1.要坚信一个真理:这个世界上只有爸妈永远对你好。 
  朋友可能为利益反面,男朋友随时可能背叛,老公可能会出轨。永远只有父母对你掏心掏肺。 
  你22岁了,你记不记得自己青春反叛的时候怎么气过他们,他们怎么哭着求你不要变坏。 
  你22岁了,父母都快年过半百了,你要对他们好的时间已经不多了。不

要等失去的时候才哭着说当时年少不懂事,没有好好孝敬父母。

2.是的,你已经达到法定婚龄了,可是你并不用着急着嫁人。
  或许你正在热恋,你们山盟海誓说要一辈子。
  可是你才22岁,你不知道一辈子到底有多长。日子是过出来的,不是想出来的。
  结婚,不是两个人的事情,是两个家庭的事情。老一辈讲的门当户对,并不是毫无道理的封建思想。结婚,你应该抱着一辈子只有一次的信念,所以挑选的时候丝毫不得马虎。恋爱,就把它当成恋爱。结婚,慢慢来。

3.轰轰烈烈的爱情,留给一字头的年龄。
  你22岁了。别再做那些会被别人当做笑话的傻事。
  什么夜不归宿,当街吵架,以死相逼,一哭二闹三上吊。
  那些疯狂的事情,那些年少轻狂,我们经历过就够了。
  22岁了,学会淡定从容。
  女孩子,从来就应该骄傲地活着,而不是卑微地恋爱。

4.男朋友,宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞而恋爱,不要因为跟风而恋爱
  22岁了,学会对自己的人生负责。

5.自己喜欢的东西,不要奢望别人买。
  22岁,不管你以前是否玩过暧昧,你已经过了暧昧的年龄。
  女人要独立,经济独立是基础。

6.如果一个男人对你说他配不上你,相信他。
  一个自己说配不上你的男人,一辈子也不会配得上你!
  珍惜与能力无关,与钱无关!

7.明确自己的目标,为此奋斗。
  什么女子无才便是德,扯淡。要嫁得好,首先要有才。
  而此处问题的关键,不是嫁得好。是你自己过得好。
  22岁,你要出国?找工作?还是继续学习?
  22岁,你离踏入社会已不远,你是否已做好准备?

8.答应自己的事情就要做到,该对自己狠的时候就要狠,切忌优柔寡断、藕断丝连。
  对自己心软,成不了大事。
  22岁,要学会面对现实,不能再整日沉浸于白日梦中。

9.如果你正在恋爱,请不要毫无保留地付出。
  你全盘托出了,拿什么留给你以后的老公?
  女孩子,要学会对自己好一点,别把所有的都投资在所谓的“潜力股”身上。
  无论什么时候,看清楚你自己手中留着什么底牌。

10.做人学会圆滑。
  22岁,别人不会再把你当小孩子,你的错误已不会再有人包容
  对不喜欢的人和事面带笑容,是我们必须学会的恶心。

11.感谢所有伤害过你的人。
  然后在22岁生日的那天,对他们挥挥手,说声,我不再恨你们了。
  仇恨留在22岁以前的青春,你长大了,你要正视伤害。

12.别玩什么非主流。你不是90后,你也不是肥猪刘。
  还不如学着化化妆,不是烟熏妆,是大方得体的淡妆。
  一个大企业的面试官曾对我说过,一个化淡妆的女生,企业会优先考虑。
  为什么?因为你连自己的容貌都不着急,你会着急什么?
  世界上没有丑女人,只有懒女人。

13.减肥,说说就好。
  到你真的减到跟竹竿似的时候,你会发现低血压低血糖头晕目眩一系列疾病同时伴随你。
  说不好还有胃癌。
  22岁,你要知道,你以后的路还有很长,健康的身体是你走下去的保证。

14.对挑拨离间的人,不要揭发他。
  等他演完一出出好戏,拼命演,拼命圆。
  然后告诉他,其实你什么都知道。
  接着,笑笑,离开。

15.谁对你好,你就对谁好。
  人际交往永远是礼尚往来的。双向法则。没有人有义务对你好。
  22岁,擦亮眼睛,谁对你好,记得对他好。

16.转身,要比眼泪快。
  这是必须。
  22岁了,你必须学会承担难过,你必须知道难过它会过。
  要经常对自己说,我也可以很勇敢。不要,千万不要,轻易在别人面前掉眼泪。
  别人看多了你的眼泪,就会觉得你的眼泪如此廉价。

17.你以前或许干过许多荒唐的事。
  可是请你不要觉得那有多见不得人。请你不要觉得那是负担。
  22岁,这是你生命中一个新的开始。

18.随时给自己准备一个微笑 告诉自己 我可以!


一个星期天的午后,懒懒的心情,带我欣赏《当爱滋生时》。
一本以爱滋为主题,为的是唤醒社会大众对爱滋的醒觉,
教导他们,爱滋并不可怕。

有些句子,触动了我的心。
学到的,不只是对于爱滋的看法,偶尔,也开拓我的视野。
谢谢欣怡。

1. 生命如果爱开玩笑,那死亡应该就是唯一需要认真的难题。
    既然这样,为什么和其他悲伤过不去?

2. 婚姻和爱情一样,明知道累人名知道烦恼,还是让人心甘情愿。

3. 没有人是完美,只有包容才可以把不完美可爱化。

4. 世界上有三件事是平等的,就是无论你是什么颜色的皮肤,
    多贫穷富有,你都不会别人获得更多。
    第一是爱情,第二是堵车,第三是健康。
    无论你多穷多富有,多丑多美,总会有人爱上你(前提是你爱你自己)。
    无论你开的是mr.bean的必须自己加锁的小车,或过百万的超级跑车,
    在拥挤的道路,你还是必须乖乖塞上一阵子。
    而疾病,也一样不会对任何人宽恕。

5. 害怕是一种需要克服的感觉,如此莫名,却如此跨不过去。
    害怕可能也是一个借口,当你内心不想做一件事情的时候,总会出现很多理由。
    相反的,如果你很想做一件事情,整个宇宙都回联合起来帮助你。
    所以,没有害怕的事,只有不想做的事。
    快乐是最自我的选择,不必向别人交待,自己说了算。

6. 幸福总是比上不足,比下有余。
    世界没有最幸福的人,也没有最可怜的人。
    每个人来到这个世界都有应该扮演的角色,应该领悟的事情。
    不要比较了,只有自己可怜自己才算可怜,自己爱护自己才算幸福。

Oh yeah! It has been the end of the 2nd week of LI here... I had always been thinking of want to blog down everything i experienced there down here... But due to the busy-ness + laziness, i keep on dragging it on and on till now... What a lazy bug am i! Haha...

Ok, here's my story comes!
I really feel grateful for being accepted into this Sibu Pharmacy as my LI here... Feeling very lucky since my first call to this pharmacy and the boss straightaway accepted my request. Thank god! Although i do ever wonder will i be given aeroplane as there are few cases happened to my coursemates, but luckily i end up there successfully! Initially i thought this pharmacy is just an ordinary retail pharmacy. However, when i reach there in my first working day, i'm pretty stunned by the store room there... It can be said as to be equivalent to a small industry supplying products to other pharmacy already! Then only my boss told me, actually they have 2 types of business, retail and also wholesale. No wonder la... The store room so big size... 

At the very first day, my boss brief me about my jobscope. To my surprise, he already arrange the jobscope for me according to weeks. 1,4 store, 2,5 wholesale and 3,6 retail. This is really a big surprise as i do not expect to have encounter such circumstances. As usual, i'm blur there as a newby. Hehe... At first, i'm not so closed to the other staffs there. And i feeling like the staffs do not really like me, maybe they worry i will grab their job? But after confirming that i will only be there for 6 weeks only they begin to open their heart to me... Haha... *Forgot to mention, the time when i go there for a signature for my letter from Uni, i thought he only has 1 staff, and actually he got 3!*

He has a really big store and huge stock of all kind of medicines/pharmaceutical products. Indeed a big eye opener for me and quite a big challenge for me to memorise all the products brand name and their respective locations. Afterall, i managed to recognise most of the products and begin to assist them in packing products according to different orders from different pharmacies. The working pace there really very fast. It is a usual condition for the ordinary staff but for sure not to a newby like me la.. Haha... To me, the life there is really quite like a war like that. Because most of the time, the huge wave of order will come since afternoon, and so, my lunch time always end up by 2/3pm everyday.

However, the planning seems like not going as what my boss planned. This is because i had been ordered by him to go over the front part of the shop to help him in typing invoices for the orders. Again, i had been amazed by the presence of unique software of him. My boss is very patient while teaching me the things for the software i need. But for an idiot like me, sometime really need time to digest the bunches of information given by him. And sometime his talking pace quite fast too! I cant catch him! Sorry boss! I think i really need some hands on experience on my own only i can remember whats are those steps taught by him. And thank god that by this 2nd week, i already quite familiar with the system and hopefully i can have zero mistakes while dealing with all those orders stuff... Because the products normally not cheap 1!! IF need to repay for the unrepairrable mistakes sure i will go bancrupt. Only can wish that i can remain awake and fresh everyday so that no mistake will be done! Haha...

Anyway, i think thats all for my 1st part of LI. Coz i'm damned tired now. Soooooooooo, this is to be continued in my 2nd part of LI brand new experiences! Haha... Nitezz.....








从没试过一年没吃粽子。
从前的我,会因为每天早上的早餐都是粽子而有小小的埋怨,
可是现在,要我吃多少粒都没问题~
问题是,没得吃!>.<

大学这么久以来,“思乡”这想法鲜少出现在脑海里。
想家更少。
年复一年,想家的次数是增加了,却还没到homesick的等级!

想家和homesick不一样吗?
对大多数的人而言,是一样的。
我却觉得是不一样的。
想家,是想父母亲了。
homesick对我来说,是想家想到一个程度让我恨不得现在就身在利民达,见见久违的父母,和小瓜玩一玩,在家里赖一赖。

无端端,一个端午节让我想家了。
久违的感觉,回来了。
或许,最近压力大了点吧~

好,emo完了,该读书了。

人的本性不该存有自私这一项,
但为了生存,越来越多人越来越自私,
我也不例外。
很想对她说,对不起,今天是我太自私了,对不起。
我该为自己的交通负责。

我会努力,努力调整心态,至少,
下次不会这么自私。

另外,当你努力告诉我,某某公司的产品有多好又多好的时候,
我至少不会对你翻白眼,
谢谢你一直以来对我的包容,真的很感激。

This is what i done today!! =P
Yeah, i made myself enrolling into the final of the very 1st National Student Challenge (NSC) 2012!!
It is an event organised today, 12 May 2012 at sunway pyramid convention center.
There is a preliminary phase which consists of online quizzes,
then Top 30 finalist will be chosen to go for the final at sunway pyramid convention center.
Actually my ranking has dropped beyond Top 30, however due to some reason they contacted me to go to the final coz some of the finalists cant make it through.
Thus, i get the great chance to participate in this great event!
As the organiser said, this is the very first NSC in Asia and we are the pioneer!!!
haha... super proud of it!! =D

For the final today, there are two rounds whereby we have to get through in order to get the prizes!
1st prize, New IPAD!!
2nd prize, RM500, 3rd prize, RM300!!
And i din get any of them! haha... i just go there for fun and experience la...

1st round, we had been divided into 6 groups with 5 person in a group by which we duno each other!
We are given a case study and we shall find out the solutions to the case given!
30 minutes of preparation and 15 minutes of presentation! haha...
It is all about business case study and well, my group consist of 3 science student out of 5 by which we dun really have the idea of how to conduct a case study for business...
However, we managed to get ourselves through this section and gained the pass to the next round!
Actually i really wonders, there are other groups which presented much better than mine, i duno what is the criteria and what are they looking for... But i dun mind, coz what i care is i managed to get into 2nd round!! hehe....

2nd round, we are given 10 minutes of preparation and 60 seconds to answer the question "Why should i be hired?"
There are a wide variety of weird weird materials been given, gt balls, marker, pen, paper, chewing gum, bottle, cartoons and whatever weird things u can imagine..
The materials are meant to be assist in the 60 seconds presentation of selling yourself! haha...
i standing there for quite a long time duno what shall i picked, finally, i picked nth and just go back to my own seat.
Finally i take out my own water bottle together with the unopened water bottle given by the organiser and presented myself.
I take myself as the full bottle of 500ml when i go to hospital as a pharmacist but then will upgrade my knowledge by upgrading my water bottle size to 750ml with some space inside it! haha...
At the end of the day, i din managed to get myself through this section and get nth except 1 certification of participation!
haha....
Nvm, as mom said, go there gain some experience!
I gt the chance to have some networking session with the GTI media programme manager and some of the representatives!
Thanks GTI Media for giving me this great chance!!!
I will definitely join again next year if u organise it again!!! haha...
See you next year!!









近来,脾气很大。。。
许许多多烦人的事~
许许多多该想该做该继续努力的事~

偶尔,
偶尔真的很想逃离这世界~
离开,放下,纯粹享受,
但,这不可能吧~
可悲啊~
就算多想逃都好,终究还是得回到残酷的世界~
努力告诉自己,要正面思考。
但偶尔,事实永远不会如你所愿。。。
事与愿违~
这就是现实。
不知何时才能接受,才能彻底明白,这世界到底长什么样子。。。

thesis一开始到现在不知不觉已经大约两个月了,
我真的不懂,这两个月来,我是怎么活下来的。。。
许许多多不可思议的东西总会在你不经意下跳出来扰乱原是平静的人生。。。
许许多多数不完的抱怨,
许许多多的工作做不完,
却依然选择逃避~
但逃,又能逃到哪去?

一直以来,思绪都有个很奇怪的setting,
有些人,如何烦我都不会讨厌,
有些人,一找我就会中炸弹,
有些人,永远死性不改,
有些人,沟通了几年还是沟通不良,
有些人,如何解释都好还是一直问一直问,烦不烦啊???
有些人,真的必须清楚告诉他们,我不是你的sv!!!
我没权力也没能力更没能耐告诉你什么该做什么不该做什么该准备什么该怎么做!
我不是神啊!
有些人,就是非常有能耐地可以把我惹毛,
有些东西,明明你自己就明白,那为何要来烦我???
我真的真的很讨厌!!
更想请你不要在不适合的时候来烦我!
我只是凡人,不想被烦!

有些东西,付出久了,会被当成理所当然。
但现实没有什么东西是理所当然的。
付出久了,会累!
或许,这就是人性的悲哀吧~
没有人是十全十美的,
必须牢记!

好啦,发泄完了,是时候面对现实了,
堆积如山的任务,就算是愚公移山都得移完!
加油了大家~

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