There are some people who are dedicated to their tasks, from start to finish. My husband is one of those people - man, I love that guy so much for it. I, on the other hand, usually end up starting a project, getting to the hard part, and then "multi-tasking" to something else for "a little while" and then never coming back.
Well, I had a day or two this week where I decided to just GET IT DONE! And boy, it felt good.
It all started that morning when I was thinking about the meeting I had with Tyler's teacher last week. For years, speech therapists have told me about having a board with pictures the kids can point to so they can get what they want. And I have just never gotten around to it. But now they are actually using it in snack time at school. They it in front of them, and at the bottom it has "I" and "Want" with a velcro spot next to it. They pick what they want from the top row of velcro, pull it off and put it on the bottom of their sentence, and then tap the pictures as they say "I want cracker" or whatever on the bottom. Each time they do that, they get one more cracker. That might seem odd, but for these kiddos, they need to learn the cause and effect of it all. I would say Tyler has only seen the concept of "I get what I ask for specifically" for less than a year, and often he still just waits around and hopes he gets something without asking. Food is the best motivator to use for them to understand this cause and effect.
Well, after the meeting, I thought through our meals with Tyler. Obviously dinner looks different every day, and even snacks are rather random. But breakfast looks pretty much the same every day. I debated on just taking pictures as I made things over the next few weeks, but . . . I knew I would never get around to finishing it. So I made a little of everything that I usually make for breakfast, and Kaitlyn and I made a very odd lunch out of all ot it. (Thankfully, some things - like cereal - can be put right back, since I didn't pour the milk on). I took pictures of everything, added the labels in photoshop, and . . . voila!
I can't tell you how many people have laughed themselves silly that I made all the food in one go, but -by golly - I was getting this one done instead of debating about it for another year or two.
We even had tons of photo paper I never thought I would have a use for, a pre-cut board I was going to use for something else and didn't, and velcro. More about the velcro in a minute.
Obviously, the "I" and "want" pictures are missing for now - the teacher is going to email them to me soon. It still works anyway. So now every morning I put the stuff on the first two rows that Tyler can have that day. Usually he starts out by just pointing to it and saying the name ("Strawberries!") and we have to encourage him a bit to say "I want strawberries" instead. That is the purpose of the whole thing, after all. Sometimes he has used it to get a drink when I normally wouldn't have thought to give him one - jackpot! Once he asked for something he didn't actually want, and then eventually had to figure out to ask for what he really wanted. But it really is a great thing for him.
Well, back to the velcro. I had velco in my basement from a long forgotten project. We started these in a group craft night at church YEARS ago. And since I didn't get to finish that night, I ended up borrowing the rolls of sticky-backed, industrial strength velcro, so I could make mine and give back the rest. I never touched it again. Since the person I borrowed it from moved to California, I guess it is . . . um, mine now. (I owe you one, Erica!)
But this wasn't ignore half done projects day! This was GET IT DONE day! So I finally sat down, placed the velcro, and finished the dang thing. (There is velcro on all the pieces so that I can switch out the USA to say BYU or have the spring flowers on it instead.)
The funniest part is that I actually have no idea where I am going to hang this thing now. I decided to make it three years ago, so heaven only knows where I planned to hang it back then.
Then I saw a bowl where I had gathered the beads from Kaitlyn's broken necklace. Stretchy necklaces are not a good idea for toddlers - they just stretch them until they break. So I strung them back on regular thread and attached it to a stretchy ribbon. Now it will stretch over her head and not snap. On a roll!
In the meantime, my husband caught the bug. We have had a broken ice maker for 3 years now - ever since Kaitlyn was born. We have always hoped that if we emptied the fridge and freezer and let things thaw out it would come back to life. But who wants to actually do that project? Well, Christopher finally decided he had had enough last week and took the entire thing apart. He figured out exactly which part was broken, ordered a new ice maker, and now WE HAVE ICE!
I know this must seem like the lamest thing in the world, but you have no idea how wonderful ice is until you go without it for years.
Christpher has also been meaning to run a triathalon for some time now. But he finally got a tri suit and signed up for the Spudman in July with some friends. It should be great! His other "been meaning to" are his new "shoes". One of my brothers and one of his co-workers swear by these things, and so he finally bought a pair to try out. Apparently, they are much better for your feet to run in than regular shoes. He has only tried them once so far, and decided they take some more getting used to.
And while I am blogging, I can mention what I did today. Sometimes I see craft ideas online, and make them because I really want one. Today I can honestly say I made this craft because it had to be a lie. There was no way this works. Well, it did.
This is a very hard little disk for a necklace. Can you guess what it is made of?
A red, plastic SOLO cup. You cut the bottom, doodle with permanent marker, and melt it in the oven like a shrinky dink.
You've got to be kidding me.
Well, now I know what I am doing with my Activity Day girls on Tuesday, at least.