Falling in love, healthy or not? Lets discuss

Hello guys, reason why I decided to post this Subject is because
many people are wondering why.

As you can see, many people thinks that falling in love is 'healthy'.
Some may say that it is 'unhealthy'.

Alright lets discuss this.

Falling in love is actually human nature. Whether it is healthy or not, it depends on individuals.

If one is already desperate for a another gender, one's studies may get affected. Academic results will be affected and one's attitude may change due to that.

Loving or liking someone is nothing wrong. It is just that how you balance your time you want to devote to. Examples like using the computer, skills, games, hanging out with friends, hobbies, studies, etc.

If you have a partner already, try to prioritise your time with your friends, academic and of course your loved ones. Never let your relationship ruin your future. Some times relationships may turn out ugly. But if you look at it in a different way, looking for another suitable partner is much worth it. Will you rather pretend to like that person and stay with her/him for a few years or look for another suitable partner?

What I always like to say is, good things comes with a price. The better, the higher the price.
Remember guys, if you like a person, go for it. But do not get desperate and start to pester the person. If that person rejects you, it is alright, life is full of ups and downs. Nobody has ever lived without getting depressed.

As for me, of course I will like to have a suitable partner. But due to some restrictions, I have to wait till the time is ripe but it depends. How to control your emotions? Get good friends of course! Friends who are sensible and the right company.


Good luck to your relationships readers.


Love
-Junshen

Christmas

Do you hear the sound of bells?
Do you feel that the weather got colder?
Do you get to eat turkey on this special day?
Do you receive presents of this particular day?

Yes guys! It Christmas!
Here comes Santa Claus with loads of gifts and presents!
But Santa Claus will be your friends and parents of course
Do you receive presents or celebrate them?
Hope you do because it is rather a gathering for families and friends

Please tell me why you like/don't like Christmas on my tagboard!!
Thank you my friends who gave me Christmas presents, I appreciate them and will love them of course =) Thank you guys! You know who you are ^_^

Bless you guys and have a Merry Christmas!


-love
Junshen

Twitched

Something that suddenly made me want to type

You have my heart

You have soul

You had me molded

You switch my feelings here and there

You made me seek answers which I cannot find

You gave me questions which I cannot answer

You confuse me when already lost

You lighten my path when I am lost



You never thought my heart would be fragile

A nail pierced onto an object can be taken out

But not the hole which cannot be mended


Give me peace and joy I shall appreciate

Give me love and concern I will treasure

Give me efforts and strength I will live

Give me less trouble I will solve



Tired, sleepy and quite mixed feelings right now, typing this at 10.26pm at night.

Mixed
Junshen

Friends, career, relationship(BGR), family, own time First?

Right guys, what I want to blog about today is what we normally do at home or in our daily lives.
What or how do we rate our planning?
How do we split our 24hours?
6-10 hours are taken for sleeping
3-6hours infront of computer
2 hours chatting on phone or watching television programmes
1 hour of meals
2-4 hours of shopping etc.


Just one question for you guys, how long do you hang out with friends?
How long do you really sit down and listen to your friends?
How long do you really bond with them and get to know them better?


Now guys, this is very important. This is a very neglected thing which many people tend to
dont really care his or her friends. Ok, many of you guys think that chatting with friends online or in school is enough for bonding. Yes, we have about 6-8 hours in school. Times are normally diverted to teachers, other classmates and Co-curriculum activities.

Now I want to end it quick, making it short and sweet.
Here is a job for you guys.
Prioratise yourself

1 - Friends
2 - Family
3 - Own time(includes computer games etc.)
4 - Relationships (your partner)
5 - Career/Studies


Yours truly
Jun Shen

Good times ends quickly

Right guys, I do feel very sad when I think of the times
and sweet memories I had with my seniors.

Not that I am bias towards my juniors but i feel rather comfortable with my seniors.
Whenever I think of them, it makes me feel rather sad.

As we have joy, a year past like a day
As we suffer, a day past like a year

A quiet area where my mind rests in peace will lead to thinking of my seniors leaving.
It makes me feel as if a dagger pierce through my heart, slowly lunging it into my chest, sinking into my bare skin and the poison slowly spreading to my limbs, numbing them.

I do what a junior will do and do what a senior will do.

Seniors like the ones i have are perfect
They help you when needed
They share the love when necessary
They guide you when you am lost
They share the joy when time is right
They console you when you are down
They show patience when you are slow
They scold you for your good
They groom you in your strength
They treat you when you succeed

They are perfect seniors

Love
Jun Shen

Time in advance

Time pasts very fast.
Before you start realising how childish and pampered you are,
your childhoods are over.

A story of mine.

In secondary one, I love being pampered by my seniors.
they are good people, probably the best people i had ever met.

There was once i sat with my seniors and interacted with them, so called 'bonding'
I just sat and listen to their rants. Won't reveal names though. I found out how stressed they were. They talked about their secondary 1 to 3 experiences. They are now secondary 4, taken their O'levels and now waiting for their results.

Most of my seniors told me this, " Hey, it felt as if my secondary life is so short. It feels as if I came last 2 years only."

So, I reflected on this. I am currently a secondary 2 , normal academic student. I've been through alot of things, not compared to my dear seniors who now had left.

Next year will be another new chapter of secondary ones, new leaders and potentials.
Good and understanding juniors i hope.

I feel as if my time past very very fast. Before I can realise, I am already a senior and going to take up bigger and more responsibilities. I have to soar for greater heights and stop being so childish and narrow-minded.

I am now going to take over my seniors, pampering my juniors, taking care of them and leading them to better leaders and guiding them to the correct path.

Time is really short guys, this is my quote to you guys.

Time is is against you not the other way round, treasure your time with the people close to you and do not make any stupid mistakes which i had done. Forgive and Forget.


Yours truly
Jun Shen

Time