Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Big project kicking

It was a beautiful holiday ... I finished my exam and spent 1 week in Penang. And the two angels followed me since they are not going to school during this period. Therefore, my sis exchange her Toyota over my Kelisa for that 2 weeks. Since my small little car is too small to carry kids and the maid.

I spent time with mom, and of course hanging out with frens too. This time round is little different since I gone back for 1 week and so I have time to hang out, lay back at home and also spend quality time with mom and the kids. I truly enjoy the period of time.

Time passing fast and I drove back alone on Sun (when is 18th Dec) leaving the kids at home with mom. Prior to that, the pricess Erica sounded like very moody and not talking to me. May be she felt complicated whether to follow me back to KL or stay Penang with her PoPo. Hey, means I stand quite an important place in her heart. She actually feel bad for leaving me away neh! Thats what I got for being her guardian during her younger time. Of course I love both of them, the princess and the prince Ayden.

I drove back in the afternoon and arrived at night. Thought of going out with my siblings since it was a Sun night but when I arrived they already hangout at Cheras. From Puchong to Cheras is like taking me forever especially after 5 hours drive from Penang. And so I scrapped the plan and stay home.

Next day, a Monday. I thought its gonna be a good Monday for me. But definitely not a good one. My car.... after stop driving her for 1 week, she tried to tell me that she is being upset with me and was 'crying'. And she was crying out loud, even I played very loud music in the car, I could clearly hear her crying. The next thing I did is.... off my aircond, off my tuner, lower my window to understand why is she crying so loud.

To my surprise, the noise of crying from the engine was something new to me. I never heard such a noise for the past 7 years. Indeed, I was panic....... but then I still drove to office. My heart and emotion was terribly disturbed by the noise since it is something from the engine and if I dont pay attention to it, i afraid it may end up leading to more severe problem.

I did not have a good breakfast which I alws do every morning. I will have my time reading newspaper, have a cup of coffee and have my breakfast. This day, I ate half of my bread, coffee cup left to cold and still not finishing it. All I wanted to do is to wait. Wait until 10am and call my brother.

Finally he wakes up, I called and told him I need help to send my car to workshop immediately and I can wait no more. He led me to his regular workshop in Shah Alam and so I asked for emergency dismiss from my manager and left office.

Thanks to my friend Beng Hoe who spent time to pick me from workshop, if not I would have call a cab to go back to KL. Phew.... Thats not all, the mechanic still not telling what's wrong with my car..... thats make me feel even worst. The next day, brother called me and update to me on my car problem. Well, what other choice I have other than repair it? Since its the enginer faulty so there goes, I spent 1600 this time round. Not to forget I start spending money on this car since last year.

When the car get older, this is what we gonna get through. May be something big is happening and I shall do something before the big project kicking my ass.

Sunday, December 18, 2011

人生中的四个人 2

四年前,我发了一篇文章- 人生就是為了找尋愛的過程,每個人的人生都要找到四個人。
第一個是自己
第二個是你最愛的人
第三個是最愛你的人
第四個是共度一生的人.

人生中的四个人

当时,我说“只要感觉对了, 你看见他/她 时,嘴巴会微微往上扬. 那就足够了”。其实这样也没有错,只不过感觉对了,并不代表什么都无所谓。当时,我真的觉得只要我们喜欢对方,其他的我不管。也许我还年轻吧。

现在我可不是这样想了。也许你会说,怎么我变现实了,那好,我也不否认。感觉是重要,不过要跟一个人一起生活,还有很多比这更重要的事情等着我们去思考。比方,他对你的了解,宽容度,你的社交生活,你的家人,肯为你花钱吗?愿意听你诉苦吗?有能力领导你吗?可以依靠吗?经济能力如何?

相反的,女人同样的也要了解他,为他打算,提供意见,对他好,对他的家人好,可以的话就学煮几个小菜让他开心下。你说,感觉对不对其实并不是最重要,了解和宽容才是重点。

说到感觉,以前我不相信“感情是可以培养的”这句话,对我来说,我喜欢就喜欢,不然他做什么都感动不到我。 十年后的现在,我慢慢的相信了。原因是,我在过去因为感觉对了所做的决定告诉我,只要他对你好,就算没有感觉,你也会因为他的用心而感动。

在这里,我向过去曾经尝试去感动我的人说声:谢谢你们的用心。

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

The Reality



Seriously, I some how quite agree with this. Especially when you are referring to the pretty and smart gals. Then again, why are there so many pretty and smart but single gals out there? The reason being is that these gals try to combine the criteria from 0.1 to 0.7, some even greedy.... they want it all. May be they thought they are pretty and has the potential to choose.


Let me translate here:


0.1 = Loaded, Good looking


0.2 = Owned house and car


0.5 = Highly educated, high pay


0.7 = Loyal, funny, caring


1.0 = Willing to repair your computer, buy you supper, guide you in studies and sending you here and there

1.5 = Motivated, loving, hornest, homely, faithful, passionate ... .... ..... still reading ?? hahaah


Actually ideally for me.... if i can get a guy with 0.2 to 0.7, I am happy enough. Seriously, I am not that greedy yea. Hahhahaah means not good looking, not yeng, nerdy looking, I can accept as long as he is treating me nice. The rest not so important to me. What for getting a man with money but at the end of the day, you stay home worry about him flirting with other gals.


To the singles, please dont stress yourself too much. I actually quite enjoy my time now, dating here and there with no strings attached to me. Decision can be made when I am really ready or 'identify' the right one to attach to. Since I am not in the hurry to get attached or getting married. I have many other things to worry about other than this. May be that is why I dont stress myself .


Enjoy singlehood and change my status only when I am ready.

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

The year has come to the end

What had you done for the past 1 year? As usual, lets recap a little the top 10 major stuffs that I had done in this year.

1. I changed job and moved to Puchong


2. I stepped my foot to Taman Negara for the first time and its FREE!


3. I just realized my blog turned 5 yrs old this year.


4. I bought my first smart phone and thats the most expensive I ever bought.


5. I changed job again Apr this year.

6. I just realized I had started and studied in my MBA for a year, and here is my result to-date. So far I am still very happy, lets pray the coming result will move me to 3.8 CGPA.


7. My brother decided to tie the knot with the gal of his life


8. My cousin closing her singlehood on this day 11-11-11


9. I moved out from Puchong and seek for my freedom. *wink*


10. I spent 2000 to create a new casing for my teeth.... CROWN


11. EH.... only 10 items hor this one I update again in DEC 2012.


Happy 2011!!

Monday, December 12, 2011

男人送你礼物背后的暧昧暗示

男人送礼物时,心里面真正想的是什么?是为了讨你的欢心?还是别有所求?从送礼物的不同,来分析他的性格以及对你的感觉与企图。快来对号入座吧!

礼物一:
你预测他会送你的礼物是:钻石、黄金、珠宝
男人爱的是:你的好心情
他的欲望指数:57分
你的他希望你每天都有一个好心情,不管付出再多,就算是要花费好几个月的薪水才能买到一颗你喜欢的小钻石,他都愿意(不管是省钱累积还是刷卡分期付费)。只要能搏你一笑,对他来说一切都非常值得!

送此礼之男是个:意识强男。若是普通男性朋友所送,这个人一定是与你情谊深厚、够份量,否则是想宣示地位,希望有机会成为正式男友;若是男朋友所送,可能是定情之物,对未来有所期许,有求婚的意味。会选择赠送这类礼物的的男人,自我意识强,觉得恋情在掌握之中,当他送给你钻石项链或黄金手炼时,你会觉得他对这段恋情是玩真的。

礼物二:
你预测他会送你的礼物是:性感内衣
男人爱的是:你的性感
他的欲望指数:96分
你的性感对他有无比的杀伤力,特别在于举手投足之间所散发出的诱惑力,不知为何他就是这么为你着迷,足以让他双手一摊、自投罗网。

送此礼之男是个:狂野男。其实送内衣的举动,会令女人有两种极端感觉,不是大好就是大坏。若是普通男性朋友所送,女人会觉得变态,觉得此人有邪念、有 意图、有遐想,更觉得唐突,除非他送的内衣是没有性暗示、很可爱的样式,否则就太显露他想更贴身亲近的意图了。若是男朋友所送,则完全相反,男友送性感内 衣可以增加情趣,明着赞美你的性感和女人的一面,对于性和爱均有提高的效果。

礼物三:
你预测他会送你的礼物是:情趣用品
男人爱的是:你的身体
他的欲望指数:91分
男人天性好色真是个改不了的事实,他想要的是你的激情,和享受彼此的身体;食色性也的道理你其实比他更懂,就端看你是否觉得与他的关系真的有这么亲密,或者这男人只是个性胚子。

送此礼之男是个:幽默男。若是普通男性朋友所送,他可能也不敢直接就送保险套、床上情趣用具之类的用品,而比较偏向包装有趣好玩的保险套糖果、内裤花 朵,否则会显得太越矩、不够稳重,会送这类礼物的男人内心是想测试女人对于性这回事的接受度有多大;若是男朋友所送,则是他希望在性生活上能更好、更互 动,这类男人会很努力营造生活情趣,并积极创造生活中的火花。

礼物四:
你预测他会送你的礼物是:3C类用品
男人爱的是:你的智能
他的欲望指数:38分
也许他不是很浪漫,甚至有些呆头鹅,但正因为他的老实与木讷,所以会不可抑制地爱上你的聪明;互补的作用,让他觉得你们真是天造的一对,而每当你认真思考模样,则是他最爱的表情。

送此礼之男是个:理性但占有欲略强男。若是普通男性朋友所送,他是个很踏实、细心、实在的人,才会选择实用的东西来赠人。若是男朋友所送,则表示他的占有欲有些强,他希望你在听音乐、用PDA、用手机时都能想到他;但也可以说他很在乎你,希望能为你准备好所需物品,这类男人通常理性但占有欲略强。

礼物五:
你预测他会送你的礼物是:信用卡附卡
男人爱的是:你的温顺
他的欲望指数:69分
你的他拥有着绝对的支配欲,他喜欢给你现实的收获,喜欢你像只温顺优雅的猫;他是充满男子气概却也十分大男人的人。

送此礼之男是个:大男人。若是普通男性朋友送你信用卡附卡,他似乎在对你宣示“你可以考虑我了!可以把生活交给我了!我可以养得起你了!”若是男朋友 所送,他希望你能去买自己喜欢的东西,就缺明着对你说:“成为我的老婆吧!”。这类型的男人有大男人主义,也带着几分炫耀的意味。

礼物六:
你预测他会送你的礼物是:名牌服饰
男人爱的是:你的气质
他的欲望指数:48分
名牌对他的意义是身分的象征,而气质是他认为最能从你身上找到的特色,只要控制好自己,在他面前维持气质路线,一切都能很圆满。

送此礼之男是个:强烈占有欲男。若是普通男性朋友所送,他在讨你的欢心,并炫耀自己的品味不错,也有几分追求的意味;若是男朋友所送,则他的主导权和占有欲都很高,他希望为女人贴上卷标,表示“我会为你注意所喜欢的品牌,并且买给你,以后你的一切都交给我主导吧!

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Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Update for the month

I officially moved out from Puchong and stay on my own in Wangsamaju instead. The reason behind if that I think it is time to stay ALONE!!! Hu hu Ha ha!! And the feeling is so good , seriously I am not saying stay with family is bad, OK? Just the feeling of FREEDOM!!

I can do whatever I want!

I can sleep at anytime!

I can focus on study without any interruption!

The room is very quiet!

I dont need to drive to work!

The public transportation is very convenient here!

The food, the places for makan is just behind my apartment, 5 mins walk!

What else? Ok, one more, OverTime also just 10 mins walk away from my room. Weeeeee! :)




My early xmas present! LongChamp Planates, a bag that I always wanted but buying here is rather too crazy so I pay less by getting some help from my sister's fren.



Xmas is around the corner, and I am gonna have family gathering on the xmas eve as my cousin is having her wedding reception on the 24th Dec. Then new year eve, I am still not decided where to go but most probadly I will step into Singapore.


Happy holiday to all!

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Chilling at home

Chilling at home on the raining Sunday night!

Friday, November 11, 2011

My new crown

I finally go for it.... my first dental crown. I am very happy for it since it looks very REAL!

I am using porcelain metal crown


How is it done? I am too lazy to describe in words so I hope you can understand how dental crowning is done.



1) Dentist will do the 1st impression of your teeth and gum.




2) Then dentist will shape your teeth and prepare for the crowning frame.




3) Then dentist will then prepare for the 2nd impression.




4) The impression will then send to lab for fabrication.






Happy me with the happy teeth, hooray!

Wednesday, November 09, 2011

HTC surprise

A surprise from my bossy!!! Its not a birthday present but a support phone! Can you believe it? They actually give this chio smartphone for us to support. HTC Desire with HTC Sense.



Very nice packaging


Even the charger looks very fancy!



Chio white phone


The back view of the phone

Tuesday, November 08, 2011

The gift from angel

I think I mentioned her alot in my blog and I speak no one but her. She is my one and only angel, a gift from god, my sister daughter, Miss Erica Chong.

She calls me Ee Ee and this day, the day when my mom open my eyes to see the world. I got home from work and I saw this on my desk. I did nothing but smile. :) Thanks Erica!


I am not sure whether someone taught her or she did it on her own, its not important anyway. And she spelled my name right.


The words that she wrote make my birthday a special day.


The cake that she bought for me, standard color, PINK cake! :)


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Saturday, November 05, 2011

The day for them

It was a special for our family. The Chef in the house finally tied the knot with his lovely wife - LiMei. Its now official and I am upgraded from sister to 姑姑 now. I feel happy for my brother and I believe they will be living happily ever. Welcome Miss Cheah into Chew's Family.

The couples of the night, this is the night for them.


The brothers and sisters


Me the only single 'creature' in the family now.


Sisters and best friend forever. Here we have new faces in my blog, we have Michelle, my sister's collegue and me.


The Chew's pretty and handsome (tak malu!)


I also invited my goodie gang to join our party, from left we have Beng Hoe, Huey Ru, my sister in law Li Mei, Sharon and Meng Hwa.


My lovely siblings, always love you! Thanks to my sister for all her support and providing us on what I need when I came to KL since last year. Thanks to my brother for helping me on repairing my car and fire fighting with me at home. I enjoy the time we play Wii , chilling with beers and whiskey at home. Due to that, my tolerance to alchohol is 'improved'.... not a bad thing though.
Ok when is the next party then? (*Wink)


My siblings and their spouse


Another group photo for our craziest gang!


This was taken upon request, camwhoring while partying, we have Sharon and Junnie here.


From left: Bryan, Sharon, Meng Hwa, Junnie and the hot and sexy me. (ops! tak malu again!)


If there is a word called bestest, I would award this man as my bestest buddy - Mr. Lawrence Kang, a very helpful, supportive buddy of mine.


The Mr Decent Beng Hoe, I wonder why his eyes get red instead of his face... (sceptical face)


Get crazier when I started to drink more.


The night was the best night not only for our family but also my friends. The club was nice, music was good, beers was fantastic. Lastly, congratulations to Mr. and Mrs. Chew!

Wednesday, November 02, 2011

Eventful November

As I said, I had a very eventful November this time round. I hangout alot within the same week and I am really happy to be with my friends. Thanks to all of you whose added colors to my life. Work and life is sometimes very stressful, friends are somehow like a candy to make you happy.

The gals (Junnie and Sharon ) in the house, these was taken from SOI 11 pub at Upper Penang Road


The heroes Victor and Bryan


The goodie gang from Penang, Kok Hooi, Junnie Sharon and Meng Hwa


Need not to introduce who she is, her face appeared many times in my blog.


This was taken on the first day of November at Geographer pub with my dearest sister Andie


Another shot with her gal fren Ah Wei


This was taken 10 days ago before I gone back to Penang. I was back then too occupied to lod these photos.


With sis and Ah Wei again


The loving couples who is going to registered for their marriage on this coming Sat, Congratulations Bro!!


One happy family


She wanted her face to look smaller


More update this weekends as we gonna have another round of celebration on this coming Sat! Uh lala!!