Thursday, December 29, 2011

A little too much about Kaitlyn...

Warning: please be patient with this "braggy" post. I am a new mother who is bursting at the seams with happiness. This post is full of over-excitement and ooziness (is that a word?), but it is just how I'm feeling. If you are one of those people who often feels like slapping people who are happy in their blog posts, then please don't proceed.

Sorry for the lapse in posting lately. We have had a busy 3 months! We have been learning to be parents to the cutest girl in the world, and while she keeps us super busy we couldn't be happier to be her mom and dad! The past 3 months have been full of new routines, sleeping patterns, and schedules- all mixed in with a definite learning curve. Luckily we have the most patient little girl in the world. Whether we are struggling to put a onesie over her head, trying to clean up an exploded diaper, or just trying to figure out the dang snaps on her pajamas, Kaitlyn rarely cries. Instead, she just gives us this patient look that seems to say "well, I might not have gotten the smartest parents, but at least they try hard." :-) She really is such a cutie. One thing she definitely inherited from her parents is the love to socialize. She loves people. The minute anyone starts to talk to her she rewards them with the biggest and most heartwarming smile. She also loves to "talk" to people and to try and sing along to her mom and dad's goofy songs. She is definitely a people person (and I dare say she might compete with her mother for "the most talkative child of all time" award... ha ha).

Kaitlyn is also growing like a weed. At her 2 month doctor check-up she weighed 13.1 ounces (95 percentile) and was 24 inches long (98 percentile). So she is a proportionally big girl. She still eats super well (and thankfully can now eat a meal in about 15-20 minutes instead of the hour it used to take her) and consistently sleeps through the night (she has been doing this since she was 1 month old. I know it's a miracle... but like her mommy, this girl loves her sleep!) Phillip and I often joke that Kaitlyn has spoiled us so much with her good habits that we are quickly going to want another child and will then be blessed with a rambunctious and crazy child who will never sleep... I guess we will just have to wait and see :-)

Here is a picture of Kaitlyn when she was 1 week old and then again at 3 months old. Can you believe how much she has grown!?


On November 13th Kaitlyn was blessed by her dad in our ward here in Provo. It was a very emotional and special day for us. The blessing was beautiful and we were surrounded by many people that love our baby girl, including Phillip's mom and some of his siblings who traveled out from Delaware to meet baby Kaitlyn.

Blessing day girl:

with proud parents and Grandma Sumpter on blessing day:

With Grandpa Dave after blessing:

We recently had a wonderful Christmas break with my family in Salt Lake. All of my siblings were able to be together for Christmas (something that hasn't happened in 6 years) and we had a blast together. Phillip and I also celebrated out 5th wedding anniversary. These 5 years have flown by (in a good way!) and I am still very happy and feel very blessed to be Mrs. Sumpter.

Kaitlyn hanging out with Grandma Shirley and cousin Katy:

With cousin Sarah being Jesus in the nativity and with Grandma Jane Christmas Eve:

Christmas Eve Santas!:


So ya... you can definitely tell that we are obsessed with this little girl. (I swear she already knows how to roll her eyes because she rolls them at me every time I smother her face with kisses. I keep expecting her to say, "oh mom, will you lay off already!") But I can't help it, I have never felt more joy in my entire life. She is everything that we are grateful for this holiday season. I can remember last year when I yearned for a baby so so much that it hurt to breathe sometimes. I remember everyone telling me that parenthood would come so I shouldn't be sad. However I must say, this little girl was worth being sad over, because I was definitely missing the most wonderful experience in the world. So I will say this- the tears, pain, and sometimes pure agony of longing for a child for 4 long years was well worth crying over, but parenthood was definitely worth waiting for. I feel like I can better relate with Alma the younger, who after experiencing the deepest of agony for his past sins, even sinking into "the gall of bitterness", later expressed his joy in the gospel by proclaiming that through the Savior he was able to rise above this pain, and make the amazing proclamation that his "soul was filled with joy as exceeding as was [his] pain!". Back when I was feeling the pain of losing a child and yearning so much for another, I never imagined I could feel so much joy. Though I must admit I haven't forgotten the pain I felt in losing my son, I can firmly say that the joy that Kaitlyn brings to me, as well as knowing that I will see and raise Benjamin again one day, has brought me more joy than I ever thought possible. I am so grateful for this new testimony that I have in the gospel of Jesus Christ. I will forever be grateful for my Savior and His atonement, because without Him I couldn't be given my most precious gift- an eternal family.

Cutest girl in the world:


Hanging with Daddy and a mom who smooshes her face with love:

Showing off her new tricks- sitting in the bumbo, sticking out her tongue, and her all-time favorite thing- blowing bubbles:

It's exhausting being this cute:

So Happy New Year everyone. We are so grateful for our eventful year of 2011 (year in review coming soon), and are looking forward to 2012 which will bring many more changes, including graduating from law school and moving out east.

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Kaitlyn Jane Sumpter


She's here!


And we couldn't be happier! The past few days have been a whirlwind- with some m
oments standing still while other moments rushed by. But through it all Phillip and I have had only one emotion- sheer happiness. My love for this little girl is beyond what I thought possible (and believe me, after waiting for her for so long, I thought I knew how much I would love her). Phillip and I, though tired and sore (well... I'm sore...) are the happiest we have ever been!

I was induced last Tuesday, Se
ptember 27th. They broke my water and started me on petocin at 8:00am. Since I started out only being dilated to a 1, the doctor said to plan on at least 12-18 hours of labor so we hunkered down for the long day. (by the way, yes I got an epidural, yes it was amazing, and yes I will do it again.) To our surprise, by 1:20pm I was fully dilated and after two contractions and 5 minutes of pushing, during which the doctor told me I could just laugh this baby out and not push so hard, Kaitlyn Jane was born at 1:31pm. She was 7 pounds, 5 ounces and 19 1/2 inches long. Yes I know this birth story seems too good to be true, but it really was a fast and smooth delivery.

Through it all, it was once again manifested to me just what a special little girl I have. I know I have said this before, but Kaitlyn's spirit is without a doubt in tune with my spirit. I felt her hurrying herself to get to me so that I wouldn't be afraid and nervous. The entire day had an extra special meaning to me as it was exactly 2 1/2 years after our son Benjamin was born. His delivery on March 27th 2009 was so similar to Kaitlyn's, and yet so different. Both births were preceded with a priesthood blessing from my sweet husband, whose special and sacred words of comfort directed and gui
ded me through both of my children's deliveries. Then, both birthdays began with an early morning trip to the hospital to be induced. Both inductions began at 8:00 in the morning, and both ended in the early afternoon (Benjamin took longer to arrive, being born at 2:30 instead of 1:30). Through all these similarities, however, the biggest one was the overwhelming spirit and closeness to the veil. There is no other time on this earth when you feel heaven so close. I am convinced that Kaitlyn was very aware of my thoughts and feelings, knowing I was nervous, scared, and anxious to see a healthy baby at the end of this delivery. She came quickly and with no delay. She didn't even cry and instantly snuggled close to me on my chest, reassuring me that she was healthy, ok, and happy. I couldn't even cry because I was so stunned. It was assuredly the most surreal and special moment of my life.

Since her birth, she has been nothing but a blessing in our lives. We keep thinking that this is all a dream- way too good to be true. She eats like a champ and is a great snuggler. We are proud to be her parents to the point of obsession. . We just can't seem to get enough of her :-)

Thanks for your prayers. We felt them every step of the way. We are grateful, we are blessed, and did I mention that we are HAPPY!?

Here are some pictures of our journey so far:

Me on my 25th birthday- the night before Kaitlyn was born


Then came the big day
















Love this girl!

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Final Countdown

I am finally getting around to updating my blog one final time before baby comes. Life has been crazy around our home and while a lot of it has to do with preparing for our little girl, I still can't believe she is coming so soon! I am scheduled to be induced next Tuesday, September 27th (the day after my birthday- so fun!!) The doctors are anxious to get baby girl here safely and since my body is ready to go they are wanting to induce 1 week earlier than my due date- and I'm definitely not complaining! I can't wait to finally meet my little girl! I am definitely feeling some shock at the idea that I am finally going to be able to take home a baby to raise. Getting a child has been such a long road for us and I can't believe I get to meet our new angel in less than a week! I am emotional, anxious, excited, nervous, and about 100 other emotions that I can't even describe.

As far as my life goes lately, I have been filling my time making things for family, friends, and of course our little girl. Some of the things I made ended up just how I imagined, and others are eh... ok I guess. Here is a little snippet of some things I have been making:

Cross-stitch Salt Lake Temple for some friends in Delaware (they let us live in their house for the summer)

Birthday table runner and bow ties for sister-in-law Maryn and nephew Seth's birthdays

Scarves for Becky and Mom for their birthdays

Baby quilt for our little girl

Car seat cover and nursing cover

Bow holder for all of Girly's little bows and baby bumper for crib

Here is what her nursery currently looks like. I still need to add some more things on the walls so it isn't quite finished but you get a general idea (and yes... we have definitely embraced pink in our house)

View of other wall with changing table (and cute new coat rack in hallway for her little coats)


Here are some other random pictures depicting what has been happening over the last little while:

Trip to Gettysburg

Trip to Boston

Fun at the Delaware beach

Wedding of beautiful friend Jessica

Risenmay Reunion (Dad's side of family)

Fagergren Reunion (Mom's side of family)

Me at 36 and 38 weeks


Also, our amazingly talented friend Kristal took some maternity pictures of us the other day. I will always love looking back on this pregnancy and remembering all of the miracles along the way that have brought this little girl into our family.




We are feeling very blessed and ready for this new addition in our lives. Thanks for all your love and support through the journey!