sometimes i just feel that being a parent, responsibility is something u have to bear.
responsibility to the family, and to the child.
maybe modern parents will say that, the marriage is not successful, love isn't there anymore.
but somehow i feel that this doesn't give you the right to divorce, especially you have a child(ren) loving you.
just heard a story of a child facing divorcing parents, from a good results child to someone identified by the teachers as cannot study, lazy. I just felt sorry for him.
how can someone simply just give his child up cos he or she wants to seek his own destiny, wants to find his/her true love?
when you bring a life to the world, ur destiny, ur future is with this life form call my son/daughter. and it is ur responsibility and destiny to take care of the child as best as you can.
your life is no longer yours.
If you do not have the 觉悟, then dun concieve, dun give birth, dun marry.
Maybe if love isn't there, at least,hold on to it. Cos you are no longer responsible for yourself, but for your child as well. Dun ruin a life, that has so many yrs to go than you. It's a pain when you see a obedient, kind hearted boy walking away with so much things on his shoulders, a 9 yr old having to take care of his 5 yr old sister, when after divorce, the parent have to work overseas.
how he walked strong, but tired. how deep a sorrow can be seem from his eyes.
sometimes, i only thought these are just words, but i witness ot myself and it is so true...
is it cos nowadays, having a child is like having a small puppy?
or is people simply dunno what they want?
