.somehow the Japan earthquake seems nearer and more real to me because i actually talk to some colleagues in the Japan office.

yesterday, i called up the Japan CFO to get his approval on something that was really not urgent and tbh quite mediocre for a CFO.
he missed my call, which was within my expectations since he will definitely be overwhelmed with the avalanche of concerns ensuing from the quake.
the Japan office is a small office, but my experience with most of the Japanese colleagues is that they are really nice and hardworking. but commonsensically-speaking, if i were the Japan CFO, i wont care about a stupid small fry's call during such frenzied times, so i was resolved to calling him back only later this week.

surprisingly, he messaged me awhile later and apologised for missing my call and told me to call him later instead as he needs to call the Asia Pac CEO to update him on the situation in the Japan office.
-___- who am i as compared to the Asia Pac CEO??!?!? and he's nice enough to tell me to call him back later!
anyways, i finally caught him on the phone and thanked him for accepting my (imho silly and not-so-important) call, and i asked him how is he. he sounded warm and cheerful as usual, told me the Japan office is okay, his staff are all okay, and his family is okay as well. and he profusely thanked me for the concern.
seriously, i dont know if i can still be so nice and sound so optimistic if i were him. it was such a relief to hear that my colleagues in Japan are all okay. but i heard that their area still suffers from aftershocks so their operations might be suspended anytime. let's keep our fingers crossed for them!

i read
this on fb and got extremely touched by the Japanese' calmness, resilience and civic-mindedness, and how united they are against their worst disaster since WWII. seriously, i believe if this were to happen to Singapore, we will be trampling on each other to get onto the train and hoarding every single grain of rice we can see, no?
"At Tokyo Disneyland:
Tokyo Disneyland was handing out its shops’ food and drinks for free to the stranded people nearby. I saw a bunch of snobby looking highschool girls walking away with large portions of it and initially though “What the …” But I later I found out they were taking them to the families with little children at emergency evacuation areas. Very perceptive of them, and a very kind thing to do indeed."
"At a congested downtown intersection …
Cars were moving at the rate of maybe one every green light, but everyone was letting each other go first with a warm look and a smile. At a complicated intersection, the traffic was at a complete standstill for 5 minutes, but I listened for 10 minutes and didn’t hear a single beep or honk except for an occasional one thanking someone for giving way. It was a terrifying day, but scenes like this warmed me and made me love my country even more."
"The bakery lady
There was a small bread shop on the street I take to go to school. It has long been out of business. But last night, I saw the old lady of the shop giving people her handmade bread for free. It was a heart-warming sight. She, like everyone else, was doing what she could to help people in a time of need. Tokyo isn’t that bad afterall!"

"At the supermarket
I just came back safely from the supermarket! Man, I was so touched at how everyone there was mindful of others, buying only as much as they needed and leaving the rest for the people behind them."
"A strong voice
Yesterday, I was impressed and touched by the actions of my neighbor’s 13-year-old-boy. He was home alone when the earthquake hit. But instead of hiding, as soon as the earthquake quieted down, he jumped on his bicycle and road around the block repeatedly shouting at the top of his voice, “Is everyone alright? Is everyone okay?” At the time, there were only women and children and the elderly in the homes. I cannot describe how comforting it was just to hear a strong voice asking if I was okay. Thank you!"
"A big, kind voice
I’ve been walking for many hours now. I’m touched at how everywhere I turn, there are shops open with people shouting “Please use our bathroom!” or “Please rest here!” There were also office buildings where people with access to information were voluntarily shouting out helpful tips, like “**** line is now operational!” Seeing things like this after walking for hours and hours made me feel like weeping with gratitude. Seriously, there is still hope for this country!"
"Coffee
My husband finally got home very late last night after walking for 4 hours. He told me he felt like giving up at around Akabane, when an elderly man who was going around handing out free coffee saw him, gave him a steaming cup and said, “You must be tired and cold. Here, have some coffee!” My husband told me that it was because of this elderly man that he found the will and strength to continue walking. I’ve already heard this story from him five times tonight, so no doubt he was really, really touched! Thank you to my husband’s anonymous helper!"
Jiayou, Japan, fighting!
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