Okay, okay, I know this is the third post about my birthday but I love my birthday. And since it is my birthday and I am confined to the house for the time being I thought I could write down so birthday memories. So, if you don't feel like being smothered in birthday gush, skip to the next post. :)
Since my birthday is in the summer time, it typically begins in June and ends in August. Really it does. I get cards in June and sometimes am still getting presents in August. I spent a lot of birthdays on vacation. The last few years that my Grandma Sue was alive, I spend them up at her house in the woods. We would eat whatever we wanted, usually really good veggies, fruits and salmon and we would watch lots of old movies.
Another year, we took a trip over to Portland on my birthday. I got to open one present each hour and it was exciting but torture at the same time!
Another year, we were in New Mexico with my Aunt Tamie and Uncle Tim. We went to a Dude Ranch and did lots of fun things.
Another year, when I turned 12, it was the scheduled temple trip for the youth and it fell right on my birthday. I went to the temple for the first time on my birthday and I was actually baptized on my birthday as well.
Another year, I took a trip to California to visit my friend Amanda and then we drove to Idaho to visit some more friends. I celebrated my 21st birthday on that trip.
My dad has always made my birthday special. I loved to write my birthday list early, REAL early. I knew if I got it out early, I had better chances of getting LOTS of presents. :) Over the years, it has become our little game. My lists have gotten more and more detailed and his adventures have gotten more and more elaborate. This year, I am getting a suitcase of things from them when my friend Carrie comes at the end of July. I am excited to see what goodies make it into the bag!
He was always really good at telling everyone that it was my birthday. And when I say everyone, I am not exaggerating. He'd pull in to get gas and tell the guy behind the counter "I filled up on #5 and it is my daughter's birthday" or order our tickets for the movie and say "We'd like two tickets to ________ because it is her birthday today" or if we ate out, the waiter, the person that brings the menus and every other person at the restaurant was informed that it was indeed my birthday. It made me feel special. Sometimes, it made me roll my eyes but it was always funny to see how he could work that statement into any sentence! And, I have missed that today.
These are my sisters-in-law. When I was living at home, they both lived near and were always ready and willing to celebrate with me. If it was swimming, a trip to Target or Kohl's or just eating cake and ice cream, they were in. They are two amazing sisters! :)
My siblings have always made my birthdays fun too. One year, I remember Eric coming home from an extended time away on my birthday. It was so nice to have him home again. Jill always gets a card out to me, hers was the first to come this year. No ever turned down a good ice cream cake from Dairy Queen and when it was time to sing...boy oh boy did we get some good birthday songs!
A lot of my birthdays were spent with good friends. Kaylene, my best friend from high school, knew how to throw a party and usually was at the lead when my birthday came around. I remember the first year I lived in Richland, she threw me a party. I didn't know very many people that came but she invited everyone, just so that we could celebrate.
I think a lot of my birthdays, I have spent a good amount of time with my mom. Once, when I was little, she woke me up early on my birthday and took me shopping but I was had to promise that I won't tell anyone that I picked everything out. The years that she had to work, we would leave early together and get breakfast and maybe stop in at a store for something new or we would get a pedicure together. One year, we even had ice cream for breakfast.
I always felt so lucky that I got to have one on one time with her. It made me feel special, especially when she had to work so much. She'd take the time to start her day early with me just because it was my birthday. I missed that today when I woke up.
We always got to pick out a special cereal for breakfast, there was always the birthday tablecloth on the table and we got a special dinner. I usually picked the same: corn on the cob, BBQ chicken with pineapple rings and an ice cream cake from Dairy Queen. That was what I loved.
I remember that my Grandma Marj usually sent me flowers and that I got pretty jewelry from her and Grandpa Bob and my Aunts and Uncles would send fun gifts or just money.
My family has always been central on my birthday and I miss them so much today. As I gift to myself, I am going to call all of them. It is expensive, so I don't call as often as I would like but today is a day that I would like to hear their voices.
And, Kjetil has done a great job making my birthday special. Last year, we were on our honeymoon and he surprised me with an iPod. This year, my gift is a trip home. Just six more months before I get to cash in on that! He has sent me messages all day and tonight we are going to have ice cream and cake. And corn on the cob and chicken. :)
Happy birthday! :)