everyone is an individual and imperfect... so no comparing who is better
When you REALLY want something, sometimes you have to swim a little deeper....You can't give up just because things don't come easy...You have to overcome the obstacles and face your fears...But in the end, it's all worth while! Life is full of ups and downs, but if you believe in yourself you will always come through with flying colors. Value family, friendship, your love one and faith. Never underestimate yourself. If you follow this advice you can never go wrong!"
I belive that to succeed, a person needs only four things. You can remember them by thinking of the word REAL!!
RELATIONSHIP: The greatest skill needed for succes is the ability to get along with other people. It impacts every aspect of a person's life. Your relationship make you or they break you.
EQUIPPING: One of the most significant lessons I've learned is that those closest to you determine the level of your success. If your dreams are great, you achieve them only with a team.
ATTIUDE: People's attitudes determine how they approach life day to day. Your attidude, more then your aptitude, will determine your altitude.
LEADERSHIP: Everything rises and falls on leadership. If you desire to lift the lid on your personal effectiveness, the only way to do it is to increase your leadership skills...
The greatest challenge in life is to find someone who knows all your flaws, differences, and mistakes and yet still sees the best in YOU...
Look into My Eyes And Read My mind....Find YourSelf And Be YourSelf
Source:
Rahsia untuk berjaya ialah menghormati orang lain.
Ikhlaslah menjadi diri sendiri agar hidup penuh dengan ketenangan dan keamanan.
Kecemerlangan sebenar adalah apabila kamu dihentam sehingga bertekuk lutut, tetapi mampu melantun kembali.
Direct Translation:
Secret to prosper is to respect others.
Sincere to be yourself for a full life with peace and security.
Brilliance truth is if you very down, but was able to rebound back.
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satu hari CINTA & KAWAN berjalan dalam kampung... Tiba-tiba CINTA terjatuh dalam telaga.... Kenapa??
Kerana CINTA itu buta.. Lalu KAWAN pun ikut terjun dalam telaga... Kenapa??
Kerana... KAWAN akan buat apa sahaja demi CINTA !! Di dalam telaga CINTA hilang.... Kenapa??
Kerana... CINTA itu halus, mudah hilang kalau tak dijaga, sukar dicari apatah lagi dalam telaga yang gelap....Sedangkan KAWAN masih lagi tercari-cari dimana CINTA & terus menunggu.. Kenapa??
Kerana... KAWAN itu sejati & akan kekal sebagai KAWAN yang setia.... kan ?? so, hargai lah KAWAN kita selagi kita terasa dia BERERTI....
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Never give up when everything fall into pieces. Never even lose hope when everybody turned their back on you.
Life isn't bout being fair, it's about surpassing the unfair reality.
In order for someone to love you, you must let yourself love you
Value your life and only you can pay the price.
The past is the past so just let it go, the future is the future so all you can do is wonder, & now is the present so live for it!
Everyone has dreams, some of us stay awake and turn them into reality.
I want to always be the reason of your happiness, not just a part of it, and I want to be a part of your sadness, i don't want to be the reason of it.
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田心洁之名言-放手的故事
Source :- October 7th, 2007 by jsjs418放手真是这么困难吗？
不晓得大家有否听过‘放手的故事’
据说，有一个人很不小心的，踏空掉下了一个深不 见底的山崖。很幸运的，他在混乱中抓住了一些山崖边的攀藤，就这样暂时保住了性命。他好不容易才喘过气来，冷静的，看看四周，一心要脱离着困境。但是在双 脚不仅踏不到地面，而且还要吊在半空的环境下，希望也非常的渺茫啊。但他还是继续想尽办法的努力往上爬，认为有恒心，什么事也可以解决的。渐渐的，他把自 己的手，脚，脸，都给擦伤了，但他还是无法爬上平原。渐渐的，他觉得自己无能为力了，他坚决地希望渐渐的变成渺茫了，他已经耗资了所有的体力，他，终于都 支持不住了。他决定了，选择放手。他把手松了，摊开手，闭上眼，泪，也流了—-他一心认为自己这样的决定必死无疑，但是，当他睁开眼睛的时候，他却被一棵 大树给撑住了，这时候他才后知后觉的，原来，他死守地抓着那攀藤那么辛苦，那么吃力往上爬，还弄得满身伤痕，一切都是白费的。。。
这故事到底意味着什么呢？试问大家有何想法与见解呢？田心洁之言，其实啊，这故事意味着我们无论在哪方面都不应该太过于执着。过于固执会让人变得无能为力；所以有时在适当的时候选择放手，也许一切都来得简单而容易—
Direct Translation:
Let go really so difficult?
I do not know whether you heard of 'let go of the story'
It is said that there is a very careful person, Ta fell a bottomless cliff. Luckily, he was caught in the confusion of some cliff climbing, and thus temporarily saved their lives. He managed to breath, calm, look around, bent out of the predicament. However, not only in the feet can not tread the ground, but also hanging in the air environment, we hope very bleak ah. Still, he tried every means to efforts to climb, that can have patience, nothing can be solved. Gradually, he put his hands, feet, face, gave bruised, but he still can not climb the plains. Gradually, he felt powerless, and he strongly hopes that gradually become slim, he has spent all the strength, he finally is unable to cope. He decided, let me go. He put his hand loose, spread hands, close your eyes, tears, and shed - his heart that such a decision his certain death, but when he opened his eyes, he has been a big tree to the shore , and this time he was hindsight, turned out that he hang on to grip it climbing so hard, so difficult climb, but also confused covered with wounds, all in vain. . .
The story in the end mean? What thoughts and ideas how can we do? Tian Xinjie words, in fact, ah, this story no matter what aspect means that we should not be too persistent. People are too stubborn will become powerless; so sometimes choose to let go at the right time, and perhaps more simple and easy to all -
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Things You'll Need:
- Time and patience
- A willingness to hear others' opinions
- The ability to bite your tongue
- Step 1
Let go of the need to be "right." In American culture, we seem to have developed an obsession for being right, knowing the truth, and having the most up-to-date and accurate information. Realize that no one, not even you, can have all the answers; everyone's "truth" is going to be only part of the truth. So what if someone else's theory is partially true? That shouldn't cause you to doubt your own belief system unless you would like to. The more you can have a "to each his own" attitude, the more relaxed you will feel while discussing different ideas.
- Step 2
Realize that people's beliefs are shaped by genes, personality, disposition, life experiences, and historical context. Its possible that if you were born in a different time and place, or experienced different things in life, you would have a totally different belief system.
- Step 3
Practice the art of listening carefully. You may need to bite your tongue if you feel the need to lash out with your opinions. Even if you disagree with someone's view, you can reflect back what they're saying to make them feel heard. "So you're saying that..." If something about their opinion or belief system really bothers you, you can respectfully phrase a question to address it, like, "I see where you're coming from, but I don't understand about..."
- Step 4
Do some research. If you often find yourself saying, "Why would someone DO that?" or "I can't imagine doing that" or "People are so ignorant!" you may need look into other peoples' lives and way of thinking. As we all know by now, the internet is an excellent source of information. Having at least a base knowledge of different subjects will not only give you a chance to expand your perspective, it will give you more credibility when speaking to others. An atheist speaking to a Christian who has a thorough knowledge of the Bible is likely to be taken much more serious.
- Step 5
Pick your battles carefully. Sometimes you will never understand someone else's point of view and they won't get yours. Taking a stand for your beliefs does not require you to argue with every person every time you talk about it
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Tolong Maafkan Aku, Kawan
Dua orang sahabat karib sedang berjalan melintasi gurun pasir. Di tengah perjalanan, mereka bertengkar, dan salah seorang menampar temannya. Orang yang kena tampar, merasa sakit hati, tapi dengan tanpa berkata-kata, dia menulis di atas pasir: HARI INI, SAHABAT TERBAIKKU MENAMPAR PIPIKU.
Mereka terus berjalan, sampai menemukan sebuah oasis, dimana mereka
memutuskan untuk mandi. Orang yang pipinya kena tampar dan terluka
hatinya, mencoba berenang namun nyaris tenggelam, dan berhasil
diselamatkan oleh sahabatnya.
Ketika dia mulai siuman dan rasa takutnya sudah hilang, dia menulis
di sebuah batu: HARI INI, SAHABAT TERBAIKKU MENYELAMATKAN NYAWAKU.
Orang yang menolong dan menampar sahabatnya, bertanya, “Kenapa
setelah saya melukai hatimu, kau menulisnya di atas pasir, dan
sekarang kamu menulis di batu?” Temannya sambil tersenyum
menjawab, “Ketika seorang sahabat melukai kita, kita harus menulisnya
di atas pasir agar angin maaf datang berhembus dan menghapus tulisan
tersebut. Dan bila sesuatu yang luar biasaterjadi, kita harus
memahatnya di atas batu hati kita, agar tidak bisa hilang tertiup
angin.”
Cerita di atas, bagaimanapun tentu saja lebih mudah dibaca dibanding
diterapkan. Begitu mudahnya kita memutuskan sebuah pertemanan ‘hanya’
karena sakit hati atas sebuah perbuatan atau perkataan yang menurut
kita keterlaluan hingga menyakiti hati kita. Sebuah sakit hati lebih
perkasa untuk merusak dibanding begitu banyak kebaikan untuk menjaga.
Mungkin ini memang bagian dari sifat buruk diri kita.
Karena itu, seseorang pernah memberitahu saya apa yang harus saya
lakukan ketika saya sakit hati. Beliau mengatakan ketika sakit hati
yang paling penting adalah melihat apakah memang orang yang menyakiti
hati kita itu tidak kita sakiti terlebih dahulu. Bukankah sudah
menjadi kewajaran sifat orang untuk membalas dendam? Maka sungguh
sangat bisa jadi kita telah melukai hatinya terlebih dahulu dan dia
menginginkan sakit yang sama seperti yang dia rasakan. Bisa jadi juga
sakit hati kita karena kesalahan kita sendiri yang salah dalam
menafsirkan perkataan atau perbuatan teman kita. Bisa jadi kita
tersinggung oleh perkataan sahabat kita yang dimaksudkannya sebagai
gurauan.
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