RACHEL
Last month:
- In the last few weeks since we posted a
sister update, the main event in our lives is our trip to France! Ken
and I rented a tiny car and spent 3 days exploring Normandy and the
surrounding towns (Bayeux, Caen, etc). We toured various World War II
sites during the day and watched episodes of Band of Brothers on the
iPad at night. It was perfectly lovely. The weather was very mild and
it was so nice to get some COLOR on my skin after too much time inside
an office.
- From Normandy we transitioned to Paris where we rented an
apartment through VRBO on Ile de la Cite, right by Notre Dame. It was a
great location, very central to all the big Paris attractions. Our
apartment had no A/C which ended up being ok but we were quite worried
at first when we arrived and realized. Our favorite activity was
renting bikes from the Velib stations and biking all around the city.
We didn't ride the metro very much because the bikes were so pleasant
except for a few scary moments on some busier streets. I look forward
to using the bikes again sometime on another visit.
- Ken came back to the US to work and I spent 3 extra days in
Paris with my friend Kristen Hill. It was great to have a few days to
go around to some of the stores and places that don't make it to the top
of your list when this is your first trip to Paris as it was for Ken.
- I spent one day visiting the Orangerie in the morning to see Monet's water lily paintings and then jumped a train out to Giverny to see Monet's house and gardens in person. The Orangerie is so undervalued! People always skip it! But the huge water lily canvases are so striking. And it's not crowded and a perfectly bite-sized collection of artwork so you don't get overwhelmed or tired like you might at the Louvre or Orsay. In the future, I will recommend this museum to anyone traveling with kids. A good little dose of art and situated in the MIDDLE of the Jardin des Tuileries (good for pre and post museum ice cream & play time). I of course wished Ken could have stuck around with me but we cannot bite the hand that feeds us! (aka our real jobs...)
- We left for our trip on a Monday, which proved waaaayyy less stressful than blasting out of town on a Friday night. We had the whole weekend to prepare and pack. I came back Thursday afternoon so I went to work on Friday before being able to have a weekend to rest, a nice way to ease back into real life.
- Saturday, June 2nd was a productive day of errands cleaning, and lovely updates about Sarah's BABY!! CZ and I met with a potential photographer who is a big fan of Jon Canlas.
- Sunday, June 3rd I taught my primary class. I'm always super stressed before church when I have to teach and need to find better ways to mentally approach the situation b/c I don't want it to be so unpleasant. After church I met up with CZ at a dress shop where we saw some lovely wedding options.
- June 4-8 was a pretty standard work week. It's hard to get fully back in the swing of things. Ken worked a ton and tutored on the side during all his available time leading up to the June 11th LSAT test date. It made me grumpy to come back from a great trip and immediately never see each other. Whatever.
- Friday, June 8th I worked from home very productively, talked to a great florist for CZ and went on a date to Truckeroo!
- Saturday,
June 9th we went to the Vienna Farmer's Market, reorganized the house
and went out to dinner. I've made a lot of progress through Ken
Follett's Worlds Without End, sequel to Pillars of the Earth.
- Sunday, June 10th we had dinner at Steve & Ie Li's which was delicious and long overdue! Mi Na is hilarious these days.
- I found out on Monday, June 11th that I am being promoted to Senior Associate as of July 1. Wooo!! It's exciting and reassuring to reach the milestone. I have a lot of new roles and responsibilities to think about. Day to day I don't think much will change about my job, but I want to keep in mind the types of things that helped me and frustrated me as an associate so I can be mindful of those coming up behind me.
- This Friday, June 15th CZ and I are meeting with the florist out in Lucketts, VA. I hope it's a good meeting.
- June 16-23 we are headed to Carlsbad with Ken's family for some beach time. July 2-9 we will be in Utah for some Z family time.
- Ken's 29th birthday approaches on July 2nd! Gotta get some plans going. Ken needs to renew his VA license before we fly to Utah since it expires on his bday.
- I will miss official Promotion Day in the office on June 22nd. Too bad, but I can't complain about being at the beach!
- Tuesday, June 26th I'll find out what my new compensation will be. I'll need to block out the rest of the day to update my many spreadsheets :-)
- Swap out my work laptop for a new one. This will be a hassle b/c I need to back everything up and then get the new computer totally up to speed.
- Over the next few weeks I will continue helping CZ execute her dream wedding day! There is a lot to consider and only 7 weekends left until the wedding (3 of which I am gone...).
- Zero
in on what I'm going to wear to the wedding. I have bought and
collected soooo many mint green items, it's time to start narrowing down
and making final decisions.
- Continue training for the Freedom Days 10K in Provo on July 4th. I guess this means I'll need to go to the balloon launch on July 3rd?? I want to participate in both!
ANNEE
- Swim Team. It's everyday of the week, including Fridays! The lucky thing is, the kids are actually enjoying it this year. No one really complains when I say it's time to go. They are even participating in the swim meets this year. Even George has confessed that the lap swimming during practice is actually pretty enjoyable. I love it when I get positive feedback on their lives!
- Piano is faltering. I think tomorrow is our last lesson until August, due to our travel schedules (ours and our teacher). At the beginning of the practice week I was telling everyone how this was our last week, so we were going to give it our all. That fell apart after the first day of practicing. So sad. I'm wondering what we're going to do about piano in September. I just don't see how I'll have the strength to make it happen. The practicing, the discipline, the structure. It just might have to go for a while. I have to be okay with that. We simply cannot do it all!
- I finished my quilt!! It's beautiful. I'm so happy I made it. I need to get it photographed and updated on MOM. I dreamed about doing a bit more hand quilting on it while I sit at swimteam. But it's pretty hot to sit there and have a quilt on my lap. So, the hand-stitching might be to-be-continued over the years. As soon as I finished I felt like I needed a few quick gratification projects, so I made the girls some skirts and dresses. Two skirts and two dresses, in about three days. I do feel like I've been doing a lot of sewing lately. I've let myself sew quite a bit during the day, because I just figured my days are numbered. Now I'm working on a little baby project, but had to slip in a pair of pajamas for Jane's last pajama day at school today!
- Hosted book club. We read "Wrinkle In Time" for the month of May. I'm glad I read it because it's a classic, but I'll admit, I didn't love it. It just didn't have enough character development for my taste. Now I'm listening to "Wild Swans" an epic novel spanning the history of China, and reading "Room" while I sit at the pool.
- Celebrated 14 years of marriage with the best guy in the world. It was a weekday and we had swimming and baseball later that night, so we simply went out to our new favorite Mexican place for lunch, Mez. It's really more like a Mexican-fusion place because it's super California in their use of fresh ingredients and interesting flavor combinations. You have to order the chips and salsa as an appetizer which I always think is a ripe off. But I'll go back anytime I need to celebrate, it's so good! After lunch Darin came with me to the quilt shop, so that was romantic :) It was a low key celebration year. But we acknowledge the accomplishment of it all, and not to get all cheesy, but seriously, I love him more today than I did 14 years ago. I love that part of my life!
- Went to a random matinee movie a few days after our anniversary to finish celebrating. We were the only ones there. We missed our usually 65+ crowd, but apparently they were not interested in seeing "What to Expect". It's a silly movie. Nothing profound in it to be sure, but it seemed appropriate that we watch it this year. We were certainly able to get our fair share of laughs out of it.
- This past weekend we invited Jane and Ruby to come with us on our date on Saturday night. We took them downtown Chapel Hill to the totally old theater in the middle of town to watch "Mirror, Mirror". Afterwards we went out for cupcakes. It's good to remember to give our kids more personalized outings every now and again. I think they felt pretty happy about their evening.
- Birthday parties, swim meets, scout trips, youth trips, block party, school events. It feels like it's been non-stop around here. But kind of non-stop of the somewhat mundane. That's fine. I am not complaining! It's life. And I love it.
This Week:
- School's out on Friday!! We can do it!! We've had three sets of field days this week. Plus three different ice cream parties on Thursday. An awards assembly on Friday. Kind of a joke if you ask me!
- Second swim meet is this Wednesday. I need to go into the website and get everyone registered for that one too. It's so cute to watch them all swim as hard as they can for their events. I love it!
- A second baseball playoff game tonight. The girls and I will have to miss it because we already missed swim team last night for the first playoff game. It might be the end of the baseball season, finally!
- Last piano lesson for who knows how long on Wednesday!
- Want to get my monthly pedicure before the kids are out of school. I'll feel less guilty doing it while they are still in school :) I've decided pedicures will be monthly from now until delivery day!
- OB appointment next week. We will make a final decision about our summer travel plans after we do the glucose test and have the final in-depth ultrasound to check on everyone's growth, etc. Fingers crossed!
- Darin and I need to get to the temple too. Maybe we can squeeze that in before school is out too?! I'd better call to see if there is any room in the session. We are a "by appointment only" temple! One of the cons of these small sized temples.
- I'm tired. But sleeping at night is getting more and more complicated. Piles of pillows. Repositioning. Moving out to the couch for stretches of the night. Leg cramps, back aches, heartburn, bathroom breaks. It's really awesome. This is when pregnancy starts to feel like it will never end. But I fully understand the function of this phase. To break you down low enough that you will endure whatever child-birth and delivery entail, to simply not be pregnant anymore!
- Um, find something to wear to the big wedding on August 4th. I think about it a lot.
IE LI
Last few weeks:
- Infection #4. This one was bad. I was in bed for three days. I went to a urologist about it and I'll be on antibiotics for a month.
- I substitute taught in Relief Society. It had been years since I'd taught in Relief Society so I was a little nervous.
- Ward Memorial Day picnic. It was so hot.
- Steve picked up a free bike for me at a garage sale.
- Swimming! I love going to the pool. I love how it makes everyone so happy and so tired.
- Purchased this mint dress for Christine's wedding. Obviously it needs some sleeves and some more chest coverage, but other than that, I love it. It is so comfortable.
- Started making dinner again. I feel normal again and I really hope it sticks this time.
- Pirate day at Mei Li's school. I made her some foil earrings.
- Went to Honey Pig again. It's still my favorite.
- School ended! As the kids got off the bus on the last day of school, mom and kids cheered. When Mei Li got off the bus, she ran to me, hugged me, and wept. She was really sad that it was the last day of school. She said that nothing else could be as fun as kindergarten.
- Mei Li turned six on Saturday. We had a quick breakfast, cleaned the church, came home for birthday waffles, went swimming, went to Stephen's T-ball party, and opened presents. We're looking forward to more celebrating in Indiana with cousin Mylee later this month.
- Stephen's T-ball party was fun. As the coach presented him with his trophy, he said, "This goes to the only switch-hitter I know of in T-ball." Stephen is really proud of his trophy.
- Had dinner and cupcakes with Rachel and Ken on Sunday. We stayed up late talking after the kids were in bed.
This Week:
- Register for the summer reading challenge at the library.
- Bike riding! Steve just installed the baby bike seat today.
- Swimming.
- Start exercising. I'm thinking I should finally use that prenatal yoga VHS tape that Ana gave me so many years ago. :)
- I don't really have any other plans. I guess that's the beauty of summer.
ANA
Last Few Weeks:
- Honestly I have no idea what we've done over the last few weeks. I do know that everyone got fed, dressed and to bed each night. Jack made it to school almost every day. One day I let him stay home just so Zack could stay home too till 8am. That's what I call awesome parenting decisions.
- Friday is Jack's last day of Kindergarten. It was crazy fast.
- Will is 8 months old. That went crazy fast too.
- I'm so tired so much of the time. I am now at the awesome level of sleep deprivation where I can't come up with normal words in everyday conversation. It's fun. Zack hates seeing me this way and keeps advocating for some serious night time sleep training, but I want to suck every last drop out of this baby experience since it's probably our last. I know there will be years of sleep ahead and until then Will's chubby hands holding mine in the middle of the night make everything ok.
- Jack had his final t-ball game on Saturday. He averaged 1 home run per game and had a lot of fun. He is a patient fellow which makes baseball a good game for him.
- Lost 70 lbs! Still 10 more to go. I now catch my reflection in the mirror and almost recognize myself. It's been a long time coming although I think these last 10 pounds are going to be stubborn.
- Bought Zack a new car! He's happy and I am so happy he's happy and that the evenings full of finance discussions and car searches are over for a while.
- Will can sit up! Whoo hoo! He can give high 5s and is starting to wave hi. It's fun that he's becoming more of a real person.
- Zack signed us up for an CSA box. I'm up to my eyeballs in beets, radishs and kale. Honestly I think we won't be renewing our subscription.
- Decided to stay put for 1 more year. I am relieved I don't have to pack up again. By next June Zack will be in a more permanent position at work and we will know if he likes it or if he's looking to move on. Then we will make our next moving decision.
- I turn 32 in 2 weeks. I don't even want to think about how fast this year went.
- Jack starts playing in a basketball league. Why do I keep signing him up for things that take up our Saturdays?
- Jack begged to be signed up for dodgeball camp. It's mornings of his first week of vacation and he is super excited. I hope it can live up to the hype.
- My mom comes to town. It's been 6 months since I've seen her which is way too long.
SARAH
Truman Axel Wiley
was born Saturday, June 2, 2012 around 1pm MST!!!
was born Saturday, June 2, 2012 around 1pm MST!!!
CHRISTINE