Monday, October 11, 2010
It's been awhile since I blogged. Seems like life's pretty good for me till recently, that's why there's a big gap from the previous entry.
So since the story of me and Y started 1 year + ago, we were never officially together. It seems that not only females will require sense of security from their male counterparts. Guys need these feelings to. They not only need the sense of security, they also need assurance and confirmation. Being introduced to Y's friends as school mate for the past 1 year, isn't a good feeling. Though we sort of got closer together in June, and even go overseas in July, she can tell me that she didn't want to really be officially together with me recently. The reason being even till last year October, she still have not forgotten about her ex.
So now that she asked me during this Oct to be her bf, but it's kind of too late. It all begins from 20th Sept. That day, I asked T out for a movie. As Y was busy preparing for her business trip on the same week, I thought of hanging out abit with T. Went for dinner at this fried chicken selling shop at the basement. Shared 1 serving. Not sure if T is over friendly or what, but we were like feeding one another. Next, went to watch movie Grown Ups. After that, decided to go for a drink since it's still quite early.
Went to a KTV pub nearby. As it was a Monday, it was quite empty. Ordered 2 bottles of beer and we spent quite some time there chatting. Thought we met through a friend, but never had much chance to chat. After awhile, not sure if she was really tipsy or just pretending, she leaned closer to me, putting her head on my shoulder and holding my hands. Left the place at almost midnight holding hands. That's the first encounter.
The second encounter was on 22rd Sept when we decided to meet for KTV. Supposedly to meet at Vivocity as I wanted to get some new clothes, but Y said she needed to rush a resume. So ended up going to her house to wait for her to get her netbook, before going to Hougang Mall for dinner. The Kopitiam's wanton mee sucks, period. After that, went to Hougang Plaza for KBox. Well, this is when all the kissing starts. After finishing the resume, apart from singing, kissing was the next activity, which followed by some fondling. Then, sent her back on a cab before continuing home.
Third encounter was on Sunday. Though it's two meetups, I know I'm attracted to her already. Supposedly she's busy in the morning to afternoon, somehow she postponed her things and met me at Bugis. I was already there chatting with my gaming friends before she arrives. Saw her with make up, though abit thick, but still as pretty. Won't forget that she wore a short skirt which she naughtily tell me that not to worry, there's a short underneath the mini skirt. Was around 4pm when she arrived, so brought her to Ah Chew's dessert shop for dessert. I ordered Mango Sago with Pomelo while she ordered something like a Steam Egg with Ginger or something like that. Then went walking in Suntec. Holding hands, hugging, kissing was never lacked of. Eventually we decided to go to Marina Square for dinner at Pasta de Waraku. Then sent her back home and had some kissing again below her house.
Next encounter was actually the following day, 27th Sept, where I booked tickets for Cats & Dogs at Bishan. Had dinner at Sakae Sushi then we proceed for a smoke before going up to the theatre. To my relief, the handle of the seats can be pulled up, thus, becoming a couple seat. She pull my hands towards her chest so I can hug her while she leaned on me. I asked her why she did that and whether she let her ex did the same. She said no, she just like me hugging and touching her. After the movie, took bus back to her house where we sit at the void deck and did the usual stuff. This time round, she's the one that fondled me.
I knew I've fallen for her. I think she was also attracted to me to an extent that she felt it was not right as Y was still my unofficial girlfriend which T knows about. T said that Y will be back soon and maybe we should stop.
Fifth encounter was at her house. She was on medical leave that day which is 30th Sept. Not sure why, but she suddenly called me to go over. Perhaps she did miss me. Went to her place where she quickly pack and clear her room before I arrived. Smuggled me into her room without her dad's knowledge. So we ended up lying on her bed watching tv. She was also showing me some private photos of her which was an opening to my eyes. Then we hugged and kissed till she got aroused and started doing something even more intimate. After 30mins + of contact, she heard her dad was out in the living room. So we quickly dressed up and went downstairs. Of course I saw her dad and greeted "Uncle". Went to sit at a mini mart below her house, smoked, and did the usual kissing and hugging. Then proceed to a nearby hawker centre for dinner. Shared a bowl of Ban Mian. Then sent her home reluctantly.
Then come my birthday celebration on 2nd Oct which is the 6th encounter. Met her for lunch at JP where we went to eat Bejing Hand-in-Hand. She was wearing a red long sleeves. After lunch, when we walked past 7-11, she saw Singtel was giving freebies with every purchase of a Hi-Card. So she decided to get a $8 one for the black F1 umbrella. Who knows she did not bring her IC along, ended up using mine to register. Then went to a clay pottery workshop near my school and walked the way in. Didn't expect that the path in was so long. Eventually, we did reach there 30mins late. Paid $20 each for the hands-on workshop and started making our own clay ornaments. Collection date was 1 month later. I made her a turtle container which probably wouldn't look like one. Well, she likes all kind of turtles.
After leaving the place, we decided to take a shower before meeting the rest of our friends at nite. So we decided to go H81 at Bencoolen Street. Room cost $30, registration $10. Once in the room, the first thing is to kiss and hug for sure. Took a bath together and went to lie down on the bed. She requested not to do it, just hugging and kissing. However, it ended up that she got too aroused and wanted to continue. So after an hour or so, we went for a 2nd shower before we start preparing for my celebration. She changed to a sporty looking set of clothes with a cap. Kissed and hug abit before setting out. As we are approaching the meeting place, we stopped holding hands. Ours is like a secret affair.
Ate dinner with everyone then went to KTV for an overnight session. Well, around 3.30am, T's ex bf decided to come fetch her. Well, this is the first time after so many years, I felt such a strong in-surge of heartache. Well, what to do, she had always been waiting for her ex to patch up with her.
T fell sick the following day. Thought she got better but it ended up on Tues 5th Oct, the 7th encounter, she took medical leave again. Upon knowing, I left school early and cabbed to her house. Bought fishball noodles for her and ba chor mee for myself. Also, I got her a pack of cooling gel sticker and 1 bottle of H2O. Spent 4 hours at her house that day. Got to know her elder brother and left when her dad came back home. While I was there, helped her to pour water, feed her medicines, wipe sweat for her, massage abit for her. Then went home.
9th Oct, the 8th encounter. Wanted to meet her after her work, but she was meeting her friend, so ended up meeting only for dinner at The Central. Bought her a bouquet of a dozen pinkish-orange roses. She was wearing a green spaghetti top with a green sweater. smiled when she saw the flowers. She told me that she never expect to receive flowers again. Had dinner at Watami before we went out and sit by the stairs near the river and played Chinese Chess. Two games ended with me being the winner and she got fed up in a cute way. She wanted to go home, so sent her back. Still had some kisses and hugs. Though it was just a short 3 hours, but it was pleasant.
10th, the 9th and last encounter. She wanted to go Wan Qin Yuan, the villa of the historic figure Sun Yat Sen. Supposedly to meet her at 8am for breakfast, but she postponed till 10am as she was too tired. Went to Toa Payoh and met her where she said we shall skip breakfast, go to the place, then come back for lunch. So poor stomach of mine. Took 139 down and we spent the time walking around. She took more photos of the surroundings then us though. At one of the room, she didn't wait for me to read finish the text on the wall and went up on her own. After spending some time there, we went back to the interchange for lunch. Ate at this restaurant which I forgotten the name, but it was beside Pizza Hut and Sizzler. Then around 2.15, she said her ex will be fetching her, so went to HDB hub and waited there. Since her IPhone was out of battery, she used mine to contact him. So waited till 3pm, her ex didn't reply at all. She decided to go back home and rest, so went to took MRT where we parted at AMK while I continued my way to meet my friends back at CCK. When she reached home, she told me that her ex said that reception was not good that's why didn't reply. Well, I think that's a pretty lame excuse. If reception is so bad, the phone won't ring at all. Then finally in the night, T messaged me that she and her ex patched up. I text her saying that I know good dream sure will come to an end and she replied that it was a sweet dream for her too. Called her on the phone for one last time, wished her the best before we revert back to the status of friend's friend once again.
Nine encounters and that was all that was needed to make me fell for her. I really miss her.
Even though I know that she treats me as a temp bf, which I did the same at the beginning. It was indeed a nice dream. T really treated me like her bf, which is something I hope to get from Y previously, but failed to. Of course, during this 3 weeks, I asked for time-out with Y. I really couldn't have 2 person in my heart or my mind. It was torturing me.
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