Thirteen years ago Matt and I were married for time and all eternity in Idaho Falls with the rain pouring down nearly all day long! Even though the weather was not perfect, the day was and I am so happy to have made the decision to marry this wonderful man and be a part of his life forever!
At this time of year we reflect a lot on things we are grateful for, so I would like to list a few things about Matt that I am so grateful for!
1. He is the most unselfish person I know. Matt would literally do anything for anyone and ask for nothing in return. He is completely giving of his time to me and to our family and friends. I can ask him to do almost anything and he doesn't hesitate to help me out! I am so grateful to have someone like him to always be able to count on!
2. He is very respectful of me and my feelings. Especially at this stage in our lives when we are expecting our fifth child, he is always trying to help me out around the house and my favorite times are when the kids are in bed and we are sitting together on the couch watching TV and he scratches my dang itchy back!
3. He takes me on dates every weekend. And he calls them dates. The kids will ask where we are going and he always responds "I'm taking my wife on a date". I love that.
4. He has taught my kids to respect their mother. It is not uncommon in our home to hear him quietly talking to one of the kids who has been misbehaving and telling them that they need to be nice to his wife because "that's my wife and I will not have you treating her that way." He makes my kids apologize to me when they have done something that was disrespectful.
5. He honors his priesthood and is not afraid to stand up for what we believe in. I am so grateful that Matt served an honorable mission as it has made him a spiritual leader in our home.
6. I love his sense of humor. He is always making me laugh. He knows just when to crack a joke (especially when I am frustrated or upset), or even in the middle of Sacrament meeting he will lean over and whisper something completely off the wall and funny...I can't laugh then!
7. I love that we enjoy doing the same things. We both love to camp and be outdoors. We have great times on our four-wheeler rides, and we both love to hang out on beaches and in the sun with water nearby!
8. Matt always makes sure that I get my "me" time. Whether it be encouraging me to go to women's conference each year with my girlfriends, go shopping for an afternoon, visit my mother in Utah, or just relax in the bathtub. I always know that I can have his support in these things and I am grateful for that.
9. Matt always tells me thank you for dinner. He always has and continues to this day. We finish a meal and he immediately tells me "thanks for dinner, it was great." I have noticed my kids following suit and have started saying thank you also.
10. He never leaves the house without telling me he loves me or he never goes to bed without telling me he loves me.
11. Matt is very generous with gifts to me. It does not fail every year for Christmas we set our budget for each other and he always surprises me with something great. My birthdays and Mother's day are the other times he just spoils me rotten.
12. He sends me flowers for no reason. I have gotten flowers delivered to my door for occasions like when I announced our third child I was surprised the next day with roses or just recently when I had been working hard to get the kids' rooms painted and ready he sent me flowers to tell me thanks for working so hard.
13. Matt is not afraid to take vacations and have fun! His philosophy is "why wait for retirement to do some traveling. We'll only be older, let's have fun now." I love that he plans all of our vacations and weekend getaways. It is so fun and relaxing to vacation with him.
14. I love that my husband works hard and knows the value of work. He works hard around the house, at his job, and as a coach.
15. Matt is a great dad. I honestly watch him interact with the kid sometimes in awe at his patience and kindness when I want to rip their heads off! He is especially good at spending time with them. There is not a "guys' trip" that Matt doesn't have at least one of our boys, if not both. And he prefers it that way. He supports our kids in their activities (even though cheer is a hard one for him to swallow). He is there whenever he can be for his kids and that means a lot to me and to them.
16. I love that Matt totally respects his parents. He is always there when they need him and he tries hard to please them. I think this shows a lot about character and I admire him for that.
17. Matt calls me "sweetie" and I just love it! There is something about that term of endearment that I think is so...well, sweet!
18. I love that Matt has taught our oldest son to open doors for me and to carry my bags (especially at church). Tanner quickly walks ahead of me to open the door and always grabs my primary bag after sacrament meeting and takes it to class for me. He is just like his dad and it makes me smile.
19. I am grateful for a husband who knows how to fix things. I truly am relieved that when things break down he is the first one to try and fix it himself, nearly always with success and I am grateful for that. He takes care of our cars and our household things that need maintaining. It takes a great load off me when I don't have to worry about the strange noises or warning lights that happen from time to time.
20. Matt is constantly asking me what he can do better. He looks for ways to improve himself and I am happy that he has the motivation to better himself and our marriage.
21. He calls when he is going to be late. This is something I am grateful for just for the peace of mind and respect it gives me!
22. He reads the newspaper so I don't have to...(this is a personal joke)
23. Matt is a "people person" and I have learned so much from him about coming out of my shell! I was such a shy person before we got married and I feel like he has changed me for the better in this respect.
24. He brings out the best in me, makes me want to do better and be better. I am so happy to have this wonderful man in my life and to be able to share everything with him and enjoy life through all the crazy, wild, unexpected, fun, exciting, sometimes hard, sometimes challenging experiences that we face together!
I love you lots, hon and hope you have a great day! hugs and kisses...