Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Baby number 2!!! Yay! 16 weeks!

So we have been wanting another baby since well always lol we have always imagined two lil besties playing together! So as soon as Kay turned one (March) we started getting down to business...literally.  A few months went by and we were like ehh it's okay it always takes a few months but by the 5th month I was realizing I was having pain and needed to go get checked out... They said I was experiencing pain from something called endometriosis.  Which was prob why we also weren't getting pregnant.  I felt discouraged but decided to go on Chlomid ( meds that help you ovulate) after 2 months on the meds we got pregnant!! We were so happy and both cried with joy.  8 months of trying seemed so long to us even though I know that it is nothing compared to some peoples experience who have it take years or never can have kids so we felt really blessed that it did happen.  But our scares we're not over... As I approached week 5 I went to a work out class that made me feel so sick I came home laid down then when I woke up I had major pain and bleeding.  Called me doc and went in the next day to do an ultrasound.  They said it looked like a tubal pregnancy, which means that baby will not make it.  I was so devastated, but felt as though they were wrong.  They said to get some blood work done to check my HCG levels and see if they were progressing(doubling) like they we're suppose to.  So I did and they were normal,  I felt relief.  We had another ultrasound a week later and they said that is was not tubular but that I had a huge cyst on my right ovary that was massive but worst of all a blood clot in my womb next to the baby that was large.  They said we would have to do ultrasounds every week to make sure it's not getting bigger so it doesn't cause the baby any harm.  Again I was very nervous and scared but still had a feeling of peace that it would be okay.  We went in for my 9 week appt. and they said the clot was starting to liquify and go away.  It was great news!!  Now the only thing causing me pain was my stupid huge cyst that could rupture at anytime.  But at my 13 week appt that was also half the size.  So all in all I we are so blessed that baby is healthy and no more problems....for now!  We found out on the 3rd that is was another baby GIRL.  I thought for sure it was a boy since I felt way worse than I had with Kay.  Plus I really wanted my studly football playing boy but I was fine with either.  Now Kay can have a built in best friend like I did with my sister Kaylee.  I think it's so meant to be.  I am so excited for these girls to have each other. Now we need to pick a name.. We are leaning towards Holland Chiami Nelson,  but we will see if it sticks.  I am feeling great now, just still more tired than normal.  I'm seeming to be carrying the same as I did with kay( which is baby back in my spine) so some back pain starting.  We can't wait to be parents of two girls. Zack is the perfect girl dad, so sweet and sensitive.  Can't wait for a newborn again I've been dying for one.  They are the sweetest, hopefully this girl will be a sleeper like Kay has always been.  I also can't wait for another nursery to decorate.  I'm thinking grey & coral!  Can't wait to start.  Here is some pics of baby and the way we announced it to everyone.   Also my 16 week pic from today!