Sunday, February 26, 2006
Love
First of all, i need to give my biggest and sincere congratulations to my dearest deb deb and alvin. Wishing them a blissful marriage.. :) i'm genuinely happy for them.
debdeb: to attain true happiness you've have to play ignorance to the pp who did not give you their true blessings. its ur marriage, ur future.. not them. Your life is a perfect reflections of your beliefs. i know you believed in this love. so just follow your heart. :)
suddenly, friends ard me are constructing their very own family. Though some did surprise me, but i do believe this world is filled with love. love that shaped our hearts. love that created souls in us.. i gave them my genuine blessings.
by the way i read it from a book.. interesting.. How do you love people? just accept them. Complete acceptance is unconditional love.
its easier said than done.
well well.. sat 25 feb:
i slept my way through till 2pm. then i went over to darling's place and went for dinner with his family. james drove us to old airport road. the distance is definitely worth for good food. ;p after dinner we went to our favourite place.. also our routine place on sat. Giant.
it was already 11pm when we reached dear's place. then we decided to catch a midnite movie. final destination 3. i like it. it jus keeps me tense and totally submerged into the story for the full 2hrs. exciting yet scary and eh.. some scenes kinda disgusts me. then we headed back to my place. it was then ard 2am. dear stayed over. love him. tons.
Love, Shandy.
7:12 PM
Saturday, February 25, 2006
I'm exhausted...
it became lazier. It responsed slower than usual. and it doesn't transmit messages properly. My dear brain... can u be friends with my fingers again?
i need a good mattress, a warm blanket, a comfy room and plenty of time. i need a good sleep.
Workload is intimidating. time is never sufficient. but thank god.. friends are wonderful, colleagues are considerate and most importantly my boy is understanding.
Back to updates:
Thur 23 Feb,
after work i headed to orchard to meet deb deb, weiling and meiria. had dinner, some shopping and catching up. we chilled out at heeren's "Balcony". the other time i went to the dining restaurant at level 1. this time we went to the chill out bar at level 2. the washroom for ladies and gents are universal. it was kinda weird when you queued with the men for cubicles. it was odd when i looked into the mirror with a man's face at the back. haha.. but it was unique.. the place was cosy. but girls, i think it is not advisable to wear skirts if you want comfy and enjoyment. the cocktails are nice. i like my chocolate mint martini. :)
we left ard 11pm. with a little alcohol, it made my sleep a nice one.






Fri 24 Feb,
mary and me had some miscommuncations. resulting the both of us to end up in the pantry for lunch. we wanted to go to novena square actually. but.... haha.. its both our faults. we thought we could use our eyes to communicate. (like kiong n weiling) in the end.. haha.. it was a joke though.. anyway after work i went back home to change before going over to dear's place for dinner. the 2 of us.. only! the combo goes like this... 6 pieces of chickens, 1 large popcorn chicken, 6 pieces of nuggets, 1 large mash potatoes, 1 medium coleslaw, 10 pieces of drumlets. amazing huh?! heez.. i spend the evening at his place. then we came back to my place at ard 10pm for mahjong session. the usual pp again. heez. we played till 4am. then we headed to bukit timah for supper. :)


the gigantic roti john!




yt n joe left earlier. leaving the 5 of us.
the 2 cars wanted a create a convoy of vehicles. (is tat how i use this word? a whole line of vehicles moving at the same time?) heez.. anyway it was quite fun. then we send min min back first. and then hui n jeff went for a car wash. but me n dear went for a spin. heez.. we drove all the way to westcoast park, haw par villa, then to kent ridge park, n to the "99 turns" road. it was relaxing yet exciting. hehez.. we got kinda lost in nus campus. and we reached a dead end which freaked me out tat i quickly wind up the windows.. we reached home ard 6am. i was once again exhausted.
A little information to share..
My sister is recently diagnosed with chronic urticaria.
Urticaria is not a single disease but a reaction pattern that represents cutaneous mast cell degranulation, resulting in extravasation of plasma into the dermis. Urticaria is characterized by hives or wheals, which are edematous, and often pruritic, skin papules or plaques. The variety of potential triggers of urticaria can make the approach to diagnosis and treatment a challenge. Without correction of the underlying problem, patients with chronic urticaria may not improve or may depend on medication for many years to get relief.
However, urticaria is not a life-threatening disease; however, chronic urticaria has been shown to have a negative impact on the quality of life of affected patients.
A number of factors have been reported to cause chronic urticaria. Medications (Asprin, penicillin, alcohol etc..), food, infections, autoimmune disease, metabolic and physical factors.
phew~ my sister fret me out in the beginning when the symptoms attached to her for months. she didn't seek for treatment because she didn't see the importance till her conditions worsened. fortunatley, it wasn't any fatal illness.
Love, Shandy.
2:23 PM
Wednesday, February 22, 2006
can i sue him for a harrassment?
this insane freak.. every morning when i walked to the train station, he would greet me with a "good morning pretty lady." in cantonese.. it kinda startled me the very first time. however i ignored him. but things are getting on my nerves when i started seeing him everyday consecutively for 2 months. the worst thing was to get to the train station, it was the only way. darn it. the matter deterioriated to the extend that he even wanted to touch me or something. i have no idea. the only thing i knew was he bounced from the platform towards me. i shunned him away and walked quickly into the crowd. argh... it was terrifying plus annoying!
then there was this period of time where dear send mi to and fro from work cos he was attending some courses near my workplace. one day, when we walked to the train station, that weirdo didn't make a sound (cos dear was holding on to me) but he screened me tip to toe. dear saw it.. and he chided him right in public.
and from that day onwards.. this freako disappeared. he no longer appears at the pavement. he no longer harrasses me, he no longer disturbs me..
finally...
i was dreadfully glad.
all this occurred about 2 months ago.
but..... who knows... this insane man is back again this week. he didn't do anything to me this time round. perhaps he got his lessons. but i jus can't tolerate the sight of him. especially when he watched me from head to toe.
can i sue him for a harrassment?
Love, Shandy.
7:24 PM
Sunday, February 19, 2006
Some little thoughts..
1 hr ago i was feeling depressed, paranoid and upset. now.. i am feeling blessed and touched.
if i knew he was so understanding i would have spoke to him earlier. then i wouldn't be crying the whole day, brooding over the issue, skipped my dinner, and feeling so lousy. really really glad he is so lovely. i am the evil one to keep imagining he is fierce, unreasonable, not understanding and hard to communicate. ya to think back how could i not understand him with the past eight years of a special relationship. oh my tian. i've only myself to blame.
love ya tons my darling.
now i feeling super duper hungry lo.. hehz.. :) a big smile for myself..
Love, Shandy.
9:41 PM
Wednesday, February 15, 2006
Pre Valentine's Day Celebration - Ubin Chalet
Friday 10 feb:
i was on leave..
i meet dear and we went to jurong point. then i left ard 7.30pm to meet buddy at e train station and we set off to winnie (our da jie da) 's place at jurong west. we went there mess the place and we left. haha..

Sat 11 Feb:
Alright.. the P.U. gang is out to ubin again on 11 feb to 12 feb. jus a nite out there. well this was planned by dearie actually for me n him to celebrate vday in advance. but dunno wat happen, we decided the more the merrier.. so tog the 3 couples, hui jeff, joe yt, me n dear we set off to ubin. yuppee... this time round we booked 3 rooms. cos one room can only accomomdate 2 persons as stated in the rules and regulations.
summary:
sat 11 feb:
1. kayaking
2. dinner @ "first stop" (yummy we had hotplate wild boar.. heez..)
3. nitez programs (drinking, cards n games)
sun 12 feb:
1. check out in e morning 11am
2. took e ferry and went to changi market for branded nasi lemak.
3. home sweet home le..












though this trip was short but i enjoyed myself because of dear.. heez.. had lotsa fun n laughter. love him. shall post up the pics once they're ready.
sun 12 feb: it was mummy's bday as well. so didn't get to sleep when i reached home. went out to e temple with my family ist then headed for dinner to celebrate mummy's bday. sister n me bought a wallet for her. plus treat her for dinner. hopefully she like it. :) nite time ard 11pm hui jeff n dear came over for mahjong session. n dear won $17. he is e sole winner for e nite...
monday:
i went out with mummy n my god ma to westmall. then i left earlier to imm alone to get something for dearie. it was meant to be a surprise for him but i dunno how he see thru me.. :( well.. anyway i meet hui ard 8pm and must thank her for driving me ard cos we were rushing to develop some impt photos. but in e end we still didn't make it on time. the shops were closed. anyway then i meet dear for a movie at jurong point. it wasn't a nice show. boring n meaningless.... anyway i forgot the title. haha.... then i reached hm ard 12am. and i started being an owl decorating the photo frame for my dar. well well i did till 3am... so tired.....
Tuesday:
its V day.. early in the morn i rushed down to westmall to develop e photos in the end there were some compatibility errors with my hp n the machine.. ~sob sob~ i panicked..... hai... cos i'm rushing for time.. in the end dear called and he asked me not to worry. cos he suggested we develop the pics when we go out later.... in the end...... it wasnt a surprise for him anymore.... then i meet dear and we went to bugis V8 Cafe for lunch. a treat from dear for valentine's day.. walked ard for a while then we went back to westmall to develop the pics. and well this time round it was a success. finally... i managed to finish up the decorations for the photo frame and i asked my sista to drive mi to dear's place and hand it to him. :) hopefully he likes it..... then sis send me back le..... well well..... dear gotta booked in tat nite.... so poor me..... but thank god i've a great bunch of friends.... hui, yanting n joe came over to my place for mahjong.... again... hehez... we played till 11pm ba..... then dear called.... and we talked... initially everything was fine dunno how we ended up quarrelling.... :( but of cos things were resolved in the end..
Wed 15 feb:
finally i went for the health screening today... it was quite a thorough check. but the results were not out yet.. thank god for the medical claims of my company. it was really great for them to cover everything like optical, dental, health screening and of cos normal medical claims. wonderful.. i met mary at novena ctrl at 9am and we went to do the screening tog. they even provided breakfast for us. nice.. i left ttsh ard 11plus. and then went home for a quick nap. then followed by the dentist app at 3pm. surprisingly the dentist says my teeth are good.. didn't anything much except for normal cleaning. well.. yea rite... so i did most of my medical thingy today! happy... :) after the dental checkup i brought dear to see doc. he is ill... when i see him my heartache..... can see tat he is really in pain.... :( e doc gave him a jab... and then i send him hm. i went hm for dinner then went over to his place again. i left his place only when leefong jie is home. this silly man stil worried bout my safety when he is so terribly ill...
alright... after one whole week of leave finally i'll be back to work tml.....
Love, Shandy.
11:24 PM
Tuesday, February 07, 2006
Chinese New Year Gambling
Summary: i lost $150 in total for this chinese new year. Perhaps.. it is not the end yet.. cos got 5 more days to do.. wish me good luck pp..
Yea yea.. so wat did i do these few days?
i went back to work on wed. as usual after a long holiday, the patients were like tiny ants swarming into our clinic. we were so busy!
And it was weekend again. yuppee.. Fri dear came to fetch me and then we headed to orchard for shopping. mind you.. its him who suggested cos he claimed that he is running out of clothes. well.. nothing caught his eye that day. we headed back to my place ard 9pm. dear went home. while ting n hui came to fetch me and we proceeded to bai nian. had a mini gambling session over there. celebrated her birthday as well. when we sent gerald's gf hm.. we had a nice girls talk as well. :) sometimes guys should jus stay away for a moment. ops.. hehez.. i reached hm ard 1.30pm ba.
sat: gotta climbed out of bed for work again. cos buddy went to malaysia. so i swapped duties with her. alright did i mention? i took cab for consecutive 3 days. that cost me more than 30 bucks already. oh my tian! can someone please knock some sense into me? anyway i left my workplace with jeremy. then i was complaining to him bout me losing money thruout tis chi new yr. and he was hoping of an ice cream treat if his wishings for me today works. i met hui at harbourfront n we went straight to her hse. we made a small gambing table. needless to say, i lost again. :( well.. jeremy's wishings were not useful at all! i think i'm jusunlucky ba.. :( we left hui's place ard 5pm. then i went over to dearie's place. leefong jie bought a new PC home. hooray! meaning a new PC for dearie. we were trying to fix the CPU for a while. then we went off to queensway to lao yu sheng. cos according to the chinese calendar sat 4/2/2006 is ren ri. meaning everybody's birthday. had a sumptous dinner n yu sheng.. after dinner as usual we went to giant. didn't buy many things this time round. then james send us to min min place for mahjong. there were hui n jeff, yanting n joe there. ting n friends went up later also. haha me n dearie won $1. muhaha.. anyway i reached hm ard 3am. dear stayed over.
sunday: didn't hav much programs. though we planned to go gym early in e morning with lee fong jie n james. haha.. but again we overslept. in the end we only had lunch at jurong west ard 4pm. we bought face masks home. hehez.. anyway guess wat i did when i put on the mask? i dozed off n the moment i woke up its 1 hour later. the mask is suppose to be on only for 15 mins. haha.. see this bimbo me. thank god my face was still in gd shape.. otherwise..... sob sob....
monday: i went to work as usual. had lunch with mary. then finally we decided to go for health screening this fri. hopefully i can get the appointment. i've yet to call.. haha...
Love, Shandy.
11:21 PM
+*"~ About me ~"*+
Name:
Shandy Yap Shiwei
Emailadd: shandy_flute@yahoo.com OR
shandy_wei@hotmail.com
Location: Singapore
First Cry: 12 September 1985
Horoscope: Virgo
Lurfee:
* My Emperor Sim
* My family
* My besties liting, aihui+jeff choo, yanting+sumo, jasmine+jeremy, and the guys
* good friend tanny
* cardiac angels yizhen, junel, weiling, debbie, meiria, meihui, xinying, weiping.
* sweetheart batchgirls venie, donna, lindy, jenn
Wishlist:
* Wonderful colleagues onboard
* To be happy~ =)
Places i've been to:
* Africa- johannesburg
* Australia- Adelaide
* Australia - Brisbane
* Australia - Melbourne
* Australia - perth
* Australia - Sydney
* Canada- Vancouver
* China - beijing
* China - hong kong
* China - Shanghai
* France - Paris
* greece - athens
* Holland - Amsterdam
* India - bombay
* Indonesia - batam
* Indonesia - bintan
* Indonesia - jakarta
* Italy - Rome
* Italy - milan
* Japan - Nagoya
* Japan - Osaka
* Japan - Tokyo
* Korea - Seoul
* Malaysia- Cameron Highlands
* Malaysia - genting highlands
* Malaysia - kuala lumpur
* Malaysia - terengganu
* Maldives - male
* New Zealand - auckland
* New Zealand - Christchurch
* Pulau ubin
* Philippines - manila
* Russia - Moscow
* switzerland - zurich
* taiwan - taipei
* turkey - istanbul
* United kingdom - london
* United kingdom - manchester
* United States - los angeles
* United States - Texas - Houston
* United States - Sans Francisco
* UAE - abu dhabi
* UAE - Dubai
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*My dear ones*
cassis collections
Darling AIHUI aka Avril
Darling Yanting aka Kate
Jie
*Shuqun*
Belinda
Yaying
Evelyn
*S'pore Poly*
Weiling
XiaoB
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Sherry lee
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Venecia
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