Don't compare your Life to others'

Recently i've updated my FB chat-theme to Rilakkuma style. It's kinda cute. For those who wish to have a try, u can follow the link below:
https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/boihdhneeghabgieifcfinfempokflon/details

After sharing my print screen wif my peeps,
Surprisingly, i was inspired to blog about "Every 1 can b the Boss"
U can b called as Boss bcox u rule your own life, but scores + achievements decide ur Renown =)
mY Rillakkuma

To b honest, i think most of us hav our own dreams....

Dreams that look silly in the eyes of others; 
Dreams that we think we can't achieve in De Future;
Dreams that make us struggle wif The Reality; 






Those dreams seem so much more expensive just bcox they r Unachievable / Unreachable / Impossible?!
NO WAY~!!
U are recognized for Ur action, not ur thought. If v just sit there and dreaming, Ur dream will become cheap and useless.
No1 is gonna reimbursed for just thinking, u are paid to DO.



mY advice to Dear reader:


Don't compare your Life to others'
you have NO idea what their journey is all about !!
No one truly remembers their own history, nor do they reveal it to anyone in it’s entirety. Live your life as best as you can! encouraging as many as you can! Stay positive and Cheers~!! 

Additional readings for u guys =)

How to Turn Dreams into Reality - by JONATHAN

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Compromising

   妥协 - 

是指在冲突双方互相让步的过程中以达成一种协议的局面。
 管理者可能没有触及到问题的真正核心，而是就事论事的加以妥协，因此缺乏对冲突原因的真正了解。在这种情况下妥协并不能真正的解决的问题。也可能放弃了其他更好的解决方式。


If a compromise makes you feel taken advantage of, or lessens you somehow as a person, then it is an unhealthy compromise. The art of compromise must come with mutual respect, good intentions and honesty. A compromise should not diminish either person as an individual.
While there are plenty of things that should be open to negotiation in the partnership, here are a few key elements that make you who you are, that you should never compromise:


The basic moral system which most of us have firmly in place in our psyches should always be respected. Loving someone does not mean absorbing their moral values. If you compromise on these, your conscience will suffer, eventually causing you to resent your partner. Better to find a mate with similar moral values that the two of you can use as a guide throughout your lives.


self esteem - Any relationship that makes a woman feel bad about herself is an unhealthy one. If making you feel diminished somehow makes him feel more secure, or if pointing out your faults has become his favorite habit, you need to re-evaluate this person’s place in your life. Perhaps the two of you are a poor match. Perhaps, he is looking for an emotional punching bag. Whatever the case, your loved one should appreciate you, admire things about you, and be supportive. If not, cut him loose before more damage is done.

Little compromises are natural and unavoidable, but be careful not to give up too much of what is important to you for the sake of a relationship that should help to affirm who you already are.

Recources:
http://blog.californiapsychics.com/blog/2011/02/7-things-women-should-not-compromise-in-a-relationship.html
http://www.hudong.com/wiki/%E5%A6%A5%E5%8D%8F

所有改变 只为了进入你的世界 

这情节    重复了一百遍 

你划定楚河汉界 我不能轻易犯规 

所有时间   都是先给了你优先权 

不自觉 爱到不敢冒险

成了你的傀儡一年两年

才看见我有多狼狈 

爱到妥协 到头来还是无解

绑着你   不让你飞

历史不断重演 我好累

我不想在为你掉泪

我了解   不会变

不再徘徊 

08 August 12

Freedom or excuses??

...

Life become so valueless,
people just commit suicide whenever they faced some issues. They just ignore other facts that support them to stay tough/stronger...
they choose to end their lives easily, while forget about those who fight for their lives, who wish to live longer, who might suffer from illness or disease...


Same goes to our moral values.
Depreciation of moral values, increase premarital sex.
We are supposed to avoid  sexual immorality  just as we trying to avoid a lot of things.
Of course we know that we're human, we are not perfect!! And yet we still try not to kill people that we hate so much or stealing things that we desire, am i right?!



 "It seems like everyone else is having sexual relationship, so why make such a big deal about sexual sin?" 
i bet that this is the sentence which come across in ppl mind today... almost 80% of it?
There're some Hot News previously... Well-known public figures + Politicians are continually exposed for their sexual immorality, somehow it changes ppl's perception... Maybe??


Some may even said that,"Love (a relationship) comes together with sex, we cant 100%-ly hold it (relationship) without sexual engagement"

Erm, just a reminder to u guys, how pitiful it is to hold a "mate" through sex, cant you see that there are some "animals" get into a relationship just to "hunt u down" and leaving u after they're fed.
No offense.

There're studies show that women who engage in early sexual activity and those who have had multiple partners are less apt to express satisfaction in marriage life. Plus, those to avoid sex before marriage are appear to benefit from a commitment to being faithful and persevering in marriage.
Monogamous couples do not need to worry about AIDS and other sexual transmitted diseases, fear of rejection, or performance anxiety.

People think that by exploring their sexual freedom they are enhancing their pleasure and enjoyment, while in fact, are they really "enjoying without worries"?

There's no need to rush, if something is meant to be, it will happen in the right time and place, with the right person and for the best reason.

 Choose now to live right 

Little guideline here, 
1.Define what's the Needs in ur life - know ur "needs" that could make ur life become more meaningful but not miserable [yes, is ur Needs, not 'Wants'], dont trying to please others by putting the needs of others before yourself.


2.Self-respect - u should respect ur mind, body, and spirit. Ur boy/girl Loves u because of what's inside of u, not what u willing to do for them. If you don't respect yourself, why should anyone else?

Thx for the special 1 who respect me

 P/S: Hope u can received the msg behind the Music Video that i share with u =) 






You Have To Respect Yourself First. Then Others Will Respect You, Too.
Sources:
http://rabatchurch.org/sermons/sexual-immorality-what-difference-does-it-make/


http://www.livelifehappy.com/live-life-quotes/

June 2012

Definition of Friend
( Sources from oxforddictionaries )


~ a person with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically one exclusive of sexual or family relations
~ a polite form of address or in ironic reference to an acquaintance or a stranger one comes across

We all know that
There are friends who willing to share jokes wif u,
and they are probably a group of them...


However there are type of friends who's like rare species in your social network, 
These precious one share ur tears,
and they even able to dry your tears away  :')


 A friend who understands your tears is much more valuable 
than a lot of friends who only know your smile

6/6/12    6:30pm
i feel glad that after i expressed all my thoughts and worries, 
you'd take my words into deep and serious considerations,
trying to find out a better way for me.


7/6/12   8:40am
Received a call that intense to whack me up from current situation that i'm in...
yeAh, she's one of my kaki as well.




To those Friends who stop me from doing any silly decision, 
i would like to Thank You for such gracious... 
U r the treasure of my life...

Money is the root of all evil

Okay, i admit that it has been a while since previous post...
i've been disappear from "th3 Sky" =P

i'm here finally.... hehe.

Erm, i've started another stage of life in KL,

its about 4months ago, i never regret for any decisions that i've made so far, though it wasn't that easy and smooth... in fact, it's not that bad... teehee~

This is what ppl used to call "life"

Do u know what r u fighting for everyday when u woke up from sleep?

R u sure that what u doing is bringing u toward the Goal which v all thought that it is?

i guess most of the ppl r working for $$, instead of Goal....

i noe the reality forces us to live our lives in such way,
no1 to blame bt urself...

Can u figure out the differences between my Tittle vs. below statement?

"The Love of Money is the root of all evil"

If Yes, then congratulations~! =))
*No prizes awarded from me 
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