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Sunday, December 27, 2009 / Sunday, December 27, 2009
ohmyod.. this charice girl has got great lungs lah can.. I LOVE HER VOICE! :))

okays and back to the singapore idol saga which i have been watching whenever i have the time. i have always liked sezairi probably because of his looks, but tonight he has shown he is worthy to be a part of teh final 2 with his superb performances! all the way sezairi! :))

kecohkecohkarnival finally ended last week with the pre-event happening on Monday and the carnival itself happening on Wednesday. (: a few days of chaos starting from teh previous friday with the excitement of wrapping the many gifts that kind people have bought for the kids as well as teh buying of the stuff for the hampers! ooh the fun i had the whole week, albeit a bit tiring it was all worth it! how can an event be tiring if you are doing it with your friends right? and to see the smiles of the kids at the end of the day, its just plain worth it! i swear! :))

ooh and i had a new boyfriend for the past week! the cheeky smiles he gives out can make this girl - 11 years his senior gush okays! hahaha.. okay, so i cant upload his picture to bad eh korang! but the past week has been great in all matters! haha..

met up with the besties for dinner and celebrating everyone's sumpah belated birthdays which we unfortunately were not able to celebrate the whole year round! how rabak is that you tell me! haha.. anyways, the catch up was a much needed one! and i do miss being around them, much love darlings! :))

went to batam during the christmas break and it was a superb getaway! the massage was just perfect at the end of the busy busy semester! pictures shall be uploaded next time because macam malas nak uplaod the pictures tonight. haha. thanks ibu for everything! :)

cant wait to go for the much awaited holiday tomorrow! dont miss me too much okay fans!

oooh.. results are coming out after break! good luck sezairi! :))

and i like wenyuan! he is sungguh cute okays! how he makes a girl smile.. i want to go to a sunflower farm or whatnot.. someone bring me there one day? haha..


/ Sunday, December 27, 2009
How To Pick Yourself Up Off The Floor


♥ Immerse yourself in something positive. Volunteer at a no kill animal shelter. Read to the elderly. Start an art project. Do something to create a positive influence for yourself. Negative thoughts and places are dangerous when you're down.

♥ Stop letting yourself only see the negatives when you look in the mirror. I used to always think "I'd be acceptable looking if I lost 10 pounds and my skin was better." and that's all I saw. I saw the negatives first and I almost never saw the positives. What do you like about yourself? What good things to others see in you? Why are you unique? How are you beautiful?

♥ Avoid negative people for a while. It's best to cut those people out all together, but that's not always possible. Just take a break. You're weak right now and you need to avoid people who will further bring you down.

♥ Don't be afraid to take it easy and don't beat yourself up for it. Just like if you had a cold, you'd try to make yourself feel better with medicine, rest, and good eating habits. You're under the weather right now, just not physically. Do things you like, surround yourself with people you love, and don't forget to fill your life with positive energy 24/7.

♥ Try something new. Change up your hair or your clothes. Stop listening to music that reinforces how you're currently feeling. Stop watching sad movies.

♥ Buy a blank notebook. Draw a huge heart on the cover. Don't write anything negative in here. If you need another outlet, make a separate notebook. This one is all about love, personal growth, and getting back up. Fill it with beautiful images, reaffirming thoughts, and quotes. Write in it every day, and each day write one thing you're grateful for in your life.

♥ Get on a healthier path. Stop eating junk food. Quit smoking. Cut back on sugar. Start exercising. Get plenty of sleep. Buy some daily vitamins and drink a lot of tea each day. Replace unhealthy foods with plenty of fruits and vegetables and drink TONS of water.

♥ Pick up a new skill and refine it.

♥ Go to the bookstore and navigate yourself to the self help section. Choose a book that appeals to you the most and best applies. Read it and then go back for another.

♥ Dedicate at least two hours of your day to yourself. This is your writing, thinking, and growing time. You're on a mission, you need time to complete it.

♥ Find someone you can talk to. Have deep conversations with them.

♥ Do not let yourself sink into your old habits even when you start to feel better. If you fall of the wagon, get right back on it.

♥ Make a list of your negative traits that you feel can be improved. Work on them one by one.

♥ Don't be that person who's always complaining or upset. When you talk to people, be positive. Find the good in every situation and point it out.

♥ Never be embarrassed or afraid to admit that you're not the strongest right now. Be honest. Everyone's been there. Don't hide behind a mask.

♥ Don't jump into new relationships or cling on to people for stability. Be your own rock.

♥ Be open. Try new things. Go out and do something. Meet new people. Explore opportunities.