I have felt unwanted/needed and didn't even realize that I have seen this as "truth" and believed this as truth, but really it is Satan's way to work on me.
I think it is his go to tool to get me and it is my go to tool to beat myself up with.
Thomas B Marsh's situation was his wife and her friend over cream was the last straw for him of how the members of the Church were thinking, and acting while in Davies county.
He couldn't deal with the members' way of seeing things, and so with the escalation of who was cheating a pint of cream from the other, they pulled away.
There for the grace of God go I. I hope I never had my moment of cream fight where I pull away from the continuing influence of Christ and the gospel.