伴

突然想写写部落格,
他又被荒废了.

为什么是'他'而不是'它'?
因为对我来说'他'是一个朋友,
而不是一个死物.
连我店里的模特儿都有名字了,
更何况是陪伴了我那么多年的'他'?

又开始废扯了..

我就是那样,
总容易被分心,
我又忘了我本来要写些什么了..

算了,随便写.

每个人都需要一个伴吧?
一个趣味相投的伴,
一个一起玩乐的伴,
一个可以倾诉的伴,
一个互相支持的伴.

他们会是同一个人吗?
我觉得如果是的话,
你真的很幸运,因为你的人生一定不会孤单.

那..
那个人,会不会是你的另一半呢?
我觉得，很难吧？
可以找到那样的另一半。

很多人的那四个‘伴’，
都多数是四个不一样的人，
或者是顶多只符合三种。
所以说，如果你的4 in 1伴是你的另一半的话，
你真的真的很幸福了。

说起幸福，
什么又是幸福的指标呢？

刚刚看了TVB的拳王，
说DONNA不要EDWARD一个那么PERFECT的男生，
而爱上一个低薪水，邋遢的中年男人，
难道人就那么犯贱吗？

为什么每每遇到那样的状况，
人就会被称为犯贱？
爱，是一种感觉，
一个没有任何方程式，或是选择指标可以衡量的，
所以当人选择处于下方的另一半时,
为什么就叫做犯贱呢？

我觉得‘爱’牵扯着我刚才所说的‘伴’，
那你觉得那个人对了，那就变成了爱。

可是有一个问题，
多数你爱的人，
都不会是你的伴；
而爱你的人，才会是你的另一个半。

爱与被爱，
其实差别真的很大。
因为那包含了容忍度的差距，

一个人的‘容忍度’，
可以改变狠毒很多人，
很难多很多事情，
更可以改变他与身边的人的命运。

下一篇再续。。

I love you forever Toki

My poor Toki has passed away.
Don't ask me why.. I seriously donno..

I was so excited to go home with my iPad that day,
And when I reach home Lou gong tell me that Toki fell just now.
I was shocked seeing him lying in the cage.
He never act so, he's to active to lye down steel.
Not even when he broke his leg..

After 10 mins, I felt no heart beat on him..
His eyes are dead,
And no more reaction even we touches him..

ThAt's he left us.
I and Jerry couldn't react at all,
Just squad there and remain silent.

Tear drops from my eyes,
And I couldn't stop myself.
Although it's just a few months we've been together,
But he's a family of us,
'someone. I hug and pampered everyday..
He left us without any alarm,
He just left..with unknown reason.
What I guess is just he jump and fell,
Then maybe he break his rib bone and cause inner injury..
I don't know..
He just left.

Farewell my son, mama love you.
You will always in my heart.
I really love you.

我们快完了。

我真的很努力，很努力地，
想要修补我们之间的感情。

也许你觉得，
我们并没有问题。
可是事情不是那样的。
我们之间最大的问题，
就是你完全察觉不到问题。

怎么办？
怎么让你知道。
你让我很生气，很懊恼，
你知道吗？

不要一直告诉我你头痛可以吗？
是我们出去让你头痛，
还是我闷着你了，让你头晕？

你说你头痛，头晕，
我不是买药给你了吗？
你又不吃。
你又发现你每次和我出去都头痛吗？

你可以说我无理取闹，
说我不会体谅你，
可是你到底懂不懂，
我真的很讨厌你把你的不悦，
全部表现在你脸上？

我要的约会不是那样的，
我们应该很开心的，
可是每次都不欢而散，
你到底知道的吗！！！！

我觉得我们沟通上出了很大问题，
真的很大。
为什么你要在我们难得整天的约会那样？
我真的搞不懂你。

我真的有付出努力了，
可是你又让我原地踏步。
这样下去，我们很快就完了。

给妈妈的一封信

我真的很想念你。
我不懂我到底哭了多久，
才可以将颤抖着的手，
在这键盘上打这一篇心底话给你。

我好想你，
想得连我自己都觉得惊讶，
这真的可能吗？

你的过去都历历在目。
你受的苦，你的痛，
我的漠不关心。。
我甚至感觉得到你那时候的心疼。。

我真的试着做得最好了。。
我真的想过改善我们之间的感情，
可是我不懂为什么，
我总是办不到。。

现在我后悔了。
我后悔为什么当初在你疼痛时，
连一个简单的拥抱都不能给你。
我后悔为什么每当你挣扎时，
我连一句问候都觉得奢侈。

我真的很后悔。
从来没有想过自己会那样想你，
从来都不知道原来自己那样爱你。

爱，真的要失去过，
才懂得珍惜。

妈妈，我有很多事情想对你说。。
可是我们却再也说不了话了。

妈妈，对不起。。
我每打一次妈妈，我的心就揪了一下，
因为我感觉得到你做妈妈的辛苦，
了解你当初是怎么担心我，
在我做错的时候，是多么的难过。

再也没有人会和你一样为我流泪，
再也没有人会和你一样为我难过，
再也没有人会和你一样为我操心，
再也没有人会和你一样为我开心。

我真的很后悔，
你知道我是多么想给你一个拥抱，
给你一个亲吻，跟你说妈妈我爱你，对不起。。
可是再也没有机会了，
过去的已成过去，
再也回不来了。。

对不起妈妈，是我误会了你，
是我没有好好修补我们的关系，
是我少了点耐心，不愿对你多花心思，
是我多了一点自尊心，不愿向你低头。。
可是请你相信我，我是真心爱你的，
也从来不是真正的恨你，
只是我们的想触摸式，出现了太大的鸿沟。。

我都知道了，
我的错。

对不起妈妈，我真的很想你，很想你。
我爱你

Thinking of you

Heard a song, and like the style.
Feel the pain,
the first song I like tat sang by Katy Perry.

Thinking of you- Katy Perry

Comparisons are easily done
Once you've had a taste of perfection
Like an apple hanging from a tree
I picked the ripest one
I still got the seed
You said move on where do I go
I guess second best is all I will know

Cause when I'm with him
I am thinking of you
Thinking of you
What you would do if
You were the one
Who was spending the night
Oh I wish that I
Was looking into your eyes

You're like an Indian summer
In the middle of winter
Like a hard candy
With a surprise center
How do I get better
Once I've had the best

You said there's
Tons of fish in the water
So the waters I will test
He kissed my lips
I taste your mouth
He pulled me in
I was disgusted with myself

Cause when I'm with him
I am thinking of you
Thinking of you
What you would do if
You were the one
Who was spending the night
Oh I wish that I
Was looking into...

You're the best
And yes I do regret
How I could let myself
Let you go
Now the lesson's learned
I touched it I was burned
Oh I think you should know
Looking into your eyes
Oh won't you walk through
And bust in the door
And take me away
Oh no more mistakes
Cause in your eyes I'd like to stay..

过去

一直想着过去的种种，
无法释怀。

很多事情，
都是因为两个人的执著，
而造成今时今日的局面。

谁没有后悔过？
谁没有遗憾？

我有。
我想着的你也有。

都是一场误会，
一场人为的误会。
是我们彼此心中的自己，
造成的误会。

后悔了，
又怎么样？
还可以回到从前吗?
还可以及时吗？
还可以在更改吗？
不能了。。

人经过了后悔，
才会成长。
这是我说的。
也是我经历的。

我好想你，
好爱你。

那，又怎样?
都过去了。
剩下的，也只剩回忆了。

再见，我最亲爱的。。

你发现了吗？

明知道你不会看我的blog，
可是我还是习惯在这里表达我自己。

我们俩的问题，
你发现了吗？

你并没有发现吧？
毕竟在你眼中，
现在一切安好，
过着稳定生活的我们，
是多么的幸福。

可是偏偏，
这就是问题。
我跟你的感情，
就只剩下感情，
是那种家人一般的感情，
而不是情侣一般的爱情。

不知道从什么时候开始，
我就当你是我家人一般看待。
也许这就是所谓‘老夫老妻’的存在模式。

可是这并不是我想要的。
我要的爱情，
你大概想象不到。

这真的不是钱的问题。
我要的是浪漫，是激情。
可是渐渐的，
我们俩都失去了为对方花心思的动力。

也许你不知道，
有很多事情我是想引起你的注意的。
可是偏偏你却都无动于衷。

我曾经感动过，
也曾经被你深深地打动过，
可是这全都是曾经。

你知道我心里要的是什么吗？
你应该觉得我要的是赶快跟你结婚吧！
所以你努力的在存钱。
我真的知道的。

可是在同时，
你是否发现，
在你存钱的同时，
你忽略了我是一个怎样的人？

我喜欢出去走走，
不一定要花钱，
只要出去就好了。。
可是你呢？
我叫你出去的时候，
你都是懒洋洋地，
好不甘愿。

我知道你做工很累，
可是我就是一个那样的人。
无论多累，
我还是要出去。
哪怕只是在海边散散步。。

我觉得我们性格不合。
之前我以为我们可以互相配合，
可是日子久了，
我觉得配合真的很累。
我还不想舍弃我真正喜欢的东西。

原谅我那么自私，
可是我真的找不到继续下去的动力。。

你发现了吗？
我们多久接吻。
我问你为什么？
你无动于衷。
你知道我最喜欢接吻了吗？

也许你觉得没有什么大不了，
可是我真得受不了。

我舍不得你，
这是真的。
所以我很懊恼。
我习惯了你的存在。
更怕的是伤害到你.
你是一个很好的男人，
可是也许我是一个不配好男人生活的女人吧！

怎么办？
我也不懂。
想了好久好久。。

你能了解吗？

我很无助, 没有人能了解我的无助。
我很痛苦，没有人能理解我的痛苦。
我很苦恼，没有人能解决我的烦恼。
我很辛苦，没有人能减轻我的辛苦。

我真的觉得我不能撑多久。
懊恼

男人要的女人

男人要的女人，
是一个入得厨房，出得厅堂，还要能上床的女人。

What a man wants,
is a woman that is cookable, lookable and f***able.

入得厨房
不要说现在都什么社会了，
女人不需要会烧菜了。
有一句话说得一点都没错，
要绑住一个男人的心，
你先要绑住他的胃。

You may said it's 21st century,
cookable is not that important for a woman anymore.
But girls, you need to know that
if you can rules his stomach,
then the man it's yours.

男人在外面辛苦了一天，
希望的是回到家有一餐丰富的晚餐等着他。
不需要多好吃，只要可以吃得下就好。
当然我不是指即食面。
那样他们会觉得辛苦是值得的，
因为在家的女人，会回馈他，值得他为她打拚。

After a day of heavy work,
guys would hope for a fine dinner to wait for him,
it's no need to have restaurant level,
just promise that it's standard and eatable.
Of course I don't refers it to instant noodle here.
They would think that hard work has it's reward.
because his woman at home,
appreciates it and everything it's worth.

女强人没时间回家煮饭怎么办？
女人啊，不要找一大堆借口，
说你没时间，不会煮，怎么学都不会，
没有这回事儿的，只要你有心，
时间还是挤得出来的，
不用每一天煮，至少在重要日子时，
给你得他一个意外的惊喜，也是不错的。
再说那些不会煮的，
你抚心自问，你真的用心学了吗？

Then how are those working woman able to cook?
Please don't find tonnes of excuses
simply just because you don't want to, woman.
Don't said that you don't have time,
for even too stupid for cooking.
If you don't have spare time,
you need not cook everyday.
Just once a while in important occasion
will melt his heart already.
Do not said that you're too stupid to learn,
you're not even putting effort.
Skip those excuses and just do it.

出得厅堂
没有男人不爱美丽的女人。
更没有男人不喜欢会打扮的女人。
不要说女生有内涵比较重要，外表只是一个壳。
不可能的，在人家看见你的内涵前，
看到你的外表就吓跑他了。
不要说你怎么打扮都不漂亮，
世上没有丑女人，就只有懒女人。

There's no guys that hates beautiful girls,
and no guys that hates girls that dress up nicely.
Don't tell me those bullshit
about inner beauty is more important,
It's impossible,
because before he discover your inner beauty,
he'd ran away cause of your outer ugly.
And don't tell me you're are born ugly,
there's no ugly woman in this world,
there's just lazy woman.

当男人愿意带一个女人出席重要的宴会或聚会，
那就表示他对女人一定的重视，
那女人啊，你是否一样应该尊重你的男人，
把自己装备起来，好让自己看起来得体，
同时也让你的男人脸上粘上点光？

When a guy are willing to fetch their woman out,
to important meeting or meet someone important,
that means that the certain woman,
is important for the man .
So woman, wouldn't you want to groom up yourself,
to show some respect to your man?
Makes him feel proud.

出得厅堂，只得还不只是外面，
想之前所说的，内涵也很重要，再说就是仪态。
你的一举一动决定了你是否会得到别人的尊重，
同时决定了你的男人的眼光是否被人认同。

Other than grooming up yourself,
like I'd mentioned earlier,
outer beauty is important,
and so do the way you present yourself.
The way of reacting decides
whether you will get respect from others,
and decides whether your man had find himself,
the right woman.

上床
有一点18sx的话题。
每个男人都喜欢可以取悦自己的女人，
在内在外都一样。
在床上的时光是属于两人的，
他付出精力，他也希望你可以成为他的推动力。
不妨花点心思增加他的推动力，
那样你们的性生活会变得更有趣。

Every guy likes woman that make them happy,
on bed or off bed.
The moment you spend with him on the bed,
belongs to just you and him,
He would hope that since he's trying so hard
to satisfy you,
you will do something to be his driving force.
Trying something new would definitely
bring more excitement for lovers in having sex.

新鲜感是维持两人关系的关键，
小小的变动可以换来大大的欢乐，
那何乐而不为呢？

It's important to maintain the freshness
in an relationship,
and sex would be a part of it.
if just a small changes could bring more joy to it,
why not?

女人啊，不要说你只需要有爱不一定要有性的爱情，
也许这是你的需要，
可是别忘了男人是用下半生思考的动物，
他们也有他们的需要。

Woman,
don't said that you just needed love but not sex,
you might really think so,
but please remember that guys thinks with their bottom,
they also have their needs.

男人要的女人，
是一个有自己思想，主见的女人。

What a man wants,
is a woman that have her own thoughts and decision.

有主见并不代表霸道，
比不代表要你指示男人去做什么，
男人要的你们，
只是在他不在的时候，
你可以做明智的决定，
同时可以在他询问你的意见时，
你可以给与他有建设性的意见。

When I said woman that has their thoughts,
it's not referring to those that are overbearing,
it's not asking you to common your man,
it's just that you your man needs you
to take care of yourself,
and makes decision while he is away,
you'll be alright by your own.
And when they ask you some serious matter,
you could give him some constructive suggestion.

当一个男人会在重要的事情上，
询问另一半的意见时，
那就代表他对他的另一半有一定的信任，
同时也证明他想要知道清楚你跟他的想法是否一致。
女人啊，别笨到去跟他说：“我怎么懂，这又不是我的事！”
你说一次后，你再也不会有机会让他问你意见了，
那时你不要投诉他大男人，
什么都不和你商量。

When a man are willing to ask for your comments,
it means that he trusted you and
he's finding out whether you both are having the same thoughts.
So woman, please don't be stupid to tell him:
" How the hell am I going to know?
It's none of my business!"
Trusted me, after you said that,
he'll never ask you ANYTHING.
And when that time comes, do not complain.

男人要的女人，
是一个明白事理的女人。

What a man wants,
i a understanding woman.

男人的眼睛，天生就爱看漂亮的女人，
所以你不要阻止他，就让他看看嘛，
他又不会用眼睛出轨。

Guy's eyes are born to look at pretty woman,
so do not stop them, just let them look,
it's no that they are having an affair
using their eyes.

男人都爱有自己的私人空间，
他们喜欢和哥儿们一起吹水看球，
你不要无理取闹责备他为什么整天陪朋友不陪你，
不要说他整天只会去喝酒吹水，
你有本事就跟他一起去了解一下，
不然就不要只个儿大声嚷嚷。

Guys would be glad if they have their private space.
They like to hang out with their buddies,
talking, watching football, etc etc..
Don't blame him for not to accompany you that often,
don't scold that he talk more to his friend then you.
If you want, just follow him to understand why,
Otherwise don't be act like stupid and looks like a shrew.

男人要的女人，
是不会罗嗦他的女人。

What a man wants,
Is a woman that will not nag.

原因很简单，因为他不需要多一个妈妈。
不要整天念着他同一件事千万遍，
那样的话他会很反感。
不要叫他跟你交代他的一举一动，
他要交代的，他自然会交代。

The reasons are simple,
it's because the don't need a second mother.
Stop repeating things over and over again,
it's really annoying.
Don't ask him to tell you every move,
if he wants to, he will tell you himself.

一个会交代的男人，
是一个有会尊敬另一半的男人。
一个不交代的男人，
根本不需要有个女人。

A man that will tell you what he's doing,
is a man that respected his lover.
A man that wouldn't bother to tell,
he don't even needs a woman.

如果他会尊重你，
他自然什么都告诉你，
不需要你罗罗嗦嗦地不停问他，
如果你的男人什么都瞒着你，
那你只好检讨到底问题出在哪里。

If he respected you,
he would tell you everything without reminding,
there's no need to nag at all,
but if he tells you nothing,
it's your responsible review where does
the problem come from.

男人要的女人，
是会给他面子的女人。

What a man wants,
is a woman that protects his dignity.

面子对男人来说就好像空气，
他们宁愿没有钱，也不可以没有面子。
你落他的面子，就好像放他进真空包一样，
他会活不成人。

Dignity for them it's like air.
they rather to be poor then to be humiliate.
If you make them embarrass,
it's like throwing them into a vacuum,
they won't be able to breathe and die slowly.

也许你们二人独处的时候，
他可以扮小绵羊，对你千依百顺，
可是别人面前，你一定要让他表现他大男人的一面。
对自己的女友有控制权，
绝对是他面子的一部分。

They may act like a lamb
and treated you like a queen when you both are alone,
but in front of others, he must be the one who controls.
This is just part of his dignity.

你要是在他朋友面前对他呼呼赫赫，
或敢在你朋友面前叫他帮你穿鞋，
那你们的恋情，一定会很短。

Try to embarrass him in front of his friend,
or ask him to fit your shoes in front of your friends,
i guarantee you,
Breaking up it's just going to happen today or tomorrow.

男人要的女人，
是会尊敬长辈的女人。

What a man wants,
is a woman that will respect the elderly.

没有男人喜欢他的女人不尊敬自己的父母。
女人是要娶回家的，
如果只是偶尔见面，
女友都不能和他的长辈相处融洽的话，
那接下来的日子就免谈了。

There's no guys that like their woman
to show no respect to their parents.
The woman might be his wife someday,
if just for once a while also she's
unable to show her respect and be nice to his parents,
then there will be no future for them.

以上纯属个人意见。
These are just some personal views.

女人要的浪漫

女人要的浪漫，
是当她看中一样东西又没卖时，男人会随后买下，在送给她。

What a girl wants,
is when she saw something she likes but didn't buy,
she will gets from her man after that.

很多男人都很穆纳，
不知道当女人看见自己喜欢的东西，
可是有迟疑不买，
是因为她想要他的一点点浪漫，
认为他会注意到，随后为她买上。
女人就是那样的希望自己的男人可以注意到自己的小动作。

Some guys are dull,
They don;t understand that why would some woman
refuses to buy things she wanted so badly.
But actually they don't understand that their woman wanted
them to buy it for her quietly and treat it as a surprise.
Girls hopes that guys pay attention on what they like.



女人要的浪漫，
是当她说不想看到他时，他依然会守候在她身边。

What a girl wants,
is when she said she don't wanna see you,
but you still stay by her side.

很多女人都会在吵架后，
冲动的说：‘你走开，我不想看到你！’
很多男人也会乖乖的自动消失。
其实女人希望的，是男人可以默默的守候在身旁，
她发发脾气，一下就气消了。
女人就是那样的口是心非。

Girls like to chase guys away after they argued.
But what's actually in their mind,
is the man would stay just for a little while
until she cleared her mind and don't feel angry.
Girls like to said the opposite truth.

女人要的浪漫，
是在吵架后，他先低头。

What a girl wants,
is after she argued with her man,
he's the one who started a new topic.

也许这样对男人很不公平，
可是女人是那样的需要被呵护。
就算是她的错，她都希望他先开口跟她说话。
这是男人该有的风度，也是对女人的一种呵护。
女人就是那样的爱面子。

Maybe this sounds unfair to guys,
but girls wanted to be pampered.
Even it's their fault in an argument,
but she hopes that her man will show their demeanour,
to take to her first.
Girls cares bout their pride so much.



女人要的浪漫，
是在她无理取闹时，他不生气，而是安慰她。

What a girl wants,
is when she make trouble outta nothing,
he's not mad but pampered and concern bout her.

女人每个月都会有特别无理取闹的时候，
那是女人的权利。因为那时男人感受不到的痛。
有些男人会体贴地忍耐，
可是那时忍耐而不是体谅，
总有一天他会爆发说自己的女人多爱发脾气。
其实他只要在她无理取闹时，
抱抱她，那就可以了。
女人要的只是男人的体贴与体谅。

When she is having her period every month,
she'll get mad easily cause she suffers alot.
many guys will patient for this matter,
but being patient is not understanding,
sooner or later this will becomes a problem
when it comes t argument.
Guys will said that girls are unbelievably annoying every month.
Actually what he needs to do when she gets mad every month
it's just by giving her a hug.
Girls just wanted a caring and understanding man.

女人要的浪漫，
是在她需要他的时候，他可以及时出现。

What a girl wants,
is that he would appear whenever she needed him.

很多男人都不懂，
当女人生病或需要帮忙时，
第一个想看见的就是自己的男人。
可能他一点都帮不上忙，
可是看到他已经可以让女人坚强起来。
女人就是那样的喜欢依靠。

Guys would understand why girls needed them
when it comes to small matter like sick
or something he might not know how to solve.
They think that they couldn't help out but just to watch.
But what girl needed is their man to be by their side,
and give them support.
This will makes them strong enough
to solve their own problem.

女人要的浪漫，
是当她说：‘我不要！’时，
男人会听出她的语气，来判断她究竟是要还是不要。

What a girl wants,
is when she said :"I don't want!"
He will analyze that is this what she really wanted?

很多女人都喜欢讲反话，
明明要得却说不要，
因为她们要维护她们少少的尊严。
女人就是那样的难以抓摸，
因为她们认为台湾偶像剧里贴心的男主角，
一定存在在人群中。

As I said earlier,
girls likes to give the opposite statement,
just to defend their weak pride.
They thought that those caring prince charming
which appears in the Drama series does exist,
that's why they expected you could too.
Girls lives in their own fantasy.



女人要的浪漫，
是当她说寂寞时，他可以有节目逗她开心。

What a girl wants,
is when she said she felt bored,
you will come out with some ideas to make her happy.

女人时常会觉得空虚寂寞，
就算有朋友在身边，
她终会突然觉得无聊，
要男友想些东西来逗逗她。
吃饭看戏是情侣的招牌动作，
在一起比较久的，可能剩下的只有性爱。
其实要求新鲜感的不只是男人，
女人也想要男人会有些新意，
或在适当的时候，耍些浪漫，
那她只是突然带她到海边吹风聊天。
女人就是那样的贪玩。

Girls felt lonely easily,
even when they have their friends with them.
Because she wanted their man's companion.
Movies and dinner and what couples usually do,
and for those who has been in long term relationship,
maybe sex is the only activity they have.
But girls wanted more than that,
they wanted romance, something new,
something they rarely do.
Maybe just a walk at the beach will cheer her up,
it's just that easy.

女人要的浪漫，
是他会细心听她说话，记住她喜欢的东西。

What a girl wants,
it's he remembers what she likes and listen to her.

男人都很健忘，都不苟小节，
他们不是特地不记得，
只是觉得小时一宗，不必挂心。
女人喜欢细心的男人，
如果他可以记得她的三围，陪她去买贴身的物品，
她绝对会对他死心塌地。
女人要求的就那么简单。

Guys are forgetful.
They do not did it in purpose,
it's just in their blood.
But girls have good memory,
so she hopes that her man too remember what's about her,
she wanted to be fair.
It's just that simple.



女人要的浪漫，
是男人会在适当的时候，对她情深地说我爱你。

What a girl wants,
it's her man know how to choose the right timing,
to said:' I love you."

很多人都会把爱挂在嘴边，
尤其对现在的人来说，
说我爱你的频率就好像说借过一样。
‘我爱你’这三个字，是非常神圣的。
请好好运用它，在适当的时候说出，
会有很奇妙的效果。
尤其对女人来说，绝对是一等一的浪漫。

It's a common word to said now,
it's just like saying :" Excuse me"
It's been spoken so often.
But guys don't understand that it's a magic word,
and when it's used on the right timing,
it makes her felt like she's the happiest girl in the world.



女人要的浪漫，
是在特别的日子，你为她献上一份心意的礼物。

What a girl wants,
it's she's receive a gift during special occasion.

有很多男人误会，
觉得女人要求的是昂贵的礼物，
其实并不是那样的，
女人要求的是一份心意，
是在那特别的日子，你对她的一份重视，
为她花的一份心思。
很多男人会说：为什么那么麻烦？
只不过是一个节日，
有钱的话每天都是情人节，
两个人在一起就很好了。
可是他们不明白，那是一份情趣，
是女人拿来保存爱情的方法。
女人就是那样的坚持。

Many guys will misunderstand that
girls are being so materialistic
cause she wanted so many gift during a year
for valentines, x'mas and blah blah blah..
Actually she just wanted something special,
something he give her truly from his heart,
because it's a way to show her how he appreciates her,
and a way for her to love him more.
Guys might not appreciate this kind of small romance,
but girls do cares alot.

女人的浪漫，
是男人可以单纯地跟她接吻。

What a girl wants,
is her man would JUST kiss her.

在这性欲甚强的社会，
现在的男人接吻大多数都是为了性爱，
不要否认，那是事实。
女人其实只要求她的男人可以深情地吻她，抱她，
在背后的一个拥抱，
或者常常的拥吻，往往会让女人溶化。
女人就是那样的感性。

When i mention JUST,
that means there will be no more further action.
Some guys neglected that their gf actually like kissing,
and skip into the next time they wanted.
A long kiss is girl wanted sometimes.
Or maybe a hug from their back.
This could melt their heart away.
(When I said kiss it refers to french kiss)



女人要的浪漫，
是在性爱后，男人深情的吻与拥抱。

What a girl wants,
is her man would kiss and hug her on bed after sex.

女人是一种很需要被呵护的生物，
尤其是在把自己交给她爱的男人后，
她希望得到对方的回应与疼爱。
女人就是那样的爱撒娇。

Girls hope that after she gave herself to him,
as a return he will love her and appreciate her.
Doing other things immediately shows no respect to girls.

女人要的浪漫，
是她的男人对她有所交待。

What a girl wants,
is he would always leave a message.

就算多忙，她都希望她的男人，
可以发一封信息告诉她交待。
只是一个交待其实并不过分，
可是大情大性的男人总觉得那样很麻烦，
其实那是一种尊重，
让女人不要牵挂。
因为她们会担心，不懂她会不会出了什么事。
女人就是那样的多愁善感。

No matter how busy you are guys,
leave your girl bout what you're doing and you're busy.
Guys may think that it's so annoying to tell everything
especially when he's busy,
but a message wouldn't cause you much time,
at least you may calm your girl down,
and prevent her from thinking that you might meet and accident,
or doing something unexpected.
Girls think alot.


女人要的浪漫，
是不要她的男人有所隐瞒。

What a girl wants,
is a relationship without secrets and hiding.

每个人都不喜欢被瞒着的感觉，
尤其是被自己深爱的人，
她好奇，想要知道他的全部，
她会把自己的全部告诉他，
所以希望他也会一样。
女人就是那样的好奇。

Everyone hates to be conceal,
especially by your love ones.
she would be curious, about your everything,
because she will tell you all about her,
no matter you wanna know or not.
Therefore she hopes that as a return,
she would do the same,
and hide nothing from her.
She just curious.



女人要的浪漫，
是她的男人有自己的主见，
不要什么都问她。

What a girl wants,
is he would have his own judgement in matters,
but now asking her this and that.

很多男人喜欢让女人决定晚餐吃什么，
他们说那是因为女人很麻烦，
他们要的她们都不喜欢，
可是其实女人要的是男人把她们的喜好记住，
然后由自己的主见，做决定。
多专制的女人，都有小女人的一面。
只要她认为她的男人可以担当得起，
她可以完全相信他，让他做出任何决定。
女人是用水做的，
只要她觉得她的容器装得下她，
她就会乖乖愿意留下，
否则她就会慢溢出来。

Guys likes to ask their girls
what to eat and where to go,
because they thought that even if they decide,
their girl would change their mind and wanted something else.
But the truth isn't so.
Girls just wanted guys to remember what they like,
and do judgement by their own about those decision.
Girls rather to be a follower than a leader.

男人，如果你觉得不公平，
觉得为什么女生那么难搞，
那我奉劝你不要有女朋友。
可是让我提醒你，
这世界没有什么是公平的，
因为你们没有来月经，
在你埋怨的时候，
你想过你女友为你付出多少了吗？

Guys, if you felt unfair after reading this,
thinking that why girls
have these weird thoughts and requirement,
then i suggest you not to get yourself a gf.
But let me remind you,
there's nothing fair in this world.
because you guys do not have period and won't pregnant.
While you're blaming how annoying woman is,
have you ever thought how much they contribute
themselves to you?

以上谨代表部分女人的心声，
有错误请见谅。
希望男人女人可以恩恩爱爱。

These are just some personal views as a woman.