Falling in love, healthy or not? Lets discuss

Hello guys, reason why I decided to post this Subject is because
many people are wondering why.

As you can see, many people thinks that falling in love is 'healthy'.
Some may say that it is 'unhealthy'.

Alright lets discuss this.

Falling in love is actually human nature. Whether it is healthy or not, it depends on individuals.

If one is already desperate for a another gender, one's studies may get affected. Academic results will be affected and one's attitude may change due to that.

Loving or liking someone is nothing wrong. It is just that how you balance your time you want to devote to. Examples like using the computer, skills, games, hanging out with friends, hobbies, studies, etc.

If you have a partner already, try to prioritise your time with your friends, academic and of course your loved ones. Never let your relationship ruin your future. Some times relationships may turn out ugly. But if you look at it in a different way, looking for another suitable partner is much worth it. Will you rather pretend to like that person and stay with her/him for a few years or look for another suitable partner?

What I always like to say is, good things comes with a price. The better, the higher the price.
Remember guys, if you like a person, go for it. But do not get desperate and start to pester the person. If that person rejects you, it is alright, life is full of ups and downs. Nobody has ever lived without getting depressed.

As for me, of course I will like to have a suitable partner. But due to some restrictions, I have to wait till the time is ripe but it depends. How to control your emotions? Get good friends of course! Friends who are sensible and the right company.


Good luck to your relationships readers.


Love
-Junshen

Christmas

Do you hear the sound of bells?
Do you feel that the weather got colder?
Do you get to eat turkey on this special day?
Do you receive presents of this particular day?

Yes guys! It Christmas!
Here comes Santa Claus with loads of gifts and presents!
But Santa Claus will be your friends and parents of course
Do you receive presents or celebrate them?
Hope you do because it is rather a gathering for families and friends

Please tell me why you like/don't like Christmas on my tagboard!!
Thank you my friends who gave me Christmas presents, I appreciate them and will love them of course =) Thank you guys! You know who you are ^_^

Bless you guys and have a Merry Christmas!


-love
Junshen

Twitched

Something that suddenly made me want to type

You have my heart

You have soul

You had me molded

You switch my feelings here and there

You made me seek answers which I cannot find

You gave me questions which I cannot answer

You confuse me when already lost

You lighten my path when I am lost



You never thought my heart would be fragile

A nail pierced onto an object can be taken out

But not the hole which cannot be mended


Give me peace and joy I shall appreciate

Give me love and concern I will treasure

Give me efforts and strength I will live

Give me less trouble I will solve



Tired, sleepy and quite mixed feelings right now, typing this at 10.26pm at night.

Mixed
Junshen

Friends, career, relationship(BGR), family, own time First?

Right guys, what I want to blog about today is what we normally do at home or in our daily lives.
What or how do we rate our planning?
How do we split our 24hours?
6-10 hours are taken for sleeping
3-6hours infront of computer
2 hours chatting on phone or watching television programmes
1 hour of meals
2-4 hours of shopping etc.


Just one question for you guys, how long do you hang out with friends?
How long do you really sit down and listen to your friends?
How long do you really bond with them and get to know them better?


Now guys, this is very important. This is a very neglected thing which many people tend to
dont really care his or her friends. Ok, many of you guys think that chatting with friends online or in school is enough for bonding. Yes, we have about 6-8 hours in school. Times are normally diverted to teachers, other classmates and Co-curriculum activities.

Now I want to end it quick, making it short and sweet.
Here is a job for you guys.
Prioratise yourself

1 - Friends
2 - Family
3 - Own time(includes computer games etc.)
4 - Relationships (your partner)
5 - Career/Studies


Yours truly
Jun Shen

Good times ends quickly

Right guys, I do feel very sad when I think of the times
and sweet memories I had with my seniors.

Not that I am bias towards my juniors but i feel rather comfortable with my seniors.
Whenever I think of them, it makes me feel rather sad.

As we have joy, a year past like a day
As we suffer, a day past like a year

A quiet area where my mind rests in peace will lead to thinking of my seniors leaving.
It makes me feel as if a dagger pierce through my heart, slowly lunging it into my chest, sinking into my bare skin and the poison slowly spreading to my limbs, numbing them.

I do what a junior will do and do what a senior will do.

Seniors like the ones i have are perfect
They help you when needed
They share the love when necessary
They guide you when you am lost
They share the joy when time is right
They console you when you are down
They show patience when you are slow
They scold you for your good
They groom you in your strength
They treat you when you succeed

They are perfect seniors

Love
Jun Shen

Time in advance

Time pasts very fast.
Before you start realising how childish and pampered you are,
your childhoods are over.

A story of mine.

In secondary one, I love being pampered by my seniors.
they are good people, probably the best people i had ever met.

There was once i sat with my seniors and interacted with them, so called 'bonding'
I just sat and listen to their rants. Won't reveal names though. I found out how stressed they were. They talked about their secondary 1 to 3 experiences. They are now secondary 4, taken their O'levels and now waiting for their results.

Most of my seniors told me this, " Hey, it felt as if my secondary life is so short. It feels as if I came last 2 years only."

So, I reflected on this. I am currently a secondary 2 , normal academic student. I've been through alot of things, not compared to my dear seniors who now had left.

Next year will be another new chapter of secondary ones, new leaders and potentials.
Good and understanding juniors i hope.

I feel as if my time past very very fast. Before I can realise, I am already a senior and going to take up bigger and more responsibilities. I have to soar for greater heights and stop being so childish and narrow-minded.

I am now going to take over my seniors, pampering my juniors, taking care of them and leading them to better leaders and guiding them to the correct path.

Time is really short guys, this is my quote to you guys.

Time is is against you not the other way round, treasure your time with the people close to you and do not make any stupid mistakes which i had done. Forgive and Forget.


Yours truly
Jun Shen

Time

A day of Fun

Yes guys, fun begins with friends
Especially when we gather as one and hang out
Thank you my dear seniors for bringing me out
It was my first time going out with my seniors though

Happiness in return will be something big
Do please wait for something for you guys though
This will take time
I do hope that this bond will last forever =)

Love
Junshen

Tiring indeed

A ton of rocks piled on your shoulders
Two options

One, shake them off

Two, let them stay there till you break down

-junshen

Games

It hangs me when im hooked

It tempts me when i am bored

It lighten my load when i am stressed

I learn how to play, the game learns how to play my life

When there is joy
there is a price to pay

Time is one of them
which we cannot spare

Studies are neglected when i am hooked

It cuts the relationships with my friends
leaving me in my own digital world

It presses me hard when it comes to paper and pen

I gain headaches when i start studying

I see words which does not appears in my screen

Computer games are harmful
--junshen

Nothing of interest

I saw the birds soar to the sky
Sometimes makes me wonder how to fly

I listen to the rumors spreading like wildfire
Don't know what does the person really desires

I saw the fantasy in my dream
Will it come true?

I hear the rants of people's feelings
Will they hear mine?

I saw the bright road down the isle
Will it be darkened?

I saw the friendship within my friends and i
will it last?

I changed the the decisions people made
Will i be blacklisted?

I saw the girl of my dreams
I really wonder what goes through my mind.

-Junshen

How fair is this world?

Well, to me not nothing but, majority of people doings are never fair towards a person.
Everything people gives a suggestion, you tend to give another but on a second thought, it will be like " hey, if i start suggesting, will they feel that i am being an idea spoiler or think that i am trying to get things into my own way."

Most of the time, people will try to give suggestions, giving comments. One thing about giving comments is that it must be sensitive towards everyone in a sense that it will not be offending towards the other party. One thing which my teacher told me, " stupid ideas will eventually lead to a brighter and better idea. It is better than having a silent meeting whereby everyone does not even give a suggestion. If you are confident of doing it, just show to everyone else. Show your work."

Well, people told me to work on my confidence. Three reasons on why i do not want to make any decisions excluding ones whereby i have no choice and have to make it in a short moment.

One, i was often called the "boss" in my primary school. Sounds good? Yeah it is. Bad when everyone started to bitch behind your back, saying that you are bossy here and there. They will tend to look at everything you do and eventually find some problems, even minor problems which they blew the matter to my teacher in charge.

Two, what if it fails? Yeah i know. Failing leads to a big success or even reaching a greater quality of work. But these comes with a great price. Screwing up lets say a poster? Yeah, a poster you must do and the deadline is tomorrow and you are rushing to finish. You are lost in the world of imagination and inspiration but no avail for ideas. Then, an idea came up and maybe you tried to execute it. Next day, it was disapproved by everyone, getting mocked at, criticized, humiliated, not being entrusted to duties and being looked down at. Everyone will try not to give you a chance to do other things which got to do with that stuffs.

Three, yeah. Was once demoralized by my other peers last time. Confidence went down so have to sometimes depend and continuously ask my seniors or peers. Once a nail got hammered onto a wood, the nail can be pulled out but the hole remains.

So that is about it for today. Rather troubled with this stuffs but trying to gain some confidence though, not too much perhaps. Well, good day everyone.

Best wishes
-Jun Shen

Observations

Well there is this strange observations i had in the busses. I was as usual, going to school on wednesday alone. Saw Cherlyn mummy walked past me without noticing me, wanted call her but, oh well its ok, so she went up the bus 81. When i board the bus 12, it was packed. I went up the second storey of the bus and scanned for a seat. I randomly picked a seat and settled down. I turned to my right, looking who i was sitting with. It was this girl again, a girl with some kindda problems i think. Or maybe she is just too tired. She covers herself with a grey coloured stripe hood with a pink jacket? It was the second time i sat with her. It seriously quite freaky when a girl sits beside you covered with a hood and trying to sleep early in the morning in the bus at 7am+ going to school. I think she is from TJC, infering from her skirt. Right, i reallly wanted to play the good guy, write a note saying " hey, i dont know you but this is my second sitting with you. You probably will not realise it as your head is always down in the bus, either sleeping or dozing off. Or maybe you have some unsolved problems. Just raise your head and observe in the public. Best wishes-Nothingleft3" and pass it to her when i am about to leave. Wont you feel good when a stranger gives you a note of positive phrase just to start your bright day!? ^_^

Okay then, turning in now. See y'all. Good luck for all your examinations. Score well.

Best wishes
- JunShen

Exams not enough? Lit drama when examinations just around the corner?

Well, Not enough for examination stress? One thing i do not understand is why does teacher wants to give us a Literature project when examinations are just around the corners. When i say just around the corners, i mean it. Chinese oral just next week on Tuesday, 3pm, same day on the day we have to perform. Isn't examinations enough stress? Oral conversation is enough to occupy our minds, thinking how to answer the invigilator and what to say. Now, Literature drama is enough to kill us. So many lines and dialogues to say and remember, stress when we forget lines and had to redo the scene again.

Why add water to the jar when it is full? Why stuff papers into files when it is full? Why stack loads when it is already heavy? Why extend the rubber when it is at its max? I just wonder. Why?




Anyone or Anything in the post is totally a coincidence.

Love by parents

Love is undefined and blind to everyone, love is a kind of feeling which ones feel devoted to the other party. Such as a male and female dating. But for now, love is found amongst parents and children. Of course love amongst parents and children are a different thing. It is a kind of love which one cares for another treating each other with so much care. Sometimes parents just do not know that they 'over loved' their children.

Right, love is complicated as this is only part of the love subject, a minor part of it, a drop of water amongst the river. Well, parents maybe too caring of their children like fighting over a divorce case to take care of their children. In fact they love their children, they love them till they bring the matter out to court and fight against the other party. Okay lets not get too far ahead. Lets talk about love given by a small minor matter.

Lets say Tom gets bullied by a group of gangsters. His father walks past and saw the incident. His father of course, will run over and retaliate for his son. This is father's nature, actually, parents nature. Every parent will fight just to protect his or her child. Because, as a baby, you all know, the baby stays in the mother's womb for 9months. The mother already have this bonding with her baby. And as for the father, he works everyday just to feed the family and wait to welcome the baby to earth. They will protect their loved ones at all cost. Why? because they love their children.

Now lets get into political school stuffs shall we? Parents beat or scold us when we fail or do badly in examinations. They tend to nag at us, comparing as with other people. Of course they do, two reasons. One, they love to show their children results with others. Two, they want you to have a bright future, a brighter path. Yeah i know, their nags and scoldings are pain in the neck right? But have you ever thought that their daily whines and irritating nags actually means something? Its means a guiding route for you to a brighter path for your future. Why they nag at us? Beat us? Scold us? Compare us with others? Because they Love us. Never think that in this time compared to their younger time is different. It is the same. Their parents scold and nag at them. Some did not listen and continued to enjoy their youths to the max. Not that we should not enjoy but we should enjoy in moderation.

Well, that's all for today.



Thank you for reading my post. I wish you readers all the best for family issues.



Warning- Anyone's family problems related to this post is coincidental. This is based on a true life story which i had experienced.

- Junshen
=)

Views for examinations,necessary?

Many students tend to fail their subjects due to the final year examinations. One question which many students are wondering and dying to ask this question, are examinations actually necessary for students? These are the common answers and feedbacks from students.

"i have not done well enough for my final year examinations and ruined my future!"

"well, examinations are rather a burden, why cant we have tests and at the end of the year, scores are being added up and averaged."

"final year of exams brings stress to students like us having O Levels. We tend to lose out under the pressure of stress, burning mid night oil and too much of exam tension brings us to forget everything on what we studied!"

Well, these are some of the responses i had after asking them. Well, it is quite true though. We tend to forget on what we learned due to the stress and the uncomfortable atmosphere of EXAMINATIONS.

But, all these does not applies to everyone. Some of us can cope with studies while having heavy C CA.

What kind of student you are when you study and have examinations?



Ok then, ending off here

-Junshen
best wishes for you exams

Friends or.. REAL friends?

What is the true definition of friends? Are friends to be by your side when you needed help? are friends supposed to be encouraging you instead of being a wet blanket behind your back? Or, are friends supposed to guide you to the right path and not the wrong? What are friends?



Friends helps one another and guides each other to the right path.They do not discriminate nor boast to one another just because one is stronger in a certain skill. Friends share woes with you throughout your years together with them. They bring the moments with joy and laughters. They too keep secrets with you and of course never betraying you in any other ways.

The problem is, are some friends rather leading you to the darker path? destroying your future? Creating havoc in your life? Changing your attitude to negative?


These are friends who you do not want to mix with. Some of these friends just so called 'buy' friends. Friends are not really loyal to one another if their so called ' friendship' starts like that. Friendship cannot be bought bought nor valued. Friends like that are probably the so called ' followers/ dogs*( meaner way to say)' They only go after his or her money. When that person loses his/her money, his/her 'friends' will eventually start to avoid him/her. These people only get attracted by money. These people will do anything to squeeze as much money from the person like treating that person good, being friendly to him, helping to buy him food or drinks and even helping him to do his homework.

So, what kind of friends you have and what kind friend are you?




shall end here and continue another day

-junshen

Memories of childhood sweet or bitter?

Memories, are they a burden or are they sweet memories which we can sit on the sofa and browse photos of our childhood and recall those scenes which we had together as friends being so carefree. Or memories are such a burden to us that we throw away our past and look forward of our future not caring about the memories we had?

Well, not many people have good memories in the past.
Bad memories like getting bullied and being teased at, being toyed around by the other students, others calling you teachers pet, being biased by the students they way they treat you, being threatened or even forced to give money to the bullies in the past.

All these will affect ones personality and stop them from thinking of their memories. Their character will change eventually and they will think that memories of their past are such a pain in the neck and embarrassing , thus, making them feel that childhood was such a waste of time. To me, some memories i have in the past , i will not want to let go. They are such precious things in my mind which i do not want to forget. Friends being so playful, me being so naive and carefree, gets whatever i want, first priority in the family of being the 2nd youngest and do not need to care about examinations and tests. Well, this is reality. Time travels very quickly and before you know it, a year past. The time of a year is just like a day, everything happens so quickly. When we enjoy, time past quickly, when we suffer in pain and agony, time passes so slowly that we wanted time to go on faster and past like nobody business. But in fact, memories we keep in our mind are just for the time to think back when we have time or under stress whereby we sit there in a daze and our minds automatically think back of our past, the sweet memories we had. For example, a man who wanted to attempt suicide. He seats there, at the curb of the roof on a building 20 stories high. He seats there in a daze, quietly staring in blank space, thinking of nothing. Suddenly, one thing which will 100% come up to his mind is his family, the sweet moments and memories they had, the joy and pain they gone through. Then he will slowly think of his childhood. Next question he will think is "is it worth it?"

-Junshen

Thanks for reading guys, post some comments or tag on my board thanks =)

Mathematics

You are my life. You are my dream. You are the last thing i will dream before i go to sleep at night, you are my hope. You are the only thing i can think when i start to daydream. When i finally start to realize you the first thing in my mind, i start to search you with all my might and never sleep at night. there is no one in this world i can love more than i can do. Deep inside my heart you will leave for never. you show my life the light, you gave me eyes so i can see. you give me strength so i can stand tall.

IMT

Oh yeah! finally passed my shooting test!!!! 13/20 i think. highest is Mathir. farhan got same as me i think. got second =) anyway happy about this. thanks Mei for wishing me good luck. hopefully i can get into the competition and compete with you but the obvious winner is of course you Lol =) anyway. still cannot find my freaking pencil BOX! darn!

Heart of Stone

Heart and Stone was the bravest warriors in the city. Both were loving couples, fighting many fierce battles. They watched on one another backs every danger they encounter and went through the hell of flames and beams of heaven. Heart and Stone never got defeated in any battles. Many armies crushed by their vicious blades, even the the strongest army could not.


One day, a cunning witch, feared by every single brave warrior and adventurer even the kings of the strongest army , came into the highest mountain seeking for the strongest warriors to spar with. Words traveled to Heart and Stones' ears. They agreed on going to spar. They brought their own horses leaving the army under-control of his trusted general.


Heart and Stone set off for the battle. They climbed high hills and mountains and finally, came upon the witch. They were confronted with the witch. The witch rained fire balls on them. Heart and Stone were mentally affected when they were busy shielding the fire, the witch casted a spell upon them, an earth spell, which hibernates their bodies turning them into a mountain. As time passes, their bodies slowly dematerialized then forming a monolith. The witch last words echoed before they were totally transformed, " complacency leads to death". Heart and Stones' army came too late, only seeing the monolith made up of the Heart of Stone.


----lame me

Stress

Stress is a general topic which everyone will experience in his or her life. Stress is present when you are in difficulty, trouble or in a situation where you have to make a hard decision like choosing your buddy or choosing which parent you want to be with due to the separation of your parents. Sometimes, small decisions like whether to play computer games or to study.
One of the stressful thing which students receive is from studies. To students who detest studying, reading and doing projects. To them, these are a burden to them making themselves feel stressful. Not passing up homework may cause stress because students fret of getting scolded by teachers and getting detentions.


Secondly, adults feel stress when they are working, betting and even taking care of their children.
When they are working, they do not know when they will get fired by their boss or even framed by anyone who is sly. People who bets too receives stress as they have 50% of chances to win or to lose. People who took betting seriously and bet a high sum of money may result suicide when they lose all their money due to stress. Parents who took care of their children feels stress as it might be a burden to them when their children at age 1-7 creates a lot of trouble and tend to cry at times. These things will stress the parents as it might be annoying to them especially parents who just got their first infant.


Lastly, stress can be experienced by the teachers. Teachers are given a deadline to finish marking the scripts and assignments we handed in. They have to burn mid night oil till they finish marking the very last paper. Students think that they have towering homework to finish and hand it in to teacher but, teachers have yet to mark 40times the work you have done.


Stress too may cause ailments and other diseases like high blood pressure or heart attack for an example.


In conclusion, stress is caused by anything which involves a decision which you have to make and decide for the future. Stress too can be experienced by teachers who needs ample of time for marking and parents who requires patience to take care of their infants.

--- choo jun shen

pardon me if there are any grammatic errors. please correct me or leave a comment if you do find any mistakes thanks =)

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after school

wah after school, i straight away walked out from school then waited for bus 14. =D lucky was i to have bus 14 comming at my way in minutes! lol only a few tms students were on board =D i don't even know whether if i have any event or lessons after school

Anti- ducky..

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DUCKY

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