We all need someone who is parallel to our intellectual capacity, who compliments our sense of humor, who sees us in light &in darkness throughout perpetuity, who has to bear in mind our space &comfort zones, vitally, who has to have their own point of view &needs (how else do we fight then?) &lastly who we love. So ladies, if you can't find him, there's no need to conform. &No, this is not a wedding vow. It is also to gauge who do we keep as friends.