Sunday, March 6, 2011

March is Here!

So much for my New Year's Resolution of trying to keep on top of my blog! Well, here we are nearly a quarter of the way through a new year. What have the Schofields been up to? A lot!!! Dayton wanted to try basketball this year, so we signed him up. The first few times were pretty funny to watch. The kids all tried to take the ball away from their own teammate, and they all were little ball hogs. But, by the end of our eight week adventure with the sport, Dayton knew how to dribble, pass, and shoot. He is quite an athletic little boy, and it was fun having the family all go watch him!

In January, Frank and I took the sport of skiing back up. I hadn't been on the slopes since I was a junior in high school, and it had been about that long for Frank too. We went night skiing with the Canyons School District's Ski with the Superintendent. We had a great time! Frank is such a fun skiing partner, and I improved my skills nearly 100% the second time down! But we only went down the mountain twice...my legs were tired from all my snow-plowing! Some other things have come up since that initial ski night, but hopefully this next year we'll get back to the slopes more often and enjoy the great sport of skiing!

Pierce has made it through a year of Cub Scouts, and has earned his Wolf! I am so proud of him, and his willingness to learn new skills and develop new talents! He is doing fantastic in school, and has earned 100% on all of his spelling tests. He is such a smart boy, and a great help to me around the house, and in helping to watch his younger siblings for 30 minute intervals when I head out to do quick visiting teaching visits!

Kennedy continues to be the queen of everything! She is such a girl, and it is so much fun! She loves playing the piano (although we have yet to put her in formal lessons). She makes up quite pretty tunes all by herself. She loves playing school, and has finally mastered writing her name. She has quite the imagination when she plays, and is so social, always wanting to play with one of her little friends on the street. She is a great big sister to Maleah!

Maleah is growing up so fast, and is in the height of her wanting to do everything by 'myself'. Today when we got home from chruch I was helping her get dressed, and she wanted to put her shirt on all by 'myself'. So, after about 5 minutes of letting her try, and her getting upset every time I did try to help just get things adjusted so she could be successful, she got her head stuck in the neck, and one of her arms twisted behind her back! She finally came over to me and said, "Help me please." we both chuckled as we got her untangled and the shirt finally on! She loves helping Frank or I with various projects around the house, and really is a sweet and loving little girl. She has a smile that just melts your heart!

Here are some fun pictures over the last couple of months. I'm notorious about always forgetting the camera! No basketball picutres, or pictures of heads getting stuck in clothing, but enjoy these!

Here Maleah is outside enjoying the snow!


Merry Christmas!


Kennedy--the fashionista!


Pierce's very cool Valentine's box!


Dayton and his cousin Sam in St. George for New Year's!

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Merry Christmas Everyone!

I finally got something posted since May!!! Crazy! One of my New Year's resolutions is to stay on top of my blogging! (We'll see if I can actually do it!) I've been putting together the 2009 blog and am getting ready to blurb it. Anyway, just wanted to share with you all! Just as a side note, it was so very cold the day we chose to do our famliy pics, and for the most part the kids did exceptionally well! I can't wait to get some new photos up around the house!

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Monday, May 3, 2010

Watch for new things to come!

Okay, so I haven't blogged in forever! I still need to download pics since December off my camera, and for some reason my program won't recognize my camera. So, until I get that figured out, I guess I better type away! So, January highlights...um, not much. February....I went back to work! Crazy, I know. But, moving to Utah County from Cache Valley was an expensive one, and I alos won't have to pay for my own re-licensure starting July...Yay! I work three days as a speech-language pathologist for Alpine School District. I am at an elementary school In American Fork on Tuesdays, and a Jr. High in Lindon on Thrusdays and Fridays. We hired a nanny to watch our kids on the days I work, and she is fabulous! However, we just found out she will be moving this summer and I've contacted the number two on our nanny list, and that looks like it'll work out. My dad sprung surprising news to us in February, in that he was engaged with a tentative wedding date of July 10th, but that changed to April 24th! In March I got to go back to Logan for a quick over-nighter for a Traumatic Brain Injury conference, and got to see so many of my dear friends there. Last month was quite busy...April 1-5th, we took a very spontaneous trip to southern CA to get away from all the cold Utah weather, and to visit some extended family. April 9th, my older brother Dalls got married to a most wonderful woman, Mindy. It so nice to see the positive that can occur after a few months of feeling down-and-out. April 10th, my oldest son Pierce was baptized!!! It was such a wonderful day! On April 24th, like mentioned before, my dad got remarried, and bought a new home in Highland, UT. He still has the house in Alpine, and will put it up for sale when the market gets a little better. I was also called as the 2nd Counselor in the primary presidency of our ward. Frank and I are also the Stake Youth Conference Coordinators, and will still fulfill that calling together. Frank also teaches the YSA Sunday School class. We are now starting to wind down the school year, and enjoy each minute we have together as a family, and watching our sweet kids grow! Hopefully next time you stop by, we'll have pictures to go along with all of these events!

Sunday, February 21, 2010

In Loving Memory


I know it has taken me a while to get this post up. In some ways I haven't wanted to, and I have been waiting to get pictures to post, but I still feel like I needed to. On December 15th, 2009, our world came crashing down around us. My mom, GInger Lee Dallas Pierce, died. She had suffered so many health problems, including: breast cancer, a rare degenerative retinal disease (AZOOR) which robbed her of her sight slowly over the last 12 years, anxiety, depression, hyperchondrianism, chronic pain, as well as several other illnesses. Over the past year, her health had declined dramatically.

But I don't want to focus on the pain and suffering which caused her death, but on the wonderful and loving mother, wife, and grandmother she was! I had always been so proud of her! Until the last few years, she was full of life! She loved life! She also loved being a mother, wife, and grandmother. She grew up in Fillmore,UT, the fourth of five children born to Lloyd and Millie Dallas. She loved growing up in a small town, and talked about her experiences there so often. She was proud of her hearty pinoeer stalk, especially her great-grandfather, Reuben McBride, who settled Fillmore. She was very outgoing and involved in so many groups, including FHA, FBLA, and cheerleading during high school She was the valedictorian for the Millard High School graduating class of 1969.

She then attended Utah State University on scholarship. She was a member of the Aggiettes, and started out as a math major, but turned to communicative disorders her sophomore year. She met my dad, James Kenneth Pierce, in the spring of 1971. They were set up on a blind date by a mutual friend in a psychology class. They dated for six weeks and were engaged. My grandfather told my dad when he asked for her hand in marriage, that my mom couldn't get married unless she finished college. So, rather than get married right away, they were engaged for 13 months, before being sealed for time and all eternity in the Salt Lake Temple, June 2, 1972. She graduated Magna Cum Laude in Communicative Disorders from Utah State, and then went on to complete her Master's degree in the same field.

Both she and my dad were able to find positions working for the Alpine School District, where she completed 33 years before retiring in 2005. She then went back to work for the district after retiring, as a speech consultant, and would observe the new speech pathologists and give them feedback. That even became to difficult for her though, and she quit in March of 2009.

She was such a devoted and loving mother! She wanted to give us as children, every opportunity to develop talents and abilities. She was at every baseball, basketball, soccer game, and wrestling match, along with dance competitions, piano recitals, and choir performances. She also served diligently in her callings, and toward the end of her life, I knew that it was so hard for her not physically, emotionally, and mentally able to serve in church callings, because she truly did enjoy it, and taught us by example that you serve when asked. She was very compassionate and showed a tender heart to all. She was so proud of us, as her children! She was always telling people at work or in the ward about all we were doing.

She loved being a grandmother! She called each one her "little angel". She loved spending time reading, playing, baking, sewing, coloring, tending, and traveling with her grandchildren. She was able to make each grandchild a special blanket when they were born. Whenever she would come for a visit, she would hold the grandchildren's faces so close to hers so she could see them and try to embed their little faces into her memory, because she wouldn't know if she would be able to see them the next time she came for a visit. one of the last family trips we took with she and my dad was to Disneyland just before Christmas of 2007. She wanted to make it a fun experience for our children, and never complained about it being too hard for her to see, even when we were at the park late in the evening.

I miss her so much everyday, and try to emulate her as a mother and speech-langauge pathologist. I am so proud to be her daughter! Through all of this, I have a new profound knowledge and the love our Heavenly Father and Savior Jesus Christ have for each of us. I have an increased testimony of the Plan of Salvation. I know my mother is with us in spirit, and I can feel her presence near. And although hard it may be, I know I will see her again, and just try to be like her as a mother to my children.


Her funeral was one of the most beautiful I have ever been to! The music was absolutely wonderful! William Vernon's rendition of "I Wonder When He Comes Again" and "Where Can I Turn For Peace" was truly inspired! I thank our dear friends in the Mormon Tabernacle Choir for singing another favorite hymn of my mother's, "Consider the Lilies." It was so beautiful, and I know my mother was smiling, because those were two of her most favorite hymns. The dress we were able to find for her was an absolute miracle, and beautiful on her! I know the circumstances of her death were quite traumatic, but I know that she is at peace, and does not want us to mourn for her. She is no longer in her extreme pain and suffering. I was with her the last 3 hours before her death, and I treasure those moments of sweet conversation and last final hug from my mom. I know she loves our family so much, and we loved her!

I do wish she were buried a little closer though. We buried her in Fillmore. It has been hard not to go to her grave site often. I haven't been back since the day we buried her. I know some days it would've helped with the grieving, but I am truly thankful for a wonderful husband who has been such a strength to me, as well as wonderful friends, to help get us all through this. Thank you! And Mom, I will always love you!

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

A Time for Thanksgiving

This last year, we hosted Thanksgiving dinner at our new home in Lehi. I was really excited because I have a new kitchen and dinig area that would accomodate everyone! Plus, my new kitchen has a double convection oven! So nice! My mom really hadn't been feeling well for the past 6 mo. previously, ever since she had her gall bladder removed back in April. Our visits to their home had become shorter, and longer in between because of my mom's health. So, my dad was excited when I approached him with the invitation to do dinner at our place. My mom wasn't sure she'd feel up to making it over to our house, but we kept praying that she would. There were a few things that I asked my sisters-in-law to help with, and we even made a few separate dishes to accomodate my mom's simplified diet. Frank and I put the turkeys (yes, two--one 18 lb., and another 10 lb.) in to cook in the morning, and then Sterling and Brighton's wives, Christy & Brooke, came by about 10:30 to help make the potatoes and set up tables and chairs. Dallas brought the salad, and Brighton made the stuffing/ dressing. We were so happy when we heard the doorbell ring and both my dad AND mom came in! We were all together, and shared a very delicious dinner! It was the last time our family was together, and we all felt really bad alter that we didn't get a family picture. We were just really enjoying visiting and seeing each other, and trying to eat quickly so some family members could get to their other side of the family dinner later in the afternoon. My mom seemed happy that day, but just after an hour, she was exhausted, and needed to get home again to rest. As I look back on the last five months since our move from Logan, I am so grateful we were able to move here when we did. Thanksgiving was a day of brightness and hope and happiness, and I'm grateful for that day!

The turkey--Frank said it was the most moist he'd had in all of our Thanksgivings together!


Here is Brooke, me, and Christy working hard in the kitchen!


Here's the whole crew. I think someone got a better picture, but this is the last one I have of my mom.

Monday, January 11, 2010

ASHA Convention--New Orleans! (Warning: LONG POST!)

I am trying to keep my certification to be a licensed and certified speech-language pathologist. So, when I was looking at how many hours I had already for re-licensure, and how many I still had left to get, I kind of panicked! I told Frank I really needed to focus on getting those hours completed by going to a conference of some-sort, possibly the national convention for speech-language pathologists--in New Orleans! So, in early October, I registered, got my plane ticket, and booked a hotel. My mom was so worried about me going by myself (which is funny because she let me go to London with 2 other cheerleaders by ourselves and a national cheer group when I was a senior in high school!) Frank couldn't come with me, because we didn't have anyone who could watch our kids for us, so I put it on my facebook post to see if I would get any responses. I did! One from my first cousin Amber, and one from my dear friend and college roommate Katy Mitarai. When letting them know what my schedule would be like, Amber thought it would be best for us to get together at a later time, because her schedule would only allow her to come on the weekend, and I was going to be headed back to Utah on Sunday morning. So, Katy flew in the morning after I did, and it was 3 days full of great catching-up!

However, before I get to that fun, let me tell you how adventurous the getting there part was! My flight left on Wed., Nov 18th, at 10:00 a.m. So, Frank drove me up with Kennedy and Maleah, and I go to the airport around 8:35. I did Sky Cap check-in, as I was making sure I didn't leave anyghitn in the front seat, I noticed a cell phone on the console between the seats, and thought, "Oh, my cell phone fell out of my purse." So, I picked it up and popped in it my purse. Going through security was a breeze because they had both check stations and 4 x-ray lines running. I was through within 5 minutes. I stopped and grabbed me a bagel and juice, and a magazine, and walked to my gate and found a seat. As I was sitting there, I noticed my phone in my purse was vibrating, so I opened my purse, and realized something...it wasn't my cell phone, it was Frank's! Oh no!!! We didn't have a home phone line set up yet at our new house, we were using our cell phones as our only means of calling. Plus, Frank was going to be home with the kids while I was gone, and his secretary wouldn't have a way of getting in touch with him, except for email, plus, it was his secretary calling him on his phone already with questions!

Frank's brother Mike was living with us, but I hadn't put his number into my new cell phone yet. So, I called info to get Frank's parents' phone number, but no one answered. I called info again to get Frank's sister's number in North Carolina, and she gave me Mike's number. I then called Mike to let him know what had happened, and that I'd try to get my brother Brighton to pick it up at the airport from me and take it to Frank (Brighton lives about 15 minutes from the airport.) So I called Brighton, he hadn't left for class yet, and he said to see if there was a lost and found I could place it in, or take it to security or something so I wouldn't have to go back through security. I went to the gate check-in desk, and told the woman there about the situation. She started laughing and said it was my choice of whether to leave the gate and give the phone to Brighton, but that they wouldn't hold the plane. So I ran back up to security and asked if there was some way I could put it in an envelope and give it to someone there. They said my brother could park and come in to the airport and I could pass it to him in front of the security guards. However, when I called Brighton back, he didn't want to park and come in the airport. So, I exited the airport and waited for Brighton by Sky Cap.

When he arrived, it was 9:40. I thanked him and gave him a big hug! And then went back inside, and found the longest line for security! They had narrowed it down to 2 scanners, and 1 ticket/i.d. check booth! Oh great! Plus, there were three elderly people in front of me in wheel chairs, waiting with their families. I finally got through security check, and it was 9:55. Right as I was running up the escalators, I heard my name being paged to head to my gate for final boarding. Well, I ran as fast as I could, I was all the way down in B38!! When I turned the corner in my gate area, the flight attendant was kicking up the door stop, I yelled, "I made it! Wait! I'm coming!" She turned around with a smile on her face and said, "We've been waiting for you, glad you made it!" I have never been happier in my life to hear those words!!!

I then flew to Denver, switched planes and had a lay-over, and then was delayed. I flew from Denver to Dallas. I didn't have to switch planes, I was on a continuing leg into New Orleans. However, because our flight had been delayed, the flight attendants would not let those who were on continuing on, leave the plane, as to board the oncoming passengers as quickly as possible! When I arrived in New Orleans, it was 6:30. I waited in line to purchase a shuttle ticket to my hotel, and then upon exiting the airport to go catch the shuttle, I saw a line of about 400 people doing the same thing (it was the largest attended conference with over 18,000!) So I got in one line, and then a worker came through and asked to see every one's ticket. Upon seeing my hotel, she moved me to a different line, and I waited there for about 30 min., and then was switched again to another line, and waited for another 30 minutes, and then again! After the 3rd switch, I asked a fellow SLP in front of me how long she had been waiting, and she said 3 hours! I asked if she wanted to split a cab instead, she wanted too, and found one of her friends in another line. We hailed a cab, and set off on our way to our hotels.

I was going to be staying at the Parc St. Charles, which was listed on the Fine Hotels Registry of New Orleans. I picked this hotel because it looked fabulous online, and had a restaurant, which I needed since I would be eating dinner alone for two of the nights during my stay, and didn't really feel like venturing out on my own at night to find places to eat. However, upon check-in, there was an open sports bar just to the left of the check-in desk, which made the lobby wreak with smoke! I also noticed the restaurant was not open, and upon asking about it, I was told by Carlotta (the front desk manager--and I only remember her name because it was tattooed across her cleavage!) that it was open, just not during the off season for dinner, and I happened to be visiting during the off season.

I got my key, the elevator was awful, the hallway on my floor was really dark and there were bleach stains throughout the carpet up and down the hallway, like someone was trying to cover up the remnants of a crime scene. I had to kick my door to my room open with my foot because the wooden door wasn't on straight. I looked around the room and noticed holes all through-out the bedspreads, the wall-paper was curling up at all the seams, the paint was chipping off the built-it drawer and shelving unit, and again...bleached spot all over the carpet! I immediately called Katy, and told her of the situation, I gave her my cc# and she found another hotel for us on hotwire.com that was a 5-star for only $87/night. We booked it, I went back downstairs and went to check-out. Carlotta was surprised, but said she understood (like she knew she worked in a crappy place that was wrongfully listed on the Fine Hotels Registry!)

I got a cab and drove just 3 blocks down the street to a famous, early New Orleans Hotel Le Pavillion! Oh, it was heaven! They had a door-man who bowed and showed me through the door, and inside were towering marble pillars, marble floors, hand woven carpets, plush velvet couches, and a fine dining restaurant with smells of fresh cooked meals! I checked-in, and made my way to my room! Each floor had a hand-painted mural of flowers or cherubs or quaint villages painted on them. The doors of the elevators were gold leafed! Inside the room, was a vaulted ceiling, a turned down bed service with chocolate, and plush robes in the closet. The bathroom vanity and tub were so ornate with carved marble! There were even little glass apothecary jars with cotton balls, q-tips, and bath salts. And, now I know why they call it "The Big Easy"...it's 'easy' to get all sorts of surprises!

I thought it might just be a rolled-up sage packet ot make the botton balls smell good, but when I smelled it, it definitely wasn't sage or lavender!!! I have a picture of it in my hand right before I flushed it down the toilet, but didn't want to have something questionable on my open blog! Anyway, if you know me, I am terrified of spooky things...like ghosts! I knew that New Orleans was one of the most haunted cities in the country, and I specifically hadn't originally reserved a room in a historic hotel for that purpose. SO, needless to say, I didn't sleep well when I was by myself my first and last nights there, but when Katy was there, I slept fine.

"Heaven, I'm in heaven!"

I took a cab the first morning to the Conference center, it wasn't too far, but I was too tired to walk 1.2 miles at 7 in the morning! So I picked up my registration packet, and attended a full day's worth of sessions. I thought I would take the conference sponsored free shuttle to a conference sponsored hotel about 5 blocks from mine. However, upon walking down a street by myself at 6 pm, I only got about 2 blocks and realized I was in a safe area! So, I turned around and went back to the drop-off site, and got a cab back to my hotel. That might I went ot a famous NOLA resturaunt called Bon Ton, and had crawdad Etouffe'. I'm not really a seafood person, but I obliged the waitress when she said if I were never to come again, I'd just have to have the etouffe'. Well, maybe she thought the etouffe was something different, because...it was awful!!! It was so bad that I was dumping about a 1/2 tsp of Tabasco sauce on each forkful of food, and I really, really don't' like Tabasco sauce! However, I must say the bread pudding was absolutely wonderful!!!

On Friday I went to conferences again,(and walked the entire way, but left a little early so I could do some site-seeing with Katy. We went to the Garden District, which I think we were dropped off in the wrong section by our cabby because, although we saw some beautiful homes, there wasn't much shopping, like our little handout said. WE then took a cab over to the French Quarter, and walked around and shopped. I found this little shop that sold parasols and pirate hats, so I bought a parasol for Kennedy and pirate hats for the boys. I also loved the shop Forever New Orleans. Katy and I had a much better dinner at an Italian place...fantastic food! And of course both nights we stayed up late having some very good girl talk!

(A home in the Garden District)

Frech Quarter


Saturday morning, we went to Mama's for breakfast, which again, I wasn't too impressed, but it's quite the spot for famous people to stop in. I had an egg with biscuit, and for some reason I thought it would be like an egg biscuit from McDonald's, but it was a very dry, very crumbly biscuit, with very wet, flavorless eggs on the side. Then Katy needed to leave to catch her plane, and I needed to get to conferences! The conferences the last day weren't that great, so I bailed on the afternoon sessions, and went on a plantation tour. The only one offered in the afternoon was to the Nottaway Plantation 1 1/2 hrs north of New Orleans. So after the drive, we were only at the plantation about 1 hour before driving back to New Orleans. It was worth it though!

My dear friend and college roommate, Katy Mitarai

The beautiful Nottaway Mansion

View from the front of the house

Me on the second floor veranda balcony with the Mighty Mississippi in the background!

I then had dinner by myself, and I mean MYSELF (no one else was in the hotel restaurant!) The waiter was really nice and kept bringing me little 'extras' through out my meal. Maybe they thought I was too skinny, and needed to empty the week's leftovers? Anyway, it was nice, then I went back to my room, packed, and tried to sleep (not very well.. you know..ghosts? Plus it didn't help that as I was flipping through channels, the Ghost Hunters program was doing a special on the plantation I was just at!) Then I got up early Sunday morning, and caught my plane home back to Utah and my dear sweet family! People have asked me how I like NOLA. Well, to be honest, if it weren't for my dear friend who joined me, I wouldn't have liked it at all. As a petite blonde caucasian, I didn't feel safe, it's expensive (9.5% sales tax), it's dirty, and you have to tip for everything!!! However, for the most part the people are very nice! In fact on the night I tried to walk the 5 blocks back to my hotel, my cab driver kept resetting his fare meter since I was lost and had blisters...so nice! But, it's not a place I go vacationing to with my family any time soon! But on the upside, I earned 19 hours toward my re-licensure, and that's what I went there for!

Friday, January 8, 2010

Family Fun!

I just got my 2008 blogging made into a book, and it arrived in the mail today, and I realized that I'd better get the rest of 2009 blogged so I can get it done into a book as well! So, this post is entitled "Family Fun." In November, and the first few weeks of December, the boys had the opportunity of doing a sport together...wrestling. They really enjoyed the time they had to learn a new sport together, but the best part was Frank being able to be their coach! There were two tournaments they were involved with through the Legacy Center in Lehi. So, on Monday and Wednesday nights for about 7 weeks, all the 'boys' would go do their 'guy' things. Kennedy always felt bad that they would leave her home with mom, but I think mostly it was the fact the the gymnastics took place right across the hall from wrestling, and she really wants to do that. Maybe next year!







The first part of November we got our outdoor play set put together. We had some very unusual warm weather the first part of November, and we were lucky to be able to get the set up before the snow started falling.