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I'm Sorry ..

I'm sorry and my sincere apologies  to Shirley... 

Today my best friend Shirley, got a warning letter from work because of her 3 blog posts.

It all started with a blog and a naive me who believed everyone is good. :(

Based on my past post, somewhere Jan 2006 I left a post to my CCE friends and i can't believed that is the post that cause my best friend to be hurt. I'm now really lost of words to describe my feeling, but is simple apologetic, guilty, upset...

WHY? 

Because of this post, someone got to know about my blog and maybe through my blog someone got to pinky's pondering. and the someone happened to read 3 posts of pinkyspondering, who wrote about what happened in her work place and how she felt.. 

BUT this someone who read these posts happened to be someone in the workplace and now pinky got a warning letter from work. If she found doing it again, maybe she will lose her job?? If that is really the case, I really don't know what to do... find a better job for her? 

and now pinky got to stop pondering because of me and my previous action!

But in the first place there are a few points i am still pondering:-

1. i trusted people whom i trust but i felt betrayed by what happened. If i listen to Shirley advise to remove the link in the first place, this wouldn't happened. but why because i trust? I have always trusted people, but often got betrayed. Not that I don't learnt from mistake, but I always believed that in a friendship, a basic ingredient is trust. If there is no trust, we are no friend...

2. if someone was to blog about something that is fact, why is she penalized? if really the case that she is wrong, why she is not given a chance at the first place? Why a direct warning letter? She had been putting in so much effort in her work, maybe that is what she supposed to do as she gets her pay monthly, but she really deserved a warning letter? Maybe a better scenario is to talk to her in private, solved the issue or problem rather than warning letter? (maybe i'm too naive) 

3. I believed not only Shirley shared the same thoughts, but because she got it written and not spoken, she got penalised? Just do anything, just don't get caught? 

Previously i have linked some friends in my precious link, now if you realised there should be none on the list(Except for Baby Ayden). Not because i got no more friends or you are no longer precious, is just because i don't wish to hurt any of my friends anymore. I know is too late, but at least that is something i can do now. 

People who happen to come across this blog, remember think twice before you blog. You can be charged even what you say is fact.