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I'm Sorry ..

I'm sorry and my sincere apologies  to Shirley... 

Today my best friend Shirley, got a warning letter from work because of her 3 blog posts.

It all started with a blog and a naive me who believed everyone is good. :(

Based on my past post, somewhere Jan 2006 I left a post to my CCE friends and i can't believed that is the post that cause my best friend to be hurt. I'm now really lost of words to describe my feeling, but is simple apologetic, guilty, upset...

WHY? 

Because of this post, someone got to know about my blog and maybe through my blog someone got to pinky's pondering. and the someone happened to read 3 posts of pinkyspondering, who wrote about what happened in her work place and how she felt.. 

BUT this someone who read these posts happened to be someone in the workplace and now pinky got a warning letter from work. If she found doing it again, maybe she will lose her job?? If that is really the case, I really don't know what to do... find a better job for her? 

and now pinky got to stop pondering because of me and my previous action!

But in the first place there are a few points i am still pondering:-

1. i trusted people whom i trust but i felt betrayed by what happened. If i listen to Shirley advise to remove the link in the first place, this wouldn't happened. but why because i trust? I have always trusted people, but often got betrayed. Not that I don't learnt from mistake, but I always believed that in a friendship, a basic ingredient is trust. If there is no trust, we are no friend...

2. if someone was to blog about something that is fact, why is she penalized? if really the case that she is wrong, why she is not given a chance at the first place? Why a direct warning letter? She had been putting in so much effort in her work, maybe that is what she supposed to do as she gets her pay monthly, but she really deserved a warning letter? Maybe a better scenario is to talk to her in private, solved the issue or problem rather than warning letter? (maybe i'm too naive) 

3. I believed not only Shirley shared the same thoughts, but because she got it written and not spoken, she got penalised? Just do anything, just don't get caught? 

Previously i have linked some friends in my precious link, now if you realised there should be none on the list(Except for Baby Ayden). Not because i got no more friends or you are no longer precious, is just because i don't wish to hurt any of my friends anymore. I know is too late, but at least that is something i can do now. 

People who happen to come across this blog, remember think twice before you blog. You can be charged even what you say is fact. 

Life & Lives

12 May 2008, a day that all chinese will remember. An earthquake happened at China, Sichuan that brought away many lives away, broken many many families and dreams. However, this bring all chinese around the world to stay united and help the victims.

I'm kind of affected by this incident. I have been to Chengdu, Sichuan and other area where the earthquake had destroyed. The people there were nice people and it's quite sad that this happened to them.

But from this incident, I was reminded that how fortunate are we, living in Singapore. While we are thinking what to eat for next meal, people at the other side of the world still need to worry if they have any thing to eat for the next meal.

I have decided to cancel my next diving trip and donate all my saving to help and save more people. Please help if you can. No matter what, the children are innocent. They need a future and hope.

Study at Sentosa

At Sentosa preparing for MTH201 Exams. Gloomy Weather :S

It is quite, peaceful and conducive for studyThe picture would be perfect without the two :(
Some young lucky people playing while i have to study..
A relax lifelong queue for Songs of the Seas
The Sun Set

May Outing with Ayden

Outing with Grandma, Ayden and Eileen

Singapore HDB

Finishing Assignments

Busy at StarBucks to finish ObjectOriented Assignments... my favorite caramel latte :) 

Steamboat Gathering

Matilda and Thomas

Together with Diving Kakis to celebrate Andrew's Bday. :)

My Ancestor

It's the time of the year we will meet and greet our ancestor. Today, I went to visit my great grandpa, great grandma and grandpa with my family and relatives.

Opal miss grandpa and her Macdonald trip with grandpa. :(

My Idol Since Childhood

Lydia Shum - my idol since i was young and always my idol. Now she has left us to peace, should we be happy for her? at least she do not need to suffer from any more pain.

Now she is no longer with us but her spirit will always be with us, her laughter and optimistic will stay with us always, at least I will remember and miss her always!

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It's a long time since i last blog.
Have I been too lazy or I really got no time or I really got nothing to blog about.
anyway... above a picture i took when i visited chinatown for cny shopping and below are some grumbles... :)

Things had been happening fast, from I last left from Company A to B to C... it has been a year over. Have been browsing through my blog for the past few months and realized I have been playing too much and not really spend much quiet quality time.

Remember I'm not a person who likes to look into mirrors, but lately again i realized I've changed! from the mirror, i can see clearly that i'm not as happy as before and not as naive as before. because environment had changed me or I had changed due to surroundings and things that took place. is the change good or bad?

What has happened? :(
I am no longer the person I used to be..... where can i find myself back... HELP! i'm lost....

A New Year Secret

Happy New Year Everyone.
It's a new year, actually everything still the same and life continues..
But maybe it's just a good time, for people to set goals, resolutions, plans..etc
I came across Joanne Peh's Blog and saw this secret and thought i want to share with my family and friends....

I will update my blog with pictures i took at the countdown@Esplanade soon after I finished my australia photos. " )



Here's the secret clip, enjoy! see this clip everyone morning and have a blessed year ahead.
Still 'my' quote for the yr...
"Do what you like & Like what you Do" !
yeah... setting off to Manado this sat... cya