以请记住，有活力
的爱情是需要适度殷勤来灌溉的，谈恋爱，更是
不可以偷懒的。
(Bad example)
有一对情侣，相约下班后去用餐，逛街，可是
女孩因为公司会议延误了，当她冒雨赶到时候
已经迟到了30多分钟，她男朋友很不高兴地
说：“你每次都这样，现在我什么心情也没了，
我以后再也不会等你了！”刹那间，女孩的心
决堤崩溃了，她在想：或许，他们再也没有未来
了。
(Gd example)
同样，在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样
的处境，女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，
她的男朋友说：“我想你一定忙坏了吧？”接着
他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套披在
女孩身上，此刻，女孩流泪却是温馨幸福
的。
你体会到了吗？其实爱恨往往只在我们的一念
之间！爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时，很多事可
能只是在于你心境的转变罢了。如果有个人爱
上你，而你也觉得他不错，那并不代表你会选
择他。
我们总说：“我要找一个很爱很爱的人，才会谈
恋爱。”但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱
的时候，你却无法回答他，因为你自己也不知
道。
没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很
爱很爱的人。可是后来，当我们猛然回首，才发
觉自己曾经多么天真。假如从来没有开始，你
怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？其
实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多
事情之后才会发现的。每个人都希望找到自己
心目中百分之百的伴侣，但是你有没有想过，
在你身边早有人对你默默付出很久了，只是你
没有发觉而已。
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧，他或许已经
等你很久了。当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分
绝对刚刚好。所有的期待和希望都只有七八
分，剩下两三分用来爱自己。如果你还继续爱
得更多，很可能给对方造成沉重的压力，让彼
此喘不过气来，完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。
所以请记住，喝酒不要超过六分醉，吃饭不要
超过七分饱，爱一个人不要超过八分。如果你
正在为爱迷惘，
下面这段话或许可以给你一些启示：
爱一个人，要了解也要开解；
要道歉也要道谢；
要认错也要改错；
要体贴也要体谅；
是接受而不是忍受；
是宽容而不是纵容；
是支持而不是支配；
是慰问而不是质问；
是倾诉而不是控诉；
是难忘而不是遗忘；
是彼此交流而不是凡事交代；
是为对方默默祈求而不向对方诸多要求。
可以浪漫，但不要浪费，
不要随便牵手，更不要随便放手.
together forever*Sunday, April 29, 2007
11:54 PM
When a guy is quiet,
He's listening to you...
When a guy is not arguing,
He realizes he's wrong
When a guy says, "I'm fine," after a few
minutes,
he means it
When a guy stares at you,
he thinks you're the most beautiful thing
in
the
world
When you're laying your head on a guy's
chest
he has the world
When a guy calls you everyday
he is in love
When a (good) guy say he loves you
he means it
When a guy says he can't live without you
he's with you till your done
When a guy says, "I miss you,"
he misses you more than you could have
ever
missed
him or anything else
Girl facts:
When a girl is quiet,
millions of things are running through her
mind.
When a girl is not arguing,
she is thinking deeply.
When a girl looks at you with eyes full of
questions,
she is wondering how long you will be
around.
When a girl answers, "I'm fine," after a few
seconds,
she is not at all fine.
When a girl stares at you,
she is wondering why you are so
wonderful.
When a girl lays on your chest,
she is wishing for you to be hers forever.
When a girl calls you everyday,
she is seeking for your attention.
When a girl wants to see you everyday,
she wants to be pampered.
When a girl says, "I'll love you forever,"
she means it.
When a girl says that she can't live without
you,
she has made up her mind that you are
her
future.
When a girl says, "I miss you,"
no one in this world can miss you more
than that
together forever*Wednesday, April 18, 2007
4:03 AM
Hallo everyone..i'm back to writing my blog..hehe=)
anyway, i'm just back from my trip to Italy and Paris..
i Love paris very much.. Italy is very dangerous..hehe=)
anyway, my mum's here in Germany too..
together forever*Friday, December 22, 2006
7:43 AM
Hi everyone..
i've been abandoning my blog..hehe..
anyway.. just some updates..
i just bought a new Nokia HP N73..it's red in colour..so nice neh..
together forever*Saturday, October 14, 2006
6:58 PM
i'm having holidays now...from 16th October to 1st November..cool yeah..hehe.. i really miss my family and friends in Indonesia and Singapore...especially him..wish that time will travel faster so that it's time for me to go back..hehe..niwae, the weather's here super cold..i'm looking forward to winter, but i'm scared of cold, so must prepare lots of thick jackets. I wish that all my beloved friends out there healthy and happy=)
together forever*Friday, September 15, 2006
10:48 PM
now in germany..reached here on 10th september..oh well..miss my family soo badly.. especially him..btw, i celebrated my birthday with him and my lovely 2 younger brothers..i enjoyed my birthday..thanks for making my big day so special=) and of course, thanks for the surprise u gave me=) hehe..
together forever*Sunday, June 11, 2006
7:09 PM
together forever*Wednesday, May 24, 2006
8:28 PM
Today our class and the juniors went to this place to have a street soccer match.. the seniors won!! yeah=) hehe.. I met my guy and suddenly, i have this bad stomachache.. can't walk properly. so we went to Plasa Senayan to eat.. the pain is still there.. after that the guys went to play arcade. My stomach really hurt, my brother has leg pain, and the other friend of mine didn't really know how to drive my car.. so no choice, i have to drive back with stomachache.. so suffering leh..haiz.. luckily my guy soothes me down..hehe.. hen kao xing arh!!
next time must eat at proper time, so that i won't have stomach pains anymore...
together forever*Monday, May 22, 2006
10:13 PM
Today's my friends birthday... She invited the whole class to watch "The Da Vinci Code" together.. we started class really early today so that we can watch the movie earlier.hehe.. Driving early in the morning is so nice..no traffic jam..hehe.. the most i can drive up to 120km/h..more than that the car will shake..hehe.. anyway, after class, we went to "Setiabudi" and bought the movie tickets..someone gave me this very elegant looking table lamp.. so cute..got water and 2 heart-shape with arrow floating inside..
By the way, my class teacher was also invited.. (my teacher's cool or what?) hehee..
We sat at the side, so after the movie ended, some of us had neck pains..haha.. the movie is nice..great plot..nice monuments.. Our stomachs grumbled, so we went to eat. I bought 2 portions for myself.. fried rice and cap chai rice.. my teacher even laugh at me..haha..so funny.. =)
together forever*Saturday, May 13, 2006
11:04 PM
Been very busy lately, thus no time for me to come online and update my blog..fungae growing liao...lol.. aniway, today is Goethe's open house.. our class perform on stage today. In the morning, i fetch my teacher..but i was late..oopss..haha..
I played the piano, one of my friends sing, 2 of my guy friends make-up, wear wig, wear girl clothes and they transform themself to become female..hehe..
then they dance and act in rhythm with the music.. so funny.. the audiences laughed.. after the performance, my guy, my bro and me went to service my car's wiper..haha.. coz it's very hard for me to drive with a spoiled wiper..haha.. soon after, we returned to Goethe to catch the theatre performance :"Emil and the detektive". quite a nice performance.. then we went home feeling lethargic yet happy=)
together forever*Monday, April 03, 2006
11:57 PM
i got a new haircut yesterday and i am really satisfied..my long hair now become shoulder length..a bid sad..but nevermind.. my friends said i looked great with this haircut..hehe=).. by the way, i'm leaving for Medan tomorrow with mum, bro, auntie and cousin.so i'm goin to "ponteng" my class for a few days..must wake up at 3, but i'm still awake now..hehe..bon voyage=)
ps:Fir, i can't tag my tagboard.. i think my pop-up was blocked..how ar? hehe.. want to reply also cannot..
together forever*Thursday, March 30, 2006
10:30 PM
i went to amusement park with my friend and him..so happy!! i was elated and excited, coz finally my dream came true..it's like the Jay Chou's "Yuan You Hui" song.. so magical..hehe.. But there's a crowd there as it's a public holiday..anyway, i was really irritated by some people there coz they cut our queue.. so we "diao" them, then he also scold them.. so they didn't dare to cut le..huh.. they spoil our mood..haiz..then we took the water ride, and i am the wettest of them all.. but it's really fun..luckily i brought shirts to change..we took nearly all of the scary rides..we stand and wave our hands up in 1 of the rides..haha..we ate a lot and of course not forgetting candy floss..my favourite..hehe.. we were in there since the amusement park open till it closes,hahaha...then after that we went to the nearest beach and took a stroll while eating ice-cream..Really tired and dizzy from all the rides, but it's really worth it=)
together forever*Thursday, March 23, 2006
6:12 PM
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched but are felt in the heart...
That's how i feel when i'm with u~
together forever*Friday, March 03, 2006
8:51 AM
today me and my friends will go to bandung.. will update more when i come back.. the kalimantan trip havent finish updating..huehe.. ciao..
together forever*Monday, February 27, 2006
10:47 PM
We woke up early and ate the breakfast buffet.. I ate super-duper lots.. like a pig like that.. hehe.. really a lot..anyway after that we went to the official opening event.. at noon, we went to visit the "DAYAK" place.. Their great-great grandparents lived on the mountains last time.. and they like the skins of animals.. and they usually hang themon top of thie roofs.. eww..disgusting.. i was a few house with skins hanging.. eeww..i was expecting the people there not to wear normal clothes..
i was expecting something like wearing a covering only at their private parts.. but i
was totally wrong..hehe.. all of them wear normal clothes.. only some people wear the
traditional clothes for money-making photo-taking purposes.. huh..
they performed their traditional dance for us.. huh.. so boring.. their music is so
monotone.. but overall it's a good effort.. all our handphone don't have reception there,so if anything happen to us, nobody will help us.. i kinda freaked out with the peeps there.. after that we went to the hotel owner's house.. super damn big.. we ate durians..
together forever*
HanA aDisuRya*_
