my eyelids feeling abit warm now...
HAIZ...



took medical leave last thursday to rest at home.

The next morning i went back to school, there, a pile of Get Well cards made by my Pri 1 class kiddos were left on my desk.




AWWWWWW......so sweeeeeet


even thou' all were made from cheap white printer paper, with sub-standard drawings, spelling errors and all...
every card was precious


each "I LOVE YOU" written inside the cards meant alot to me...
and by the end of reading through all of them, my eyes were teary already...

I was sooo freaking touched man!!!
had the sudden urge to dash upstairs to the hall to give all my kids a big hug, cry and tell them i love them tooo......

heh, no la..


some of the kids wrote, "I am sorry, i will be good next time. Please come back."
they actually had the idea that it was they who made me sick!
oh god, they are so innocent! and that breaks my heart to have them thinking that it was their fault...
i vowed to myself never to let them feel that way again.



went for our usual dance practice this afternoon...
it was one RARE CHANCE that i actually reached EARLY can?!!!

but

studio was locked (joy and gen werent back yet)

-_-

so went Yoshiden and waited for kiyomi...

we had their YOSHI PAPAYA!!!!!

it's said to make ur skin RADIANT RADIANT after drinking it wor!!!
and the hoe-liao inside includes papaya, snow fungus, almond 'DUN'-ed to perfection!! :D


*SLURP!!!!!
IT'S AMAZINGLY DELICIOUS!!!!!!

wahhahahhahhahaha
me with my yoshi papaya :D


kiyomi with her yoshi papaya :D



all thumbs up for it!
hehhehehhee.....

*waiting for my skin to be radiant radiant now...

the shop... YOSHIDEN


back in the studio....

me and kiyomi look like siao ones

heh... sometimes when u take too many normal photos, u would wan try something new??



went with kiyomi & virgie to meet up with josh for dinner @ WARAKU!!! :D

SUPER FULL after our sobas

kiki's hair is curled beautifully liao...
*cant really see here...wanna see the really nice pics, go check out kiki's blog) whahhaha... all thanks to her personal hair-stylist, Virgie....(who declined to appear in any of the photos, kekekekkeke....)


going to bed liao...
sweet dreams! :D

Aey, i also wan lehhh...........


peeps, do this for me okie? heeee :D

what u hate about me

and

what u like about me

no need give face one..
thank you ah

im having a sore throat

:(

i hope i dont have to shout at any rowdy kids tomorrow

ARGHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

why do the weekends always pass so quickly?!??!
i dun wanna go work tomolo



never mind, blog first.
i've got lots of photos to post, buahahahaa... :D


when u are experiencing the advanced Monday blues, u just dont feel like writing much.
very soon,
this would become a photo-blog liao...
heh...

I LOVE THE WEEKENDS !!!
cos i can get to see him


met him after dance and i was famished!!

he said Pizza Hut @ Siglap has a very nice ambience


he looks KUKU here...



great food! *SLURP!!!


CHECK OUT my cap! hehhehehheheee.....




dear :)


we both ordered pastas and it turned out that his was olive-oil-based and mine ketchup-based...
switched cos he detests olive oil while i swear by it.. on the other hand, ohh how i hate ketchup but it was actually his fave -_-

keke...




after dinner, we proceeded to east coast beach...

i brought along my Sparklers!!!








the sparklers were actually bought 4 years ago... on our first valentine's day date when we went Sunset bay to play. he bought 6 boxes then...

after 4 years, the left over boxes still around lor... haha
see how long we haven been tat LOMANTIC liaooo??

must revive the moments, hahhaha

combine POWER !!

may the SPARKS be with us!


hehheheee..
wah lao ehh.. super mushy cannot stand it








wish nobody has the BLUES like me now..
dun wan to go back work

:(

you sometimes need emails like this too
to once again remind what keeps a relationship going...

... whether it's a relationship between u and a family member, a working colleague or your significant other.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Trust is a very important factor for all relationships.
When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator she received a phone call one day. She answered, "Public Utilities Board."
There was silence.
She repeated, "PUB."
There was still no answer.
When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice.

"Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."




No pointing fingers
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticise your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected.
Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

Creating perfect relationships
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one."
The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please."
"Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest."

The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife.

Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses.
The nightmare begins.




No overpowering
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..




Right speech
Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site.
A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school."
On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker."
She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg.
The effect is irreversible.




Personal perception
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison.

A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"
Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them.
Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?"
Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey.

Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river.

You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear.




Be patient
This is a true story which happened in the States.
A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his horror, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck.
The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment.
When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands.
When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck."
Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?"

The father went home & killed himself.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love.
Trucks can be repaired..
Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance.

We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes.
But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

there's nothing much about V day, really..

except that it's the perfect time for florists to mark up original prices to 200% without being labelled as blood-suckers (cos they are men's 'redeemers'),
jewellery shops to advertise their valentine's day designs.......(umpteen times i've heard that CITIgems-advert song.. now already drilled into our heads)


remembered i used to be very 'gaey gao' how he planned the celebration and all...

now...
where, when and how we celebrate the ocassion doesnt really matter to me much... as long as we both enjoy ourselves

like he said before,
"everyday is valentine's day cos i love u everyday"

wah lao ehh..
these kind of mushy words also can come out from his mouth lor, heh...


anyway, met at bugis to go for a movie last evening..
i waited for him for MORE THAN AN HOUR before he finally appeared.
passed the time browsing thru japanese fashion magazines @ kinokuniya :p

strangely enough, i no longer make a big fuss out of it like i used to last time..
guess when one becomes OLD, they become more SHUI BIAN also...hahar
think i've outgrown that stage already..

and im more than happie to see him..



went for the sneak preview of Brokeback Mountain..

despite its many nominations in the Oscars and having the reputation of being a brilliant film by movie reviews,
i seriously ain't comfortable seeing TWO men having sex and kissing ( touching) each other passionately

URGHHHHHHH......


and when we came out of the movie, we realised we were surrounded by pools of GAY COUPLES

!!!
shouldnt have watched it on vday

spent our Sunday afternoon watching dvd...

The Exorcism of Emily Rose

shit man...
couldnt sleep a wink last night....
i kept thinking it was 3 a.m.

:(


Nice Vday dinner @ Al Forno Itallian Restuarant after that :D
(pre-advanced one...just in case he cant book out on tue...)




my fave LINGUINE ALLE VONGOLE !!!


his PASTA PENNE with tomato, mozzarella and basil sauce




i enjoyed till the last CLAM
before i found this.....





*urghhhhh




i knew it!
i knew what he's gonna give me for vday, hahar
the IONIC HAIR STRAIGHTENER

hahar....he's so predictable

after one whole week
he finally booked out of camp on saturday :D

YAY


planned to go out and have some nice food to celebrate our belated anniversary..
but as expected, he was too tired to...

he said he had to carry the "Da Pao" to chiong suahh that morning
-_-


so we stayed home,
gave him a nice massage and off he went into dreamland ;p


and this was his anniversary pressie for me -->



COMBAT RATION!!??!!?

he say... "the only present i can get from camp is this leh"
good good... hen you xin ahh...




woke up and he sent me to studio.

dear :)


and he's wearing the watch i gave him for christmas!!! wahahhaha


trying on his army cap, hehe..


had some GREAT DIM SUM @ Geylang before dance!!!


it's called "wen dou sek" in cantonese
kekekke...


continued cam whoring on the way to SensualJoy... heh

(super ultra ORBIANG...)


i love my falsies.. hehehhehehe







A PLEASANT surprise awaits me at studio..

presenting to u....



SENSUAL, a baby Shih Tsu bought by Joy and Gene!!!
whahahahhahahhahahhahah


it's super cute!!!
and the girls all wanted to hug it...kekekeke...

Yas with sensual


my turn! :P



after awhile....

muaheheheheee.....

took with the girls instead..


me, yas, virgie


myself with kiyomi