Sunday, January 31, 2016

January 2016



We began this year visiting family in Utah. Andrew and Ammon headed home on January 3 to get back for work and school commitments while Laurie, Peter and I spent a few more days in Utah waiting for tickets prices to drop.

Once we were all back home life was in full swing!

Andrew began his MBA program. He has planned to get an MBA since before he finished his BS degree, but the timing was never quite right. “Someday” has finally arrived, though, and we decided our family was ready for the commitment and sacrifices this goal will require. He is enrolled with Western Governor’s University. Andrew is continuing to find success with his work at Well’s Fargo. He enjoys the interaction with the community as well as the friendships he’s established with his co-workers. His boss came for a visit earlier this month and mentioned his surprise that Andrew didn’t apply for a recent promotion opportunity. While he had considered it, our family is happy with where we are and wanted to take a pause in career movement while he progresses his education. Andrew has also been heavily involved with the full-time missionaries on the rare occasion that they make it over to our island, and often times even between visits. He enjoys sharing his knowledge of the gospel of Jesus Christ. We thought this month had been pretty full and busy for this husband/daddy/manager/church clerk/member missionary but yesterday he added one more adventure to his busy schedule and participated in a triathlon of his own making. It was the first race he did in Laurie’s lifetime. She was a cute little cheerleader for him and even today keeps telling him, “Good job Daddy!”

I arrived home on a Saturday night and was immediately back to meetings, lessons and activities for the young women’s program at church. This month marks a year since I received this calling and I confess that I still feel a bit like a fish out of water with it. I do love the girls that I get to interact with, though. I also jumped right back into work on Monday morning with a new schedule. Before I left for Christmas, the temporary job I had worked had expired but my boss had invited me to return to a different position with the city. She offered it as a permanent position. I accepted it as a temporary job. While I was gone, the circumstances changed so she asked me to come back to fill my original job. Upon my return, she had me sign the paperwork to confirm the raise she and I had discussed and she “snuck” in the change of status from temporary to permanent. I hesitated for a moment, but ultimately decided to go ahead and take the plunge. One of the things I love about our small town is that even with both parents working, my children have complete and total access to Mom AND Dad at any time during any day. Andrew’s work is across the street from the school (the middle school and elementary school share a campus) and my work is connected to the public library - a place that is easily within walking distance from the school and/or our home and a place where Ammon and Peter love to spend their time. We found a FABULOUS new babysitter for Laurie, who I couldn’t be happier with and we are all adjusting to the slightly new schedule. Although my job description stayed the same, I changed desks/locations within the office so I am getting things re-situated and am also having the opportunity to learn some additional responsibilities. While I enjoyed being in my own office the past several months, I am having now having a blast being down in the main reception area of the city office and getting to see so many friendly faces throughout the day.

Ammon, having turned 12 and being ordained a deacon, passed the Sacrament in church for the first time this month. I see him already growing into that responsibility, doing it with greater confidence each week. I am amazed at what a wonderful young man he is becoming. He and I also attended his first mutual activity together. (That is one of the perks of me being the Young Women’s President!) We had a great time learning together about “pressing forward with steadfastness and Christ” and eating amazing homemade pizzas on a float house school that has been converted into a home. I enjoy the unique experiences we get to have as part of life in Alaska. Ammon has spent a good portion of the month reading – to the point that he actually got written up at school for reading TOO much. Yup… that’s Ammon for you. He has a really hard time putting down a good book – especially if it’s in the middle of the climactic moment. We also hadn’t realized just how many books he’d collected until his teacher came into the bank and mentioned that a big portion of his books were missing. We found more than 30 books that Ammon had read and then forgot to return. Oops. We’re working to keep better tabs on that now. This month we also had a fun gaming afternoon with a friend. I’m hoping that we get to do many more of those as the year progresses. The two favorite games of the afternoon were King of Toyko and Sushi Go.

Peter, my ever social 8-year-old was very much missed by the time we got back to Craig. We had been gone for four weeks and heard from some friends that people had been asking about him often, anxiously awaiting his return. Peter was delighted to be back in school for both academic and social reasons. He has mastered his division – a subject that had him feeling quite flummoxed just a month ago. He was complaining about recess not being fun enough lately, but spends most of his time playing on the merry go round and the zip line and has determined that it’s pretty fun after all. He spends his afternoons at the library where a whole team of his peers gather together for online gaming. They play a game called Tanki and have fun collaborating on strategies, having battles against each other, and cheering each other on as they earn advancements. Peter has also participated in wrestling and scouts this month but his crowning achievement was staying on the Principal's list for the second quarter in a row. That means he has maintained his 4.0 GPA all year. Our trip interfered with his perfect attendance but he's quite proud of having kept his grades up despite missing ten school days.

Laurie has been adjusting to a new babysitter. Tylene has two boys – one Peter’s age and one Laurie’s age. She has been a perfect daycare provider for Laurie and Andrew and I couldn’t be happier with the environment Laurie is in or the quality of care she is receiving. Laurie is becoming more and more of chatter box and just delights us with her conversation. She received several new pairs of shoes for her birthday and wears them ALL. She is also getting more and more picky about what she is willing to wear each day. Laurie definitely has opinions about her fashion. Laurie used her potty correctly this month, but that is really more of a fluke than anything and we aren’t in full-fledged potty training by any stretch of the imagination. We did, however, graduate her into a toddler bed from her crib.

There have been a lot of big changes in our family this month. I  expect the next few months will be more of us settling into our new routines and less of the major new adventures that we embarked in this year We definitely started 2016 with a bang!

Sunday, January 24, 2016

Sunday

One of my resolutions for the year was to be a better journal keeper. I've gone back and forth on whether that meant I want to be more committed to blogging or journal writing. Probably the real answer is both which is somewhat overwhelming and probably explains why neither is happening. But I have a moment while the boys are upstairs pretending (all too loudly) to sleep, Laurie is crying in her crib very obviously NOT sleeping, and Andrew is out with the missionaries for a discussion with Roxanne.

Today is Sunday so we went to church. I actually spoke in Sacrament Meeting and I think it went well overall. The topic was Visiting Teaching which I love to speak on. Sadly, I was up until nearly 2:00 in the morning getting the talk prepared. I was asked to speak as a substitute and didn't receive the assignment until Thursday. On Thursday the missionaries arrived on the island and Andrew had invited them to our house for dinner. Following dinner we hosted a missionary discussion with Roxanne. Then on Friday, I had work. After work we had the Page family come over to visit with the missionaries and then we invited them to stay for dinner. Roxanne was supposed to come over after that but it turned out not to work. However, on Saturday Andrew ended up leaving at 1:00 to go work with the missionaries. He didn't get back until 5:00 at which point he returned with the Elders and Cayden Bird because they were meeting Marci here to chat with her. We ended up having Marci stay for dinner and hung out here until we realized we were missing Brinleigh's birthday party. The three kids and I all rushed over to the party and Andrew stayed home because after their dinner appointment, the missionaries were coming back to our house to meet with Roxanne again. It has been missionary interactions and constant company pretty much since I was asked to speak. Anyway - that's my "excuse" for "procrastinating" until late Saturday night to get it all pulled together. And why the rest of my church experience today was mostly just fighting to stay awake. Andrew and I did come home and take naps while Laurie took hers. But now it's 9:30, the three kids are all still awake, Andrew isn't home and I have lost my patience. So I'm sitting silently on the couch hoping it all resolves itself while I ignore it and blog.


Family Proclamation

The First Presidency and Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

We, the First Presidency and the Council of the Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator's plan for the eternal destiny of His children.All human beings—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.In the premortal realm, spirit sons and daughters knew and worshiped God as their Eternal Father and accepted His plan by which His children could obtain a physical body and gain earthly experience to progress toward perfection and ultimately realize his or her divine destiny as an heir of eternal life. The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.The first commandment that God gave to Adam and Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as husband and wife. We declare that God's commandment for His children to multiply and replenish the earth remains in force. We further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife.We declare the means by which mortal life is created to be divinely appointed. We affirm the sanctity of life and of its importance in God's eternal plan.Husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. "Children are an heritage of the Lord" (Psalms 127:3). Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, to teach them to love and serve one another, to observe the commandments of God and to be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.The family is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.We warn that individuals who violate covenants of chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand accountable before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.We call upon responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.

This proclamation was read by President Gordon B. Hinckley as part of his message at the General Relief Society Meeting held September 23, 1995, in Salt Lake City, Utah.

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