Wednesday, December 10, 2008

This is the kind of week I've had

The Tree Fell Over





The Furniture Ends up Halfway Down the Stairs


(story about that: I asked James to bring me Audrey's rocking chair, (she has a little one like a bouncy chair) and I don't know if he was being silly or just trying to be obedient, but he pushed the rocking chair in Audrey's room halfway down the stairs--and that thing is HEAVY! )
But Isn't He Cute?



Six Dozen Cookies Made for a Cookie Exchange I didn't Go To




Also:

Sick baby who wouldn't let me put her down
Husband out of town
Ate too many cookies
Internet hardly working
......
So yeah, that's how it was.

BUT, now my husband is back and Audrey is better and I mopped my floor today. So life is good.

Sunday, December 07, 2008

Scared of Santa

We had our ward Christmas party yesterday and it was awesome! We had a breakfast and a guy in our ward made homemade cinnamon rolls for everyone, which had to be at least two hundred people. I don't know how he did it. The one time per year I make one batch of cinnamon rolls it takes me hours.
They were absolutely delicious. All the food and the decorations were wonderful and of course the company was great. They also had gingerbread houses to decorate and a visit from Santa. The boys were really excited but when Nathan got on Santa's lap he froze up and looked terrified.





Finally, he's ready to smile when James joins him.






That got me thinking of a funny website called Scared of Santa. Here are some of my favorites:











I love how some of the people made it their Christmas cards. Classic.
My favorite it "Tucker's first Christmas with Angry Santa". What's your favorite?
Merry Christmas!

Friday, December 05, 2008

Brrrrr

It was 9 degrees when I dropped Jason off at work this morning.
We stayed inside all day because of that. I finally showered at 3:30 after giving up the hope that I am going to bundle us up and go to the YMCA to workout.
The boys had their good and bad moments, as is usual, and Audrey--my perfect baby--was actually fussy today and kind of got on my nerves.

So it's time for a little bloggin' to remind myself how perfect and beautiful my kids are!

Here's some pictures we took from last weekend.





We went to the Christmas parade in downtown Naperville the day after Thanksgiving. It was really fun! We were near the front of the parade line so the boys got tons of candy. It was like Halloween all over again. The weather was decent (in the upper 30s) so it made for a good time, complete with Christmas tree lighting a local American Idol star singing carols.





The next night we drove to Chicago and went to our favorite Thai restaraunt. The weather was even warmer that night (40s) but we just drove around to see all the lights because it was a lot easier than walking around with three kids through the crowds. It was really fun to see all the shoppers out. I bet it's not going to be so crowded tonight with the bitter temperatures.
Here the boys are experimenting with chopsticks. I finally had to confiscate them and make them use their forks, because as Jason pointed out, they can't even use their forks well yet. (They seem to ALWAYS be dropping food).



And here's cute Audrey. What else can I say? I guess I forgive her for being fussy today. She's too irresistable.




Tonight we're going to Oberweiss, so may day is only going to get better from here. Yes, I know it's cold, but icecream still tastes good. And they do have hot chocolate too.

Friday, November 28, 2008

Thanksgiving

I don't understand why my life is blessed with such peace, happiness, and comfort when too many in the world know heartache, war, poverty, etc. However, I am thankful for my life, though not as much as I should be. Can we ever give enough thanks? I don't think so.

I had a wonderful Thanksgiving with my family and our extended family. Here are some pictures.



Audrey Mae




What a joy she is to us









My biggest blessings all in one picture!





We enjoyed a stroll along the riverwalk late morning







Yes, those teeth are as sharp as they look





Our beautiful earth is a blessing






James always does the headtilt in pictures these days






Love the 4 generation pictures



Jason's mom and sister put on a delicious dinner for everyone.
Unfortunately, I forgot to get a picture of everyone at the table, but here are the appetizers.




Audrey REALLY liked Jenna's dog. She was totally laughing at the dog every time it barked.


There you have it. Hope you had a good Thanksgiving too.

Nauvoo



Last week we went to Nauvoo, IL for my cousin Jason's wedding. We had a lovely time. Nauvoo is special to our church because there is a lot of history there. There was a temple there in the 1800s but it got destroyed. Around 6 years ago the church decided to rebuild it. It is incredibly beautiful!





Here's the bride in her "cupcake of a dress" with her 6 brothers. She actually has one more who is on a mission. She is the oldest of 9. Yes, 9. I thought they were such a cute, sweet family. My cousin Jason is the youngest of 5 so I think it's fun he's marrying an "oldest child". They make a great couple and it was so wonderful to see their happiness together. We were so glad we could go.




My mom and Audrey






My parents, and us. The boys were actually there, but weren't at their best and wanted to sit in the car instead of take pictures. I don't blame them, since it was quite cold.





A beautiful sunset over the Missisippi River.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Why Not?

I am breaking my rules. I used to say Christmas festivities and decorations had to wait until after Thanksgiving, but the boys got really excited about setting up Christmas, and honestly, so did I. So why not?

"Haul out the holly! Put up the tree before my spirit falls again...
Fill up the stockings, I may be rushing things, but deck the halls again now..."
(Anyone else know that song?)

I even got out the boys flannel sheets. Here they are pretending to be asleep:






Bad Ad

I am proud to say that I have been carrying Audrey around for the past 5 months. She has been in the stroller once, when I got in a sudden mood to jog.


8 days old and out and about





Hiking with mama



Even dad looks great carrying a baby around in the big city (with children running around him no less)




Yes, it is a stylish carrier, and she is my best accessory, but that's not why I do it.


I like her close to me.
I do.
And she likes it too.




So I found out about this ad and felt a little annoyed:




To quote the Chicago Tribune: "Offend mommy bloggers at your own peril. They can chew you up and spit you out in a day."

Lots of mommy bloggers got mad and the ad was yanked.


But not before a good mock ad response was made:



Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Cloth diapers baby!

I have decided to use cloth diapers with Audrey. It's not really something I ever pictured myself doing, but I decided to give it a try and I really like it. So I will share my experience. But first...a picture of Audrey in one of her pretty ones:




More pictures below, so if you want to skip the reading, go right ahead.

First of all, let me just say that I don't feel as strong about cloth diapers as I do about breastfeeding, the need to reduce unnecessary cesareans, and making world peace. I'm not trying to say "look how good I am because I use cloth and you should too". It's just something unique so I thought I could share my experience with it.

So why did I choose cloth?

I am a good candidate for cloth diapers because I've always tried to be environmentally conscious, I like things more natural, and I don't get grossed out too easily.

But really it was the influence of two friends that were using them, one of them being my best friend Michelle. We've been friends since grade school and I think we influence each other a fair amount. My other friend was a friend from church and I was also influenced by her baby wearing. She adopted a baby and came to church with this tiny newborn in a sling carrier that mimicked the womb--it was like her own pregnancy with the baby. I thought it was really cool.


So because of my two friends I started doing research on the Internet. Boy there are a lot of different kinds of diapers and it was very overwhelming at first! There's also conflicting evidence of which diaper is "better for the environment". Obviously I would not trust the studies done by disposable diaper companies, but it is valid that both types of diapers have a negative impact on the environment. Practically everything we do does. However, I believe cloth does less damage than disposables.

Disposable diapers are the third largest source of landfill waste in the US. Around eighteen billion are thrown out each year. The packaging, plastic and paper used for manufacturing disposables uses a lot of resources and energy. Of course, the pesticides and water used in growing cotton for cloth diapers takes a toll on the environment, and the energy and water used in laundering them does merit some warrant from the disposable side of the debate. But it is just common sense that reusing something is better than using something once and throwing it out.

(My mom's take on the issue: "I can't think of a better use of landfill space than for diapers". Okay, that has validity too. But I'm a tree hugger, what can I say?).

To counteract the impact of laundering my own diapers, I am very careful with how I do the rest of my laundry. I don't have a front loader (though I wish I did) but I do have a very efficient washing machine. I always run full loads of clothes. I wash all my laundry on warm, not hot, except for my diapers. I use a natural detergent called Charlie's Soap to make the cloth diapers more earth friendly. I feel that, overall, using cloth takes less of a toll on the environment than disposables.

However environmentally friendly I may want to be, I have a rule that it must also save money if I am to do it. Cloth diapering past this test as well. While it certainly can be a big investment up front (probably around $300-$400 for nice diapers if you do it right), I have read that people can spend up to $2000 on disposable diapers per child! Even if you buy cheap diapers at Wal-mart (which I did for the boys), it pays off to buy good cloth diapers. It's so awesome to know that I don't have to buy disposables any more! And I won't have to buy them for my next kid either!!

Another big reason for me deciding to use cloth was the Wal-Mart issue. I really dislike Wal-Mart, but they do have the cheapest diapers, and I know that if I were buying disposables I'd be making bi-monthly trips there, with the occasional midnight diaper run. So it's nice not to have to support them or the huge companies that make disposables.

So, those are my reasons for deciding to do cloth, now let me share my experience.



After more than three months of usage, I love it!

I have tried several kinds of cloth diapers and my favorite are Fuzzi bunz and bumGenius. (There are also other companies with cute names like Happy Heinys, Urban Fluff, Haute Pockets, Bumkins, and the like). Fuzzi Bunz and bumGenius are both so soft and work extremely well. They are pocket diapers, which mean they have an outer water proof layer, a soft interior lining that pulls moisture away, and a pocket that I slip an absorbent liner into. I use the bumGenius on Audrey at night and she doesn't have leaks or blow outs. I used to use a disposable at night and on long outings, but to my surprise, even with a nice brand like Huggies, she was having way more blowouts then when she was wearing a good cloth diaper. I say good because a few of the kinds of cloth diapers I tried didn't work as well.

It's really not that much more work to do cloth. Right now Audrey has breast milk poop, which washes out very easily. I don't have to do anything special to a soiled diaper. I just take it off, throw it in a dry diaper pail, and wash them every three days. When she gets older I will put a flushable liner in her diaper so I can just flush her poop away. (By the way, you are supposed to flush poop into the toilet with disposable diapers--read the package, it says so right on it). Anyway, it's actually fun for me to wash the diapers. I love dumping the load of dirty diapers into the wash and having them come out clean! It's a weird little thing to like, I know.


I do a cold pre-rinse, wash on hot, and then rinse again on cold. I toss them in the dryer and an hour late I have a nice pile of fluffy, soft, clean diapers. It would be even better if I sun dried them, but I'm not that good. Plus there's no sun here in November!

The diapers are soooo soft! I love that Audry gets swaddled in softness every time I put a diaper on her. She never has rashes either.

I will still use disposables from time to time, like if we are out for a long time or on vacation. I have a little zippered bag that I put Audrey's used diapers in when we are out, but I don't like to pile up more than three used diapers. But we're rarely out that long so I mainly stick with the cloth.

When I decided to try cloth I told myself I wouldn't feel guilty if I didn't like it and went back to disposables. There were a few times when I didn't like it, mainly because I was still trying out which diapers I liked best. But now I just love it. It's almost like a hobby! An odd one, I know, but people who use cloth get a little obsessed with it.

The ONLY drawback in my mind is that it does make her bottom big and baby clothes are definitely made for disposable diapers. But Jason told Audrey, "Don't worry, I won't let them make fun of your big bottom" so now she feels okay about it. :)



And now, for a quick diaper fashion show:






Here's Audrey sporting her green bumGenius. Very chic and, she has such lovely rolls, no?


Notice the nice design that keeps messes in on both the top and the sides.



bumGenius has a Velcro closure that works really well, but Audrey's hiding it here.




bumGenius are one size and fit 7-35 pounds. Pretty cool eh?







Here's Audrey in her pink gingham Fuzzi bunz. Fuzzi bunz have snap closures that are adjustable and the size medium fits 15-30lbs, so that will last a while.








Lovely luscious Audery






Nice gussets on top of Fuzzi Bunz as well.










Here's a bumGenius expanded to full size











And here it is snapped down so it could fit a newborn. Ahhhh, so cute!












Here's my new pile of bumGenius I ordered. Don't they have fun bright colors?










So there you have it. Like I said, I'm not trying to convince anyone to use them, (but I wouldn't be disappointed if someone did decide to try them), I'm just showing how cute and fun cloth diapers can be. And they work so well!

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