The Story Makers.

The Story Makers.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Did you know you can freeze Milk?....

This is it...my last shopping trip until after the Holidays are over.
3 weeks.
I am not taking a single coupon on our trip.
I am not even packing my vita-mix this trip.....
I predict it will be sorely missed by all the nay sayers of past years.

PUBLIX - 12/15/2010






......almost $20 of it was spent on chicken.
Enough said.

.......except for I HEART coupons!!!

Recital...

On Saturday the kids had their piano recital.
They all did a great job.
With our trip coming in just days, and the big recital, the boys all got
their hair cleaned up.
Ryker thought he would document.....I liked what he came up with, I think he really 
captured the moment.
(I am especially loving the piles of rubble in the back ground)
 Thanks to me, we got lost on the way to the recital....went a good twenty minutes out of our way.
I had originally thought we left "extra" early....plenty of time.
We actually got to walk in 6 minutes late, have our teacher showcase us, and 
finally start once "everyone" arrived.
Very good first impression.
She has 26 students!!....so 
the place was pretty packed.
Kev was none to thrilled about any of it....
especially the getting lost part.
 Very fun and exciting if you ask me.
 Little M had a bit of a tough time.
This was her first recital.
She had perfected her pieces, I wasn't worried at all for her. 
Well, as you will see....she really got stumped when she made a mistake....
she could not figure out how to go on, or find her spot.
Felt bad for the little trooper,
but she held it together and she finished out.
Here is a really bad recording...didn't upload correctly...but I still wanted to post it.
I am proud of them all.

I hope they continue to play the piano for many years.
(Really I have no doubt that they will).
I know they will never regret the time they put into their practicing, the seemingly endless lessons
where I am falling asleep, and these twice a year recitals.
They will one day thank me.....I just know it!

Proven strategies for staying warm.....

If you know me, you know I am "thrifty".
Maybe you also know I like a good challenge.
It has been record breaking (at least it feels like it) cold the past few days 
here in Florida.  Well, one of the challenges I have set for myself is to never run the heater in Fl.
It's FLORIDA for heck sake!!
Several, I'm guessing at least three years back, when I was still 
paying our bills, I was shocked to see our electric bill.
It was outrageously high, and clearly there had been an error in 
the meter reading or something.
I called FPL, and they sent someone out straightaway to take a look.
When the service man was here looking at the meter he asked me to look at the meter with him.
He had me go click on the heat, then come back and look.
That meter was booking!!!...it was speeding around and around.
The guy said that heat was the most expensive thing to run in the house.
Way more costly than the air conditioner.
Whoa.....!
Good to know.
Well, since that time I have not had the heat on.
No need.
I have come up with other ways to stay adequately warm on these days 
when it is 59 degrees inside.
  • Many Layers of clothing
  • Automatic Oven cleaner (last night finally got the grease out from the turkey spill over)
  • Baking
  • Loads of Hot Cocoa
  • Make toast several times a day
  • Hot lemon water ....yow!!! Pucker up!
  • Running in place
  • Roaming the house with blanket wrapped around waist like a towel
  • Mid day baths
  • My Favorite....my desk hand warmer....Plenty of Candles - when we get a little too chilly I just light a few more candles.

Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
(Art work by McCauley, don't you love the eye lashes?)
Am I the Grinch?
Sometimes....

This song has caught my attention this year.
I never gave it a second thought in the past....
but this year I really took a listen, and I truly think they added a few verses.
Just when you think it is over, here comes another slew of absolutely outrageous insults.
I am going to try and fit many of these into my vocabulary...
can you imagine how fun these would be to 
fling at the one you are having, 
shall we say, a disagreement with.
I bolded the ones I am really hoping to use.
(unfortunately I couldn't locate this long version for your listening enjoyment)




Lyrics to "You're A Mean One, Mr. Grinch"
a.k.a The Grinch SongYou're a mean one, Mr. Grinch
You really are a heel!
You're as cuddly as a cactus
You're as charming as an eel,
Mr. Grinch!
You're a bad banana with a
Greasy black peel!
You're a monster, Mr. Grinch
Your heart's an empty hole!
Your brain is full of spiders
You've got garlic in your soul,
Mr. Grinch!
I wouldn't touch you with a
Thirty-nine-and-a-half-foot pole!
You're a vile one, Mr. Grinch
You have termites in your smile!
You have all the tender sweetness
Of a seasick crocodile,
Mr. Grinch!
Given the choice between the two of you
I'd take the, um, seasick crocodile!
You're a rotter, Mr. Grinch
You're the king of sinful sots!
Your heart's a dead tomato splotched
With moldy purple spots,
Mr. Grinch!
You're a three-decker sauerkraut and toadstool sandwich
With arsenic sauce!
You nauseate me, Mr. Grinch
With a nauseous super naus!
You're a crooked dirty jockey
And you drive a crooked hoss,

Mr. Grinch!
Your soul is an appalling dump heap
Overflowing with the most disgraceful assortment of rubbish imaginable
Mangled up in tangled up knots!
You're a foul one, Mr. Grinch
You're a nasty, wasty skunk!
Your heart is full of unwashed socks
Your soul is full of gunk,
Mr. Grinch!
The three words that best describe you are as follows and I quote:
Stink, stank, stunk!

Stay WARM !!

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Respect and Appreciation.....I'll have some of both please....

I have to say, this holiday season has been one of my all time favorites thus far.
I do not recall a time that I have had more anticipation and build 
up for our up coming trip back home to Utah.
I think it stems from the fact that we did not visit this summer....
what a void that left.....lesson learned.  
Family, be prepared to have us for a solid three months this Summer.
We will have to make up for all the time we missed out on this year.
But as they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder....
I am definitely feeling very fond of my family these days.
I have been working on calendar pages and scrap book pages for Kev's parents.
So naturally I have been doing a lot of reminiscing about this past year and getting 
all reved up for our trip in 
7 DAYS!!
December brings Christmas, but it also brings Pearl Harbor Day, 
which also brings my mother's birthday.
She turned 64 on the 7th.
(I know this because she happened to mention tonight on the phone that next year she would be 65)
My sister HB did a massive tribute to my mom on her blog page.
It was fun to read and think back....
made me dig around in my own memories and think about my wonderful mom.
I really enjoyed our phone call tonight....
made me so very home sick.
She said I get to choose what we eat for Christmas Eve....SWEET....
um....your split pea soup!
well, yes I can make that while you are here...but are you sure for Christmas Eve?
OK - ham for sure then!
Whooohooo!
My mom is such a great cook.
She has also committed to teach me how to make her homemade
 crescent rolls and delectable sweet rolls.
Prepare to be blown away my Floridian friends....
cuz I am gonna rock your food world when I get back!

One of the things I discussed w/ my mom tonight was our dear boy Ethan....
I was telling her about how last night he was being all disrespectful and totally rude in the car.
I was frustrated with his attitude, etc.
She somehow seemed to revel in my discomfort.
She even said so....that she thinks it is very funny watching myself and my older 
Brother begin the "teen years" with our children.
Oh, just you wait sweet heart.....
just you wait.
(I halfway expected her to say "baby you ain't seen nothing yet")
She didn't say that....
but she did say....ooohhhhhh, don't you remember that one family night?
Of course I do...you remind me of it constantly....and almost always in front of other people.
Remember how we were talking about Eternal families? 
We were saying how all of you children 
chose to come to our home.
.....and then you said....
dah....da...da....daaaaaaaa......
Did you ever consider that someone 
had to go last!!?????!!!
Yes mom....I do remember,
but thanks for the reminder again....it was starting to get hazy.


So here I am today with my own children.
Trying to do my best.
Wondering how to instill 
R E S P E C T 
AND
elicit a little A P P R E C I A T I O N from our oldest.
I don't care so much necessarily about the appreciation...but it is just the blatant 
un - appreciation that rubs me the wrong way.
 Ethan is a fun kid.
He is a good kid.
He is an excellent student.  
Has always been academically self motivated and driven to do his best.
He does not feel he gets the blog time that he deserves...so tonight is his night.
Hope he likes it.
As he has gotten older both Kev and I have really grown to thoroughly enjoy his personality.
He has a great sense of humor.
He gets it....ya know?
He knows so much....I learn from him every day.
Sometimes he will say things....like last night for instance on the way to scouts.
The boys were talking about whales... mammals, or water...
 anyway, and he said,
that the reason whales die when they get beached is because the bulk and 
weight of their own mass crushes them on land.
That's what it was.... buoyancy.
I was like....hmmmm....did you learn that in school?
Oh no....I read it in a book a few years ago.
He can retain numbers and facts like I cannot believe. 
Ask him anything about baseball, football, Nascar......I bet he will know the answer.
He has been reading the sports page since he could read practically.
He is an accomplished piano player.
I really wanted him to learn and play the song 
"Believe" from Polar Express.
He fought me on it tooth and nail....I finally said that was all I wanted for Christmas from him.
That was the ticket.
He was still perfecting it at this point in this video...
but it sounds pretty darn good.
(you will need to mute the Christmas music below)

I am proud of this young man.
I am thrilled he chose to come to our family.


Maybe sometimes he doesn't know it...but I see him like this picture below.
This will be him before we know it.
I appreciate his efforts at helping us have a loving home.
I am thankful for his example to his siblings.
Tonight Kevin was away with Elders Quorum duties. 
I rounded the kids up for scriptures and family prayer. 
(no we are not perfect every day or night, but tonight was a good night)
We are reading in Moses,
specifically Moses 7:18 stuck out tonight, it says...

"And the Lord called his people Zion,
because they were of one heart and one mind, 
and dwelt in righteousness; 
and there was no poor among them."

I really love this verse.
We talked about how our home can be Zion.
We can work to be of one heart and one mind.  Our family can work together in 
righteousness so that there are no poor (sad, upset, cross) among us.
I'm in.....
Eth....you on board?

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

The building and demolishing within 24 hours.....

Today was a great day.  I worked on many holiday projects, even finished a few of them,
all while doing wash and listening to Steven R. Covey's
The 7 Habits of HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE
I have really enjoyed it over the past month or so.  I gave this set of cd's to Kev way back when.  I came across them a while ago and thought I would give it a go.
I don't like having the t.v. on in the day, but I really like listening while I putter 
around the house and do my work.
I just finished going through the 13 cd's for the first time (minus the first 5, they were lost in Kev's truck....until today.....I just dug them out...whooohooo!)
I am going to start over now.
I learned a great deal the first go round....and that was starting in the middle....so this will be a real treat.
I already like so much that I am familiar with the terms he is using...
ex - Paradigms - the lens in which we see the world.
I have mini notes all over my planner of little nuggets of knowledge I would like to retain.

One of the habits that I am really working on is sincere listening.  
Listen without my own agenda in mind.
Listen to understand.....not to reply.
Seek first to understand, then to be understood.
Empathy = Understanding
.....now you know.

OK, on to the post.....
Last week we had a sweet time making ginger bread houses w/ a few good buddies.
Vanessa pulled it together.
We all had a lovely time making our ammeter candy cottages.
Although.....some people took it WAY more serious than others.
ie - the bottom two photos.
These people were in it to win it.
Focused they were.
 The rest of us were more like Kevin here,
mostly in it for the candy.
Ours is that bad boy down on the left side.
Scrumpsh.
 Who wouldn't want to live there???
Well, the idea behind these houses was that we would make them and then go give them away.
You know....spread the cheer.
The kids were a bit down on that idea....because in the true spirit of Giving,
they really wanted to give it to themselves to eat.
I was like...you would eat that thing??
That is super disgusting....I mauled all that candy.....it was handled on numerous occasions,
by a number of children and adults.

Well, after some thought and a sweet invitation from our good friends, 
the Tolands, to come and enjoy 
the Sunday night Christmas devotional at their place, we knew where we would 
be placing our delectable gift.
Let me just say it was well received.
The kids tore into it.
I was amazed, and our kids were thrilled.
They really made a dent in the embellishments.
The devotional was wonderful, and we enjoyed each others company.
Great night had by all!

The next morning I was going around doing my house work, vacuuming and 
reminiscing about the lovely evening before....and the sweet placement of the house.
How happy every thing was......when I came up to our garbage can at the curb.
I was stumped.
I was really befuddled.  
I was so confused, because if my eyes did not deceive me,
 it seemed like I was looking at our ginger bread house
 stuffed in our garbage can.
huh?
How is that even possible?
I flipped the lid.
YES...that is our house.
The house I know we left at the Tolands.
Kev happened to be home at the time....I went racing into the house...
"Kevin.......!!!   why is our ginger bread house
stuffed in the garbage can??"
He had to drive his truck over last night, so left just after us.
He said that when he was about to drive off Stacey came running out of the house carrying it....
She insisted he take it...."we don't want it here".
at first I was like....
?
...but truthfully as a mom, I do get it.
I know exactly how it was....she did not want to have the candy sitting around for 
her kids to eat non-stop, and thought ours might be able to continue to enjoy it.
Well, K made an executive decision on that one....
yeah, one I would have to agree with.
That little house had been loved enough.
I was exasperated at first because I thought some how K brought it back home by accident....
luckily my Paradigm changed once I heard the explanation.
How do you like that????
Pretty sweet use of my new lingo!



Friday, December 3, 2010

41 days later, one day short of 6 weeks.....

Today has been a wonderful day.... I decided to take time off from the gym and running
and just stay in my pjs and Christmas shop online, do wash, 
AND drink cup after cup of hot cocoa.
This was going along marvelously....I put together a whole slew of fun items on Vista Print,
got some awesome game recommendations from friends off FB.
Put our clean bed sheets on....yum!
Around noon I hurried in to change into my day clothes....
somehow the fun of wandering around in pjs flees when Kev stops in for his mid-day check in.
I was folding clothes and hanging out when Kev went and got the mail.
He was flipping through it....magazines, ads, bills, aerobics...
he tosses it my way.
Oh MY GOSH.
I had no reaction out ward.
Kept folding.
He was on the phone now.....
I really wanted to wait and not open it until he had headed out.....
you know....just in case....I need privacy for crying my eyes out if this is bad news.
I end up casually picking it up and walking to the office.
I am very scared and excited.

 I DID IT!!
I AM OFFICIAL!
I am a Certified Group Exercise Instructor!
Whooohoo!
You have no idea what a relief this is.
Can't tell you how many times I have been asked about it.
Each time I was asked the thought went through my mind....hmmmmm, will there be a way to 
nonchalantly stretch this out into 12 weeks if I actually have to retake it?
It has been in the back of my mind taking up valuable otherwise contented space for 
41 days!!
I would be coasting along, feeling satisfied and happy with life....
only to stop myself and try to remember what was nagging at me...
OH Yeah... I don't know if I passed yet!
That's right....I can't completely relax,  I cannot get totally comfortable.
No more! 
Cheers to me!

I am ready to WORK YOU OUT!!!
GET ME ON THAT STAGE!


Thursday, December 2, 2010

The MOST Wonderful Time of the Year.....

I, like you, really love this time of year.
I love the fact that there are only 15 days until we are flying home to Utah
to visit family for the holiday.
I am in the throws of going through closets, gift stashes, 
and my stock pile to see 
what surprises and clothing I can bring to tempt my sisters with this year.
We always make clothes and service trades when we are together.
My sister Amy is an esthetician/massage therapist at a sweet spa in down town SLC...so I have quite a few goodies coming her way - Layers dresses, contact solution, etc. etc.
Keri is a hot-to-trot beautician....she still makes a trip every four weeks back to LasVegas 
to take care of her clients.  
She has very good fashion sense (similar to mine!)....so I am sure I will have my eye on several 
big ticket items (expensive jeans) from her.  
I will have to do some smooozing for some of it I am sure.
Heather, we don't trade so much....she is my blog mate, and a relator 
(unfortunately I am not in need of a new house very often), well....she is that... but she also works at the LDS Church Office building....or at least used to....she is head of the relocation department for the church....is that right HB?

Really I love it when October hits....and then it is just a non-stop frenzy of putting up and taking down decorations until Christmas.

We really don't have many decorations at all, but it looks like tons and tons because it is all crammed into such a compact area.  It works out pretty good.

 Ethan is always accusing McCauley of doing things and posing just so she can get on the blog.
So I said...you want on??  You got it....give me your best shot....
this is what he was able to muster up.....
I can't remember what the boys were doing w/ Kevin, this was the day after Thanksgiving, Kev got McCauley and I the tree down and we went to town.
First we cleaned the whole house so we could focus w/ abandon on our task.
Then we brought all the Christmas decorations in from the garage.
We lit the candles and threw on the Christmas music and it was go time.
She helped me with my least favorite job...
the spreading of the fake limbs.
The boys eventually made it home to help with the decorating.  It was a lot of fun.
I love the finished product.
My favorite ornaments are of course the hand made kid ones with pictures...
Eth does not have one on the tree, we need to make new ones this year.
I love the feeling in our home throughout the season.....
it always has this warm glow.
lights are dimmed, we are happy spending time together, it feels so good.....
....it is the feeling of CHRISTmas.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Ring-a-ding-ding.......

Last night the kids and I spent 3 hours at Winn Dixie bell ringing for the Salvation Army.
This was our second year trying our hand at this particular service.
Ethan avoided all but the last 20 minutes or so due to a baseball obligation and to Kevin dragging his feet in getting there.
Last year was at Publix and was very close to miserable.
I think it was closer to a 5 or 6 hour stint and it was FREEZING COLD!
I know this is Florida, but it was miserably cold that night.
Rainy, windy, the whole bit.
Tonight was at a much better location, bell ringing wise, didn't feel like we were in the way at all, but I was a little nervous about the weather again.
On the way over it was starting to rain, and blow a lot harder....I was getting ready to dread the next three hours.
Instead....keeping a good attitude as an example to my kids....I suggested we say a prayer and ask Heavenly Father to stave off the rain for a few hours so we wouldn't have to be miserable while attempting to do a good deed.
Ryker said that it was not right to pray for Heavenly Father to hold off the rain...it would never work.
It is not a big deal and he does not care, besides, there are probably many other people 
that are praying for rain.
Well, come on Ryk...could you just lend me your faith on this one??
We can't worry about what other people are praying for....this is worth while to ask for.
Would you mind getting on board?
Ok....so we did.
The rain stopped.
It was a little blustery and a little nippy....but a pleasant spring day compared to last year.
Overall it was a successful night.
Many generous people.
Many people who would not even make eye contact or acknowledge our presence as well,
 but they were the minority for sure.
Several people driving by just stopped to run over and drop in money saying they loved the team effort, and thanks so much for being out there.
That was a thrill.
But the very best was seeing our little friends stop by to drop their own money in the red kettle.
This is William....Tina's little guy.
He dug deep into his wallet (several times) to give all that he had.
He was a fine example of generosity.
 Vanessa dropped by with a few of her kids.
She had not told them that we were out there....it was fun to watch their reactions when they realized....
that wait a minute....that's McCauley, Lawson and Ryker out there!!!!
They helped us bell ring for a bit and put on a little show.

Here is a little snippet.

This is blurry...but Kev finally manned up and showed up with Ethan.
They did not have the best attitude for the service at hand.
Especially Ethan was a disappointment.
Come on...one half hour of your time!
Please tell me you've got it in you.
When Kev arrived at 7:30ish...I turned over the apron to him and the boys.
M and I ran inside to get milk and Eggnog.
When I came to check out the boys come bumbling into the store like buffalo...all crazy and wild.
This was NOT what I was hoping to encounter at all.
Why the heck were they not out with Kevin finishing their service?
I got in a ticked off disappointed mood very quickly and ground my teeth down a notch or two in the process of trying to get out of the store and to control and demand my kids act like 
decent bell ringers for crying out loud. 
Kev said, just go....I will finish....take them home and get them in bed.
My PLEASURE.
Please guard the kettle with your life...return the sign, stand, apron, kettle to the service desk.

The night was good.
The kids were kids and were basically good.
I just want them to have opportunities to give a little.
Is it too much to ask for a measly 3 hours of your time w/out whining, and complaining to go?
I did present the kids with a major talking to on the way home.
I want them to actually do something hard sometime.
I want them to see something hard.
They do not understand all that we have.
Neither do I....
we have no clue what it would be like to actually be in a position to be a recipient of these kettle funds. 
I pray that we never know first hand what it would be like.
But I also pray that we can figure out how to have compassion for those that do.

The rain started up once we were back inside our warm home.

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Giving Thanks......

I can't believe Thanksgiving has been and gone, 
THANK GOODNESS for leftovers!
This pie was not pretty enough to take to the Feast....actually I just made it yesterday...
(the day after the feast) but I will get to that.
I just posted a zillion pictures....I don't want to write a book today....just acknowledge the wonderful day we had on Thursday and GIVE THANKS.

One of our favorite family traditions on Thanksgiving morn 
is to get up and run the Turkey Trot  in Suntree.
I have been the only one running up until this year....but happily this go round 
we got the whole gang involved, except McCauley, who stayed with friends during the run.
In years past the boys have always handed out water and Gatorade w/ the scouts.
This race was started about 4 years ago in honor of Dr. Brent Gooch.  
He suffered from Juvenile Diabetes, the procedes from the race go towards help in finding a cure.
There is a 5K and 10K.
Believe it or not, last year our family was on a cruise during this time.....
we were bummed to miss it, and break tradition....but we managed : ) !



The best thing about running this year is that we ran not only with each other....
but also with our dear FRIENDS!!!
Whoohooo!

Ethan made sure he would start strong by stuffing his face w/ a powdered doughnut.
There is Kate, one of my Ragnar girls.
V was pumped....I loved seeing her all nervous and excited for her first run.
Look at these guys go!!
It makes me emotional to see them and cheer them on.
Tina who just finished her battle w/ thyroid ran the whole way!!!
Vanessa has just recently got the running bug and in finally getting it!
She is GETTING IT!!!
I love it.
Nate was rocking the house (V's husband) until he pulled or poped something....but he kept at it and held his own.
Kev kicked hiny. 

But this is the ultimate finish shot!
One day I want a shot like that of myself.  All stretched out and just going for it!
You can see Ethan's leg on the other side, there has been much controversy over who won between the two.  It looks like an even tie to me.
On a side note, Ryker was actually very sick.  He woke up with a major headache.
When he got to the race he threw up.
Poor guy...I could not bring myself to post any of the before pictures I got of him....he looked awful.
He was determined to be a part of this race. 
Good job buddy.
As the day went on, he took a long nap and felt much better.

OK....let the second race begin.
THE COOKING OF THE TURKEY!!!
oh my heck.
This turned into panic time.
We got home around 10:00am, turkey was still in the sink.
I had a smaller turkey, but then got afraid it would not be enough so I went back and got a 23 pounder.
For some reason I volunteered to bring the turkey to the festivities at the Quigley's home.
They took pity on us and invited us over for the feast.
Tina called to see how the turkey was going.....um, it is not going yet.  
What?
What time are you supposed to eat?  3:00.
She said they were eating at 3:00 also, and hers had been in since 6:00am.
Let the Sweat- fest begin.
I solicited some helpers.
Lawson was in charge of chopping the onions and celery for the stuffing, 
(hence the goggles because his eyes were burning).
Why don't I ever think of stuff like that?


I think Ethan really enjoyed breaking the bread.  I know for a fact that he was imagining him self doing the sacrament.  Which I think is wonderful.


The amazing news is that the turkey got done pretty dang quick...I have a convection oven, I am sure this shortened the time considerably.
Now...
I am not a turkey expert.  I have done two my entire life....my mom always did her
stuffing like this....  
she would stuff the bird and then pack the rest around it.
Tina was shocked to hear this and tried to make me dig all the stuffing out of the pan and bake it separately.  By the time I finally got it in the oven there was no way I was touching it.
When we got to V's house, she and her sisters were also not loving the dressing in the turkey pan,
I felt like I was out of my mind and making up the details I had remembered.
When we dug the stuffing out of the bird, I thought it looked normal.
I think I saw V have a little gag reflex going on....but I'm not positive, 
but they were insistent on putting what stuffing was in the Turkey into a pan to bake and dry out,
and the rest "we" 
threw in the garbage!
So, needless to say there was a scant supply of dressing....but I loved it....rebaked and all.

For your information.......when my mother called later that night and I was telling her of my dressing faux-pa....she said, no my dear...you did not have a mix up...
there are TWO stratagems for doing dressing....
WET   and    DRY
Your grandmothers have always done wet.
So I have always done wet.
So you to were doing wet dressing....if people are used to dry.....then it may be a huge turn off for them to attempt the wet.
HA!
I knew it!
DISCLAIMER: I really do think I will switch to dry from here on out...the possibility of bacteria could be a concern w/ the stuffing in the turkey.
I just felt I needed add that in support of the nay sayers....they are probably right.
Yes, the turkey looks remarkably dark....but it was decent.
Kev did the honor of carving.
Here is the crew.  I think we just got done toasting to Hayward's mustache in the photo below.
Loving the bubbly...the candles, the mini tables, the people.

Hayword (another invited guest from our ward) insisted on us singing 
"Because I have been Given Much"
so glad he did.


Because we have.


PS - Tina, there was a huge puddle in the oven from the turkey.
I guess my juices did flow over....I just didn't know it until the next day when the oven started smoking like mad as I was baking my pie!
McCauley kept saying the pie smelled like turkey.....sure didn't stop me from eating it for breakfast, lunch and snack.

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Ragnar Report......yes I did it...I used the song....I couldn't help it....

Wow....it is hard to believe the Ragnar has been and gone.
We will all be moving on to other things.
It was a fantastic experience from beginning to end.....including the building up to it with training, the physical discoveries made along the way, and all the way through to the end.

LOVED IT.
Here are just a few highlights from the last three days and nights.
These are just the photos off of my camera....there are many gaps and holes that will be filled in later when other team mate photos are posted.

We are the "Sole Sisters" team number 63
This is almost our whole team, van 1 had just finished our first leg, I had just come in before this shot, and had passed the wrist band off to Gina, and for some reason Jessica is missing from here.  Aubrey on the far right is the designated driver for van 2.  She has been on the team from the beginning, but during her recent marathon really messed up her knees.
We were super happy she was still able to participate. 

We had a bit of a rough start
the bike was reeking havoc on our plans.
It was important for us to take a bike so that we could pace our night time runners.  We wanted to be sure to have it to be able to keep our runners safe on the long lonely trail runs in the getto.
We were going to take our van, but the rack that Colleen brought would not fit into the hitch...sooooo we moved to her van.  Still having trouble getting the bike situated on the luggage type carrier we were tying to use.  After some valiant effort on her husbands part, and an hour later into the night....we finally found a neighbor to borrow an actual bike rack from and we were on our way.
We picked up Melissa in Cocoa and headed to Clearwater.
We were attempting to use our Tom-Tom, but it kept falling off the windshield and turning off and, and, and, it was just a huge pain.
I will just get to the point....we ended up missing our exit and had to back track about 45 minutes.
DISCLAIMER:
Yes, I was driving...but BEFORE the trip began I stated clearly that I would not be a good choice to navigate....I am a good driver, happy to do so....but I would need directions on where to go.
I am taking only partial credit.
It was a collective effort.
  
Our van 2 team mates enjoyed a night out to dinner as we fumbled our way through the night....

The next morning we awoke at 5:30am, to be there at 6:00 for our safety orientation, and to get Melissa off for her 7:00am start time.


UNFORTUNATELY......
we got lost on our way to the park, which was approximately 2 miles away.
I was NOT driving.
We finally made it, we rushed in got checked in making it through steps 1, 2, 3, and 4....
We were milling around....and the next thing we hear is 
5.....4......3....2.....1 
????? 
Whoooohhooooo.....screaming, cheering, and clapping.....HUH?

We race out of the blow up tent we are in and see the runners round the bend.....
Melissa is frantically trying to get her safety gear on, and untangle her head phones as we push her onto the starting track and tell her to kick it into high gear to catch up.
(Nothing like stretching out and gathering yourself before a run)

We were all kind of nervous for Wilson. 
(what I will call the other Melissa from here on out to eliminate confusion)


Melissa....I mean Wilson is one Awesome Chick!  She is my coupon mentor, the girl that got me started.
If there is a deal she will find it.
They are more prepared for the future than anyone else I know...meaning food storage.
She is a runner extraordinar....has done several marathons, etc.
She is a genealogy buff, and just started schooling her children at home this year!
Amazing....I don't know how she does it.

We were a little nervous about getting to the first exchange....weren't really sure how to read the map yet and were not convinced of the dependability of the stinky Tom-Tom.
So as we were pulling out to try and find it, we saw another van from the race and decided to just be smart and follow them to the exchange.
Whooohooo!
Nice one.
We followed them straight back to our hotel.
Oh my gosh....nooooooooo!
yep, they were just seeing their team off...this was their van #2.
(nice thought)
Anyway, they assisted us in figuring out how to get to the exchange.

While Melissa was running the rest of us were having the time of our lives.
We were watching for her....THERE SHE IS, she caught up!!
....we knew she would.
She was booking it so hard.  She was scared half out of her mind 
she would get lost, good motivator to catch up.

Emily is up.....Go Emily!


Emily hooked up w/ Bobby, one of the FishTail team girls.
These two were fast friends and had a great time running throughout the different legs.
The FishTail team girls are all wives to professional Bass fishermen that have their own show.
These girls had a camera crew with them the entire time, filming their every move.
It was an interesting added element to the whole experience.
Sounds like a pretty fun, adventuresome life.


Emily is a sweet heart....she and her husband have one cute as heck little boy,
about 15 months old I am going to guess.
They have been in the ward for a year??  Guessing again.
Em is my visiting teacher partner.  We have had some good, and interesting times together.
Looking forward to many more.
This is she and Jessica's first experience with running.
They have trained together like crazy.  
We are super proud of the two of them.

Jess is next, she has the two thumbs up.
She is a TROOPER!
She has had some knee trouble....it has been swollen throughout her past few weeks of training.
She does not complain, or whine AT ALL.
Sometimes I wish she would...so we could know how to help,
 but no.  She just goes on.
Jess is a fairly recent convert to the church.  She is a strong young lady.
Solid.
She was the first to bring up having a prayer for a team mate we were worried about, and made sure we got a quick scripture in before dozing off to sleep the night before.
Thanks Jess!
She has been one of our beloved teachers in primary for the past year or so.
She passed to Colleen ..... and Colleen to Kate.
KATE - Kate loves a good competition.
This race is right up her alley.
I credit Kate for getting me into running.  
She invited me to run with her in a Disney half marathon 4 years ago.  
I surprised myself and said yes.  We have had that sweet connection ever since.
She does not enjoy getting lost.

My turn!
Runner number 6 for our van.  I will hand off to the first runner of van number 2.
at my exchange it was a rip - off because they would not let any team members come up the hill to where we were to make the wrist band hand off.
They did sneak up to click off a few quick snap shots though.

My first leg was 7.9 I think.
I wish I had that Ragnar Bible now to look at and be able to give the accurate 
names and places we went through.
I am sure I can look it up online....but that sounds really hard.
This was a decent stretch.  Not super exciting.  It was on a running trail next to the highway.
The other side was county farms, mossy trees, and black berries.  
It was definitely beautiful,  
just no honking, waving, and cheering on from my team or any other passerby's.



After the exchange was made we went to this super yummy bagel deli to eat.
This is a "picture" Colleen took for us.
She has pretty bad eye sight....Love you girl!

Here is my cute running partner Shell (Gina is right behind her)....and Michelle - who is the last runner for van 2....which means she will bring the whole race home.
She has got to be one patient lady to be able to wait, and wait, and wait for her turn to finally 
roll around each leg.
She did an awesome job!

During our first break we took advantage of some R&R....it was a beautiful day.
We played some Phase Ten,  ate a ton of Veggies w/ the most delicious dip on earth, and a bunch of Energy bars....the chick pea ones, this time w/out the juice (much better).

This is Colleen our wonderful little Captain.
She got this thing started.
This is what Colleen did.  She planned and prepared and studied the Ragnar Bible and course.
She was constantly adding numbers and figuring out stuff.
She worried and fussed like any good mother would do over both vans.
She was so sleep deprived....kinda got scary toward the end of the last leg.
She started having some bad chest pain....after the race she finally got checked out in the first aide tent.
Her blood pressure was extremely low.  They prescribed sleep!!!
She is one of the best ladies I know.
She is a counselor in the primary with me.
She is the most patient person on earth.  I have not ever seen her get frazzled or shaken or upset.
She has a heart of gold, and deserves a truck load of blessings for all that she does.

Night time came and with it the "scary" runs.  
It was pretty cold.
I can't remember exactly what happened, but it seems like we had to boot Melissa out again, because of running late or getting lost and trying to get her to the exchange.
All I know is that the rest of us were counting our lucky stars at not being runner #1...we never had our barrings pulled together.  We were always sending her off in a panic of some kind.  
HURRY....RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.....GOOOOOOOOOOO......

We finally did find Wilson on the trail....and dang good thing we did.
The handy-dandy head lamp I had graciously loaned her was not worth dookie. 
 She could not see a thing.
She was the one person that said she could absolutely not run a trail run.
She would take any other leg....just NOT an off road run.
She has twisted her ankle and gone through tons of therapy.  She was told she would never run again....well she is lucky, she has worked very hard to be able to run, but is naturally very cautious.
Surprise and low and behold, she had the longest, worst, rockiest trail run of any of us.
When we found her we stuck with her.
We pumped the tunes, and she rocked her 8 miles, or whatever it was pretty hard.

Lots of gaps here.
We used everyones cameras...so I don't have every runner (yet).
But hehe....I have mine right here.
This was so fun.
Felt amazing!  I took it slow to stay w/ this Fishtail - Stacey.
No way did I want to run by myself at night.
The team came by and we jammed out as we ran.
So much fun.
This was the time I would have wanted to keep on running....  Felt very good.
This was only 4 miles, or there abouts.

After our night runs we headed over to Wilson's inlaws home for a hot shower and a 3hour nap.
Deliiiiisssshhhhh.
Slept like a baby, except for when Kate was giving me running commands 
and speaking in gibberish to me.
Got up with the text that told us van 2 was w/in 40 minutes of the next exchange.
5:00am I think.
No prob.  We got up, and got moving.
We made it to our exchange seamlessly.....too seamlessly.
That had us really worried.....Where in the heck was Melissa....she should be here by now.  What is going on?
OH MY HECK!
We were at the wrong exchange....no wonder it was so perfect.
Emily got a late start, she had really wanted to run w/ Bobby...it was not to be for this run.
We stuck by her and cheered her on every few miles.
Got her water and kept her pumped.

Fast forward again...this is my last leg.
When I saw the map of my run I saw that I would be running around a lake for almost the entire time.  7.8 I think.  I was super thrilled with that.
The run started out pretty pathetic.  Leap frogged several busy streets, jockeyed my way onto the highway shoulder and found myself running, yes, along side a body of water.  But almost completely obstructed by unattractive shabby trees and over growth.
great. 
I found myself waiting and wondering when my girls would be by, honking, screaming, and waving.
Kept waiting for the beep, beep, beep......
they came at 1.56 mile.  I was ready for it.
Click - turn on the turbo boost.
Music up two notches.....
adrenaline running.
This is when my last run began to get FLIPPING AMAZING!
The trees went away and the view opened up to Gorgeous.
You cannot tell in these photos but it was so, so perfect.
One of the funnest sights was a HUGE convoy of motorcycles....they were led and followed by a police escort...headed to a funeral I was guessing.
There had to have been over a hundred....team...am I over shooting???
That is what it seemed like to me.
They were honking and cheering.
After they had finally all passed, one couple came back.  They pulled up right in front of me...facing me about a block off.  Hmmmm...... it was an older couple, 
they said they just wanted to wish me luck for my race.
Really?
That was pretty dang sweet of them!
The water was calm and smooth. Lots of duck families, boats, and contented fishermen, 
smiling and waving.
 It took me back to my own Satellite Beach.
My water....we have been here 10 years...it does feel like mine now.
I thought of all the running of the causeway and watching the sun come up on the water.
I remembered all the times of marveling at the beauty that surrounds us. 
I felt very happy, grateful, and amazed.
My team went by several more times....each time I pumped it up.
Tried to put on a little side show for them.
Do the strong man run...that sort of thing....a mini comedy act.
But I gotta tell ya....a person only has so much turbo available in one run.
I was getting scared they would come by again and I would not be able to live up to my teams expectations.
They didn't....I only had the exchange with Gina to go.
Just after the run....that is all for van 1.
Now we wait.
We headed off to find a Chilli's.
After gorging.....we decided to go find Shelly.
We were completely shocked to actually pull that off.  This was one of my favorite parts of the run....
hooking up with and cheering my little buddy on.
Since we were in different vans we really didn't hang at all....just a quick hi five here....a text there...and so forth.
Here she is coming in for her exchange.
We headed all the way to Daytona after that.
We cleaned out the van and settled in for the Grand Finale.
We had time to kill....literally time to plan a murder and kill.....Kate and I settled for a movie.
The rest of the crew wanted to do their own thing, but this was just the ticket as far a I was concerned.
Kate took some convincing.  She was extremely nervous about us missing them coming accross the finish line...she was REALLY wanting her metal.
I had to promise w/ my life that I would keep my phone on vibrate and not take 
my hand off it the entire movie.
Done.  
The Next Three Days was the only show that was available to us.
Neither of us had ever heard a thing about it.
The ticket girl did not have a clue, or anything to offer us in way of a hint as to what it was about.
But it had Russell Crowe, so we went for it on a leap of faith...and a little desperation for anything to pass the time besides dancing to the live karaoke band.

watch trailer 
I will tell you here and now...
THAT WAS HANDS DOWN THE BEST SHOW I HAVE EVER SEEN.
I swear it.
It starts out a little ify......do not give up.
Stay the course...but go see it.  I am taking Kevin this week no matter what.
You can watch the trailer if you want....but
I suggest going in blind like we did.  It was pretty sweet that way.

After the movie got over we hussled down to the rest rooms.
Before Kate went in she asked me to please give van 2 a call to see where they were.
Sure...no problem.
hmmmmmm, what's this.....my phone if off....?  huh?  Dead...it will not even turn on.
I am dead meat.
I had to tell her the truth....we beat it out of there lickity split. 
Ran down the stairs....and found our team calmly chatting away....gasp, sputter....are we too late??
No, they got lost.
one of their runners got off trail and ran 2 1/2 miles in the wrong direction.....ohhhhh.
They will still be A WHILE.

Let me just say now that we were the last team in. 
The second we ran through they tore everything down around us.
Most people were already gone.
It was quite the ending.
It made no difference to us what place we came in.
The difference was in the finishing....and we did it!
201 miles under our belts.
Michelle had a wonderful experience w/ her run and an answer to prayer.
She received a little escort through a very rough part of town and through to the end of the race.
An 11 year old kid on a bike was her new best friend.
It was a pretty cool experience. 

I would do it again in an instant.
We learned a lot from this first attempt.

I am thrilled my wonderful husband supports my hopes and dreams.
He is happy to let me go off and have some fun now and then.
Love you!


Love you to Sole Sisters......please send your photos and your thoughts on the trip.
Van 2 - you guys rocked so hard.
You had a way tougher race than we did....and we knew it.
We were singing your praises non-stop!!
It was fun to meet and hang a little with you all.

Love, M

P.S. if you have not had enough and want the perspective from van 2 -
go to Shelly's blog.  I am sure she will be updating soon.