Wednesday, August 25, 2010

A New Start

Suddenly thought of blogging down my thoughts and looking at the dates, I seem to be blogging once every half a year? haha!

Friends who have been kept updated via my posts and status updates on facebook will probably know that I'm moving on after 5 years! No longer an auditor and now moving on to the real commercial world!

During this period, I have been through a lot of emotions. Extracting from my farewell email to my colleagues and friends who are still with the firm:

"From the day I handed in my letter, there were mixed emotions of excitement about the new job as well as sense of loss and uncertainty. There are simply too many memorable things from the past 5 years which had kept me going and which I can't bear to part with.

As I was serving my notice, I started to realise that these things have become such as integral part of my life in the firm. I started to realise how much I will miss those long lunches of gossiping and complaining, the times of working in a team with lots of sharing and coaching, the dinners and all the late nights of working together with all my teams and fellow peers."

Nevertheless, I guess everyone need to move on one day or another. I believe that we will still be able to meet up outside work!

I think I must be one of luckiest auditor around. Started off with a rare opportunity to do my internship with one of the Big 4 (where there are so many candidates and I was one of the lucky ones to be selected), to being offered a job in the firm after graduation. Thereafter, 5 years of pretty smooth sailing audit life (with minimal tough times) to such good offer and opportunity that just dropped right in front of my doorstep. I really have all the luck to thank for!

I don't dislike audit...seriously. Never once in my 5 years have I ever dislike audit. Some of you fellow ex-auditors must be thinking I'm crazy! haha! But its true. I kind of like it. The dynamics of the work nature that make my work so interesting, the different people I met and befriend whether they are my colleagues in the team or accountants at the client's, the issues and solutions that always make me feel that I'm continuously learning and the satisfaction of completing the whole audit. That's probably what has kept me going for 5 years.

The decision to move out, therefore, is never a push factor. It was a pull. The lure of a "better work life balance" is a small contributing factor. I don't know if working in commercial will really bring me more free time but I'm willing to give it a try. Staying in audit has never been a long term plan. It is a matter of time to move out. Before I get too "rusty" and before the inertial and opportunity to move gets too difficult. Most importantly, I believe that in commercial, I will learn things which I will probably never learn in audit. Going deeper into the operational and finance aspects of a Company and not only looking from the surface. Understanding certain business rationale from my own personal learning experience and not via meetings with the management. These are just one of the many things which I'm looking forward to learning.

And so, I'm going to rest myself well and enjoy myself as much as possible during this period before getting ready for my new start on 1 Sept 2010! ^_^

Sunday, March 14, 2010

A weekend of happening news

ok! I'm probably just blogging because i want to get things out of my mind. I doubt anyone is following up on my blog anymore since the last time I blog was 'donkey years' [as quoted by Miss Z] ago!


I discovered 3 happening things this weekend....no I'm not refering to the IT fair at Suntec where I was stuck in that human jam.....but sadly to say 1 of them is not really worth celebrating but yet stir up quite a number of feelings in me...

Happening 1
My good friend cum colleague Miss Z is attached! I'm truly happy for her! Hope she and her romantic bf stay sweet always!

Happening 2
Another case of a couple being discovered! although i don't know them personally, but Miss Sunshine loves this kind of news!
After the IT show, me and RK were waiting for bus to go home...among the crowd i heard a ger behind me asking her bf in the usual gf to bf tone "wouldn't you take 502 with me?" and as I look up to RK, he was having this sly smile...
RK: "That's my friend"
Me: "Really? then why don't you say hi?"
RK: [Continue with his sly smile]
Me: "You don't know that he's attached? He never tell you?"
RK: "I know the girl too! All of us play mahjong together"
Me: "No wonder...quick go and say hi to them...haha"
RK: "They're leaving"

As I turn back to look at them, the male lead also happen to catch us looking at them and wave at RK awkwardly, and so the female lead also realises and acknowledge RK's presence...

RK: "No wonder so long never jio us play mahjong anymore"
SW: "They prefer 2 person mahjong lah"

Such a sweet news deserved to be shared with everyone!

Happening 3
While browsing through facebook, saw the status update of a colleague cum ex JC friend of mine...we were in the same CCA and she's 2 years younger than me...

the status update talks about her breaking up with her bf (who is a j***) one week ago because he likes another.....

it was quite a shocking news because i know her bf too...he's was 1 year my senior in the CCA (that's how all of us got to know each other) and they have been together for about 4-5 years! Her bf is in the same company as RK and i showed him that msg...he was pretty shocked too...

why is it so easy for someone to just let go of the relationship and fall in love with someone else? Don't the 4-5 years mean anything to them? Exactly what is love and liking and how can it changes just like that?

i wonder...

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Life is not on an accrual basis

Haven't been blogging for a long long time...been so busy lately that i'm glad its a long weekend this week...

a long weekend does not mean more rest for me lately...it means i have time to rest. this is the 5th weekend that i have been working...and yes...i'm so tired...too tired to even complain much...i hardly go onto msn, facebook nor blogs....its all about work and work....=(

as i work over the weekends, most of the times myself in office with no one around, i think about an email which a friend send after he resigned and moved out of audit, the thing that struck me the most from the email was this:

"life is not really on an accrual basis"

my non-accounting friends are probably having question marks all over their minds...but if you're in audit, you can't help but agree so much with this line.

what does this mean? in my profession, to finish up the work that is on hand, most of time you have no choice but to work OT. ..and the way my profession USED TO WORK is that if you work OT (either late during the weekdays or on weekends), you get compensated. not in terms of cash but in terms of time-off (leaves).

this is perhaps one of the most motivating and consoling thing in our profession when you need to work beyond your contractual working hours.

and yes, if you noticed, i said USED TO WORK because this policy is no longer in place (i will not comment much on this because it might end up being a long boring post).

with this time off policy in the past, it worked like accounting treatment. accruals simply means you have incurred the liability or obligation but the actual cash outlay is in the near future.

in my profession, with the overtime and subsequent time-off, it mirrors this accrual accounting treatment. you work first (on weekends and on weekdays), subsequently then you get the time off to enjoy.

being in this profession for 4 years already, and having so many cycle of working OT and subsequently getting the time off, i start to think to myself (especially recently), are all these really worth it? yes, you get the time back, some of us even get to clear 2-3 months of leave and time-off all at one go. many non audit friends will say "wow...you're so lucky, such a long leave!" or "wow...clear leave again ah? so many leaves to clear" it seems great...but does the time-off really compensate 100% of the time?

firstly, working 8 hours of OT does not allow you to claim 8 hours of time-off. there is the efficiency hours component which we need to take into account. so i'm not disagreeing with this.

secondly, having claim the less than 8 hours OT, does it really compensate me for the hours and opportunity costs? the dark eye circles, the poor complexion as a result of stress, the number of brain cells killed...not to mention the less number hours spent with family and friends.
and of course, in the midst of all these, i'm assuming that there is always tomorrow! but what if there's no tomorrow? nobody knows what will happen tomorrow, that is why people always say cherish and treasure the present!

having said that, i'm still working on weekends, working late...trying to finish the never-ending pile of work...and hoping that tomorrow will always comes so that i can look forward to the break.....

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Counting down!

7 more days to the 732nd day!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Bye to my 4 years of long hair

Managed to get 3 days of last min leave to nua at home...this leave comes at the right time, allowing me to enjoy 6 days of nuaing (with only 3 days of leave) =p

Time was mostly spend nuaing at home, sleeping, watching shows - SCV, Mio TV and downloaded shows....

Yesterday was the most fulfilling day i guess! Started off the day with facial at around 1230pm at City Hall area, followed by some shopping in Citylink and Marina Square...went for a haircut at 330pm and ended off the day with shopping and dinner with boyfriend in PS...

Facial results: Good - my sis could tell the difference!


Sis: you went for facial today?


Me: yeah...how u know? can tell?


Sis: ur complexion looks clearer...


Me thinking to myself: good...seems like need to go more often!





Shopping results: 2 nice tops and 2 t-shirts - $78, additional lines in my credit card bills and a happier me





Haircut results: shorter shoulder length hair with thicker fringe
The planned results was supposed to be bangs but i really couldn't accept that new look of mine! they remind me of myself in the old photos like 20 years ago! so the hairstylist changed the look slightly and sweep the bangs to one side and i'm happy with the results! The shoulder length hair was shorter than expected but i guess it makes me look younger and fresher...=p The last i had this hair length was when i was in NTU...wah...4 years liao...



The different reactions:

The first to see my new hairstyle is none other than my BF who met me for dinner...he smiled and commented that i look different...

Me: So issit nice? u prefer this new hairstyle or the old one?

BF: ok lah...not too bad [For the info of my blog readers, my bf's "not too bad" = "nice"]

I kind of expect this typical reply from him... knowing how stingy my BF is with his comments and praises and being the typical gf who just want to HEAR it, i asked "meaning what? nice or not nice?"

BF: *knowing that i wouldn't give up till he say it* nice...haha...

Me: happy =)


Mum: looks different! and face rounder... :s oops....


Sis: EEEWWWW.....why u cut like that? should cut shorter...just crop it off....no wonder RK just now face green green...must be you scare him with your new hairstyle! (she saw him at our block downstairs)
typical comment by my mean sis....ahahha....

Dad: nice...i like your fringe....

So, what do you guys think?

Sunday, February 15, 2009

My Favourite Month of the Year

Yes! Its February again! My favourite month of the year.... My bf celebrated my birthday for me earlier during Sunday...went to watch Benjamin Buttons followed by an unexpectedly nice dinner...

The movie, in my opinion, was good...though long (2 hours and 40 mins?) and certain parts a little slow, it was still good...love the storyline especially...go catch it if you haven't! definitely worth the $$.

We had wanted to go try out Ma Maison...a pity it was fully booked! :( so in the end, he brought me to this nice little cosy corner in Plaza Singapura. From the outside, it is a shopfront selling antiques and collectibles...furnitures, deco, accessories etc. But on a closer look, there is this cafe inside the shop named TeaCosy @ Eclectic Attic...

On entering the shop, we were pretty amazed by the cafe. The cafe is rather small, probably just enough for 20-25 people...and all the tables and chairs/couches/cushion seats are all antique vintage style! you can even purchase those tables and chairs where you are seated. We selected the cosy corner window seat..

The European food are served using vintage royal copenhagen plates which gives the dining experience a unique touch. Look at the pretty teacups, the tea bags are even attached with pretty little flowers!

The table has deco ornamants for sale as well...look at the one on our table...A very pretty table stand with cosy pink lighting...but a little too pricey for me to bring home (about S$800)


While waiting for the food, hungry me couldn't resist the temptation to pinch on the brownies! Guess what? the brownie is not from the cafe itself...heh...its the bday gift handmade by my bf! I must say that it tastes really good! Moist and just the right texture, top off with the chocolate cream...yummy! and it goes just well with my earl grey....hmmm


Our appetiser came shortly after we ordered: Decadent Salad with prawns, egg and foie gras...as with most other yummy salad, differentiating factor with this salad is the dressing...it goes very well with the vege, prawn and egg...the foie gras portion was a little small though...only 3 pieces...



For the mains, both of us ordered the same - Grilled chicken with prawn..i cannot remember the exact name but i think it was Surf and Turf... the sauce was some BBQ sauce and goes well with the chicken..the chicken was tender and the prawn was grilled well..not too dry.... and it also came with a generous serving of vegetables = balanced diet!


and just when the mains came and i was so tempted to start on it, bf's phone rang and it was a tuition lobang...and the reason while he was laughing so happily was because they were at the topic of tuition fees...$_$



and after some shots, we can finally start on the yummy food! =p


After dinner, we laze around in the cafe, drinking tea till closing time...a simple and yet cosy dinner =) I'll recommend this place to all my friends...for the food and the ambience...

Thursday, December 04, 2008

Mr and Miss Lame

Sunshine has a feeling that her blog readers have long given up on her....haha...

except for one - whom she knows is still waiting to read her blog coz of the bugging she got almost everyweek...hahaa...

so here i am...in the evening and having the luxury of not having to work coz i've taken medical leave....

decided to blog... i'm just going to blog randomly and whatever that pops up in my mind...pardon me if you can't seem to absorb what i said...=p

before i go into the Mr and Miss Lame portion...some updates and thoughts

a lot has happened during this period... thanks to all my friends who have been there for me, lending me a listening ear, consoling me and comforting me, not to mention the support and advices from all of you....

i guess what has happened is not necessarily a bad thing after all, i feel that i've grown in this relationship (hopefully not physically!) to be more mature...or at least i try to tell myself that i need to be more mature...haha...

i start to see things and situations in a different way...its hard to describe in words...but its just like how you see a half-full glass as compared to a half-empty glass...

i also start to understand myself and him better....realising that sometimes its all about understanding each other...quoting my friend below:

"its not about compromising, its about learning how to love that person" I think this is really quite true...

well! life is now back to normal and i'm back to the happy state....i just want all of you who are reading this, whether or know you know what happened, to share my joy... =)

My JC friends used to tease me about my lame jokes...and none of them ever appreciate it...sobsob...but now i've found one who will appreciate and continue my lame jokes!

Mr Lame: Morning! Reach office? Me still waiting bus...so slow one
Miss Lame: Me just woke up...taking MC and working from home today...
Mr Lame: Wa...chao keng...thought you busy running ard but actually running after ZhouGong..
Miss Lame: Ha...I wanted to continue playing chess with him but he dun wan...so running after him lor...
Mr Lame: ok lor...later i chase after him for you...
Miss Lame: .......

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Photo Feast

Haven't been blogging though i'm on leave! but this is the second week already...sheez...my leave is like ending and i haven't feel like i've gotten enough rest or fun!

JW's Wedding
the first week of leave was just nuaing and doing nothing and preparing for JW's wedding!!! so happy for her...she totally looks like a princess in a fairytale wedding..haha...sorry no photo of the bride coz all with her professional photographer...will post it up once i've gotten them!

woke up at 5am that morning coz hers was an early one...had to be there by 630am...luckily it ended ard 12noon and the 5 of us went back home to catch some sleep and rest before the banquet at night... here's just some photos of us at the wedding night - the jiemeis!

PrettyAddy and GM with their falsies

Me and HS in JW's wedding suite

The 5 jiemeis at the banquet reception

Addy and GM at the dinner banquet



Me and RK

HS and Roland



YH and Simon (Simon can't stop eating?)

Exploration of the Southern Ridges

Singapore is really small....after the zoo trip and night safari trip (not much interesting photos to be posted here), we decided to explore the new southern ridges that the NPark deserve credit for! Out of the total 9km, only the first 5km (as recommended by many ppl) has got stuff worth seeing...my suggestion is to end the trail at the Hort Park and forgo the Canopy Walk coz after the Canopy Walk, you will have to walk quite a distance downhill before you reaches the main road to find your way home! From the Hort Park, it is more accessible....

9km is definitely the map distance, not taking into account the elevation...and this walk is really a good nature trail walk with the uphills and downhills and stairs...=p my calves hurt like siao after the day!

Starting off from the Marang Trail (exit D of Harbourfront MRT)...though the distance isn't veri long but the elevation is equivalent to 24 storeys! Good workout!







Finally reaches the peak of Mount Faber! Sentosa and Harbourfont...




After the Mount Faber Walk, finally reaches the Henderson Waves...interesting architecture but there was definitely too many people for me to properly enjoy the walk up there...


The highest point on the Henderson Waves


Spotted a squirrel among the trees


The terrace garden which appeared in many local drama series


At the top of the terrace garden where we took a short rest


Moving on to the forest walk...an amazing zig-zag design from the top all the way to the ground










A durian tree with many durians hanging...many people were crowding around to see...i wonder if they were feeling hungry...haha...



The Alexandra Arch - the other highlight after Henderson Waves...again it didn't seem that fantastic...my expectation too high? prob its nicer at night with the LED lightings!



Entrance to the Hort Garden - i think there were about 20 different themes inside. Each theme is a small little garden area...







I love this tree...resemble an old grandfather standing steadily in the open area....looks so nice when the wind blows...

I don't know what the LIAS stand for but this theme is a nursery theme!
Look at the baby milk bottle!
and the baby chair with plants...


and the baby cradle! love the creativity...=p



started from 330pm and now its sunset already....

The Wizard of Ox theme...=)





We finished the Canopy Walk at around 730pm-8pm...it would be good to search online to see which route you all prefer (either start from Harbourfront to Hort Garden or the other way round) =p

Do try it....you will be amazed by the kind of greenery and land area which Singapore has!